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No backs to the Erica Show.On G one five, It's Erica and
Trevor. We have a listener dilemmaright now with Aaron family drama. What's
up Aaron? Hey, guys,So I feel kind of awkward about this
whole situation. Uh, and Ikind of need your help. So you're
in a safe space. Good god, I hope. So. So,
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my sister brought a new guy hometo meet our family over kind of over
like the fourth of July weekend,and it was a really big reunion,
like pretty much the whole family wasthere. So it was great. But
then the minute that this guy camein, I recognized him. I've kind
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of met up with him a fewtimes from Grinder. Oh, Trevor's familiar
with that site. What do y'alldo on Grinder? Like you just grind
it out? I mean, likewhat, it's a dating app, Hit
it and get it right. Yeah. Yeah, sometimes we date, sometimes
we do other stuff. We're missingthe point here, though, We're missing
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the point. Okay, going backto what happened, your sister's with this
guy one percent. So she isso excited. She's introducing us and me
and him just like pretended we didnot know each other, and so I
don't know what to do because mysister is super excited and happy. She's
already introduced him to the whole family. And what am I supposed to do?
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Girl? But I would tell herimmediately because this is gonna end up
bad anyway. It could make thingsvery interesting if you don't tell your sister.
Just let it happen. No,that's not wrong for you and him.
I don't know, Okay, butwait, is he not out?
Oh? Obviously he's not out,and maybe he's so what at least when
I met him, he said thathe was, you know, d oh,
he was not really out of thecloset. So that's kind of what
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the vibe was at the time.This cannot work. There's no way that
he's gonna sit through family dinners withyou ever, being like I saw your
paywinkle, Like there's That's what I'msaying, though. Just let it happen
because it's gonna be entertaining for you. Oh God, and thank you for
bringing that up, because he doeshave my nudes. So what how close
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are you with your sister? Yoursister should come first, Erica. I
meant like, you should be closeenough to tell her the truth. You
should put her first. What youmeant, That's exactly what I meant,
y'all dirty minded me one nine eightsix oh one oh five to one.
What should Aaron do? Should hetell his sister June? If I is
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the Erica Show, Aaron has afamily dilemma. His sister just brought home
this guy that he recognized because hehooked up with him off of grinder and
nobody said anything. Yeah, Soshould Aaron tell his sister that, like,
hey, I've already been there,done that nine one nine eight six
one o five one Christina, heneeds to tell her. I mean,
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that's that's bad. He just goahead and tell her because that's not gonna
end o well, because eventually it'sgonna come out and the really bad.
Yeah, I would be if mybrother hooked up with somebody that I brought
home, he better tell a girlbecause I do not want sloppy seconds.
You never know, maybe he uhhooked up with your husband and you never
knew. Do you want me tocome up there and slap you? Get
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down? Nobody? Maybe if maybeif you're bad next you never know?
That's true. Yeah, he'd bea family. The family yeah is the
air because show Aaron has a familydilemma where his sister brought home the same
guy that he has already hooked upwith and grind her and he was like,
I don't say nothing. He didn'tsay nothing. Maybe they pretended not
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to know each other the whole time, So like awkward. So what should
Aaron do? Should he tell hissister like, Hey, I've been there,
done that, Kara? What shouldhe do? He needs to tell
her right away. He needs totell her everything in detail and let her
make her own vision, not liketoo detailed. Probably, well maybe not
every detail, but you know,I mean it would definitely in their relationship
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if he doesn't tell her, becauseI would be livid if if my brother
had slept with the same guy thatyou know I was hanging out with so
well, on top of that,if he's hiding certain things that are that
important, then what else could hebe hiding? I don't know. I
have two sisters myself, and Ipersonally I would tell them right away.