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January 16, 2024 47 mins

Embark on an inspiring journey with me, Amber Annette, as I welcome the remarkable Danielle Marggraf to enlighten us on the transformative power of feminine wealth. Danielle's evolution from the depths of financial despair to her rise as a money and nervous system coach will leave you in awe and ready to conquer your own financial and personal challenges. With every obstacle she faced, including divorce and homelessness, Danielle unlocked a deeper sense of purpose and a pathway to prosperity that she now shares with women worldwide.

Strap in for an exploration of somatic healing and how it intertwines with our ability to manifest the life we yearn for. We'll peel back the layers of how our bodies and subconscious minds can harbor limiting patterns that hinder success, and how somatic coaching can guide us to safety and success. Danielle and I examine the delicate dance between the need for security and the pursuit of success, unraveling how one can achieve resilience and consistency without sacrificing their innate need for connection and belonging.

Lastly, we peer into the realm of intuitive business predictions, where prosperity and romance await. I share insights on upcoming milestones and opportunities that could very well reshape your personal and professional landscapes. We also pay homage to the late, great Bob Proctor, whose wisdom and joy continue to influence and uplift us from beyond. Join us for this soulful and strategic episode – it's an invitation to reshape your relationship with money and to step boldly into a future brimming with potential.

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Amber Annette (00:02):
Welcome to the Business Psychic Podcast, the
show that helps you ignite yoursoul's purpose, turn up your
creativity and activate salesand marketing magic.
I'm your host, amber Annette,and I'm thrilled to be here with
you today to explore the depthof what it means to be a woman
in business.
I believe that business is morethan just making money.
It's about making a differenceand making your mark.

(00:24):
So sit back, get present andlet's dive in and uncover the
secrets to building a businesswith soul, purpose and magic.
Welcome back to another episodeof the Business Psychic.
I'm Amber Annette, I'm yourhost and I am so excited to
bring to you today DanielleMargraf.

(00:46):
Let me tell you she is apowerhouse and a leader in the
feminine wealth movement,followed by women.
Inspiring and no nonsenseteaching style.
Danielle mixes her spiritualbadassery with money and nervous
system coach trainings forwomen with nervous system
healing practices to literallyrewire your body for more

(01:08):
freedom, fulfillment andfeminine financial flow.
Help me welcome her andDanielle.
Let's dive right in.
I have already so manyquestions that are stirring up
for me.
I mean like, but let's startwith kind of the basics.
Like, how did you get started?
Like, let's hear your journeygirl.

Danielle Marggraf (01:27):
Yeah, so I've always been in the healing arts
, right?
So over 25 years being in thehealing arts and then, about
what?
2011, I had two babies undertwo and found myself getting
divorced.
And I made a decision right, Ihad no money, lots of shame.

(01:49):
And I realized, as I'm standingat my parents' house where they
retired with these two babies,like what am I going to do?
I don't want to go back to workbecause I don't want to put
them in daycare, because theycouldn't talk to tell me if
anything, would you know, couldhappen, would happen, that's my
own past trauma, right, and Irealized that this was just.

(02:10):
I've just I made a decision.
I was like this ends with me.
And you know, when I said thisends with me, while the pain of
it was I had no options becauseI had no money.
Right, I'm a smart person.
I have a master's degree, youknow, I have many certifications
, but I never could figure outthe money piece.

(02:31):
And so, really, when I saidthat it was, yes, about I got to
figure out this money piece,but more around this idea of I
am not going to be handing down,the lineage of shame and
unworthiness that seemed to havebeen, you know, penetrated me
like really from a young age,maybe even from birth.

(02:54):
So that was really where itsort of started.
I sold my engagement ring andwent to my wedding band and I
paid in full for my firstcoaching certification and since
then I've been in the coachingworld for 13 years, always on a
personal development journey oftrying to figure out how to make

(03:15):
more fucking money.
Like why couldn't I make themoney?
And it really was not aboutmoney in the way people are
thinking of money, like right,like to get more and to have
more it was really that I wasusing money as a spiritual tool
to understand what it wasmirroring in me, my wounds, and

(03:36):
so that was really the path.
I always was interested inself-development, mindset
manifesting.
I had already been in theenergy world because I was a
yoga instructor and had anenergy medicine practice for a
long time, but this whole piecewas a very significant piece
that would take me on a verywindy road into poverty and then

(04:00):
I'd make $10,000, and then I'dbe on food stamps and then I'd
make some money, and then I waslike you know, and then really
the bottom line was I becamehomeless and I was sleeping on
my massage table, and that'sreally where everything changed
for me.

Amber Annette (04:18):
Tell me more about that.
So how old are?

Danielle Marggraf (04:22):
your kids at that point.
So they're at that point theywere like in third and fifth
grade, ish around there.
Okay.
So, young kids, young kids.
We had been on our own sincethey were one and two, right, so
they were going into.
They weren't quite in third andfifth, they hadn't gotten into
it.
So they were really second andfourth.

(04:43):
Let's say so they were secondand fourth, they hadn't gotten
into back into school yet.
And where I was renting, theywere selling and they were like
you got to go and I was like,okay, and I thought, okay, I'll
find somewhere else.
And there was nowhere to rentwhere I live, because it's a
very popular place to live bythe water and it's a very
popular place to live and it'svery popular in the summer and

(05:06):
it's very competitive to findany kind of rental because
there's not a lot of rentalsbecause people will buy here and
so I couldn't find anywhere forus to live and I started using
money on hotels or right, like Iwas trying, and I had hardly
any money in the bank and Iended up homeless, sleeping on

(05:28):
my massage table.
I sent my kids for a weekend togo stay with my parents two
hours away, and I needed justsome space to figure out what I
was going to do next.
And I woke up in the middle ofthe night because I was really
sleeping so deeply on themassage table.
And I woke up at night and Ijust was crying in the shame

(05:49):
spiral and I thought what am Idoing?
And my clients and I'm sure yourun into this too they've done
so much work.
The first thing they'll say tome when they come sit across,
when they say but I've done somuch work, and so I remember
being at that place going, butI've done so much work, what

(06:11):
else do I need to do?
What else do I have to do?
And it turned out that as I'mlaying there, I'm thinking about
all the things that I've donethe shamanic journeys and the
energy work and the reiki andthe counseling and just all the
things.

Amber Annette (06:28):
The therapy coaches.

Danielle Marggraf (06:30):
Yes, everything you got it.
It's like.
I could write a book onmodality Right, it's like just
all the things.
And it just turned out that Iremember this quote that a coach
that I had been following formany years would use a lot, and
I never quite got it.
I didn't understand it and it'ssort of cliche in that I'm in

(06:51):
the well-filled and I wouldquote from thinking girl rich,
napoleon Hill.
But I'll tell you, this quoteis brilliant and the quote is
it's my favorite quote.
And the quote is opportunitycomes disguised in temporary
misfortune or defeat.
And for some reason Idownloaded this quote in this
moment in the shame spiral Right, and I thought and because I

(07:15):
had done so much work, I wasable to stop and go oh, where's
the opportunity in this?
Where do I need to look?
And now I'm sleeping in myenergy medicine practice.
It's the middle of the summer,everyone had gone home.
The bathroom was in the hallwayof the shared building right of

(07:36):
the offices.
I was on the second floor.
It was disgustingly hot rightCause the air condition was off
because everyone had left thebuilding.
It was dark, there was like Icould hear noises you know that
creepy like old, you knowbuilding sort of noises and I
thought where, where's theopportunity here?

(07:58):
And I got them, opened my laptopand somehow came on YouTube
after YouTube of PolyvivalTheory and Nervous System Work
and understanding survival, andunderstanding threat responses,
and I was like, oh my God, nowonder why I can't manifest
anything, right, because thetruth is we're always

(08:19):
manifesting.
However, to be able to manifestwhat we actually want, to
manifest always, for me it wouldjust felt like a great feat,
right, I couldn't manifest a cupof coffee, nevermind manifest
you know, thousands of dollars,or just enough to get by, or
just enough to not be homeless.
And so it turned out thatwithin 24 hours, I was enrolled

(08:40):
to be certified as a somatictherapist and I had not taken
even one course and I knew thiswas my path.
And since then I've doneadvanced trainings, I've weave
my somatic work into money work,into wealth work into mindset
work, into manifesting work, andthey are some of the most

(09:03):
powerful, powerful sessions thatI've ever offered.
I mean really, and the programsand weaving it all in like that
is really been potent, and Ionly can do that because it
literally took me from, you know, car repossessions and
homelessness and food stamps tobeing able to make, you know,

(09:23):
almost a half million dollarsnow and growing so.

Amber Annette (09:27):
Yeah, girl, congratulations, thank you.
That's an amazing story.
Thank you, Well done.
Yeah, thank you.
So, as you were talking, I tooka couple of notes here and a
couple of things I want to touchon and number.
So the first thing is somatichealing, nervous system

(09:47):
regulating.
Now, I don't know.
I mean, like I'm like you, I'mdeep into this beautiful space
of self-development and even in,like the online marketing space
, right, like I work with a lotof coaches, a lot of coaches
listen to this podcast coaches,healers, consultants, intuitives

(10:09):
, and how I feel like I'm seeingit everywhere right now.
Like the nervous systemregulation, somatic healing, and
my question to you is has itbecome like the popular trending
topic or is it in my awarenesshere for a reason, girl?

Danielle Marggraf (10:28):
Yeah, so I think that I've been seeing it
around right now all over theplace.
I think that people arestarting to catch on that
there's something to this, right.
There's something to this work.
I think that, and I do thinkit's trendy.
I think it's trendy to call itit used to be trendy to call it
self-care.
Right Now it's trendy, I think,in some ways, to everyone's

(10:53):
doing something with the nervoussystem, right, because it
catches people's attention.
You know, I think it's probablyboth right.
I think that one you know.
Listen, we live in a consumingright.
We consume, we consume, weconsume.
I think that there's so muchcopy paste going on around.

(11:15):
You know what I mean.

Amber Annette (11:19):
Yeah.

Danielle Marggraf (11:20):
That this is where we all need to do our due
diligence around right, like,and I just think, and I think
empowerment was the word for awhile, you know what?
I mean yeah, and so.

Amber Annette (11:29):
I think Even as you were talking, you know, when
we were talking about all thosedifferent modalities.
At least for me, some of thosedifferent modalities have showed
up.
I've been in this industry forabout 10 years and I feel like
it's like something new, almostlike every year.
Like I remember I was doingthis work, it was tapping Like
EMT, and tapping was everywhere.

(11:52):
Like I felt like, then it waslike hypnotherapy, and then it
was the EMDR.

Danielle Marggraf (11:58):
You know like , I feel like-.

Amber Annette (11:59):
NLP like yes.
So I feel like every yearthere's like and don't get me
wrong, there's beautiful healing, they are all amazing
modalities, right, but I thinkat what point do you get to?
I mean, I don't know if you, I,go back and forth with this all
the time.
I mean I believe that ourhealing is an ongoing journey.

(12:20):
It's not like you're everhealed, you know.
It's not like there's ever thislike this.
Is it?
I'm done?
I'm healed today.
You know you never reach thislike final point of completion
on this journey and I'm justwondering what your kind of
thoughts are on that.
I feel like sometimes it's likealways the next thing, yeah so
I don't and yet maybe it's meantto be always the next thing.

Danielle Marggraf (12:42):
Yeah.
So I don't think this work isthe next thing.
I think that it is a the way Idid.
You know, somatic coaching, forme, is all about bringing
people into their body, wisdomand tap, having them tap into
the subconscious in a way whereI'm giving back all the power to

(13:02):
them.
I'm not doing anything to you,I'm not right.
I'm not the healer in thisscenario.
You are, you know, you are it.
What I do believe, though, isthat there is, you know, we're
all.
We are all born as humans wiredfor safety, connection and
belonging.
We're not wired for success,we're not wired for wealth, and

(13:26):
we could be born rich, but we'reonly born rich because we have
the ability to build capacityand resilience and to be able to
really train and organizeourselves in a way that we can
receive more.
So I think that, you know, Idon't consider this healing work
, although I think it does heal,but I think it's about rewiring

(13:49):
for the success that everybodythinks is so elusive rewiring,
reorganizing so that way we arenot, because otherwise we're in
an inner conflict.
A lot of times, our innerconflict is is that we pair
safety and connection andbelonging to whatever pattern we
grew up with, or whateverpattern that was handed down to
us.
Right, and so that usually goesagainst what most of us need to

(14:14):
do or be when it comes tosuccess, which is really about
really a lot of resilience,really a lot of consistency,
discipline, being uncomfortable,right, mavericking our way
through, taking risks that'sreally what's required in a lot
of ways for success and successin business, and usually that

(14:38):
goes against how we have beenpattern, and so it's really
about supporting women who wantto activate through embodiment
and then, from embodiment, wantto then be able to authentically
express and then, fromexpression, then being able to

(14:58):
attune and attract.
Right, because it's aboutattuning to what's already
within you in order to be amatch, harmoniously, with the
vibration that you want toattract.
But we can't do that if what wevalue is the pattern, right, so
we can't be committed to thepattern and then be committed to
the growth.
Right, because a paradigm inand of itself, which is just a

(15:21):
lot of behaviors and beliefsthat are just we've heard over
and over and over again thatbecome part of our system, our
body system, right, our nervoussystem, which is the command
center of our body What'llhappen is is we don't have the
capacity and the resilience whenthe body or when the nervous
system starts to go ah, this isit.
This is feel scary, right?

(15:42):
If we don't know how to workwith that system and we don't
know ourselves, we don't knowwhat's happening in there, right
, we will not move forward, wewill not expand, because, the
truth is, expansion doesn'tnecessarily feel safe.
My job is to make women feelsafe and successful within
themselves, right?
So there is this rewiring, thisreorganizing not so much

(16:04):
healing, but healing will takeplace as a result of them being
able to have more movementbecause they're more embodied in
where they're at right.
We drop the social mask and wereally, really tap into sacred
self, and that's where we start,that's really where we begin.

Amber Annette (16:24):
And when you talk about like I don't know I don't
even know if you said this, butthe words I heard is the body
knows how do you know that thisis something that is calling for
you?
How do you know what would bethree signs that somatic healing
might be the thing for you orthat this is something that you

(16:46):
would benefit from?

Danielle Marggraf (16:48):
Yeah, I think that if you've done a lot of
strategy work, right, like ifyou keep choosing to work, maybe
in your business.
You've done a lot of strategy.
You want another tactic.
You wanna figure out what elseyou have to do, but every time
you do that you don't seem toget that much farther along the
path.
Right, that could be one.
Another one is that you noticeyou're in the same pattern over

(17:11):
and over again, right?
Like even if you have a littlebit of like movement, patterns
and cycles.
Right, you're just in the samepattern.
You're like how did I get hereagain?
What is going on?
Why am I here again?
And your results tell youeverything, right.
So the third thing would be islook at your results.
Right.
If your results are showing youthat they're, the feedback

(17:31):
you're getting is that this isnot right.
I'm not where I wanna be here.
I'm not feeling the way I wannafeel, or I didn't know.
I thought if I dot this I wouldfeel a different way, and you
haven't.
It's probably an indicationthat there is something else
going on in there that can that,where somatic work could

(17:52):
support you.
I'll tell you, it's reallyinteresting.
I had a client right before youand doing this, being with you
today, and the client said to methat she we did a session and
she said I have been asking thisquestion for 20 years.
She has walked on fire.
She has done like there wassome crazy thing where she put

(18:15):
herself in a.
She did some program where theyput them in a like a casket and
put them in the ground Like shewas burying a lot, oh my gosh.
Right, like these extreme things, and she said they never worked
.
And I said it's cause it'salways been in you, right, when

(18:36):
you're looking outside for thething, for the answer, for
someone to answer it for you.
And I always say I don't havethe answer, but I know you have
the answer and it's my job totrack right.
I track people, I track what'shappening and I track patterns
and I track right and literallywhat's happening in your body is

(18:58):
what's happening in your life.
And so this woman left withthis answer that she's been at
for a question she's been askingfor 20 years and she was like,
oh my God, this was like, sopowerful.
And so Life changing right, yeah, and I think that you know
there's different versions ofsomatic work, right?
So I'm not somatic in like,let's go, you know.

(19:21):
I think now they have somethingcalled somatic exercise or
something where right Someonemeans body, right.
So somatic can be used for alot of different things, but for
me, I'm talking about the innerbody.
I'm talking about the innerbody and the inner world, and
that's what we're working with.

Amber Annette (19:40):
Yeah, yeah, very cool, very cool.
I mean, like I said, I've beenseeing so much kind of you know,
in social media and emails andall the things, so I love the
explanation around that.
So what about from like a lotof attraction perspective?
You know, I heard you kind ofreference in there like so when

(20:03):
somebody's you know kind ofthey're thinking, man, I'm doing
all the right things, I'm youknow, I'm doing my best to you
know, work on my mindset andthink positive thoughts and
taking inspired action, and whenyou see those people that have
been like doing all the rightthings, right, danielle, and

(20:23):
then they're still notmanifesting or the things that
they're desiring are still not,you know, happening, is it
typically in your experience,because of what's still
happening in their body or on asubconscious level?

Danielle Marggraf (20:35):
Yeah, so I think, sometimes, when we you
know, many years ago I created aprogram called Heels to
Manifest and it was a 30 dayexperience that really took
someone from panic topossibility.
And the whole idea of that isthat when you've experienced

(20:58):
trauma, right, and the minddoesn't always remember, think
about, think about a memory,it's like, oh, I'm gonna share
this story with you, but I don'tknow if I know all the
timelines and I can't rememberwhich exactly came first.
The mind forgets, the mind doesnot remember, but the body
knows.
The body always remembers,because the body, the
subconscious, is like a blackbox on an airplane.

(21:18):
It records everything that'sstored in the body.
Okay, so what happens is thatwhen we start doing any kind of
manifesting work or law ofattraction work, right there,
the idea is is that we want tobe a magnet, we want to attract
right, but really from a somaticlens.
We need to first attune toaccess that feeling first within

(21:42):
us so we can harmonize withthat energy to be able to be
attracting what we are a matchfor.
So, like I said earlier, we'realways manifesting, but we're
not always manifesting what wewant right, but we're
manifesting what we be right.
So the truth is is that whenthe nervous system is involved
and we are in survival say,fight, flight, spawn, freeze

(22:05):
we're in some sort of intenseresponse.
Right, we're in a response thatis like this you know, will not
let us think or hold the focusor thought on the thing we say
we want.
That is where I think it goeswrong a lot of the time, because

(22:27):
you cannot be in survival andbe able to be free enough,
peaceful enough, joyful enough,restful enough, excited enough
to hold that thought of what yousay you want without all these
constricting, contractedthoughts that come in, that
pinch off the flow.
And so what we want to do is alot of our work, right, like my

(22:50):
work in Six Figure, phoenix andin our private work.
It is all on this idea of firstwe need to somatically attune
to what that is, and we get tolook at all the things that
become contracted.
What are the thoughts that areconstricting this, what is going
on in there, what is theemotions that got stuck in there
, what has it been?
And when we start doing that,we start opening ourselves up to

(23:13):
more expansion and morereceiving.
Then we can be in attraction.
But if you're only thinking thatattraction is a magnet that
pulls it in, then, number one,what you're saying is it's not
already here, it's separate ofyou and you got to try to get it
.
And if you're going to try toget it, it means you don't
already have it.
And if you don't already haveit, then you already are feeling

(23:33):
in lack and in scarcity.
Boom, right, it's like.
And so we need to attune first.
And I think a lot of peoplespend so much time trying to get
it that they are not spendingenough time attuning first to
what it where it is inside ofthem.
I just did an exercise with mygroup yesterday we call it

(23:54):
integration and one of thethings that came up was this
idea that nobody could hold apleasurable thought for where
they want to go longer than, say, 30 seconds or a minute, before
a contracting thought came inRight Like a catastrophe
something.
And there's truth in that,because if we're wired for

(24:18):
safety, we're always looking forthe danger.
So we actually need to practicebeing in pleasure.
We need to practice believing,and that's a capacity thing.
If your body doesn't have thecapacity to hold it, then what
happens is is you don't have thecapacity to hold it, and if you
don't have the capacity to holdit, you certainly don't have

(24:39):
the capacity to attract it.

Amber Annette (24:43):
Interesting.
So let me ask you a questionhere, sure Without judging,
based off of just kind of whatwe see, I think about like
people that are millionaires,right, like we're talking about
like let's just talk about money, let's talk about wealth for a
minute.
I think and I live and breathe,like all things, like I love

(25:07):
reading about law of attractionand manifesting.
I have, like for as long as Ican remember, and even to this
day, I think one of the thingsthat is always kind of like
honestly flabbergasted me islike universe.
How could a really shitty humanbeing like the drug cartel guy
be making billions of dollarsright From like putting like

(25:29):
horrible drugs out into theworld and having all these like
icky people work for him andlike push drugs, like he gets to
be like a billionaire and makeall this money and have all this
money?
And then there's good peopleout there in the world that are,
like you know, doing this innerwork, right, that are you know
doing trying to help be healersand guides and mentors and

(25:50):
leaders and like really goodpeople and they're like
struggling to pay their fuckingbills.
Like something is off here.
Universe Like help me, help meunderstand you know how somebody
like there's like no way thatthat dude has done this inner
work right.
Like that's an assumption, Iguess.
But so how do you, how do youlook at situations like that?

Danielle Marggraf (26:12):
So, first of all, the drug cartel or whoever
the bad guys are right, theydon't carry.
They don't carry emotional debt.
Okay, First of all, money isneutral.
Money is a neutral.
There's an energy.
The energy of money is neutral,right.

Amber Annette (26:28):
Yeah, it doesn't care.
It doesn't care if you're agood person or a bad person, for
sure.

Danielle Marggraf (26:32):
Yeah, but we sensitive intuitives, healers,
coaches, consult these women,these leaders, visionaries right
, we are these divine femininespirits, right, who carry this
emotional debt.
And the emotional debt is worry, and worried about feeling

(26:55):
greedy and scared they're goingto be not be a good girl and
worried that they're not goingto be accepted, and worried that
they don't belong and areafraid that they're not going to
fit and they're afraid they'regoing to be rejected.
And they're, and they're afraidthey're going to hurt someone
so they don't put themselves outthere and they're afraid
they're going to be canceled andthey feel shame.

(27:17):
Who am I?
Who am I to do it?
Who am I Right?
Who do I think I am?
Or what's wrong with me?
Right?
That's the difference, becausethat emotional debt keeps us out
in a state of poverty, and notjust financial poverty, but
emotional poverty.

Amber Annette (27:38):
And so because we're in a state of emotional
poverty.

Danielle Marggraf (27:40):
our vibration is that of poverty, where the
bad guy I don't know that he'spondering his shame, I don't
know that he is, I'm sure he'snot girl, I don't know that he
is, you know, thinking about hisguilt.
I don't know that he right, andso, really, and that is where

(28:01):
the relationship to the emotionbecomes just as important as the
emotion itself.
Yeah, and if the relationshipto the emotion is I'm bad, it's
judgment, it's it's I don'tdeserve it, it's I'm unworthy,
I'm unlovable.
That is why, and so that's whyyou've heard, I'm sure, people

(28:24):
say, like if we could just getgood money in the hands of good
people.

Amber Annette (28:29):
Yeah, we could change the world.

Danielle Marggraf (28:31):
I mean, it's true.

Amber Annette (28:33):
Yeah, yeah, and I mean some of the other ones you
know I think about out there.
You know, like money, as energyGirl, I read energy all day long
and I sometimes like strugglewith the concept of like money
being a vibration, right I therehave been times again where I'm
like I've been, I'm so high,I'm so happy on gratitude, I am

(28:58):
like elated in a space ofeuphoria with how good life is
in my house and I can just go inthese like radical gratitude
tangents, right, and I'll belike man, that had to have been
that, that feeling had to havebeen worth a million bucks.
You know, like I used to catchmyself kind of saying that and
yet money doesn't match yourvibration in a way.

(29:21):
I don't know if you, but itmatches your expectation and so
I'm just is my, is like whatI've, is what I've always
believed.
Money matches your, yourexpectation of it, because it is
neutral, you know.
And so I'm just wondering withthat word like the law of
assumption.
You know, a law of assumptionis very different to me than the

(29:41):
law of attraction.
How do you see law ofassumption playing in with with
this work?

Danielle Marggraf (29:47):
Well, I mean, law of assumption is all about
belief, right.
Belief is all when we end.
Belief is just a matter of youknow constantly what we hear and
what we think about over andover and over again.
That's a belief, right.
A belief just is really just.
Someone says something.
If you think about it enough, ifyou buy into it enough, if you
hear it enough, it becomes abelief, right?

(30:09):
So the truth is is that when weare assuming anything to be true
and believe it right, then wewill create it, we will see it
to be true, right, and so wehave this amazing ability to
have perception right, and sothis, this higher faculty of

(30:31):
perception, create can createfor us and support us in this
law of assumption.
Right, because we can assumethat it's all true, it's all
real, it's all now, it's allhere, because there is no state
of time, really, right, we, it'stime doesn't exist and so we
could just assume it to be true.

(30:51):
I think what happens is is whenwe're doing conditions, right,
I did so much gratitude thatmust have been a million dollar
gratitude, right?
If it was a belief, youwouldn't even thought it, right,
it probably wouldn't even beena thought.
But because there's aseparation, still right.
It's oh, did I?
And not to say that you saidthis, but that was an example

(31:12):
because you used it but it'slike oh, was I grateful enough
to be able to match the million?

Amber Annette (31:18):
Was really the question.

Danielle Marggraf (31:19):
For sure it's so fascinating because
assumption is, I just assume itto be true you know you go to
the store, it's done, it's done.
And really the thing is, iswhat you want to do is so I work
faculty, right?
So you want to look at what isit that you want to be done,
right?
What is it that you want to bedone right?

(31:40):
And let's say it's a milliondollars, I want a million
dollars to be done, right, yougot to work with the belief of
that million day in and day out,but you need to really, more
than that, work with the feelingof it.
Right, what is the feeling ofit?
And then what?
What is it that is getting inthe way of it?
So you know, I'm all about.

(32:00):
I like to go into the pinchingright, like meaning what is
pinching it off, what is thebelief, right, like so tracking
the ideas that are pinching offthat million right.
I have to do more for it, whatwill I have to do for it, or
what you know.
It feels sort of elusive.
It feels still like a theory orright, like what's going on

(32:22):
there, because it's thosebeliefs that create a feeling,
that feeling that that doesaffect the nervous system.
Because if the nervous, if the,if the feeling isn't there and
the nervous system can't get onboard with that, it is going to
always stay a theory.

Amber Annette (32:38):
Yeah, Well, it and it brings me back to it
keeps you in a state of fight orflight.

Danielle Marggraf (32:45):
Yeah, it will always keep you in a state,
fight or fawn or freeze.
I mean you could be frozen,freeze and still be in movement.
You're in collapse.
But a lot of you know a lot ofclients I was talking to one a
few days ago and you know we'retalking about how she goes into
freeze because it's unsafe.
You know there was somethingout that was happening was

(33:06):
unsafe, and then she goes intofawn.
So the people that she wasaround it was unsafe to be
around them.
Someone said something.
She felt like she wasn't like,she felt like she didn't belong
and then she goes into fawningRight, please, and appease to
get you like she's giving awayher power.
So you'll like me, so you'll so, and it's really not to be

(33:28):
liked as much as it is to besafe, right.
So she would feel safe, and sothere's so many different ways
that we can be in a traumaresponse.
You know that we can be in thatresponse that are so subtle to
us because they become so normalto us, yeah, and so when we're

(33:50):
working with any law, like youknow law of assumption, law of
attraction, law of vibration,law of giving right when we're
using all these laws, right, we,you know, I think of them as,
like you know, even thoughthey're universal laws, but I
think of them as, like the stopsign and you know, the traffic

(34:13):
light of the universe, right, amI on a red?
Am I on a yellow?
Am I on a green?
What's happening?
Right, yeah, because they exist.
It's red, yellow or green.
That's a fact.
But what's happening inside meis more important, because then
I need to understand how am Iworking with this law?

Amber Annette (34:34):
Yeah.

Danielle Marggraf (34:35):
Yeah.

Amber Annette (34:36):
So I've been a, I've been a psychic business
coach for almost 10 years and Ihave had some clients that I
work with Danielle, that man andjust I have channeled the
coolest freaking marketing ideasfor them.
We get them taking action.
We get Facebook ads roll inlike boom, no sales, or like

(35:00):
they just like, or they justlike can't.
You know, like they can't breakthrough this, like I call it
like an energetic or financialceiling.
You know they just can't breakthrough.
And I got to be honest with youas I've been listening to you,
I was like I feel like this islike that missing piece for so
many things along the way thateven as a very gifted psychic
and intuitive myself, I'm like Idon't know what, I don't know

(35:22):
what else it could be.
But I can be honest with you inthis moment and say you know, I
think that's never once have Iever been like I think we need
to do something to regulatenervous system.
I think it might be somatic.
I think this might be a youknow something with the body
holding on to you know thetrauma or the you know that

(35:42):
being in that, to me it is.
That's never been the thingthat's come up.
It's always been.
You know how can we?
You know, just keep.
How can we get you into a placeof feeling good?
But you know that's one thingthat we can't do is feel our
clients emotions for them.
So, yeah, yeah, very so, tellme a little bit.

(36:05):
So, if people want to like Imean I hope everybody else with
I was like, if you listen to mypast episodes, I feel like I
don't stop talking, right alongwith my guest, and I was
absolutely seriously likeusually like people are, like I
talk a lot and I was reallyspellbound and I was really
captivated by this.
So I know for myself andhopefully my listeners, we can

(36:28):
dive into more of this work thatyou're doing in the world.
I feel, of my heart, liketotally like I always say, like
wholeheartedly feel like this iswhat's needed and we need, you
know, more people like you doinggood work out there in the
world.
So thank you for all you do andjust be able to, you know, pull
all those different pieces,being able to empower her, help

(36:49):
her, help her find her place ofown inner healing.
It's amazing.
So well done, sister, thank you.
Thank you so much.
I appreciate you.
Yeah, so now in true businesspsychic fashion.
This is the part of the episodewhere I like to tap in and see
what I can kind of sense andfeel.
Give you a little businessreading here.

(37:10):
And then I have a veryimportant question that I ask
all of my guests at the very end, so I'm excited.
I'm excited for that Becausebecause we talked before the
show and you don't know what thequestion is, so it's always fun
.

Danielle Marggraf (37:24):
I don't.

Amber Annette (37:26):
All right, so let's.
And so sometimes these are likesometimes things will come up
for business, Sometimes it'll befor and I love that we're
coming into 2024.
So let me just kind of see whatstarts coming here.
So the first thing anythingabout a move coming up for you
this year or soon, what moving?

Danielle Marggraf (37:48):
I would love to move, so I'm going to be
moving.
Yeah.

Amber Annette (37:54):
I would say like, like, I feel like July 4th,
like the universe is showing methe month of July, so I'm not
sure if that's like moving monthor if you're like settled into
your new place in July, but itfeels to me like a beautiful and
well deserved like Lux upgrade.

(38:16):
It feels like mmm, it feels andit feels like a space that like
you're like Holy shit, I did it, I got here, it's.
It is a real up level for you,real well deserved up level.
So that's that's the firstthing.
So a lot of life stuff kind ofcoming in here.

Danielle Marggraf (38:33):
Now are you in a partnership, I would say
I'm in a situation ship.

Amber Annette (38:44):
So I feel like there's going to be somebody new
coming in in 2024.

Danielle Marggraf (38:49):
Really.

Amber Annette (38:51):
I do.
I feel like September.
And damn, is he good looking.
Ooh like very like, really like, exceptionally like attractive
man.
It feels like September and itfeels like, I would almost say,

(39:13):
unexpected.
However, I feel like you'vebeen holding the vibration and
the vision of what you want fora long time.
You're very clear on what youknow, what you got to do, and
it's like, once it comes in,like I would even go as far as
to say, with the universe issharing with me here.
This might be one of your bestyears ever.

Danielle Marggraf (39:36):
I'm for multiple reasons.

Amber Annette (39:38):
Yeah, for multiple reasons.
Now you're, you're older child.
How old is your older child now?
15.
15.
Okay, so is it a girl?
Yes, okay.
So I also feel like, well, thatwould maybe match, maybe for

(39:59):
driver's license or somethinglike that.
I don't know if she's.
I feel like she has asignificant milestone coming up
this year, that something thathappens for her and I don't know
that it's the 16 drivers thing,that doesn't feel right but
something also really positiveand significant is going to be
showing up for her this year.
Is she quite creative at likeartists?

Danielle Marggraf (40:20):
Very highly creative.

Amber Annette (40:22):
Okay.
So I feel like she gets like amedal or an award or like some
type of like really cool, likevery cool opportunity opens up
for her that you are in the bestposition to be able to support
her with it.
Invest in this opportunity.
There might be some like travelinvolved for her.
She's asked to go somewhereabroad, something along those

(40:43):
lines.

Danielle Marggraf (40:45):
So she's already picking up something
France.
Stop it.
Okay, I just talked to thetravel agent, with her birthdays
in June, so we were talkingabout sometime around this June.

Amber Annette (41:03):
That's amazing.
Yeah, that feels like that'shappening.
Okay, just so you know,business feels like it keeps it
keeps going, like I feel likeyou are in your own flow right
now.
I see things steadilyincreasing I don't see like any

(41:25):
massive dips or anything likethat and it feels like almost
fine tuning and feeling evenbetter about what you are doing.
I feel like the next Okay, sothe next thing that it feels
like is important.
I'm seeing like the dial beingturned on audience.
More people need to know aboutyou.

(41:47):
Yes, that's the play this year,that's the investment this year
is being able to speak to many.
I felt it during this call andI'm sure that our listeners felt
it during this podcast episode.
Quality and the depth of your,of your message is so potent,

(42:08):
danielle.
We need more people to hearabout it, and so that's the play
this year, that's theinvestment this year.
I would say it's almost counterto like what you teach right,
which is to go within, and itdoesn't even more strategy.
I'm saying this is the year likethe power play of strategy.
So, whether it's with aFacebook ads expert or SEO, I

(42:30):
would double down in the leadgeneration if I were you this
year, because even if you doubledown, it's going to 10 X the
return.
I would even say 20 X thereturn.
Wow.
I also see Are you hosting aretreat this year, your first
retreat?

Danielle Marggraf (42:49):
or anything like that, first, but we host
one every year and we're we'relaunching a new program,
application only it's calledsacred woman and only eight.
Yeah, and we are actually goingto be on site three times live
for these women and we I run it.
I used to be a red tent women'sgroup facilitator and I'm a red

(43:09):
tent circles, and so we'rerunning the whole year as a
community with these women and,yeah, so we do that.
And then every year I go toSedona for our part.

Amber Annette (43:21):
That's going to be, I think, your favorite part
of your business this year.

Danielle Marggraf (43:24):
Yeah, I agree , I'm very much looking forward
to it.

Amber Annette (43:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So that's what I got for you,girl.

Danielle Marggraf (43:33):
I love it.
Thank you for all of that.
That was beautiful, so awesome.

Amber Annette (43:38):
Ready for final question?
Yes, so you could connect andreceive a message from anybody
in spirit today.
Who would it be?
Bob Proctor oh yeah, I love it.

(44:02):
So he comes in with like hisinstant, like chuckle and laugh.
He shaped your, he says, heacknowledges he got to shape
your life in a lot of waysthrough his words, his, he
changed your life.

(44:22):
Yes, he did, and he, in spirit,acknowledges that and feels
that.
And now you get to take on someof his same work and you get to
keep it going and you get to bethat ripple effect that he used
to talk about and that you usedto dream of being able to do.
You're, you're doing it.

(44:43):
Thank you Beautiful.
Did you ever have, did you have, something from him?
Do you have something of his orsomething from him?
A book signed, anything likethat?
A book signed?
Yeah, and shows me that booksigned.

Danielle Marggraf (45:01):
Yeah, and we actually had a few conversations
and our last conversation Ishared with him about this work
because I said, yeah, themindset workers great, this
manifesting workers great, butwe're missing a piece that
people need to know this piece.
And he said to me when this isall over, because it was during
COVID he said you're going tocome and you're going to come

(45:21):
here and we're going to.
I want you to tell me all aboutit and we're going to do
something.
And then he passed beforepassed away.

Amber Annette (45:28):
Yeah, yeah, but I so.
That's why he said you're outhere doing that work.
Yes.

Danielle Marggraf (45:33):
And I do feel him like I do.

Amber Annette (45:36):
Yeah, yeah, true thoughts.
Yeah, danielle, thank you somuch for being here, Amber.

Danielle Marggraf (45:46):
thank you.

Amber Annette (45:47):
You're so amazing .
I want to, and this was magic,this was amazing, and I can't
wait for my listeners to connectmore with you.
So thank you so much for beinghere, and if you want to learn
more about Danielle, about heramazing work that she's putting
out into the world, please makesure you go and check out the
show notes.
We have links to her websitethere, and I believe she even

(46:09):
has a free gift for you that wewill include a link there for.

Danielle Marggraf (46:13):
Yeah, actually I am hosting a one day
event called six figurefrequency.
I'm hosting it January 22.
It's normally $47 to do the day.
It is beyond well worth morethan that.
But if we can maybe create somesort of something where maybe
they drop Amber right, they letme know that if they're coming

(46:37):
from you, I'd like to offer thema free ticket to that event.

Amber Annette (46:40):
Oh, that's awesome.
I'm coming to the event.

Danielle Marggraf (46:43):
I'm going to drop the name Amber and come to
the event.
Yeah.

Amber Annette (46:49):
Awesome.
Well, danielle, thank you againso much for being here and
until next time, go be in yourmagic.
Thanks for listening to thisepisode.
I hope it inspired and ignitedyour entrepreneurial spirit, in
turn of your intuition and trustin the universe.
Make sure to check out the shownotes section for access to my

(47:12):
transformation suite All of freeresources, tools and content to
help you grow your businesswhile saying true to your soul's
purpose.
Until next week, go make somebusiness magic school sister.
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