Listen Deeper, Love Better: Building Emotionally Intelligent Relationships w/ Tamika Carlton

The Power of Connection & Communication

Episode #116 -In this heart-centered episode of The Awakened Heart Podcast, I’m joined by Relationship and Communications Expert Tamika Carlton for a powerful conversation about the role relationships play in our overall happiness and well-being.

We explore the often-overlooked art of listening, the importance of emotional intelligence, and how vulnerability becomes a gateway to deeper human connection.

Tamika shares her personal journey—from navigating profound loss and bullying to founding Couples Experience and the Tamika Carlton Collective, where she helps others build emotional wealth and meaningful partnerships.

We also dive into why so many people feel disconnected in today’s hyper-connected world—and what we can do to foster real intimacy and belonging.

Whether you're seeking to deepen your romantic relationship, build stronger community ties, or reconnect with yourself, this episode offers soulful reminders and practical wisdom to help you lead with love.

Takeaways

• Only 14% of Americans report being very happy.
• Quality relationships are essential for happiness and well-being.
• Listening and being present are crucial in conversations.
• Many people struggle with connecting due to digital distractions.
• Vulnerability is key to building deeper connections.
• Misconceptions about relationships often lead to misunderstandings.
• Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in relationships.
• Acceptance of what is can lead to greater happiness.
• Building relationships takes time and effort.
• Traveling together can strengthen bonds between couples.

Sound Bites

"Listening and being present are crucial."

"Traveling together can strengthen bonds."

"Emotional intelligence is monumental."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and First Impressions

02:55 The Importance of Quality Relationships

05:59 Listening and Communication in Relationships

08:52 Navigating Conversations and Boundaries

11:55 Personal Journey and Its Impact on Relationships

14:46 The Role of Loss and Grief in Connection

17:43 The Dynamics of Romantic Relationships

20:46 Creating Meaningful Couples Experiences

23:46 Future Retreats and Travel Plans

26:14 The Importance of Quality Relationships

28:51 Fostering Authentic Connections

30:44 Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

32:19 Understanding Happiness and Loneliness

34:27 The Power of Acceptance

36:44 Transformative Experiences in Relationships

43:33 Practical Relationship Building Exercises

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