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Speaker 1 (00:01):
We're gonna be
getting a little bit mystical in
this episode.
This is gonna be one in thebooks to help you get grounded,
centered and focused on nowuntil the end of the year.
It's gonna be a prettyincredible next three months
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until we hit the end of 2024.
Stick around, it's going to bea good one.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
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the Confident, Connected Leader
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your current professionalbarriers.
Your coach and host, Lisa Jeffs, will help you transcend
limitations and achieve newlevels of professional success
beyond self-doubt, sabotage andburnout.
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Welcome to the show
leaders.
I am excited to have you here.
I wanted to make a episode tohelp you to get focused,
grounded and centered.
This is the time of year thatmany people either kind of pull
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back because they are so burntout tired they're just exhausted
.
Burnt out tired, they're justexhausted.
Potentially, maybe you've setgoals at the beginning of the
year and they're taking theirtime.
I know a lot of us like to haveour goals manifest pretty quick
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.
Sometimes it takes a while andpatients can be wearing thin at
this time of year.
Or you may have had a reallyrelaxing summer taking care of
yourself and now you are readyto rock and roll.
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This is the time of year wherethere's a lot of opportunities.
There's a lot of momentum.
It's a really great time,especially if you felt like you
haven't made the progress youwanted in the last part of the
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year or the early part of theyear, even though we're almost
done to put the pedal to themetal and really make some huge,
huge wins Now.
I'm going to preface by sayingit's okay that things may be
taking time for you.
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It's not all about climbing amountain, achieving all this,
doing all this stuff.
It's far more important for youto feel good about your own
progress or lack thereof and, bythe way, we're always moving
forward, even when we feel stuck.
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Things are still happening.
But it's really important thatyou feel good and if you're a
high achiever like me, it'sreally easy to keep moving
forward, looking forwardachieving, looking at our next
goal and forgetting where weeven started and how much we've
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already done.
So, before we get into theactual mystical part of this
podcast, I want you just to takesome time and congratulate
yourself for getting to whereyou are, which is right here,
because yourself for getting towhere you are, which is right
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here, because my guess is you'veactually achieved quite a bit
already and you're probably notgiving yourself credit for all
of it.
I've created a lot this year.
I've actually created a ton,and I actually had to sit down
and write it out to remember allof it, because it's easy to
forget, and we really want to.
If we want to make flow be inmomentum from now until the end
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of the year, we want to makesure that we are celebrating
where we've been and where weare now, because what the heck
is even the point if we're notenjoying and celebrating the
journey.
We're just gonna be on aperpetual hamster wheel.
No, that's ridiculous and notwhy we came here.
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I will also.
I am launching a new program.
It's gonna be in a beta version.
It's gonna be a new program.
It's gonna be in a beta version.
It's gonna be a group program.
If you're interested, pleasereach out.
This program is all aboutprogress and focus and feeling
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really, really good about whatyou're doing, knowing exactly
what to do, how to show up, whatto focus on for that growth and
the accountability to make ithappen.
So you don't lose focus, youdon't flounder or you don't
spend a lot of time and efforton the things that are not
moving the needle.
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And we're going to be workingtogether, which is huge.
This is huge for creatingmomentum until past New Year's,
because I want to make sure thatyou are in a container that is
setting you up not only for theend of the year, but also for
the beginning of next year.
Okay, I'm pretty.
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You know what.
I'm not going to say anythingbecause it's not finalized.
I don't wanna give any detailsnot finalized yet, but please
send me a message if you'reinterested to get on the wait
list.
Info at lisajefscom.
Okay, let's get into the core ofthis episode.
So we've just had the eclipseand I don't know about you, but
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I have been feeling.
I mean, I'm already sensitiveto energy and you good chance,
you are too.
There is such a powerfulsupportive energy this entire
year has been.
If you are looking to create,to manifest, this is the time to
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do it.
I want you to pay attention towhat is appearing in your life
right now and take a minute,right, you can do this after
this episode.
But I want you to think aboutwhen was the time that you asked
for certain things that are nowshowing up in your life?
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I can't tell you how manythings are popping into my life.
Just I can't.
Even I would try to give you alist and I can't even remember
all of them, because there's somany but things that have come
into my life that I've just offthe cuff, said you know what?
This would be really cool if Ihad this or this happened or I
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did this, and it literally isappearing Now also.
On the flip side, I am alsofinding anything that I am too
attached to, or it's almost.
Like you know, I remember yearsago manifesting like we're
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always manifesting, butconsciously manifesting,
consciously putting efforttowards manifesting, and the key
word here is effort.
So I would be putting effortand things were actually doing
pretty well.
That same effort now is not.
The energy has changed.
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It's not about effort anymore,it's about asking and allowing,
and it never was about effort.
Effort's not the right word,but there was more of an
intentional focus years ago thatneeded to take place, to really
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call in certain desires, andnow I'm finding that it's
completely the opposite, thatit's really simply about stating
your intention and being in aplace of receiving, being open
to receiving that, and one ofthe ways to do it is simply to
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state and forget about it.
Just simply forget about it.
Trust, right, this is you know.
We all hear the same exampleabout going to a restaurant that
when we order something, wejust trust that it's going to be
coming out.
We're not going in to thekitchen and asking the cook how
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long it's going to take.
Why is it taking so long?
If it's taking so long, justforget about it.
Give me something else.
Could you imagine that?
That would be absolutelyridiculous, but we do that all
the time when we are asking forsomething in our life.
State what you want, set theintention, let it go, Start
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playing with the energy.
This is more so about havingfun with the energy again having
fun.
While this has been a reallygreat year for many people,
specifically for me, it's beenwonderful around connection.
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I've made so many connectionsthis year.
I'm finding that people arejust so much more open and
genuine and vulnerable and kind.
And if you're not finding that,if you're finding the opposite,
well then you have to askyourself what are you putting
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out into the world that's beingreflected back?
And if it's no longer servingyou, if you don't like it, if
you're like, ah, I'm really kind, I'm not meeting kind people at
all, then what are you focusingon?
What are you paying attentionto?
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What are you absorbed in?
I've been very intentional thisyear about making connections,
and when I say intentional, Idon't mean that I'm going crazy,
you know, messaging people andall this crazy stuff like
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connections and sending peoplefriend requests and all that
stuff.
No, I'm not.
I'm not saying that I've beenintentional about the energy I'm
putting into people, the energyI'm putting into people that I
value, that I want in my life orthat I want to have a
connection with, and thisdoesn't have to be a deep
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romantic connection.
This can simply be doesn't evennecessarily need to be a quote
unquote friend, but when I'minteracting with people it
matters.
There's meaning behind it andI'm finding a lot of people are
in this space and it's makinglife very enjoyable.
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So I have, you know, somewhatbeen in a I'm not gonna say
bubble because it's not a bubblein a I'm not going to say
bubble because it's not a bubble, but I've certainly cut off a
lot of things that aren'tserving me and they're not
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serving my purpose.
So if you're listening to this,chances are you know that you
have a deeper purpose.
Even if you don't know whatthat deeper purpose is, there's
a feeling within you thatresonates with I am here to make
something happen, to dosomething, to make some kind of
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impact.
And when we're engaged with allthe insanity that is going on I
mean, I don't even know what'sgoing on with the election, but
I can only imagine the amount ofcontent and posts that are
coming out in regards to it andthe energy and the frequency in
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all of that information.
Right, it can be very heavy andI'm not saying put your head in
the sand, but you have to knowyourself and do not engage in
certain rabbit holes that youknow you're gonna come out the
other side feeling like youcan't perform at your best, you
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don't want to show up as yourbest, you're tired, it's making
you tired, it's contributing toyou feeling low energy.
You really have to be consciousand disciplined around this or
you can really fall into somerabbit holes.
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This is a really wonderful timeto start asking for more support
from your spirit team, whetheryou're connected with that or
not, or you're like what are youeven talking about?
Spirit team?
What the heck is that?
Asking for help?
Whether you believe in God,whether you believe in the
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universe source, all of theabove, none of the above?
Maybe you just believe inenergy?
I don't know if you'd still belistening or you'd still be here
if you didn't believe in any ofthat, because I talk about that
quite often on my podcast, soI'm assuming that you have some
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kind of connection to a higherpower.
Ask for help, ask for signs,ask for things that you want.
Such a wonderful energy can comein when you start connecting,
and I'm finding it specifically.
Very much has shifted in thelast few weeks, and that may be
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just because of the eclipse.
I'll see how it starts tounfold as we go into the end of
the year.
I also want you to release anyaddiction, to struggle.
We have to start releasing whatno longer serves us, and
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there's a lot of people stilladdicted to worrying, addicted
to being critical of self, ofnot owning our greatness or the
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power of who we are Part of.
This can be.
There's still healing thatneeds to be done.
But if you've been in the worldof personal development and
growth and spirituality andhealing for a while, I want you
to look at am I actuallyaddicted to this?
Are there parts of this that Iam addicted to?
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Whether that's my brain,whether that's my body?
Why do I seem to keep fallinginto the same pattern or habit?
Is it an addiction?
Because we can heal at thatdeeper soul level, but our brain
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and our body can still beaddicted to a pattern.
Often they are slower to shiftand change and they can take
more time.
Time, patience, repetition workNot always.
You can have quite a spontaneousletting go and healing and
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completely shift out of certainpatterns and behaviors.
I've done it multiple times,but sometimes if there's a
particular one that actually isserving us in some way, and a
lot of times it may be servingus because it's keeping us safe.
It's keeping us at a certainlevel, even though we may be
growing.
It's not that, you know, wehave to be in a place where
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we're not growing, but it'sstill keeping us at a certain
level that we feel comfortablein and it's time to let it go.
It's time to step into yourgreatness.
This is the time, likeliterally I'm not just saying
this is the time, I mean it asthe world is shifting and
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awakening.
If you know you have a purposeto impact the world, now is
literally the time to do it, andthat's okay.
Again, if you're listening tothis and you're like, oh, I
don't know, I'm not at thatplace yet, it's okay.
It's not a race, nothing'sgoing to happen.
You can take your time, but as acollective, it's a wonderful
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time to really start to askyourself if I was showing up as
the fullness of me, the fullpower of who I am and what I'm
here to do, what would that looklike?
What would I be doingdifferently?
How would I be talking?
How would I be showing up?
What would I be selling?
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Or what would I be going for?
What would I be talking?
How would I be showing up?
What would I be selling?
Or what would I be going for?
What would I be doing?
It's not gonna be the same aswhat you're doing right now, so
what would be different?
And I'm gonna finish this offwith a little message that you
already should know, but it'simportant.
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It's an important reminder thatyou are supported.
You are not alone in this.
No matter where you are,doesn't matter who you are,
where you are, what you've done,what you haven't done, you are
fully supported by your spiritteam, by whatever you believe in
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.
It's a higher power.
If you have a purpose andyou're here to impact the world,
know that your purpose is alsosupported and it's safe to move
forward in it.
And a lot of times, the nextstep simply involves you letting
go and opening to receive,knowing that you are worthy and
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deserving of a fantastic life.
And you didn't just come hereto help and serve and to impact
the world.
You also came here for anabsolutely mind-blowing,
exciting, creative, orgasmiclife and that you're deserving
of that.
Sometimes us purpose-drivenentrepreneurs, caretakers,
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leaders we forget that we'realso here to enjoy life.
We forget that we're also hereto enjoy life and sometimes we
have to pay more attention tothat and actually put in more
focus, effort, money towardsdoing that, to make sure that we
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are really enjoying everythingto the utmost fullest, because
we're not here to serve and togive until we're 95.
And then maybe, if we have acouple of extra years, enjoy
them for ourselves.
And I say this because I'veseen a lot of entrepreneurs I
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shouldn't even just sayentrepreneurs, people in any
kind of speaking capacity and amessage.
Often and I will say not togender this, but I often hear
this message coming from men andI can understand it because I
do think, again, not to genderanything, but from my experience
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it is very applicable to manyof the men that I've worked with
this real desire to serve andto serve.
But some serve the world and toreally there's a purpose around
serving who really there's apurpose around serving.
But what I've seen happen isfor people leaders, women, but
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not only women more so, the oneswho tend to overgive and give
so much that they're serving allthe time they don't necessarily
benefit from that message ofwe're here to serve and we're
here to serve the world becausewhat it tends to do is.
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It tends to make them go onoverdrive and neglect themselves
even more.
And you don't.
If you resonate with that, youdon't need the message that
you're here to serve.
You're already serving.
That message is very applicableto people that may feel a
little bit lost or they may feelthey need some of that
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direction.
You already serve all the time.
It's time to be putting somefocus back on you what you enjoy
, what makes you feel alive,what you enjoy, what makes you
feel alive, what makes you feelexcited, and really focusing
that all on you Doesn't have tobe every day, every second of
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the day on you, but there needsto be some time put on you.
Okay, that's important andthat's what you're here for.
All that you're interested.
I don't know if I'm going to becutting the amount of people in
the beta program because it isnot completely finalized, but
you, getting your name on thewait list, will make sure that
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you get priority access Again.
It's going to be at a specialbeta price before it goes full
price and this is the programyou want to be in if you are
ready to 10X your results,because, let me tell you, we are
focusing on your vision goingbig, helping you focus on the
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specific needle movers that aregonna move you forward and, week
by week, supporting you to getthere so you don't get lost in
the weeds, so you don't get lostin your own head, start
doubting yourself, startovercomplicating things, making
things so much harder than theyneed to be which, if you're one
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of my private clients he he, heyou know we talk about this all
the time simplifying, not makingit hard, because we can be our
own worst enemy.
So, if you are ready to explodeyour vision and finally make
everything fall into place ifyou had a vision board, it's
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time for those things to come tolife.
If you are ready for this, thisis the program that's gonna
help you do that.
So I'd love to hear from you.
Other than that, I love you.
Thank you so much for beinghere with me.
I appreciate you and let's stayconnected.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
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