Because every one of us has been raised with the good girl rules—to be nice, agreeable, and never rock the boat—almost every woman I work with has the habit of over-apologizing. You’re capable, you’re accomplished, and you work hard, yet “sorry” slips out at the beginning of every sentence. In this episode, we explore how over-apologizing hurts you and how to practice a different way of showing up. Here’s what I cover:
- How over-apologizing lowers your authority in other people's eyes and trains your own brain to see yourself as less valuable
- Why it’s important to consider what you’re trying to accomplish with your apology
- Why pausing before you speak is the foundation for breaking your over-apologizing habit
- The power you’ll reclaim when you replace “I’m sorry” with “thank you”
- Why increasing your capacity for discomfort is key to stopping over-apologizing
- A practical homework assignment to complete your own apology audit
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