44. Why 'Fake It Til You Make It' Fails (And What Actually Works Instead)

Ever been told to 'fake it til you make it'? This approach might be sabotaging your success. In this episode, I break down why pretending to be someone you're not creates unsustainable results and what to do instead. Learn the difference between surface-level actions and deep energetic shifts, plus discover how to authentically become your future self before you have the results to show for it. Perfect for entrepreneurs, anyone in dating, or people ready to stop performing and start transforming. Includes real examples from business and relationships, plus details about my upcoming Abundant Self Mixer event.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• The fatal flaw of fake it til you make it: Surface actions without inner transformation create unsustainable results
• Energy vs. action: Your point of attraction comes from what you're thinking and feeling, not just what you're doing
• The frequency principle: Better outcomes require you to raise your energetic frequency first, then take action from that elevated place
• Becoming your future self: How to authentically embody who you want to be before having external proof
• The visualization advantage: Why bringing your future into the present through inner work accelerates results
• Real-world applications: Practical examples for business confidence, relationship attraction, and personal transformation

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• Join the Abundant Self Mixer, July 24, 2025: https://andreaandree.kit.com/products/abundant-self-mixer
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