He Wants To Change The Weddinng Date For A Boys Trip

Stacy is upset - save the dates went out and he wants to change the date for a boys trip to Vegas.

Episode Transcript

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Now back to the Erica Show ong Erica DeLong and Trevor, and we
have Stacy on the phone with alistener dilemma that has got me my mouth
has dropped. I'm just patiently,impatiently waiting over here to find out what's
going on. So Erica says,it's a good one. Hey, so
my fiance wants to change our weddingdate because of a boys trip to Vegas

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that he was just invited to.So they say, the dates have already
gone out and we're getting married inOctober. I got to pick my mouth
back up because girl, I mean, I was like, next, that's
a no, no, I mean, isn't it. It's just it seems
like totally poor judgment and incredibly immateure, and I just I don't know.

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It's making me question the whole thing, like should we even get married?
Or am I dating or about tomarry a man child? Oh? I
don't know. So this just likelapse in judgment is making you wonder if
you even want to get married tothis guy. Yeah, he can't,
you know, spend the time thinkingabout us and our upcoming wedding, but

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he can like drop everything and makeplans to go on this boy's trip,
which, by the way, he'shad time to do, you know,
for the last but his whole adulthoodso far. Who She's got me hot
just from hearing her talk right now. Nine one nine, eight six one
o five one. What should shedo? What would you do in this
situation? Good By is the EricaShow and Stacy calling in with a dilemma.

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Her fiance wants to change the weddingdate so he can go on a
boys trap. The wedding date thatwill save. The dates have already gone
out. It's coming up this October. I would be living. Apparently a
lot of people agree with us,ladies nine one nine eight six one five
one. That's striver included. HeyBen, what do you think I mean?

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Honestly, just give him a break. I know it's your special day,
but you know what, just givehim one, you know, maybe
bust his chops about like the bachelorparty. Make sure it's not too wild.
Oh my god, you know mymouth is dropped open right now,
because you know, all the ladiesare like, absolutely, it's a red
flag. I wouldn't even marry thisguy. But you're calling in saying like
it's okay to change the web theyalready sent out save the dates. I

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mean, how long is it?I mean, you know what I mean,
I don't know how long they've beendating. And maybe if it's if
it's a deal breaker like that,then for you, then maybe it isn't
the one. Maybe you've already hadlike some issues. What what I'm saying
is, hey, you know,maybe try to get something back for that.
Be like all right, I'll giveyou this, but you know it's
not to be transactional. But that'sexactly what it sounds like though. Okay,

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So our listener Stacey, her fiancewants to change the wedding date that
they already have saved the dates forso he can go on a boys trip
to Vegas. They got the venue, they got to save the dates,
like the Yeah, and he wantsto go on this boys trip instead of
getting married. Angela, what doyou think about this? She should break
up with him right now. He'snot even prioritizing her wedding. That's a
big red flag. So you're saying, just call off the wedding altogether.

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Yeah, like go to Vegas,see single forever. Yeah, I mean
it's really poor judgment. It justshows that that might set the tone for
their entire life and their relationship,and so it might be a really bad
sign. I would agree. Soundslike a man child. That means when
she's in the middle of labor,he's been Oh, I'm having snacks with
the guys, like all kinds ofthings are gonna be going down. My
dad did do that to my mom, really right, Yeah, I don't

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think he would even be there atthe at the hospital and doesn't feel like
bad hype. Thank you so muchfor calling and agree with us. We
agree with you, two girl.