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August 18, 2025 31 mins

Ever feel like you're doing everything right — thriving in your career, healing your inner world, showing up fully — and still end up dating emotionally unavailable men? You're not alone.

This one is honest — and truthfully, it was a hard look in the mirror for me. I’m not just speaking to you in this episode, I’m speaking to myself too.

In this episode, I break down 6 deep-rooted reasons why high-achieving women tend to attract men who can’t meet them emotionally — what these patterns really mean, how they show up, and most importantly, how to stop repeating the cycle.

Let’s rewrite the story and start choosing partners who can actually hold space for the woman you are and the woman you’re becoming.


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