From Firearms to Horse Sales: Navigating Auctions (and Marriage) with Strategy
When Auctions Are a Way of Life — and Marriage Is a PartnershipRecently, while driving to a horse sale that we were working at, my husband Tigger turned and asked me, “So... are you getting a bidder number today?”
I smiled and responded with a firm, “Yes, and glad we’ve now had that discussion.”
Translation? I’m buying something, and we’re not arguing about it.
Truth is, when you’ve been around livestock, auctions, and rural life as long as we have, these conversations become part of your auction day ritual. What Tigger also knows is that I don’t buy just to buy. I invest — whether it’s a colt, a saddle, or yes, even a rifle. If something is going to eat feed, take up stall space, or use up a gun safe room, it better bring value, joy, or a decent return one day.
And let me tell you, this particular sale day delivered a little more excitement than expected...
The Time I Bid Against My Husband Without Him KnowingSo, there we were at the horse sale. Tigger was busy representing another ranch, completely unaware that his lovely wife(BEC) was quietly (but confidently) bidding against him from the other side of the ring.
The auctioneer knew. The ringmen knew. Heck, the crowd knew — and they were loving it.
Then came the big moment:
Auctioneer: “SOLD!” Me, grinning: “I love you, Tigger!”
That’s when the place erupted in laughter. And to his credit, Tigger took it like a champ. Was he thrilled I'd just dropped cash on a horse we hadn't even discussed? Maybe not. But did he respect my judgment? Absolutely.
And that’s what makes our auction adventures work: mutual respect, financial boundaries, and open communication.
Meet our newest addition, a 2025 AQHA registered Bay Roan filly purchased from the Froelich Legacy Quarter Horse Sale that we know call "Denali". Her name comes from not just her pedigree but also as this was the year I visited Denali National Park in Alaska! Planning for Firearm Auctions — and Keeping the Spouse HappyWhile livestock sales are a regular part of our lives, firearm auctions are another exciting (and tempting) avenue we both enjoy.
But before we register, load up the trailer, or open the gun safe, we always have a talk:
These conversations aren’t about permission — they’re about teamwork and transparency. When you’re in a relationship where big purchases are common — whether horses, hay, or handguns — keeping the lines of communication open keeps the peace (and the budget balanced).
Upcoming Firearm Auctions You Don’t Want to MissFor all our fellow auction-goers, collectors, and Second Amendment supporters out there — mark your calendars!
Wolff Auctioneers Firearm Auctions (with Live & Online Bidding):
Visit WolffAuctioneers.com for details, catalogs, and to register for online live bidding.
Whether you're looking for collectible firearms, hunting gear, or just something to pass down to the grandkids - these auctions are the real deal.
Final Thoughts: Respect, Strategy, and Shared AdventuresAuction days are more than just sales — they’re events. They’re part of the lifestyle we love. But they can also become points of tension if you're not careful.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:
"Bidding is fun. Buying is thrilling. But mutual respect is what keeps the relationship strong."
Whether I’m bidding on a gelding or Tigger’s eyeing a vintage Winchester, we know what matters most: being a team, backing each other up, and being just a little competitive — even if I do yell “I love you” after I outbid him.
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