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June 17, 2025 78 mins

How is a Dominant different to Andrew Tate? Can a Dominant be romantic?

Master Arcane, founder of The Crow Academy, shares his journey through love, power, and full-time dominance in a decade-long Master/slave relationship. This follow-up to Daphne’s episode explores healthy D/s, toxic dominance myths, and the deep emotional rituals behind real BDSM.

We discuss:

  • Arcane’s early BDSM dreams and the formation of The Crow Academy.
  • Why he believes dominance is an act of love, not control.
  • Rituals and philosophies behind long-term power exchange.
  • How BDSM can be deeply romantic, not just erotic.
  • The difference between healthy D/s and toxic "Red Pill" models.
  • What he wishes more people asked about being a Dominant.
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