May 6, 2024 • 11 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Cashflow and Manifestation
Project Podcast.
My name is Katie Smith and I ama Manifestation and Mindset
Coach.
I'm a mom who successfully tookone of those little side
hustles and built it into asix-figure business with the
tools of manifestation and somespiritual woo.
Every week, I'll shareuplifting conversations,
interviews and talks centered onunlocking your inner magic,
(00:22):
pushing past limits and creatinga reality even wilder than your
dreams.
If you enjoy listening totopics on money, mindset and
manifesting, then you've come tothe right place.
I'm obsessed with helping womentransform to their next level
of freedom and wealth.
I hope you enjoyed today'sepisode.
Now let's begin.
Hello, hello and welcome backto another episode of the
(00:45):
Cashflow and ManifestationProject.
So happy you're here.
Come on in, get comfy, whateveryou're doing, I'm so freaking
honored that you are here withme today.
I thought I'd give you a littlebit of a life update because
it's been a minute.
I honestly try to keep thingsmore business related because,
if you're anything like me, I'mlistening to you, because I want
(01:05):
to get something out of it.
I kind of feel like no onewants to know so much about my
personal life, but I will give alittle update there and then I
want to talk to you aboutdetaching from the goals that
you have set out for yourselfaround money or anything you are
manifesting, and so it's goingto be really fun.
Okay, when I say an update onlife, like, I hope you're not
(01:26):
thinking like oh my gosh, likewhat is she talking about?
I just want to let everybodyknow that I have been
overwhelmed with life in Texas,so if you are new here, welcome.
My family moved from Californiato Texas at the very end of
November and so we've been heresince then.
So like six months going on sixmonths now, which is crazy.
(01:48):
And y'all.
I've always said y'all, by theway, like just don't think I'm
one of those people who like, oh, now she says y'all, I don't
know.
I had like somebody say thatonce and I was like no, I
actually have always said thatwhen I met my husband in like
freaking 2011,.
He would say y'all, and he'sfrom California, as am I, so
that's not a thing.
Anyways, wow I digress, butback to it but y'all.
(02:09):
I have never been happier and Iknow that sounds totally crazy,
but it's just.
We are so meant to be here.
God brought us here the peoplewho have become our life and our
support system out here in sucha short time.
It honestly can bring me totears because no one ever saw it
(02:29):
coming.
My husband and I, continuously,are like we are just so blessed
, we are so lucky, and reallywhat it all boils down to is
trust, massive, massive amountof trust, lifting it up to God,
surrendering to the processbecause we wanted change for our
family or what we saw our life.
We wanted countryside, a land,slower pace of living, so many
(02:53):
things and nicer people.
I'll be honest with you Love myOrange County Californian folks
, but I'm going to tell you thepeople are different out here in
Texas.
They are so freaking nice, it'sinsane and we feel so at home.
And so that was just sort of anupdate that I wanted to give to
you to just honestly inspire you.
I mean, that was actuallycoming through for me to give a
little bit of an update, just toinspire you that if something's
(03:14):
on your heart like surrenderand trust the process and like
go for it, go all in and knowthat you are so supported by
God's source, whoever, whateveryou believe in, will catch you
when you make that jump.
I am living proof of it andit's possible and, obviously,
having the right mindset and allthose things, which are things
that I kind of talk about more alot on this podcast actually,
(03:36):
but a lot of it when I work withsomeone.
Mindset is everything I say.
Mindset is where wealth starts.
But it's just been.
It's been amazing.
So I want to give you thatshort little update, even though
we're already three minutes in.
Whoops, sorry.
This is your sign to go for thething, do the thing you want to
do and trust in the entireprocess.
Let's shift gears intodetachment.
(03:56):
So I don't know if you're newto that term.
I feel like it's kind of a hotterm.
It's been around on the socialsso you might have heard of it
and maybe you know what it is,maybe you don't.
So I will kind of break theword down for you and really
help you detach from what youare trying to manifest, because
I would say that actually is thesecret sauce.
If there were to be a secretsauce, yes, it's believing, but
(04:18):
it's more so detaching from theoutcome.
So what it is is kind of what Ijust said.
It's you set a manifestationgoal, you go through the steps
which I've covered on episodeson this podcast before, where
you get really clear as to whatyou're trying to manifest.
You then work with your beliefsystem to see that it can happen
(04:38):
for you.
You collect evidence of ithappening for you and then the
last and final piece is youdetach.
You just kind of completelythrow your hands up and you're
like I've done my part and now Ican detach from the outcome.
I'm not going to obsess andfixate over this, and so what
really helped me with detachingis because I'll be honest with
(05:00):
you, if you have heard that termbefore, maybe you've tried it
and you're like how the fuck amI supposed to detach when, like
I need money yesterday, like Ineed this to work yesterday, I
want a relationship yesterday, Ican't go through another month
without finding love of my lifeor having a baby or money.
My guess is you're a freedomseeking entrepreneur and you
want more money, you wantpassive income, you want a life
(05:20):
of freedom.
You don't want to have to tradeyour time for money and like,
figure out a way to make money.
Like those days are gone.
So detaching can kind of feellike what, how am I supposed to
do this?
Like, how does this even makesense?
But this is where it finallyclicked for me.
So I would do my manifestationstuff and when it came to money,
(05:44):
I would really, really, reallyget very comfortable and happy
and content.
Comfortable I say that wordloosely.
I'd get very content andsatisfied with where I was at
and know that it's not where Iwant to be, but I am good.
I am good, I don't need anymore.
That level is a beautiful levelto be at.
(06:06):
If you can get there, kick yourfeet up and start just basking
in everything you manifest Money, love, relationships, babies,
cars, the vacations.
I am not kidding you.
So let me tell you that again.
To detach is to look at yourcurrent scenario.
Whatever you're trying tomanifest, let's say it's money,
(06:26):
and I would fall in love withyour current financial picture
debt and all overdraft fees andall not able to take the
vacations and all not able topay for this, having to say no
to my kids.
I want you to fall in love withit all and tell yourself I
don't need anything else.
I am good, because when you'reat that point it's a game
(06:49):
changer.
So you take this stance of I amgood, but you're also still
doing your manifestation steps.
You're just not obsessing overyour goal as much You're
detached.
You believe you worked withyour belief system, you're
finding evidence, you're takingyour inspired action, and then
you just detach, you let it go,you let it go, you don't worry
(07:10):
about it.
So a way you can think aboutthis is, say, the parking spot.
Example that I always go forand that I always share with
clients is, you know, whenyou're trying to find a parking
spot and a packed parking lotand you're kind of like wouldn't
it be nice?
Or like, come on, like I need aparking spot, like wouldn't it
be nice to something, just likeopen up a front row or whatever,
and all of a sudden it does,because you're not like
(07:33):
obsessing life or death overthis parking spot.
You have to take that sameapproach with money.
You know, like you're notobsessing over the numbers to
back into the number that youwant, or to do X amount of
activities to get to your numberand hustle and grind your way
out of it.
So when you finally hit yourgoal, you're exhausted because
you are not taking a break.
(07:53):
No, you detach, you trust thatthe work that you are doing is
enough and it's perfect and it'sall unfolding at the exact
right time.
So I'm just going to bask inwhat I've got, because what I've
got could be worse.
It could and I don't want youto argue with me on this.
It could be worse.
Sure, you might not have thetrips, the car, the house,
(08:14):
whatever, but it could be worse.
It could very much be worse.
So you know how I found out thatthis can be the magic sauce is
because I had several things,like a couple months ago, where
I was like, wow, this is a test,this is a test.
Man, I was banking on thatmoney and now it's not here
right now.
This is a test.
Okay, this is another test.
(08:34):
And I just started to think Idon't really need it.
You know, because I'm good withwhere I'm at need it.
You know because I'm good withwhere I'm at, and what that
money would give me is thisfeeling, a feeling of peace and
security.
And if it's going to give methat feeling, I could just start
feeling that now and then I'mgood.
(08:54):
So actually I don't, I don'treally need it.
And when I took that stancewith money and some things I had
going on with a couple of myincome streams, they doubled.
It's crazy because at the endof the day.
I don't need what the money'sgoing to give me.
I can get that now.
I can get peace and happinessand joy.
And right now, shoot, I'mfeeling it right now and that's
(09:17):
what I'm after.
I'm not after the money to sayI'm a millionaire.
That's going to be a byproductof the work that I'm doing and
the feelings that I'm feelingand me just existing.
That's going to come.
So why can't I just enjoy theride and detach and have fun
with my life now?
That's the magic.
That is it.
Oh gosh, I'm like feeling this.
(09:40):
I'm loving it.
I hope you're loving this.
I hope you're feeling it.
Detaching is the secret.
You can do this.
It's falling in love with whereyou're at right now and knowing
you're not even at your goalyet.
You know that you aren'tkicking your feet up and saying,
oh, I'm fine, now I just giveup.
No, no, no.
You're also not going to stopdoing your manifestation
practices.
(10:00):
You're not going to stop any ofthat.
You're just detaching from theoutcome because you know it's
inevitable.
It's inevitable, it's coming,it's yours, it's fine, you're
good, have fun, soak it up, livelife and trust and know it's
coming.
Don't say a bazillionaffirmations every day.
I'm so happy and grateful thatI'm a $50,000 a month business
(10:21):
owner.
No, no, no, none of that stuff.
That stuff, nope.
That's not detaching, that'sobsessing, which is putting you
farther away from it.
There comes a time and a placefor that stuff.
It's not thinking about it andtelling yourself that every
single day to try to convinceyour brain it's true, because
honestly, it's hurting you morethan it's doing good.
I go into this very in depth inmy programs, so I want you to
try it, I want you to let meknow how it goes, and it's going
(10:45):
to be amazing.
I have a feeling you're goingto actually have some like major
shifts and quantum leapshappening.
So will you tell me about it?
Will you tell me?
Can you?
Can you promise me?
Can we become pen pals?
Whatever you want to do, I'mhere for it.
I love you so much for beinghere and I will catch you here
next week.
Bye, I love you so much forbeing here and I will catch you
here next week.
Bye.
If you loved what you heardtoday, please share with me by
(11:06):
dropping me a review below.
It lets me know to keep thegood stuff flowing your way and
more abundance all around.
And if you're not following meon socials yet, head over to
Facebook and join my exclusive,free community of epic souls who
are trying to manifest theirdream life in 2024.
I love and adore you and can'twait to catch up with you in the
next episode.
In the meantime, go out thereand make some magic happen.
Welcome to the Cashflow and Manifestation
Project Podcast.
My name is Katie Smith and I ama Manifestation and Mindset
Coach.
I'm a mom who successfully tookone of those little side
hustles and built it into asix-figure business with the
tools of manifestation and somespiritual woo.
Every week, I'll shareuplifting conversations,
interviews and talks centered onunlocking your inner magic,
(00:22):
pushing past limits and creatinga reality even wilder than your
dreams.
If you enjoy listening totopics on money, mindset and
manifesting, then you've come tothe right place.
I'm obsessed with helping womentransform to their next level
of freedom and wealth.
I hope you enjoyed today'sepisode.
Now let's begin.
Hello, hello and welcome backto another episode of the
(00:45):
Cashflow and ManifestationProject.
So happy you're here.
Come on in, get comfy, whateveryou're doing, I'm so freaking
honored that you are here withme today.
I thought I'd give you a littlebit of a life update because
it's been a minute.
I honestly try to keep thingsmore business related because,
if you're anything like me, I'mlistening to you, because I want
(01:05):
to get something out of it.
I kind of feel like no onewants to know so much about my
personal life, but I will give alittle update there and then I
want to talk to you aboutdetaching from the goals that
you have set out for yourselfaround money or anything you are
manifesting, and so it's goingto be really fun.
Okay, when I say an update onlife, like, I hope you're not
(01:26):
thinking like oh my gosh, likewhat is she talking about?
I just want to let everybodyknow that I have been
overwhelmed with life in Texas,so if you are new here, welcome.
My family moved from Californiato Texas at the very end of
November and so we've been heresince then.
So like six months going on sixmonths now, which is crazy.
(01:48):
And y'all.
I've always said y'all, by theway, like just don't think I'm
one of those people who like, oh, now she says y'all, I don't
know.
I had like somebody say thatonce and I was like no, I
actually have always said thatwhen I met my husband in like
freaking 2011,.
He would say y'all, and he'sfrom California, as am I, so
that's not a thing.
Anyways, wow I digress, butback to it but y'all.
(02:09):
I have never been happier and Iknow that sounds totally crazy,
but it's just.
We are so meant to be here.
God brought us here the peoplewho have become our life and our
support system out here in sucha short time.
It honestly can bring me totears because no one ever saw it
(02:29):
coming.
My husband and I, continuously,are like we are just so blessed
, we are so lucky, and reallywhat it all boils down to is
trust, massive, massive amountof trust, lifting it up to God,
surrendering to the processbecause we wanted change for our
family or what we saw our life.
We wanted countryside, a land,slower pace of living, so many
(02:53):
things and nicer people.
I'll be honest with you Love myOrange County Californian folks
, but I'm going to tell you thepeople are different out here in
Texas.
They are so freaking nice, it'sinsane and we feel so at home.
And so that was just sort of anupdate that I wanted to give to
you to just honestly inspire you.
I mean, that was actuallycoming through for me to give a
little bit of an update, just toinspire you that if something's
(03:14):
on your heart like surrenderand trust the process and like
go for it, go all in and knowthat you are so supported by
God's source, whoever, whateveryou believe in, will catch you
when you make that jump.
I am living proof of it andit's possible and, obviously,
having the right mindset and allthose things, which are things
that I kind of talk about more alot on this podcast actually,
(03:36):
but a lot of it when I work withsomeone.
Mindset is everything I say.
Mindset is where wealth starts.
But it's just been.
It's been amazing.
So I want to give you thatshort little update, even though
we're already three minutes in.
Whoops, sorry.
This is your sign to go for thething, do the thing you want to
do and trust in the entireprocess.
Let's shift gears intodetachment.
(03:56):
So I don't know if you're newto that term.
I feel like it's kind of a hotterm.
It's been around on the socialsso you might have heard of it
and maybe you know what it is,maybe you don't.
So I will kind of break theword down for you and really
help you detach from what youare trying to manifest, because
I would say that actually is thesecret sauce.
If there were to be a secretsauce, yes, it's believing, but
(04:18):
it's more so detaching from theoutcome.
So what it is is kind of what Ijust said.
It's you set a manifestationgoal, you go through the steps
which I've covered on episodeson this podcast before, where
you get really clear as to whatyou're trying to manifest.
You then work with your beliefsystem to see that it can happen
(04:38):
for you.
You collect evidence of ithappening for you and then the
last and final piece is youdetach.
You just kind of completelythrow your hands up and you're
like I've done my part and now Ican detach from the outcome.
I'm not going to obsess andfixate over this, and so what
really helped me with detachingis because I'll be honest with
(05:00):
you, if you have heard that termbefore, maybe you've tried it
and you're like how the fuck amI supposed to detach when, like
I need money yesterday, like Ineed this to work yesterday, I
want a relationship yesterday, Ican't go through another month
without finding love of my lifeor having a baby or money.
My guess is you're a freedomseeking entrepreneur and you
want more money, you wantpassive income, you want a life
(05:20):
of freedom.
You don't want to have to tradeyour time for money and like,
figure out a way to make money.
Like those days are gone.
So detaching can kind of feellike what, how am I supposed to
do this?
Like, how does this even makesense?
But this is where it finallyclicked for me.
So I would do my manifestationstuff and when it came to money,
(05:44):
I would really, really, reallyget very comfortable and happy
and content.
Comfortable I say that wordloosely.
I'd get very content andsatisfied with where I was at
and know that it's not where Iwant to be, but I am good.
I am good, I don't need anymore.
That level is a beautiful levelto be at.
(06:06):
If you can get there, kick yourfeet up and start just basking
in everything you manifest Money, love, relationships, babies,
cars, the vacations.
I am not kidding you.
So let me tell you that again.
To detach is to look at yourcurrent scenario.
Whatever you're trying tomanifest, let's say it's money,
(06:26):
and I would fall in love withyour current financial picture
debt and all overdraft fees andall not able to take the
vacations and all not able topay for this, having to say no
to my kids.
I want you to fall in love withit all and tell yourself I
don't need anything else.
I am good, because when you'reat that point it's a game
(06:49):
changer.
So you take this stance of I amgood, but you're also still
doing your manifestation steps.
You're just not obsessing overyour goal as much You're
detached.
You believe you worked withyour belief system, you're
finding evidence, you're takingyour inspired action, and then
you just detach, you let it go,you let it go, you don't worry
(07:10):
about it.
So a way you can think aboutthis is, say, the parking spot.
Example that I always go forand that I always share with
clients is, you know, whenyou're trying to find a parking
spot and a packed parking lotand you're kind of like wouldn't
it be nice?
Or like, come on, like I need aparking spot, like wouldn't it
be nice to something, just likeopen up a front row or whatever,
and all of a sudden it does,because you're not like
(07:33):
obsessing life or death overthis parking spot.
You have to take that sameapproach with money.
You know, like you're notobsessing over the numbers to
back into the number that youwant, or to do X amount of
activities to get to your numberand hustle and grind your way
out of it.
So when you finally hit yourgoal, you're exhausted because
you are not taking a break.
(07:53):
No, you detach, you trust thatthe work that you are doing is
enough and it's perfect and it'sall unfolding at the exact
right time.
So I'm just going to bask inwhat I've got, because what I've
got could be worse.
It could and I don't want youto argue with me on this.
It could be worse.
Sure, you might not have thetrips, the car, the house,
(08:14):
whatever, but it could be worse.
It could very much be worse.
So you know how I found out thatthis can be the magic sauce is
because I had several things,like a couple months ago, where
I was like, wow, this is a test,this is a test.
Man, I was banking on thatmoney and now it's not here
right now.
This is a test.
Okay, this is another test.
(08:34):
And I just started to think Idon't really need it.
You know, because I'm good withwhere I'm at need it.
You know because I'm good withwhere I'm at, and what that
money would give me is thisfeeling, a feeling of peace and
security.
And if it's going to give methat feeling, I could just start
feeling that now and then I'mgood.
(08:54):
So actually I don't, I don'treally need it.
And when I took that stancewith money and some things I had
going on with a couple of myincome streams, they doubled.
It's crazy because at the endof the day.
I don't need what the money'sgoing to give me.
I can get that now.
I can get peace and happinessand joy.
And right now, shoot, I'mfeeling it right now and that's
(09:17):
what I'm after.
I'm not after the money to sayI'm a millionaire.
That's going to be a byproductof the work that I'm doing and
the feelings that I'm feelingand me just existing.
That's going to come.
So why can't I just enjoy theride and detach and have fun
with my life now?
That's the magic.
That is it.
Oh gosh, I'm like feeling this.
(09:40):
I'm loving it.
I hope you're loving this.
I hope you're feeling it.
Detaching is the secret.
You can do this.
It's falling in love with whereyou're at right now and knowing
you're not even at your goalyet.
You know that you aren'tkicking your feet up and saying,
oh, I'm fine, now I just giveup.
No, no, no.
You're also not going to stopdoing your manifestation
practices.
(10:00):
You're not going to stop any ofthat.
You're just detaching from theoutcome because you know it's
inevitable.
It's inevitable, it's coming,it's yours, it's fine, you're
good, have fun, soak it up, livelife and trust and know it's
coming.
Don't say a bazillionaffirmations every day.
I'm so happy and grateful thatI'm a $50,000 a month business
(10:21):
owner.
No, no, no, none of that stuff.
That stuff, nope.
That's not detaching, that'sobsessing, which is putting you
farther away from it.
There comes a time and a placefor that stuff.
It's not thinking about it andtelling yourself that every
single day to try to convinceyour brain it's true, because
honestly, it's hurting you morethan it's doing good.
I go into this very in depth inmy programs, so I want you to
try it, I want you to let meknow how it goes, and it's going
(10:45):
to be amazing.
I have a feeling you're goingto actually have some like major
shifts and quantum leapshappening.
So will you tell me about it?
Will you tell me?
Can you?
Can you promise me?
Can we become pen pals?
Whatever you want to do, I'mhere for it.
I love you so much for beinghere and I will catch you here
next week.
Bye, I love you so much forbeing here and I will catch you
here next week.
Bye.
If you loved what you heardtoday, please share with me by
(11:06):
dropping me a review below.
It lets me know to keep thegood stuff flowing your way and
more abundance all around.
And if you're not following meon socials yet, head over to
Facebook and join my exclusive,free community of epic souls who
are trying to manifest theirdream life in 2024.
I love and adore you and can'twait to catch up with you in the
next episode.
In the meantime, go out thereand make some magic happen.
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