The Christian Dating Coach

The Christian Dating Coach

Imagine this... Going into work on Valentine's Day and seeing a beautiful bouquet of flowers at your desk and a loving note. Imagine getting a text on the morning of a big day saying, "Good luck this morning, Dear Heart." Imagine going shopping for an engagement ring with someone your heart races for. Imagine having someone to come home to every night. Imagine creating traditions and memories with someone who loves you. Imagine growing old with someone who adores everything about you and knows just how to hold you. If you need someone to say it, I will. This is a dream worth going after. And I can help you make this dream a reality. I was like you - a successful professional with a full social life, a home I owned and passport stamps from around the world. But I was sooo single. Everyone told me to wait and God would send me my spouse. Years went by before I realized taking action didn't mean I wasn't also trusting in the Lord. I realized He was sending me opportunities to act on. I hired my own dating coach, and I met my now husband. Today, I’m a certified life coach who’s helped Christian single women find love for years. I never get tired watching clients go from frustrated and hopeless to confident, engaged and happily married. Go from just pray 🙏🏾 and wait to cuddles 🥰 and pancakes 🥞 on the weekends. Let's get you married, Sis. https://www.thechristiandatingcoach.com

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July 24, 2025 10 mins

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In this deeply personal birthday episode, Michelle pulls back the curtain on her journey from climbing ladders to creating legacy. She opens up about her high-achieving 20s, the drive to succeed, and the secret ache that degrees and promotions couldn’t quiet.

From getting into the top engineering schools in the country to crying alone in the shower, Michelle shares the pivotal moment that changed everything—and the bol...

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You don’t need to delete the apps—you need a strategy. 

Dating app purgatory. You know the feeling.
Endless messages. Constant profile tweaks. Flat conversations that go nowhere — when all you want is a godly man who initiates, engages, and actually follows through.

Here’s what no one tells you:
 90% of Michelle’s clients meet their husbands online.
They just stop doing what doesn’t work — and start using ...

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Today, Michelle breaks down the real transformation required to attract a godly, emotionally available, high-quality man.

You’ll learn the four core shifts you need to make—and why “window shopping” the process is what’s quietly delaying your breakthrough for high-value love.

💡 If you're hoping for once-in-a-lifetime, high-level love, stop making low-level moves. That’s like dreaming of a NYC Plaza wedding outcome...

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In this powerful episode, Michelle breaks down the four truths her clients live by—truths that radically shifted their mindset, their strategy, and their results. These are the women who met their husbands in months… and it wasn’t by accident.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still stuck in dating purgatory, you need to hear this. It’s not just about trying harder—it’s about aligning with ...

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July 10, 2025 13 mins

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There’s a lie keeping far too many high-value Christian women single:
 “It’s just a numbers game.”

But piling up mediocre dates with mediocre men and having mediocre conversations doesn’t get you any closer to the godly, high-caliber marriage you’ve been praying for.

In this episode, I’m breaking that lie wide open—and showing you why dating is not about trying harder, but about moving smarter.

I share my own story—w...

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Marriage didn’t just teach Michelle how to love her husband — it taught her how to love better. Period.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or already married, this episode will open your eyes to the one word that transforms every stage of relationship: grace. Real love isn’t built on perfection. It’s built on patience, forgiveness, understanding, and humility — the kind of grace that lets both people grow.

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What if you’re not single because there are no good men — but because you keep passing by the right ones for the wrong reasons?

In this episode, Michelle shares the honest truth about why so many women miss out on truly great, godly men. 

If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start seeing clearly, this is your invitation to slow down, check your heart, and give love a chance to grow — even if it doesn’t look how you ...

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June 23, 2025 14 mins

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If you’ve ever said, “There are no good men out there,” this episode will lovingly shake that belief — and show you exactly where the high-value, godly men actually are.

Michelle reveals the three types of spaces where Christian men consistently show up — and how you can start putting yourself in those rooms with strategy, joy, and boldness (not desperation). You’ll walk away seeing just how many possibilities you’ve b...

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You’ve been told to pray.
 To wait.
 To be content.

But no one told you what it’s costing you to stay stuck in that cycle.

This episode will shake you—in the best way.
 It’s not angry. It’s not rushed.
 It’s truth-telling. Legacy-building. Spirit-freeing.

If you’ve been feeling the quiet ache of delay...
 If something in your soul knows there’s more...
 You need this one.

🎧 Listen now.

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Have you ever left a party feeling invisible… or stayed home because your nerves got the best of you?

In this episode, Michelle gets real about what social anxiety actually is — and how to overcome it with practical confidence-building tools that actually work. You’ll learn why your opinion of yourself matters more than anyone else’s, how to stop spiraling over other people’s reactions, and why emotional resilience is ...

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Bringing up sex before marriage can feel awkward, intimidating—or like a guaranteed vibe-killer. But it doesn’t have to be.

In this episode, I’m walking you through the sex talk no one ever teaches you how to have—the one that honors your faith, protects your heart, and actually builds chemistry instead of killing it.

You’ll learn:

  • Exactly when to have the conversation (and when it’s already too late)
  • What to say (wit...
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He was kind. He loved the Lord. He wanted marriage.

So why didn’t he pursue you?

Here’s the truth no one tells you:

Godly men don’t commit because you’re nice—they pursue when they feel something.

In this episode, I’m teaching you how to create “I want you” energy that activates pursuit—without compromising your purity. 

You’ll learn how to stir up desire in a way that honors God, respects you...

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You sent the text… and now you’re staring at your phone, wondering if he’s going to write back.

Before you spiral or double text — pause. This is the moment that separates a girl who chases… from a woman who attracts.

In today’s episode, I’m walking you through the power of leaning out — what it really means, how it creates desire, and why it’s one of the most feminine, faith-filled things you can do in dating.

You’ll le...

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She was having a pleasant conversation.
It was fine. It was nice. But I saw what could be.

So, I gave her a challenge:
Make him crazy about you by the end of the week.

She laughed. Then she did exactly that.

In this episode, I’m sharing the exact shifts I coached her through—so you can do it too.

No games. No pressure. No compromising your values.
Just Flirt Pure confidence, godly femininity, and ch...

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He says he’s a Christian… but is he truly walking with God? In this episode, I’m giving you 4 powerful, heart-revealing questions to ask a man early on — before the chemistry clouds your clarity. You’ll learn how to spark deep conversations without turning it into an awkward interview, so you can discern if he’s the real deal: a man after God’s own heart. This is about protecting your peace, building your confidence, ...

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Long-distance relationships are hard — but they’re not impossible. In this episode, Michelle shares real talk from her own story of dating her now-husband across three time zones, and how they not only made it work… but made it romantic, intentional, and deeply connected.

Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just want to build deeper connection in your current one, this episode is packed with tips you’ll a...

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In this episode, Michelle gets all the way real about the three silent killers that are keeping so many women stuck in extended singleness: Discouragement, Doubt, and Delay.

These aren't just “bad moods” — they’re mindset traps that affect your energy, your attraction, your actions, and ultimately, your results. If you’ve ever said, “What’s the point?”, “Maybe God doesn’t want this for me”, or “I’ll figure it out ...

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Should you move cities (or even states) just to hopefully find love? In this episode, Michelle finally puts this common question to rest — and her answer might surprise you.

She shares her personal story of moving across the country for love — the risk, the reward, and what made it worth it — and contrasts it with the all-too-common idea that changing your location will change your results in dating. Spoiler: it’s not ...

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April 7, 2025 12 mins

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In this episode, Michelle dives deep into a thought that plagues so many single women — “Why is it taking so long?” If you’ve ever found yourself frustrated with the timeline of your love life, this one is for you. Michelle unpacks the mindset behind the question, why it’s keeping you stuck, and how surrendering to God’s perfect timing might be the most powerful shift you can make.

But she doesn’t stop there — because ...

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Hey hey sis—welcome back to the show. Today, I’m sharing something I’ve seen time and time again in every client who’s crossed over to the other side and gotten married. They all had one thing in common: a quiet confidence. A deep, unshakable knowing that they were called—destined—to be a wife.

Even through the lonely nights, the solo weddings, the awkward dates... they carried a settled hope that it was going to happe...

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