She's Pregnant By A Diff Man And Torn on What To Do

She doesn't know how to tell her boyfriend of 3 years, she cheated AND she's pregnant.

Episode Transcript

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Do you want to five? It'sthe Erica Show checking in with you.
Angie has a major dilemma. What'sgoing on? Hi, guys, So
I'm pregnant. Congrat I just foundout, thank you, But unfortunately it's
not by the guy that I amseeing. Yeah, so my boyfriend of
three years has a he's yeah,he's been gone a lot and things just

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like happened. I would say,so up, Yeah, I ended up
hooking up with someone he knows,which is probably worse. How well does
he know the person? Are thebest friends? They're not close friends.
I mean they're acquainted through like mutualfriends, right, But I know this

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is like a this this is likea typical situation for someone being irresponsible.
And usually usually I'm a good girl, I pay my bills, work hard,
I don't typically cheat. But itjust happened. Now I feel embarrassed.
I don't know how to handle it. I just could go on about
it like it's his kid, ornever say anything, or we break up

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and the whole town knows what happened. So I don't know what exactly it's
gonna it's gonna come out. Thisis gonna come out. What if it
comes out? Looking just like theother guy like you have. Well,
yeah, the baby's gonna come outwith the baby's come out, yes,
but the lie is gonna it's thecheating that's all gonna It's kind to eat
you up, like for the restof your life too, You'll always know.

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I mean, you hear those storieswhere the kids eighteen and finds out
they get a different daddy and ancestrydot Com and the thirteen and me,
it's gonna come out right, Okay, well I have nine months to figure
it out. So, yeah,how do you think your boyfriend of three
years will handle it? Is gonnabe I mean, obviously a deal breaker,
But do you think that he wouldbe like, oh, I understand

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I was out of town. Absolutelynot. I mean, if you were
cheating on me, then I wouldthat would be a deal breaker. But
it's just the fact that I'm theone who did it and now I have
to deal with the consequences. Theyat least like are they the same race,
same ethnicity, but not exactly?Okay, yeah, girl, you're
gonna have to go on and letthat one you got. Yeah, so

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give advice to her on the bestway to tell the world. Basically,
because you can't hide that one.Please, Well congrats on the pregnancy though,
Yeah, thanks, I guess Okaynine one. I mean this is
no brainer. I mean, thishas all the potentials for uh Who's the
daddy episode of Mary Kovic. Andbefore it even gets to that point,

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she needs to come clean. She'sshe needs to just be honest about what's
going on, because it's you know, it's not fair to the guy who
doesn't know. It's flips up Andwould you stay with a girl that said,
hey, I made a mistake,I got pregnant. Would you still
stay with that girl? Or no, it's completely over me personally? Hell
no, it's over Okay, Yeah, I mean I would think that would

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be most I think that's why she'sa avoiding telling him because she doesn't want
the relationship to end. She caresabout him. She just had a uh
uh oh, she slipped. Sheslipped on somebody. So does it make
it worse that it's somebody that herboyfriend knows? It absolutely makes it worse
that it's someone that he knows,in my opinion, I mean, because
now you gotta you know, youstay with her now, Now he's in

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that orbit. Now you're going torun across this guy, and in the
back of that guy's mind is theone who's being cheated on, who's been
cheated on. He's always going towonder and it won't even be just with
that guy, it's just going tobe in general. Anytime she introduces another
man, he's going to be like, no, man, that guy needs
to run, he needs she needsto be honest, and he needs to
get the hell out. But ifhe's look, if he's got the heart

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to forgive her, he I guesshe's a better man than I am.
But I wouldn't