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July 27, 2025 38 mins

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Hey teacher friend — you’re back in school, and guess what’s making its rounds again? Yep… the dreaded adjunct duty list 😬

In Part 2 of our Back-to-School 2025–2026 series, we’re tackling one of the most exhausting parts of a teacher’s year: having to sign up for extra duties you didn’t actually sign up for. From lunch supervision to leading yearbook, organizing graduation, or being “voluntold” to coach a sport, these adjunct duties can quickly turn your week upside down.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. 🙅‍♀️

In this episode, I’ll show you how to strategically approach the adjunct duty list so you can:

✅ Align duties with your passions
 ✅ Avoid energy-draining commitments
 ✅ Use your voice (and contracts!) to advocate for better boundaries
 ✅ Learn to say "yes" with limitations or confidently say "no" without guilt
 ✅ Shift your mindset from “I have to” ➡️ “I get to”

Plus, I’ll tell you the true story of how I unknowingly gave up YEARS of unpaid extra work… only for someone else to get a stipend and a sub when I finally stepped away. (Yep. That one stung.) 😅

🎯 This isn’t about being difficult — it’s about being intentional. You deserve to feel fulfilled, not frustrated.

🔥 You’ll Also Learn:

  • Why saying no is actually saying yes to something better
  • How to reframe the “martyr teacher” mindset
  • The “Tale of Two Duties”: how one teacher’s dream duty is another’s nightmare (and vice versa)
  • How to advocate for equitable duty distribution (especially if you're the newbie 🐣)
  • What to do if you’ve always had the same duty and want OUT
  • Scripts + mindset tips for negotiating your way to better balance 💬🧠

🎯 Binge These Related Episodes:

  • 🎙️ Ep 2: How to Say No Without Sounding Like a Jerk (And Still Be Student-Focused)
  • 🎙️ Ep 48: How to Say Yes With Limitations and Keep Your Sanity
  • 🎙️ Ep 60: What to Do When Your Class List Feels Totally Unfair
  • 🎙️ Ep 62: Why You Must Double Down on Classroom Management NOW


➡️ To get your FREE 🎁 PDF Guide The Professional Teacher's Guide to Saying "No" visit: www.gracestevens.com/sayno

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