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June 2, 2025 15 mins

Are You Too Comfortable?

Too many women say they want more, but aren’t moving like it.

In this episode, I’m calling out a hard truth:

Comfort and growth don’t coexist.

And if you’ve been playing it safe, waiting for the “right moment,” or sitting on your dreams because things feel fine... this episode is your wake-up call.

Whether it’s business, relationships, or your personal power, there’s always going to be a hard.

You just get to choose which hard you’re willing to face.

Inside this fire episode, I’m unpacking:

  • Why comfort can be the biggest killer of your confidence
  • How to know if you’re hiding behind “I’m fine”
  • The difference between false safety vs true fulfillment
  • And what it actually takes to shift into a life that’s aligned, alive, and worth showing up for

If you’ve been stuck in “meh” energy or waiting for things to change without making the moves, you need to hear this.

📣 If you're ready to stop sitting on your dreams and start moving with power…

🔥 Download my 5 Days to More Confidence training here:

👉🏽 thequeenofconfidence.com/confidencemasterclass

📲 Then screenshot this episode and tag me on Instagram: @thequeenofconfidence

Tell me: Where are you choosing comfort over growth?

⏱ Timestamps

00:00 Welcome + U.S. book tour update

01:15 The real reason we stay stuck: comfort

03:00 Discomfort is part of the journey—either way

04:12 Erika’s personal comfort zone story

06:00 “I got sleepy”, how safety can lead to stagnation

07:20 Comfort isn’t just an Aussie thing, it’s human

08:35 Why comfort and confidence don’t mix

09:20 Choose your hard, choose your life

10:45 The danger of waiting until you have to act

12:00 The secret to moving through fear and taking action

13:15 Final reminder: Magic happens when you’re uncomfortable

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