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July 9, 2025 11 mins

Summary

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Kortni Alston Lemon reflects on her personal journey of grief following the loss of her mentor and friend, Rose Tibayan. As she navigates her emotions, she emphasizes the importance of pausing to honor one's feelings and the impact of grief on journalists. Dr. Kortni shares the profound lessons learned from Rose's life, her legacy of compassion, and the significance of supporting one another through loss. This episode serves as a reminder that healing is an integral part of the work we do, especially in the field of journalism.

Takeaways

It's okay to pause and feel what needs to be felt.
Grief is not something you just get over; it's something you grow through.
Living by the values of compassion and strength is essential.
You don't have to carry grief alone; support is available.
Honoring your grief is an act of strength, not weakness.
Your well-being is your most important job as a journalist.
Rose Tibayan's legacy continues to inspire and uplift others.
Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is to give ourselves permission to pause.
Mentorship can have a profound impact on personal and professional growth.
Grief can deepen your compassion for others.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Personal Loss and Grief
09:30 Honoring a Legacy: Rose Tobin's Impact

Rose Tibayan Scholarship Fund 

 

Rose Tibayan was an award-winning broadcast journalist and devoted member of the Asian American Journalists Association, who always sought to help younger journalists  grow and find success. Rose even wrote the book on the topic: “The Resume Tape Book,” a 700-page job-hunting guide for broadcast media that has helped countless people build their careers. And Rose knew the ropes, climbing the career ladder from TV markets in Guam, to Fort Myers, New Jersey, Philadelphia, San Francisco and Milwaukee before settling down in Chicago, with her husband, Don Villar, the Secretary-Treasurer of the Chicago Federation of Labor — whom she met at an AAJA conference.   Rose passed away in 2024 after a 14-month battle with cancer, but her legacy as a mentor and supporter of young AAPI journalists and AAJA will continue with the Rose Tibayan Scholarship Fund.   Your generous gift during our fundraising drive will help us build an endowment to provide scholarships to support students and early-career journalists as they navigate a difficult industry.   Donate via PayPal with a message saying "Rose Tibayan Scholarship Fund" https://www.paypal.com/donate/?cmd=_s-xclick...   Donate via check made payable to “AAJA Chicago” and mailed to: Chicago Federation of Labor Attn: AAJA/Tibayan Scholarship, 180 N Stetson Ave Chicago, IL 60601   Rose Tibayan Scholarship Facebook Page

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