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Crown table unleash what is up listen yes.
This is part two of the season finale
for season four i'm excited
y'all i'm excited about today listen what i was gonna do last time i am going
to do today i finally figured it out i'm all together today y'all so it ain't
gonna be discombobulated ain't nothing getting cut off and switched up i didn't
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even know on the last podcast the one i did yesterday y'all i didn't even know
it was gonna mess up like that y'all but listen i'm on
it today my peas are my ducks and my ducks are
in a row my eyes are dotted and my t's are across y'all
let's get ready for today god thank.
Music.
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You for my family and for all my blessings i don't
deserve them but you keep on pouring out from heaven you're
patient with me when i stumble and i'm learning lessons that's
the thing that keeps me humble on the right direction you're the strain that
keeps my hopes up keep my head up keep my eyes up i never have to question your
love i'll hold on to the promise until it comes sooner or later i guess i'm
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waiting for some better days,
some better days i know i'm gonna see some better days,
Some better days Got called about my pride,
I think I missed the message I swear I tried my best but it's so hard not living
reckless I pray for grace to be extensive cause I'm such a menace I guess I'm
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waiting for some better days instead of trenches I'm trying to keep my hopes up,
keep my head up, keep my eyes up Some things are easier said than done Every
dark night gonna see the sun.
I guess I'm waiting for some better days, I know I'm gonna see some better days,
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some better days.
I guess I'm waiting for some better days, some better days.
I know I'm gonna see some better days, some better days. I know you said to
run away, I trust in every word you say.
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Good morning, good afternoon, and good evening.
Meeting you where you are, no matter what time of the day it is.
Welcome to the Crown Table Unleashed.
Are you ready to be motivated, inspired, and encouraged? It's time for you to
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get in step with the Spirit.
Here is your host, Jeffy Clark III.
Music.
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Are we ready for some better days y'all some better days listen
i ain't done yet i ain't done yet i'm here
for it i'm here for it today we're moving on to the next one y'all i want y'all
to hear y'all take this in man y'all take this in you got some praise you got
some glory on today hallelujah you woke up this morning you woke up this morning
you're still alive this afternoon and your day was good this evening and even
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if it wasn't even if it wasn't god still loves you.
Music.
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Wait on him put all your worries and your cares
on him how many of y'all are going to wait on the
lord i'm trying to figure out how many of y'all are
gonna wait on the lord y'all need to be waiting hey listen.
Music.
We finna get on to what i got for y'all and um
we're gonna go ahead and get this thing going for us
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here on today yeah this is.
Something to you i love this song too y'all it's good too
y'all it's maverick city um listen y'all.
I want to get into it listen i found my stuff and i.
Am ready i am ready i just got
to find me one to get into it and um
we're gonna get into it and that's gonna be that i don't i don't care
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about none of it here we go so let's get into what
we got for y'all let's get
into it oh here we go here we go here
we go here we go here we go here we go here we
go look at that cutting on me like that right so
we're gonna deal with this video that is first and we
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finna do it y'all so let's get with it we want
love we want connection we want family we want these
things the vision we have it just well you want what you
think is love yeah people don't necessarily want
love they want what they think is love that's why when they
get love they tend to walk away from it because they don't have the capacity
for the well that love brings in
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so you want what you think is love that's why they say what you
said wasn't loving well who standard because God's
love reviews God loves corrects come on God love doesn't
feel good at first because it changes you remain the
same so you want lust you want what
you think is love but most people don't want love what so what
is love when it comes from another person it's all of those things the goal
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is to become the better version of who you are you should never want to be with
somebody that's content with who you are today right like we're always achieving
to be a better version of ourselves most of the time you can't even define that
with your own eyes because it's like you looking at a wall with no mirror.
No mirror you can't see
yourself it's normally the person that comes in that can see you and
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say hey you know this is wrong with you and you're like no i didn't notice that i thought
i was fine they're like no you gotta change that up that's love
to say i demand a
better you but if somebody is not prepared for that
demand then they start thinking it's criticism or i'm
offended that you said that or i don't like that you did that well
no you just wanted a puppet but you didn't want somebody that
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brought in real love you want this man don't you want your man we want love
we want so love y'all so so so listen man let me tell you something it's crazy
that we live in a world where people don't want growth where people don't want
to necessarily i say succeed.
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Into the better them like it honestly blows my mind that this is even a conversation that
could possibly be going on between or in somebody's relationship where the person
doesn't want to grow, doesn't want to be better, doesn't want to achieve.
And for a person that's dealing with that, to navigate that,
right, to push that and to want that.
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And let me tell you this now from my opinion and my perspective.
For that to live on the inside of a man is scary.
Scary it's scary for him personally and it's scary for the woman that may be in his life okay,
because at some point in the relationship at some
point throughout the excursion you we all
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should be pushing each other to greatness pushing
each other to the best right pushing each
other in our purpose that God has put
on the inside of us because look man we
were we're not created to do it by ourselves right that's why
God gave us a helpmate right the Bible
also talks about in Proverbs having good counsel okay
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so your wife is there to support
your vision your goals and your
dreams now let me go ahead and say this because I'm about to jump in
on me the same is the same as the whale for the
male right but the male the
man should have the vision the man should
have purpose right at the end of the day outside
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of anything right so that the woman has something to come
into and pour into and push right because at the end of the day she's gonna
push right and nothing like a woman pushing a man to victory it can become daunting
it can become stressful and it can become quite pointless if he doesn't already
have that and it's sad for for someone to,
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to be that way and, and, and not want anything, you know, out of life.
My first book, Beautifully Broken, that I wrote, there wasn't one person in
my daddy's church that bought that book.
There wasn't one person on social media in my family that shared that book. You know what God did?
He sent thousands and thousands of complete strangers to support my ministry until they could see it.
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And one thing that I've discovered is the black sheep of the family always,
if they keep getting back up again, turns out to be the goat. Boom.
Drop mic again. Black sheep of the family always turned out to be.
They're going to be working for you. The goat.
Got to really take inventory of the people. Wow. Stop taking constructive criticism
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from people that have never constructed anything that you've walked through.
You ask them to tie your shoes and they ain't never been in them.
They don't know. So you got to take inventory. And then you got to keep getting
back up again without the applause. Get up. Talk to yourself.
Stop being a victim in your own story. Stop it. It ain't paying you no bills.
It ain't getting you no money.
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Them emotions take the E off of emotions and put that motion into action.
Oh, get up. They didn't put that motion into action.
Take the E off emotion and put that motion into action.
Isn't it crazy that you can be part of a community that does not support you?
That's mind-blowing to me. That's boggling to me.
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But when I think about Jesus going into his hometown y'all he couldn't do not
one miracle could do no signs could do no wonders because what did they lack
the belief your community in your situation your community in your situation
your people might not even believe in you,
God might have to send you out.
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Seeing you away so that you can gain that validation gain those new experiences,
with a whole set of new people and then the other people who you who you thought
was supposed to be for you will come trying to tag along in the end hey remember
me remember me remember me no i don't.
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Listen y'all it's crazy that you have
to go and get validated by other people before
you can become substantial within your
own community and that's
not everybody it's not everybody trust
me it's not everybody because some people got a support system that's
outside of this world that will have you envious if you
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see how much support they have okay but what
i am saying is a lot of us are just
like this and we find ourselves in that
kind of a situation let me tell you something people can change people can
change and become better and greater the black sheep of the family right the
outball out usually the troublemaker right the reason they're the black sheep
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is because they're usually the troublemaker right they usually don't follow
the customs of what the family believe as far as like you know following directions
and being obedient okay OK,
usually the outlaws and the rule breakers.
OK, everybody can change and you shouldn't go through life thinking that people
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can't change. So let me tell you something.
Why are you cursing people? Why are you putting people down in the dirt?
That's also God's people.
God loves them just as much as he loves you.
And as a matter of fact, he loved them so much that he went and died on the cross for them, too.
But yet you condemning them you putting them down and you judging them and you
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ain't got a heaven or hell to put them in wake up wake up and embody who Jesus
has called you to be truthfully in the realm of the spirit.
To be true, to be true, y'all, at all times.
Let's check out another one. God did not call you to preach.
No, no, we're going to talk about it. He actually called you to finish school and go get a job.
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Instead of taking accountability and finishing what you started,
you told everybody that you were a prophet of the nations.
Now you're in somebody's pulpit mispronouncing Philippians. Now telling 10 people
to stand up to sow a seed of $10,000 for the third offering.
Y'all know y'all finna be mad at me. I mean, you ain't picked up a Bible in
six months, but you reading a devotional from Barnes and Nobles and regurgitating
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what you read and preaching it every Sunday with no application or understanding.
Somebody preached that already and got the nerve to claim you are blowing the
Ruha wind of the spirit on people. That ain't the Holy Ghost.
That's gingivitis. No, I'm calling it out. You over here selling prayer cloths
that you got from Timu talking about they were dipped in the River Jordan last week.
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You ain't studied nothing. Nothing. God did not call you to preach.
He actually called you to take care of your kids and be man enough to have a
decent conversation with your wife.
You can speak to nations, but you can't tell your wife to stop bullying you
in front of people at Walmart.
I just want my people to do better. That's all. Be delivered and get out that pulpit.
Hey, y'all, that is crazy and off the chain, man. Listen, I remember this story
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coming on the last part he talked about when he said, I called you to be to
your kids and, you know, all this stuff. Right.
So listen, I remember this video I had seen of the end times.
Right. God was given judgment, given punishment.
And the girl went before God.
And well, before that, God was telling people that he had gave them assignments.
They wasn't doing it in the earth because they didn't do it in the earth.
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This was a result of it. Right. That's what he was doing.
So like for one, it was a pastor. Right. He told the pastor he was supposed
to go and plant churches.
The pastor never did it. And the result of it.
Is a lot of people didn't come to Christ, right? A whole nation was lost, okay?
Then he had another one. He was in finance and he was an accountant.
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Right. And he had believed God for all this his whole life.
But God told him that he was also wrong because God had called him to the to the pulpit.
And because he didn't go and accept the calling that God was putting on his
life, lost the whole generation.
Generation okay so here's this woman she comes
to the altar and she tells God that
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she has done nothing with her life but raise
her kids this is what he was saying God has called you to
be a parent and raise your children and whatever okay
she said I have done nothing with my life but
raise my three boys that's all
she had to account for that's all her life must
up to be was that she raised her three boys
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no other assignments no other purpose
but she raised her three
boys and you know what God said to
her God said that was your assignment because you did that because you you did
but I've placed in front of you as your assignment as your purpose that's why
nothing else ever came because this was your assignment this was your purpose
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because she She raised them three boys.
Them three boys brought 10 million people to the body of Christ.
She felt like she had had nothing. She felt like she had gave everything that
she had to this to stand before God in embarrassment and in shame and humility
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and say, God, I've done nothing.
But the whole time God has already had this plan,
Because he knew the anointing that was coming down Through her to her children
And because she raised them up In the way that they should go And when they
get older they should not depart from it.
These three boys became three great men and three great men brought 10 million
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souls to Christ, 10 million to the kingdom.
See, God be thinking greater a lot of times, guys, in our life.
And we think it's just nothing.
But God is so far ahead, right, in the thought process, so far ahead in the
decision making that we be lost.
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We, the people, guys, be lost and upset.
And we shouldn't be because God has our best interest at heart.
God has our best interest at heart all the time.
If you keep his stomach full, his balls empty and his mind clear, you'll be fine.
You like feeling this one, didn't you? That's solid. You were interested in
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this man because some part of you admired his lifestyle.
Money, status, education, wisdom, whatever the case may be. Do not add problems to his lifestyle.
Level two, there are inherently some problems that he has, either maintaining
his lifestyle or scaling it, right?
If you can identify those problems better than other women,
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make yourself a solution to those problems, you become indispensable to his
lifestyle maybe he didn't even like you but now he needs you but third and this
is where i think most women screw up do not do not disrespect that man.
Now there is overt disrespect that was
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easy like don't call him out of his name don't yell
at him don't don't assault him different things like that
i think where most of our women in particular
where they mess up as far as disrespect it's the belittling
how do you talk to
that man he put it very simply wow he said if
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you would not say this in this way to your supervisor if you're interested in
keeping your job do not say this in this way to your man wow isn't that crazy
yo so it's crazy Because these podcasts,
man, these other podcasts that are in the mainstream, man, they are so, how can I say, man?
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They are like so mainstream, right? It's everything in the world.
And that's why it's such an open space for Christian podcasts,
man, just to come in to bring some of this stuff into regulation,
right, for the Christian community.
And it's sad because women don't have...
Men don't have a podcast where they're talking about this is what men should
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be and this is how men should be but men have a podcast telling a woman this
is how she should be um this is how she should operate right uh which is crazy
uh in my eyes okay to a certain point in a certain extent and the certain point
in a certain extent is this guys is that.
I'm gonna say this
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i'm trying to say this i'm trying to say this i'm trying to say this i ain't got my wife
in my life to solve no problem for me first and
foremost second of all our foundation
is built on true meaningful love
in spite of everything that's not
gonna fade away right because love covers a multitude
of sins right so that's mistakes and
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stuff of that stuff of that nature right people like to build
a stuff on purpose goals and
be driven oh we got to have the same vision we got i mean
we got i got to have a vision you got to have a vision i got to have a goal you
got to have a goal and we both need to be trying to be had to attain those
goals and to be together and in order to be together and be solidified and get
married great what you're going to do when the body break down and you can no
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longer pursue those goals you can no longer pursue that purpose what are you
going to do if he hurts himself going after that goal going after
that purpose can no longer work what are you going to do if she's chasing after that gold,
chasing after that purpose she get hurt if she loses all of that investment that she has.
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What are you going to do when that plan no
longer no longer works and it fails what are
you going to do can you love him or her in spite of the purpose being counseled
the purpose stopping if i don't achieve not one of my goals on my list.
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Am I no longer valuable to you? When Adam was in the garden,
he didn't need nothing else.
He had everything he could have possibly imagined inside of that garden.
Everything he could have possibly imagined was inside of this garden.
And yet still God being God, God being omniscience in a situation,
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God being as knowledgeable as he is, as smart as he is,
as articulate as he is.
God being amazing and God being God.
God being the God of straight power.
The God with so much wisdom that's inside of him.
The God that spews and spews and spews oil and freshness and his ruach throughout the garden.
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This God. God said, Adam and says, it is not good for man to be alone.
Let me make him someone suitable.
Hallelujah,
Father. Thank you, God. Holy Spirit, have your way. No other reason was given
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in the book other than let me make someone suitable for him.
Because it's not good for a man to be alone.
He needed a companion. Your wife, your husband, if you're dating and courting,
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your boyfriend, your girlfriend. friend.
Number one purpose in their life, when you find them, is to be a companion.
What is happening in the garden doing companionship? Adam has a responsibility in the garden.
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He was given work and a job. A woman was not.
Now, I know we live in the 21st century. You can say what you want, however you want.
My goal is to put my wife out of work for real, for real.
It's what I'm striving to do.
I have vision. I have purpose and I have goals. and I'm going after every last one of them.
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Adam had a job. Adam had a purpose.
Eve was established from his rib as a helpmate to Adam's purpose.
As a helpmate for Adam to get things done.
And when you have a companion, you're with somebody because you loved him.
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You're with somebody because you want to spend time with them We ain't spending
time together If I'm chasing my purpose,
We ain't spending time together If you're chasing your goals So what does that
mean when we become companions?
That means we have to have one vision Hey, that's a lot of bullshit,
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I tell you, God One vision One goal and one purpose,
and I'm just saying one goal for the purpose of this because how many goals
you need 35 goals if you need them but they all have to be one and we have to
agree on the direction of where we're going,
so and what agreement looks like is,
I got a plan for a business.
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I got a truck and I love driving trucks it's a real story it's some truth on
the crown table unleashed,
I drive a truck and I've been doing this thing for a long time,
and I'm tired I'm just being totally upfront
with you guys I am tired but I'm doing
it I know what it can bring to me financially but I'm still having issues inside
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of what I'm doing truck breaking down you know stuff like that right then I
got to get the truck fixed and it has to come before our bills you know because
if I can't go to work we'll be you know so it has to come first,
my wife has a dream on the inside of her remember i said i got a dream you got a dream,
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right i'm working my dream my wife doesn't my wife doesn't come and says uh
you know can she can she be the mechanic and work on my truck right because
that's the help that i needed at the time you know that's not you know that's
not happening but she has a dream,
and her dream is to have her own business and my wife says she wants a clean in the business,
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and I say, you know what? I'm going to give my wife that.
But babe, we're going to save some money first. Let me get back in this truck. And I did that twice.
Y'all know what I did the third time I broke down? And I had the money to go
get that truck fixed. Y'all know what I did?
I shifted my purpose to align with that of my wife's purpose.
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Right? So now I'm the pusher on this freight train.
Okay? I'm the pusher on this freight train now.
Why this train is going up this hill And I'm going to put what I got Into my
wife Because it's her turn See that take maturity And that take being a real man,
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And understanding that You know just because you shifted You shifted purpose
or vision Into your wife It doesn't change your position,
You still are who you are The head
of the household The man in the relationship the king the
lord whatever your wife called you abraham
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called not abraham sarah called abraham my lord anyway we ain't gonna get into
that ladies but anyways so my vision has my my purpose has shifted my vision
have shifted and now i'm dedicated into what my wife wants to do so So that's what I go and do.
I'm okay with putting my purpose in my dream. I sit it down.
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I can do that. Because we've been working my purpose in my dream.
Now it's time to work her purpose in her dream.
That's what that looks like. That's what that looks like. And when she gets
going, trucking going to always be that. I can always go pick that back up whenever
I feel like it. It's nothing.
Honest to God, it's nothing. As long as I got the truck, I'm fine.
I ain't got to go back to no finances. I ain't got to go get no more loans.
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It's paid for. I can do whatever I want with it.
Then we get two contracts right off the bat with my wife fast.
God was moving so fast in that situation.
I said, look at this, look at
this. Me get behind the queen and being that spooky bodyguard like trial.
See, I got to understand what position of authority look like.
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Position of authority, it can be in the front leading and it can also be in the back leading.
So what does that look like? That looks like she goes out, does what she do.
Somebody don't see you and boom you down you jump on them like a lion okay position of authority.
When the Israelites were getting ready to cross the
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red sea God repositioned himself behind
them in between Pharaoh and
them to hold Pharaoh down hold Pharaoh back
see y'all got to know what position looks like
there's strength in the head
and there is strength at the rear guard okay
in all of those places there is
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strength there is strength in
all of those places okay you don't know
i was gonna be a recording artist so you know what i used
to fuck mad niggas when i was little that's why dick don't really oh
lord lord have mercy faith in jesus is
a scar help a lord help a lord help a
lord oh that she do god all right
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y'all let's get back into some uh some of these other videos and then
i'm gonna let y'all get up out of here after this
one find us a good one guys so we can we can go and get up out of here falling
in love and remaining in love are not the same thing and the problem is culture
sold us a product that says fall in love, get married, have children,
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and live happily ever after. And for the rest of.
Married, have children, and happily ever after. And for the rest of us,
the reality is after you fall in love and after you get married and the honeymoon
is over and everyone has gone home,
now we look at ourselves in the mirror, we don't know how to stay in love.
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Because for the most part, falling in love is voluntary, but remaining in love is a decision.
And usually in covenants or marriages, the first thing to leave is connection.
And connection leaves because of busyness, because of growing families,
because of taste buds changing emotionally, intellectually, or spiritually,
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and because of selfishness.
And when connection leaves, commitment follows right after it.
But what if someone taught us, what if our peers and our elders taught us that
in order to remain in love, you have to first make a decision.
You have to choose love. You have to choose your partner every single day.
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You have to choose effort. You have to choose kindness.
You have to choose empathy. You have to choose to remain there and continue
to work and continue to be connected with your partner because when connection
leaves, commitment follows.
All right. So I agree with everything that's going on right there in that video,
except for one thing, choosing your partner every day
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if you have to wake up and fight and choose your partner every
day you have an issue you have a problem in your
mind psychologically i don't get up and choose my
wife every day i chose my wife one time that's what it is and
that's what i love if i have to wake up every day but on my mind like hey do
i need to do i need to pick her today i need to pick somebody else choosing
to love every single day if that's a choice if that if that's a fight fight
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on your table let me tell you something the devil is sure to win if you have to make a decision.
Every day to love your significant
other the devil is sure to
win that's an open door every single day
that he can walk through no no no no no no no no you got to be more mature than
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that You got to know that the person that you pick Man or woman If man you pick
a woman Woman you pick a man You got to know for a fact For a show I love this woman,
With everything in me And there ain't nothing That is walking on this earth More beautiful,
More sexier More loving Than the one that I've chose To be my partner,
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Unto death The one that I chose to have children with, the one that I chose,
and made a mother, the one that I chose,
and told that she was my queen, the one that I chose, and that I told,
I love you with everything in me.
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Nothing greater than standing behind a woman and knowing that you are her protector,
her provider, and in a way, also her father.
There is nothing more greater than a woman knowing that she got a man at home that loves her.
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She has a man at home that is her father. that she has a man at home that gets stuff done.
There is nothing greater than
a man who loves a woman with everything in his being down to his bones.
There is nothing greater than a woman that feels safe in the arms of a man that
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she loves who she says as she wants to do life with till she leave this earth.
Nothing greater than a woman who loves a man so much that he is king of her
castle, king of her life.
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There is so much honor when a woman can come and say, baby, I need your help.
And there's so much pride so much strength in a man to know that he's a problem
solver he's a master fixer that he gets the job done it's a scripture in the
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Bible that says if a woman has a question in the church let her ask her husband.
When we use that verse we use it so negatively negatively that's not even a
word y'all we use it so negative and we say that to say that women should be
quiet but let me tell you something,
when a woman loves you so much men listen when a woman loves you so much that
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she believes in who you are,
in your vision, in your purpose.
In the goals that you've laid out.
When she believes in you so much that she follows your word spiritually.
When she gets down and says in her submission, I want to make you the head of my soul.
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When the woman says, lead me
spiritually when she comes with questions regarding
God and she leans into what you
are into who you are as a man as
a man that is submitted before Christ as
a man that bends the knee to a higher power that is
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God El Shaddai El Roy Elohim Jehovah
Jireh that God of
Abraham Isaac and Jacob that
God of Moses that God
of David the father
to Jesus Christ when a man submits
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to that and a woman comes to you as
the guardian of her soul it is
the ultimate respect and the
ultimate love and the ultimate trust
because now she trusts you
with not just guidance in the natural realm not just
guidance physically but she trusts
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you with the guidance of her eternal eternal salvation
she trusts you to lead her and to show her the way this This woman has put time and thought into you.
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Time and effort into you, time and knowledge and understanding into you.
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Hallelujah, God. Hallelujah, God.
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