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February 18, 2025 63 mins

Can BDSM strengthen a long-term relationship?

In this episode I chat with Karl, a submissive-leaning switch and primal masochist whose exploration of kink saved his 30-year marriage.

While remaining sexually monogamous with his wife, he has embraced BDSM as a way to express his true self, deepen intimacy, and bring new energy into their relationship.

We discuss:

  • How kink transformed his marriage after 30 years.
  • The balance between sexual monogamy and an open kink dynamic.
  • The surprising parallels between martial arts and BDSM.
  • The primal side of his sexuality, from wolfpacks to submission.
  • The psychology of pain, submission, and personal transformation.


Research Paper:Relationship status rather than sociosexuality or sexual orientation predicts male sexual functioning.

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