What if the very behaviors we were praised for—being “nice,” giving endlessly, and putting everyone else first—are the same ones keeping us disconnected from our power, our purpose, and the love we truly deserve?
In this unapologetically honest and soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I go way deeper than just toxic relationships and surface-level healing. We’re pulling back the curtain on generations of conditioning that taught women our worth lies in how well we perform, caretake, overgive—and most of all—please.
Spoiler alert: Operating from overdrive, masculine energy, and constant self-abandonment is not the vibe anymore.
The world doesn’t need more women pretending to be invincible. It needs women who are rooted in their truth, brave enough to do the “unpleasing” thing, and wildly devoted to following the whispers of their heart—even when it means disappointing others.
In this episode, we dive into:
- How generational people-pleasing got embedded in our DNA—and how to break it
- The cultural myths that made “being chosen” feel like life or death
- Why burnout is not a badge of honor but a wake-up call
- The sacred rebellion of saying “no,” honoring your needs, and choosing yourself
- Why embracing your divine feminine energy is the medicine the world is starving for
- What becomes possible when you trust that you were already chosen—just by being born
This episode is a call to every cycle breaker, every woman questioning the old rules, every heart that’s done performing for love and ready to live in alignment with truth. You are not here to be pleasing—you are not here to be pleasing—you are here to break the cycle by doing the unpleasing thing.
If you’re ready to finally stop abandoning yourself in the name of being “enough,” this is your invitation to come home to who you truly are.
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MARIA @THEFEMMECAST (00:00):
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome
back to the show.
I'm so excited and grateful tohave you here.
So this message has been comingthrough really powerfully this
week again and again, and it'skind of been mirrored by some of
the events that have been goingon around me.
So bear with me, because thisis a slightly different message
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than I would normally share onthis podcast.
Yes, it has to do withrelationships and a lot of the
toxic patterns that we've beenconditioned to perpetuate again
and again.
However, this takes it to amuch deeper, much more profound
(00:45):
level than just how they impactour relationships, um.
So you know fair warning, um.
If you're somebody who you know,the conversation around women's
empowerment, um, makes youuncomfortable.
Maybe not the podcast episodefor you to listen to, the
(01:05):
podcast episode for you tolisten to, but although I
encourage you to listen to itand maybe think about things
differently, we're going toexamine some things that you
know, whether we thought theywere good or bad or right or
wrong.
We're just going to askourselves some powerful
questions today that I think isreally important when it comes
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to who we are as women, ourworth here in this life and what
we are, what it is that howpowerful we actually are, and
maybe we don't even realize it,even realize it so recently as I
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was, you know, doom, scrollingthrough Instagram like many of
us do, I came across a postvideo.
It was Will Ferrell.
He was speaking at an event andI love Will Ferrell.
Ever since I saw Will Ferrelland Step Brothers, he's been
like my spirit animal.
But I saw Will Ferrell speakingat an event and, you know,
putting a humorous spin on, youknow, women's position.
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You know, especially when wetalk about, like you know,
globally right.
He basically said you knowsomething and I'm not quoting
word for word, verbatim, you'dhave to Google the quote to
actually get it word for wordbut basically what he says was
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something along the lines of youknow, men have been running the
show since about 10,000 BC andclearly have not done a good job
at it, clearly have not done agood job at it, and is basically
calling on women to step up tothe plate and say, hey, can you
please just take over, becausewe're obviously not doing
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something right.
You know, and it really got methinking because you know,
contrast that right, and you allknow that I'm a caregiver for
my parents.
My sister and I have beencaregiving for my parents for
years now, you know, and thathas taken a toll, and for me I
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can't speak for everybody, butfor me it's really opened my
eyes to where I care, give outof, you know, the goodness of my
heart because I want to takecare of them, versus where I
care, take, because I need to bea people pleaser.
I need to do everything right,I need to make sure that I'm
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taking care of everyone else'sneeds, because that secures that
I am not abandoned, that I amloved right, that I'm doing the
pleasing thing and thateverybody's going to love me and
everything's going to be fineand I'm going to be safe and I'm
not going to be left out of mytribe to die.
I'm putting humorous spin tothis, but this is oftentimes
what a lot of us, as women, youknow, really do struggle with.
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And it got me thinking, andwe've talked about this before
for centuries, centuries, womenneeded to be chosen by a man in
order to survive, let alone likeforget happiness and
fulfillment, just to survive Heroptions.
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You know she didn't come from arich family where she could
have an inheritance to take careof her, which for most wasn't
the case.
You know, her only options wereprostitution and seamstress,
which, I mean, if you didn'thave the skill to be a
seamstress pretty much meantonly one career option, right.
Only one career option, right.
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And so, you know, for centurieswomen needed to be chosen, and
so we went down this rabbit holeof basically racing against one
another who's going to getchosen first?
And often, a lot of times thisfell onto who was the prettiest,
who was the smartest, who hadthe biggest dowry, who was the
best homemaker, who would breedthe best children?
And you know, these were thequalities that we were measured
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against.
Then, you know, that came to ahead in the 1950s and, and you
know, with the, with the, thewhole um, and I don't even know
when the whole Stepford wifething became to be.
I was a movie in the eightiesor nineties, I remember.
But I remember, you know.
You remember the fifties.
Uh, I remember watching TVshows from the fifties, when I
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was younger, and seeing theseperfect women cooking these
perfect meals for their perfectfamily and their perfect
children and their perfect home,always having the perfect hair
and the perfect outfit.
And you know, it just was notrealistic, it wasn't attainable.
And then women just rebelled andyou know, the feminist movement
and the sexual revolutionmovement happened.
And then suddenly, you know, itwas great, because I think it
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woke a lot of women up andactually made a lot of women,
you know, come into theirstrength and come into a
different understanding of whothey were and what they were
capable of.
But then it pushed us so farinto our masculine energy that
we started doing it allourselves.
You know, now we werecaretaking and going to work, we
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were nurturing our families andbringing home an income.
We were, we were doingeverything and taking care of
everyone else.
Maybe not all, but some of usfelt like you know, we were
pushed into this dynamic wherewe're constantly working, we're
constantly caring, we'reconstantly giving, we're
constantly paying attention towhat everybody else needs and
ignoring our own and constantlyovergiving under receiving, um
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still terrified to do theunpleasing thing in most cases
Right Um, and you know, justgoing down this rabbit hole of
burnout, disconnection to selfand constantly looking at who
can, who else can we please outthere or over, give to to
hopefully um have somereassurance that we are going to
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be loved and cared for and notbasically, you know, unloved and
unchosen and left alone, right.
So, um, the fear of abandonmentstill there, the fear of
rejection for many of us stillthere.
Right, we're still caretaking,we're still people pleasing,
we're still tending to andnurturing our loved ones.
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But now you know, there's alsothis other layer of well, how,
what do we look like?
How much do we earn?
Can we support ourselves?
Can we support our families?
You know, and just kind oftrying to do it all and listen.
I don't want this to become apolitically charged episode, but
I will say this.
I am not someone who believesthat a woman's place is in the
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home.
If this is your belief, youshould probably just check out
of this episode right now,because this is not for you.
Your belief.
You should probably just checkout of this episode right now,
because this is not for you.
There's a few things that Idon't believe.
I don't believe that a woman'splace is necessarily has to be
in the home.
It could be if that is herchoice, but it doesn't have to
be.
I don't think that the onlything that a woman can create in
this life is children.
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I think that there's manythings that a woman can create,
and if that's not something thatyou buy into, then by all means
, click off Peace and love.
Thank you for joining me upuntil this point, but I do think
that, as women, we have apowerful role to play in how
life evolves for so many of us,and for some of us, it could be
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on a collective scale, right?
For some of us, it's ourimmediate communities.
For some of us, it's just ourimmediate family.
But the important thing here isthat we have something
important to bring to the world.
The world needs both masculineand feminine in order to thrive.
We have been surviving onmasculine energy for far too
long, and that is what hascreated most of the imbalances
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that we see in the world, andit's created what we're seeing
today, with imbalances inpolitics, imbalances in religion
, imbalances in financialstructures and institutions.
Right, we're seeing thetoxicity, we're seeing the
imbalance, we're seeing thatthings are just not fucking
working.
And it's so funny because,instead of moving into a
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direction that will balancethings out, that will create
more harmony, that will createmore wealth and abundance for
everyone collectively, it'salmost, like you know and I hate
to use this word because it'ssuch, it's such a buzzword like
there's so much associated with,but this is a toxic,
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patriarchal belief system thatis literally trying to take 100
steps back and hold on tosomething that is really ready
to be let go right.
And instead of giving women aplatform to speak and to be in a
position of power andleadership, what are we doing?
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We're starting to see all thoseopportunities being taken away,
which is the exact opposite ofwhat this world actually fucking
needs.
So, I mean, here's myinvitation to everybody who's
listening and if you resonatewith this message, because I do
believe that, yes, we talk abouttoxic relationship patterns.
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And how do we please ourpartners, our families, our
friends?
How do we take care of everyoneelse's needs before our own?
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How do we make sure that we arethe chosen woman showing up?
You know the way we need tolook with what we need to have
and what we need to offer arelationship in order to be
chosen, to be loved, to live.
You know that, happily, everafter that, you know we were all
fed to as young girls when wewere growing up, right?
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What if?
What if we weren't jumpingthrough those hoops 24, seven?
What if we were willing to dothe unpleasing thing?
What if we weren't completelyconsumed with what everyone else
was going to say, think or doabout the choices that we were
making and where we were beingguided to go, and where no means
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no, yes means yes, and I'mgoing to do what feels aligned
for me and what feels right forme in my heart, even if it's
something that maybe everybodyelse around doesn't agree with,
or maybe it means that you knowpeople that you've counted on,
or relationships or partnersthat you know you were, you were
, you were hoping would wouldstand the test of time, end up
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falling away because, as aresult of the choices that
you're making, what if that gotto be okay?
What if that thing that's inyour heart, that is calling to
you, took precedence overanything else, any fear that you
would be abandoned or rejectedor destroyed or left alone to
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your own defenses?
What if that got to take thepriority?
How powerful would we be if weweren't out there constantly
pleasing, constantly overgiving,burning ourselves out, doing
the very things we're notsupposed to be doing, instead of
focusing all our attention andintention on the things that we
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know in our heart are the thingsthat we're here to do that are
calling for our love, ourattention, our focus, our
creativity.
What if we made that the focus?
How powerful might we be andhow different might this world
be?
And again, you know, that's notto say that we're all meant to,
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you know, be world leaders, butsometimes you know, every
change, every intention, everytime we lead by example, we
create a ripple effect of change.
So what if the ripple effect ofchange that this world needs is
for us to just take ourattention away from all the
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toxic dynamics and therelationships we're trying to be
enough for and the positionswe're fighting so hard to earn?
That keeps slipping through ourfingers the rat race to make
the most money, or to have thenicest home, or to have the
nicest clothes.
What if we let all of that gofor a second and just focus
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internally on what it was thatwe were meant to create?
And create means many things.
It's not just children.
As women, we have the power tocreate worlds within us, life
within us.
So how can we use that energyto create something, something
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that we are called to create,and maybe that creates a ripple
effect of change that this worldactually needs?
Maybe some of us will grow upto be leaders, or teachers, or
guides or healers.
There's so many things that wecan do in this world that will
make a positive impact.
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But it all starts with listeningto what's that thing inside of
you first, that thing that youkeep ignoring.
You keep putting it on the backburner because everybody else's
needs need to be taken care ofbefore your needs get met.
How powerful would you be ifyou stopped worrying what
everybody else thought?
How powerful would you be ifyou stopped giving all your
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energy to taking care ofeveryone else and putting
yourself last on your to-do list?
How powerful would you be ifyou weren't constantly obsessing
over what you need to do toplease this person or that
person and focusing on pleasingyourself?
It's a big thing when you're notused to it.
It's a big thing when you'vebeen taught and modeled your
entire life that it's a lovingthing to do to people, please,
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to self-abandon, to prioritizeeveryone else's needs over your
own.
Otherwise, you're a bad personor you're a selfish person.
And I get that.
I totally get that.
And it's not that anybody evertold me that.
Nobody ever told me, nobodytells you these things, but it's
modeled.
It is modeled in therelationships around you, in the
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stories that were told.
It is constantly modeled right,and so for many of us who do
believe that people pleasing,overgiving and caretaking is the
loving thing to do, to our owndetriment.
You know, this is theunlearning.
This is where we need tounlearn all that shit and be
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ready and willing to accept adifferent truth, that maybe,
maybe that's the selfish thing,because that's what's meeting
our immediate need to be lovedand approved of, rather than
focusing on, maybe, a higherpurpose or a higher calling or
something else we're meant to beor create in this world.
This is a huge.
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This type of this reframe inbelief requires an unwavering
faith in a higher power, in ahigher power.
I am not a religious person byany means, but I do believe that
there is a powerful creatorsource God, energy that is
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responsible for life on earth,and I firmly believe that I'm a
very spiritual person.
I am not a religious personmeaning that, you know, I do
believe in God, I believe in,you know, christ consciousness,
and I believe in our call to behigher spiritual beings.
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I don't subscribe to anyreligious belief or denomination
that's not what this is aboutbut I do believe that we are all
created by a higher power and Ido believe that because we are
created by a higher, becauseeverything was created by a
higher power.
Everything has a purpose,everything is by divine design.
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There's no accidents, there'sno freak occurrences.
We are exactly who we needed tobe in order to come into this
life and fulfill a purpose rightand create a be part of, be
that little part of a bigger,well-oiled machine.
If you will right and that'skind of a weird way to put it,
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but I do believe that when weall do the part that we were
sent here to do and sent here tobe, we operate as part of a
well-oiled machine.
The problem is is that there'sso many beliefs and distractions
and fears and and and rulesthat will keep pulling us from
that thing that it is that we'remeant to do and be here in this
world in this lifetime.
So what if the most loving,noble, respectful thing that you
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could do is to do that verything that you've been put on
this earth to do, or be that?
Or maybe you have to let go ofsome of these beliefs that have
been handed down to us fromgeneration to generation to
generation and actually start toput yourself first and put what
it is that your heart desiresfirst, above everything else.
Wouldn't that be the mostselfless thing, right, knowing
that.
You know, maybe people, maybesome people, might be upset with
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you.
Some people would support youand cheer you on and have your
back and fully believe in you.
And maybe some people might beupset with you.
Some people would support youand cheer you on and have your
back and fully believe in you,and maybe some people won't.
Maybe some people might getfrustrated at first, because
you've always been a peoplepleaser and an over giver and
they've kind of gotten used tothat and cushy with that and
they're good with that, and sowhen you start to pull back a
little bit, they might take itas a oh my God, she doesn't love
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me, because I know she loves bygiving and people pleasing, and
if she's not doing that for meright now, maybe she doesn't
love me, which we know is nottrue.
Okay, but I am inviting you allto look at if you are a people
pleaser and overgiver that youknow.
You've been kind of in thismindset your entire life, and
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especially those of us who are,you know, generational cycle
breakers, right, people who have.
You know, not only you've donethis, but you've seen everybody
in your lineage do this too, andyou know that this has been
kind of a way of life and love.
You know, for so many.
It's scary to think of thatdifferently.
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Um, it's scary to think of thatdifferently.
It's scary to do the unpleasingthing and to do the thing that
you know maybe was not presentedas the ideal for you, maybe it
was not what got you love, maybeit wasn't what got you the
accolades and the of the peoplearound you, but maybe that is
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the thing that needs to be donein order to make the difference
that we need to make.
I really do believe thateverything that we're seeing in
the world today, and all ofeverything that is just
absolutely in fucking upheavalright now, even Mother Nature is
screaming at us for crying outloud.
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Please, if you think globalwarming is a hoax, please just
click off.
I think the best argument Ihave for that and I'm going off
on a tangent right now, you know, we see storms getting more
powerful, we see weather systemsshifting, we see climate
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changing, we see fires happeningall over the world, and we just
saw the most destructive firetake place in Los Angeles, where
my friend lives.
And you know what do people say, oh, it's because you know the
forest rangers aren't takingcare of and cleaning up the
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these green spaces so that theyaren't such a fire hazard.
So my question to you is so isthat also the case that?
So if their forest rangers suck, and they're the reason why
this happened, is that also thecase in Canada, where we just
had massive fires in both BC andQuebec in the last couple of
years?
Was it also the case inAustralia, where they had a
massive fire just a few yearsago?
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Like we have to stop.
Yes, I think we can all do abetter job.
Of course, of course there'speople who could have done a
better job and you know, at theend of the day, you know maybe
things could have been bettercontrolled, but at the end of
the day, these things arehappening because of global
warming.
Because of global warming, wewouldn't have so much dry grass
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and vegetation to clean up if weweren't, if so many regions
weren't starving for rain likethey are.
You know what I mean.
Like we have to acknowledgethat that is a real thing and I
think you know we're in thisposition right now where mother
nature is screaming at us tobasically do better, and we're
seeing where, you know,political structures, religious
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structures, financialgovernments, financial
structures and institutions allfalling apart because we have
not done a good job.
Yes, we've had some women inleadership, but not nearly
enough women in leadership, andI do believe that this is trying
to show us where we are inbalance and we have been as a
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society, and this goes for menand women.
Okay, because let me tell you,when you're a people pleaser and
a caregiver and somebody whoovergives and is basically
trying to control everything andeveryone so that everyone else
is safe and taken care of, guesswhat?
You're very much in yourmasculine that is not feminine
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energy, and I think we've allbeen guilty of being
hyper-masculine, men and womenalike.
And so I think the healinghappens when we can let go and
trust in a higher power, when wecan trust our intuition and we
can trust of what's on our heartto give and to create in the
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world and trust that that getsto be enough and that we'll be
taken care of.
Now, this has been a hugelesson for me and I'm still
working through it and I'm notthere yet, and that is me being
fully transparent.
You know, growing up I didn'tfeel.
I mean, my dad was a provider,yes, but we went through when I
was younger, you know, alwaysthe provider, always working
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hard to take care of his family,but we hit financial hardship.
Now, a lot of it wasn't hisfault, a lot of it was just
really bad timing in terms ofhow things kind of fell apart.
But I was still pretty youngand when it happened my dad, he
took it very personally as afailure on his part and he had a
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really hard time processingthat emotionally and I can see
that now.
But as a child I felt like hecouldn't be there for me.
I felt like he couldn't takecare of me.
I felt like he couldn't, youknow, sue the fear and the
anxiety that I was going throughas a result of all of our
financial struggle growing up,you know.
And then add to that, you know,I, you know I started going to
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work at a very young age andreally quickly I developed this
mindset of, well, I need to takecare of myself because no one's
going to take care of me.
And then, as I got older, youknow, relationships kept
disappointing me.
I kept going to workplaces andyou know things like harassment
would happen or, you know, inone case, when I was younger,
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you know where I was actuallyassaulted by one of my bosses,
right, and I didn't even comeclean with that until months
later.
And then you know he wasfinally, you know, let go and I
think he was charged with thatand I didn't need to get any
more involved in that than youknow telling one of my other
bosses that I actually feltreally close to.
But that was really hard andyou know.
So there was this developmentof I need to take care of myself
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, I need to provide for myself.
No man is going to protect me.
Men aren't safe, men aren't,you know.
They can't be counted on to bethere for me.
And so for me that translated toand I remember having a moment
when my, my 15 year relationshipended, um, who you know was
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someone that I lovedtremendously, would always,
always, always had nothing buttrust and faith, and completely
betrayed me, um, and cheated onme, and this was somebody who
was also, you know, I was veryreligious at the time, they were
even more religious than I was,and you know, maybe this is
where my breakdown with religionkind of happened, because I
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kind of felt like, you know, godabandoned me.
In that moment, like here, Iwas this good, loving person who
gave her heart to who shethought was a loving man, only
to be heartbroken anddisappointed and let down again.
So it kind of I'm not going tolie it kind of damaged my
relationship with God and who Isee and feel as a creator.
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And a big part of this journeyfor me has been building and
healing that relationship againand learning that it is safe for
me to relax, learning that itis safe for me to let go feeling
the fear of not having it allunder control, not having the
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answers, not having a five-yearplan in place, and moments of
losing homes and losing savingsand not having enough to in the
bank to make it through the youknow the next couple of months.
Security and just learn totrust the sort of like, the
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little yearnings of my heart orthe little glimmers of
inspiration and ideals or dreamsthat come to me, and trust that
when I follow through on thoseI will be taken care of.
And that has been the biggestthing for me and that is
something that I still work ontoday.
So I don't know what to tellyou when it comes to that.
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What I will say is I have beenleaning into prayer with that,
into prayer with that, and youknow, basically saying I am not
under man's law, I am underdivine grace and I know that
when I trust and follow theguidance of my heart, that I am
taken care of and I am providedfor.
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And there's also something inthere about you know being
chosen, you know being thechosen woman.
You know we were chosen the daythat we were brought into this
life.
We, we were chosen the day thatwe were born.
And you know, and this is whatI believe again, if you don't
believe in God, by all means,you know, take what resonates
and leave the rest.
But I do believe that we werechosen.
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I do believe that you know,every molecule in our body was
chosen by a divine creator and Ido believe that everything that
we were meant to do here, beand create, um, is divinely
guided.
And learning to accept thatthat is enough has also been a
huge undertaking for me, um,because the world bombards us
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with images of what it means tobe enough.
You know what it means to be achosen woman?
Well, you were chosen the daythat you were born and that is
my.
That that is.
That is.
That is the wisdom I want to.
I want you to take away fromthis episode right, you were
chosen the day you were born.
You were enough the day thatyou were born.
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Sure, we all have work to do.
We're all here to evolve asspiritual beings.
None of us are fucking perfect,but that's not to say that, yes
, we can evolve, we can grow andwe can heal, but we don't need
to be changing ourselves and wedon't need to be something that
we're not.
You know, and we definitelydon't need to be hiding who we
are, because who we are isexactly who we were created to
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be.
So, if we can have faith thatwe were created to be exactly
who that you were, if you canhave faith that you were, you
are exactly who you were createdto be in this moment, if you
can believe that a higher powerhas got your back when you
follow your intuition, theyearnings in your heart to do
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what it is that you came here todo and unapologetically be the
person that you came here to beand trust that, and trust that
you're enough and trust thatyou'll be taken care of and
devote time to an energy andintention to creating the things
that you're called to create orjust be.
Sometimes it's just being beingyou, sometimes it's just being
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that generational cycle breakerthat this world needs so that we
don't continue these cycleswith the next generation.
Right, if you can just trustwhat your heart is telling you
that you need to be doing andfocusing on right now and leave
the rest, what could we bepossible, what could we be
capable of as women If westarted to do that?
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And men, you know, having themlean more into their feminine a
little bit.
Right, and just trusting thatyou know we're safe in doing so,
that we are supported in doingso, that we are supported in
doing that is what the worldwants to do most, so it will
absolutely support us.
That is a huge mindset shift tomake and that's how I've been
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kind of working through.
Making it is trusting that youknow my creator created me the
way that I am, and so that getsto be enough, and that he put
these yearnings and I doassociate God with he, and you
know, maybe that's something Ineed to look at, um, but maybe
you know he put these yearningsin my heart, um, for a reason.
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And what would it look like ifI just trusted that, that got to
be enough.
And that's kind of whatinspired me to share this
message with you today, becauseI would normally not share this
kind of message with you guys,but this is kind of what was in
my heart to share.
And so this is me trusting thatand seeing what happens.
Who knows right, maybe it'llland with some of you, maybe it
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won't, maybe it'll create amovement, maybe it'll flop, I
don't know.
The important thing is that thisis me trusting the thing that
maybe doesn't seem like thelogical thing to do, but that
seems like the aligned thing forme to do and what's in my heart
to do right now, and trustingthat it'll serve a higher
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purpose and that I'll besupported in the process.
So this, right here, is meliving by example.
So, invitation for you to dothe same how can you recognize
that you're enough today,exactly the way that you are,
that you are a divine creation?
That source literally put eachand every little piece of you
together, exactly the way youare right now to be, exactly who
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you right now to be, who,exactly who you needed you to be
, fully and unapologeticallyowning your gifts and sharing
them with the world, even ifthat means just being a
generational cycle breakerwithin your family, or maybe
it's something bigger than that.
That's for you to figure outand spend time with and reflect
on.
But trust the urges of yourheart to guide you, trust your
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intuition to guide you and trustthat you will be taken care of
in the process and just see whatunfolds.
And that's my invitation foryou today, you guys.
So until next time, massivelove.
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome
back to the show.
I'm so excited and grateful tohave you here.
So this message has been comingthrough really powerfully this
week again and again, and it'skind of been mirrored by some of
the events that have been goingon around me.
So bear with me, because thisis a slightly different message
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than I would normally share onthis podcast.
Yes, it has to do withrelationships and a lot of the
toxic patterns that we've beenconditioned to perpetuate again
and again.
However, this takes it to amuch deeper, much more profound
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level than just how they impactour relationships, um.
So you know fair warning, um.
If you're somebody who you know,the conversation around women's
empowerment, um, makes youuncomfortable.
Maybe not the podcast episodefor you to listen to, the
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podcast episode for you tolisten to, but although I
encourage you to listen to itand maybe think about things
differently, we're going toexamine some things that you
know, whether we thought theywere good or bad or right or
wrong.
We're just going to askourselves some powerful
questions today that I think isreally important when it comes
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to who we are as women, ourworth here in this life and what
we are, what it is that howpowerful we actually are, and
maybe we don't even realize it,even realize it so recently as I
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was, you know, doom, scrollingthrough Instagram like many of
us do, I came across a postvideo.
It was Will Ferrell.
He was speaking at an event andI love Will Ferrell.
Ever since I saw Will Ferrelland Step Brothers, he's been
like my spirit animal.
But I saw Will Ferrell speakingat an event and, you know,
putting a humorous spin on, youknow, women's position.
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You know, especially when wetalk about, like you know,
globally right.
He basically said you knowsomething and I'm not quoting
word for word, verbatim, you'dhave to Google the quote to
actually get it word for wordbut basically what he says was
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something along the lines of youknow, men have been running the
show since about 10,000 BC andclearly have not done a good job
at it, clearly have not done agood job at it, and is basically
calling on women to step up tothe plate and say, hey, can you
please just take over, becausewe're obviously not doing
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something right.
You know, and it really got methinking because you know,
contrast that right, and you allknow that I'm a caregiver for
my parents.
My sister and I have beencaregiving for my parents for
years now, you know, and thathas taken a toll, and for me I
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can't speak for everybody, butfor me it's really opened my
eyes to where I care, give outof, you know, the goodness of my
heart because I want to takecare of them, versus where I
care, take, because I need to bea people pleaser.
I need to do everything right,I need to make sure that I'm
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taking care of everyone else'sneeds, because that secures that
I am not abandoned, that I amloved right, that I'm doing the
pleasing thing and thateverybody's going to love me and
everything's going to be fineand I'm going to be safe and I'm
not going to be left out of mytribe to die.
I'm putting humorous spin tothis, but this is oftentimes
what a lot of us, as women, youknow, really do struggle with.
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And it got me thinking, andwe've talked about this before
for centuries, centuries, womenneeded to be chosen by a man in
order to survive, let alone likeforget happiness and
fulfillment, just to survive Heroptions.
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You know she didn't come from arich family where she could
have an inheritance to take careof her, which for most wasn't
the case.
You know, her only options wereprostitution and seamstress,
which, I mean, if you didn'thave the skill to be a
seamstress pretty much meantonly one career option, right.
Only one career option, right.
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And so, you know, for centurieswomen needed to be chosen, and
so we went down this rabbit holeof basically racing against one
another who's going to getchosen first?
And often, a lot of times thisfell onto who was the prettiest,
who was the smartest, who hadthe biggest dowry, who was the
best homemaker, who would breedthe best children?
And you know, these were thequalities that we were measured
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against.
Then, you know, that came to ahead in the 1950s and, and you
know, with the, with the, thewhole um, and I don't even know
when the whole Stepford wifething became to be.
I was a movie in the eightiesor nineties, I remember.
But I remember, you know.
You remember the fifties.
Uh, I remember watching TVshows from the fifties, when I
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was younger, and seeing theseperfect women cooking these
perfect meals for their perfectfamily and their perfect
children and their perfect home,always having the perfect hair
and the perfect outfit.
And you know, it just was notrealistic, it wasn't attainable.
And then women just rebelled andyou know, the feminist movement
and the sexual revolutionmovement happened.
And then suddenly, you know, itwas great, because I think it
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woke a lot of women up andactually made a lot of women,
you know, come into theirstrength and come into a
different understanding of whothey were and what they were
capable of.
But then it pushed us so farinto our masculine energy that
we started doing it allourselves.
You know, now we werecaretaking and going to work, we
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were nurturing our families andbringing home an income.
We were, we were doingeverything and taking care of
everyone else.
Maybe not all, but some of usfelt like you know, we were
pushed into this dynamic wherewe're constantly working, we're
constantly caring, we'reconstantly giving, we're
constantly paying attention towhat everybody else needs and
ignoring our own and constantlyovergiving under receiving, um
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still terrified to do theunpleasing thing in most cases
Right Um, and you know, justgoing down this rabbit hole of
burnout, disconnection to selfand constantly looking at who
can, who else can we please outthere or over, give to to
hopefully um have somereassurance that we are going to
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be loved and cared for and notbasically, you know, unloved and
unchosen and left alone, right.
So, um, the fear of abandonmentstill there, the fear of
rejection for many of us stillthere.
Right, we're still caretaking,we're still people pleasing,
we're still tending to andnurturing our loved ones.
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But now you know, there's alsothis other layer of well, how,
what do we look like?
How much do we earn?
Can we support ourselves?
Can we support our families?
You know, and just kind oftrying to do it all and listen.
I don't want this to become apolitically charged episode, but
I will say this.
I am not someone who believesthat a woman's place is in the
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home.
If this is your belief, youshould probably just check out
of this episode right now,because this is not for you.
Your belief.
You should probably just checkout of this episode right now,
because this is not for you.
There's a few things that Idon't believe.
I don't believe that a woman'splace is necessarily has to be
in the home.
It could be if that is herchoice, but it doesn't have to
be.
I don't think that the onlything that a woman can create in
this life is children.
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I think that there's manythings that a woman can create,
and if that's not something thatyou buy into, then by all means
, click off Peace and love.
Thank you for joining me upuntil this point, but I do think
that, as women, we have apowerful role to play in how
life evolves for so many of us,and for some of us, it could be
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on a collective scale, right?
For some of us, it's ourimmediate communities.
For some of us, it's just ourimmediate family.
But the important thing here isthat we have something
important to bring to the world.
The world needs both masculineand feminine in order to thrive.
We have been surviving onmasculine energy for far too
long, and that is what hascreated most of the imbalances
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that we see in the world, andit's created what we're seeing
today, with imbalances inpolitics, imbalances in religion
, imbalances in financialstructures and institutions.
Right, we're seeing thetoxicity, we're seeing the
imbalance, we're seeing thatthings are just not fucking
working.
And it's so funny because,instead of moving into a
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direction that will balancethings out, that will create
more harmony, that will createmore wealth and abundance for
everyone collectively, it'salmost, like you know and I hate
to use this word because it'ssuch, it's such a buzzword like
there's so much associated with,but this is a toxic,
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patriarchal belief system thatis literally trying to take 100
steps back and hold on tosomething that is really ready
to be let go right.
And instead of giving women aplatform to speak and to be in a
position of power andleadership, what are we doing?
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We're starting to see all thoseopportunities being taken away,
which is the exact opposite ofwhat this world actually fucking
needs.
So, I mean, here's myinvitation to everybody who's
listening and if you resonatewith this message, because I do
believe that, yes, we talk abouttoxic relationship patterns.
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And how do we please ourpartners, our families, our
friends?
How do we take care of everyoneelse's needs before our own?
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How do we make sure that we arethe chosen woman showing up?
You know the way we need tolook with what we need to have
and what we need to offer arelationship in order to be
chosen, to be loved, to live.
You know that, happily, everafter that, you know we were all
fed to as young girls when wewere growing up, right?
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What if?
What if we weren't jumpingthrough those hoops 24, seven?
What if we were willing to dothe unpleasing thing?
What if we weren't completelyconsumed with what everyone else
was going to say, think or doabout the choices that we were
making and where we were beingguided to go, and where no means
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no, yes means yes, and I'mgoing to do what feels aligned
for me and what feels right forme in my heart, even if it's
something that maybe everybodyelse around doesn't agree with,
or maybe it means that you knowpeople that you've counted on,
or relationships or partnersthat you know you were, you were
, you were hoping would wouldstand the test of time, end up
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falling away because, as aresult of the choices that
you're making, what if that gotto be okay?
What if that thing that's inyour heart, that is calling to
you, took precedence overanything else, any fear that you
would be abandoned or rejectedor destroyed or left alone to
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your own defenses?
What if that got to take thepriority?
How powerful would we be if weweren't out there constantly
pleasing, constantly overgiving,burning ourselves out, doing
the very things we're notsupposed to be doing, instead of
focusing all our attention andintention on the things that we
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know in our heart are the thingsthat we're here to do that are
calling for our love, ourattention, our focus, our
creativity.
What if we made that the focus?
How powerful might we be andhow different might this world
be?
And again, you know, that's notto say that we're all meant to,
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you know, be world leaders, butsometimes you know, every
change, every intention, everytime we lead by example, we
create a ripple effect of change.
So what if the ripple effect ofchange that this world needs is
for us to just take ourattention away from all the
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toxic dynamics and therelationships we're trying to be
enough for and the positionswe're fighting so hard to earn?
That keeps slipping through ourfingers the rat race to make
the most money, or to have thenicest home, or to have the
nicest clothes.
What if we let all of that gofor a second and just focus
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internally on what it was thatwe were meant to create?
And create means many things.
It's not just children.
As women, we have the power tocreate worlds within us, life
within us.
So how can we use that energyto create something, something
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that we are called to create,and maybe that creates a ripple
effect of change that this worldactually needs?
Maybe some of us will grow upto be leaders, or teachers, or
guides or healers.
There's so many things that wecan do in this world that will
make a positive impact.
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But it all starts with listeningto what's that thing inside of
you first, that thing that youkeep ignoring.
You keep putting it on the backburner because everybody else's
needs need to be taken care ofbefore your needs get met.
How powerful would you be ifyou stopped worrying what
everybody else thought?
How powerful would you be ifyou stopped giving all your
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energy to taking care ofeveryone else and putting
yourself last on your to-do list?
How powerful would you be ifyou weren't constantly obsessing
over what you need to do toplease this person or that
person and focusing on pleasingyourself?
It's a big thing when you're notused to it.
It's a big thing when you'vebeen taught and modeled your
entire life that it's a lovingthing to do to people, please,
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to self-abandon, to prioritizeeveryone else's needs over your
own.
Otherwise, you're a bad personor you're a selfish person.
And I get that.
I totally get that.
And it's not that anybody evertold me that.
Nobody ever told me, nobodytells you these things, but it's
modeled.
It is modeled in therelationships around you, in the
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stories that were told.
It is constantly modeled right,and so for many of us who do
believe that people pleasing,overgiving and caretaking is the
loving thing to do, to our owndetriment.
You know, this is theunlearning.
This is where we need tounlearn all that shit and be
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ready and willing to accept adifferent truth, that maybe,
maybe that's the selfish thing,because that's what's meeting
our immediate need to be lovedand approved of, rather than
focusing on, maybe, a higherpurpose or a higher calling or
something else we're meant to beor create in this world.
This is a huge.
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This type of this reframe inbelief requires an unwavering
faith in a higher power, in ahigher power.
I am not a religious person byany means, but I do believe that
there is a powerful creatorsource God, energy that is
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responsible for life on earth,and I firmly believe that I'm a
very spiritual person.
I am not a religious personmeaning that, you know, I do
believe in God, I believe in,you know, christ consciousness,
and I believe in our call to behigher spiritual beings.
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I don't subscribe to anyreligious belief or denomination
that's not what this is aboutbut I do believe that we are all
created by a higher power and Ido believe that because we are
created by a higher, becauseeverything was created by a
higher power.
Everything has a purpose,everything is by divine design.
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There's no accidents, there'sno freak occurrences.
We are exactly who we needed tobe in order to come into this
life and fulfill a purpose rightand create a be part of, be
that little part of a bigger,well-oiled machine.
If you will right and that'skind of a weird way to put it,
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but I do believe that when weall do the part that we were
sent here to do and sent here tobe, we operate as part of a
well-oiled machine.
The problem is is that there'sso many beliefs and distractions
and fears and and and rulesthat will keep pulling us from
that thing that it is that we'remeant to do and be here in this
world in this lifetime.
So what if the most loving,noble, respectful thing that you
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could do is to do that verything that you've been put on
this earth to do, or be that?
Or maybe you have to let go ofsome of these beliefs that have
been handed down to us fromgeneration to generation to
generation and actually start toput yourself first and put what
it is that your heart desiresfirst, above everything else.
Wouldn't that be the mostselfless thing, right, knowing
that.
You know, maybe people, maybesome people, might be upset with
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you.
Some people would support youand cheer you on and have your
back and fully believe in you.
And maybe some people might beupset with you.
Some people would support youand cheer you on and have your
back and fully believe in you,and maybe some people won't.
Maybe some people might getfrustrated at first, because
you've always been a peoplepleaser and an over giver and
they've kind of gotten used tothat and cushy with that and
they're good with that, and sowhen you start to pull back a
little bit, they might take itas a oh my God, she doesn't love
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me, because I know she loves bygiving and people pleasing, and
if she's not doing that for meright now, maybe she doesn't
love me, which we know is nottrue.
Okay, but I am inviting you allto look at if you are a people
pleaser and overgiver that youknow.
You've been kind of in thismindset your entire life, and
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especially those of us who are,you know, generational cycle
breakers, right, people who have.
You know, not only you've donethis, but you've seen everybody
in your lineage do this too, andyou know that this has been
kind of a way of life and love.
You know, for so many.
It's scary to think of thatdifferently.
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Um, it's scary to think of thatdifferently.
It's scary to do the unpleasingthing and to do the thing that
you know maybe was not presentedas the ideal for you, maybe it
was not what got you love, maybeit wasn't what got you the
accolades and the of the peoplearound you, but maybe that is
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the thing that needs to be donein order to make the difference
that we need to make.
I really do believe thateverything that we're seeing in
the world today, and all ofeverything that is just
absolutely in fucking upheavalright now, even Mother Nature is
screaming at us for crying outloud.
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Please, if you think globalwarming is a hoax, please just
click off.
I think the best argument Ihave for that and I'm going off
on a tangent right now, you know, we see storms getting more
powerful, we see weather systemsshifting, we see climate
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changing, we see fires happeningall over the world, and we just
saw the most destructive firetake place in Los Angeles, where
my friend lives.
And you know what do people say, oh, it's because you know the
forest rangers aren't takingcare of and cleaning up the
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these green spaces so that theyaren't such a fire hazard.
So my question to you is so isthat also the case that?
So if their forest rangers suck, and they're the reason why
this happened, is that also thecase in Canada, where we just
had massive fires in both BC andQuebec in the last couple of
years?
Was it also the case inAustralia, where they had a
massive fire just a few yearsago?
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Like we have to stop.
Yes, I think we can all do abetter job.
Of course, of course there'speople who could have done a
better job and you know, at theend of the day, you know maybe
things could have been bettercontrolled, but at the end of
the day, these things arehappening because of global
warming.
Because of global warming, wewouldn't have so much dry grass
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and vegetation to clean up if weweren't, if so many regions
weren't starving for rain likethey are.
You know what I mean.
Like we have to acknowledgethat that is a real thing and I
think you know we're in thisposition right now where mother
nature is screaming at us tobasically do better, and we're
seeing where, you know,political structures, religious
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structures, financialgovernments, financial
structures and institutions allfalling apart because we have
not done a good job.
Yes, we've had some women inleadership, but not nearly
enough women in leadership, andI do believe that this is trying
to show us where we are inbalance and we have been as a
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society, and this goes for menand women.
Okay, because let me tell you,when you're a people pleaser and
a caregiver and somebody whoovergives and is basically
trying to control everything andeveryone so that everyone else
is safe and taken care of, guesswhat?
You're very much in yourmasculine that is not feminine
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energy, and I think we've allbeen guilty of being
hyper-masculine, men and womenalike.
And so I think the healinghappens when we can let go and
trust in a higher power, when wecan trust our intuition and we
can trust of what's on our heartto give and to create in the
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world and trust that that getsto be enough and that we'll be
taken care of.
Now, this has been a hugelesson for me and I'm still
working through it and I'm notthere yet, and that is me being
fully transparent.
You know, growing up I didn'tfeel.
I mean, my dad was a provider,yes, but we went through when I
was younger, you know, alwaysthe provider, always working
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hard to take care of his family,but we hit financial hardship.
Now, a lot of it wasn't hisfault, a lot of it was just
really bad timing in terms ofhow things kind of fell apart.
But I was still pretty youngand when it happened my dad, he
took it very personally as afailure on his part and he had a
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really hard time processingthat emotionally and I can see
that now.
But as a child I felt like hecouldn't be there for me.
I felt like he couldn't takecare of me.
I felt like he couldn't, youknow, sue the fear and the
anxiety that I was going throughas a result of all of our
financial struggle growing up,you know.
And then add to that, you know,I, you know I started going to
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work at a very young age andreally quickly I developed this
mindset of, well, I need to takecare of myself because no one's
going to take care of me.
And then, as I got older, youknow, relationships kept
disappointing me.
I kept going to workplaces andyou know things like harassment
would happen or, you know, inone case, when I was younger,
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you know where I was actuallyassaulted by one of my bosses,
right, and I didn't even comeclean with that until months
later.
And then you know he wasfinally, you know, let go and I
think he was charged with thatand I didn't need to get any
more involved in that than youknow telling one of my other
bosses that I actually feltreally close to.
But that was really hard andyou know.
So there was this developmentof I need to take care of myself
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, I need to provide for myself.
No man is going to protect me.
Men aren't safe, men aren't,you know.
They can't be counted on to bethere for me.
And so for me that translated toand I remember having a moment
when my, my 15 year relationshipended, um, who you know was
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someone that I lovedtremendously, would always,
always, always had nothing buttrust and faith, and completely
betrayed me, um, and cheated onme, and this was somebody who
was also, you know, I was veryreligious at the time, they were
even more religious than I was,and you know, maybe this is
where my breakdown with religionkind of happened, because I
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kind of felt like, you know, godabandoned me.
In that moment, like here, Iwas this good, loving person who
gave her heart to who shethought was a loving man, only
to be heartbroken anddisappointed and let down again.
So it kind of I'm not going tolie it kind of damaged my
relationship with God and who Isee and feel as a creator.
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And a big part of this journeyfor me has been building and
healing that relationship againand learning that it is safe for
me to relax, learning that itis safe for me to let go feeling
the fear of not having it allunder control, not having the
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answers, not having a five-yearplan in place, and moments of
losing homes and losing savingsand not having enough to in the
bank to make it through the youknow the next couple of months.
Security and just learn totrust the sort of like, the
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little yearnings of my heart orthe little glimmers of
inspiration and ideals or dreamsthat come to me, and trust that
when I follow through on thoseI will be taken care of.
And that has been the biggestthing for me and that is
something that I still work ontoday.
So I don't know what to tellyou when it comes to that.
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What I will say is I have beenleaning into prayer with that,
into prayer with that, and youknow, basically saying I am not
under man's law, I am underdivine grace and I know that
when I trust and follow theguidance of my heart, that I am
taken care of and I am providedfor.
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And there's also something inthere about you know being
chosen, you know being thechosen woman.
You know we were chosen the daythat we were brought into this
life.
We, we were chosen the day thatwe were born.
And you know, and this is whatI believe again, if you don't
believe in God, by all means,you know, take what resonates
and leave the rest.
But I do believe that we werechosen.
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I do believe that you know,every molecule in our body was
chosen by a divine creator and Ido believe that everything that
we were meant to do here, beand create, um, is divinely
guided.
And learning to accept thatthat is enough has also been a
huge undertaking for me, um,because the world bombards us
(29:10):
with images of what it means tobe enough.
You know what it means to be achosen woman?
Well, you were chosen the daythat you were born and that is
my.
That that is.
That is.
That is the wisdom I want to.
I want you to take away fromthis episode right, you were
chosen the day you were born.
You were enough the day thatyou were born.
(29:30):
Sure, we all have work to do.
We're all here to evolve asspiritual beings.
None of us are fucking perfect,but that's not to say that, yes
, we can evolve, we can grow andwe can heal, but we don't need
to be changing ourselves and wedon't need to be something that
we're not.
You know, and we definitelydon't need to be hiding who we
are, because who we are isexactly who we were created to
(29:51):
be.
So, if we can have faith thatwe were created to be exactly
who that you were, if you canhave faith that you were, you
are exactly who you were createdto be in this moment, if you
can believe that a higher powerhas got your back when you
follow your intuition, theyearnings in your heart to do
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what it is that you came here todo and unapologetically be the
person that you came here to beand trust that, and trust that
you're enough and trust thatyou'll be taken care of and
devote time to an energy andintention to creating the things
that you're called to create orjust be.
Sometimes it's just being beingyou, sometimes it's just being
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that generational cycle breakerthat this world needs so that we
don't continue these cycleswith the next generation.
Right, if you can just trustwhat your heart is telling you
that you need to be doing andfocusing on right now and leave
the rest, what could we bepossible, what could we be
capable of as women If westarted to do that?
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And men, you know, having themlean more into their feminine a
little bit.
Right, and just trusting thatyou know we're safe in doing so,
that we are supported in doingso, that we are supported in
doing that is what the worldwants to do most, so it will
absolutely support us.
That is a huge mindset shift tomake and that's how I've been
(31:20):
kind of working through.
Making it is trusting that youknow my creator created me the
way that I am, and so that getsto be enough, and that he put
these yearnings and I doassociate God with he, and you
know, maybe that's something Ineed to look at, um, but maybe
you know he put these yearningsin my heart, um, for a reason.
(31:45):
And what would it look like ifI just trusted that, that got to
be enough.
And that's kind of whatinspired me to share this
message with you today, becauseI would normally not share this
kind of message with you guys,but this is kind of what was in
my heart to share.
And so this is me trusting thatand seeing what happens.
Who knows right, maybe it'llland with some of you, maybe it
(32:07):
won't, maybe it'll create amovement, maybe it'll flop, I
don't know.
The important thing is that thisis me trusting the thing that
maybe doesn't seem like thelogical thing to do, but that
seems like the aligned thing forme to do and what's in my heart
to do right now, and trustingthat it'll serve a higher
(32:31):
purpose and that I'll besupported in the process.
So this, right here, is meliving by example.
So, invitation for you to dothe same how can you recognize
that you're enough today,exactly the way that you are,
that you are a divine creation?
That source literally put eachand every little piece of you
together, exactly the way youare right now to be, exactly who
(32:52):
you right now to be, who,exactly who you needed you to be
, fully and unapologeticallyowning your gifts and sharing
them with the world, even ifthat means just being a
generational cycle breakerwithin your family, or maybe
it's something bigger than that.
That's for you to figure outand spend time with and reflect
on.
But trust the urges of yourheart to guide you, trust your
(33:12):
intuition to guide you and trustthat you will be taken care of
in the process and just see whatunfolds.
And that's my invitation foryou today, you guys.
So until next time, massivelove.
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