October 9, 2025 • 36 mins
What if the exhaustion you feel isn’t about doing more, but about living in one-speed mode in a world that wasn’t designed for your full power? In this transformative finale of the Unapologetic Feminine Awakening: Rebel, Rise, Radiate series, we dive deep into the sacred dance between your inner masculine and feminine energies—and reveal why mastering this rhythm is the key to unstoppable flow, aligned power, and magnetic presence.
I uncover why traditional roles and societal conditioning rarely honored the empowered feminine, leaving us divided, exhausted, and out of flow. Then, I show you the practical, daily ways to reconnect with both your masculine (structure, safety, execution) and feminine (intuition, creativity, emotional alchemy) energies, so you can move with clarity instead of force, and rest without guilt.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
🎤 The essential cycle to thrive: receive, act, rest, repeat
🎤 How to recognize the subtle signs that you’re forcing outcomes or overthinking
🎤 Daily practices to restore balance, presence, and inner flow
🎤 How to heal the split within yourself, relationships, and society
🎤 How to create safe containers for emotional expression and aligned action🎤 Why trusting outcomes over narratives unlocks your highest power
🎤 How integrating masculine and feminine energy deepens relationships, enhances creativity, and magnetizes connection
We explore why healing yourself is the first step to healing relationships, guiding others, and stepping fully into your highest purpose. This episode is not about gender—it’s about energy, alignment, and reclaiming the part of you the world has tried to suppress.
If you’re ready to stop forcing, overdoing, and people-pleasing, and start moving in aligned, magnetic flow, hit play, breathe, and take one small shift today. Your body, mind, and relationships will thank you.
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Maria (00:00):
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome back to the show.
Welcome to part six of theunapologetic feminine awakening
series and the last and finalpart.
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now.
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where we're helping you tounlock your feminine powers.
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affirmations to support you.
There is a link in the shownotes below where you can access
all of the above absolutelyfree.
Um, and just start bingelistening to all the episodes.
So we talked a lot about thejourney of masculine and
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feminine.
We talked about um where wekind of went wrong on the
journey and you know what that'skind of um where that has kind
of led us to today.
And today we're gonna talkabout how we heal all of that um
within ourselves and withineach other because we have to
remember like I can't stressthis enough.
Masculine and feminine isenergies that we both have, like
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I keep saying both, and Iapologize that all people have
access to men, women,non-binary, it doesn't matter.
We all have access to masculineand feminine energy in varying
proportions.
Some will lean more masculine,some will lean more feminine.
That has no that has no umimpact on um it's not affected
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by gender.
It has no impact on sexualorientation or sexual
preferences.
It is what it is.
They are both energies, theyexist within everyone, and each
and every one of us has our ownunique sort of balance of both.
One some will again will leanslightly more towards one, and
one will lean slightly moretowards others.
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What I have noticed is thattypically people who lean more
in the masculine direction willattract more feminine partner,
and people who lean more in afeminine direction will attract
a more masculine partner.
Again, gender ain't got nothingto do with it, okay?
Um, so um I will say, you know,we definitely need to create
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some healing in terms of ourmasculine and feminine energy in
like in humanity as a whole,but it has to start with
ourselves.
Like we have to do the innerwork first.
When we start to healourselves, that's how we create
a ripple effect of change andhealing.
Um, so then we could start toheal each other, start to heal
relationships, and theneventually heal the collective.
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But the work has to startinternally first.
Men and women.
Okay, I like I can't stressthis enough.
Like, I feel like it's sofunny.
Like, I feel like this wholeseries, like people have
commented, oh, like, you know,it sounds like you're really
angry at men and you're reallyhating men.
And like, no, this is this ishealing.
We all need to do.
We all need to hear heal ourinner feminine and and and help
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her come into her power um andrely a little less on our
masculine, which is what we'vebeen taught.
So what we're seeing right nowin the world and and play out
and and in in in in you know,social and political spheres is
is this how we've leaned soheavily in our masculine and how
the impacts of that, right?
Um power struggle, um, youknow, um, animosity from one
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group to the other based on raceor religion or color or gender
or you know, political points ofview.
Like we're we're divided on allsides of uh in all direction.
And I think that's becausewe're divided within ourselves.
Okay.
There's a lot of narratives outthere that are saying that, oh,
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you know, women have to be lessfeminine and feminine, feminism
has been what what you knowbroke down relationships and and
broke down how men and women,you know, work together.
I don't think that's true.
There's other, there's other umspiritual teachers out there
who will say um that thefeminine needs to heal and get
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out of her masculine and intoher heart space.
I think we all need to heal andget out of our masculine and
and be spend more time in ourheart space.
And I'm gonna explain, like Iknow that my perspective does
not agree with some of some ofthe other thought leaders on
there out there.
Um, and I'm okay with that, butthis this is what I believe is
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actually gonna create the shiftthat we need in ourselves and
each other and in humanity.
Um, so hear me out.
Like, let's let's let's diveinto this for a second, okay?
So we start by healing on theinside, right?
We healing with healingourselves, healing our ability
to be in both our masculine andour feminine, maybe not at the
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same time, but being able tokind of move between the two.
Like we're there's gonna betimes where we're gonna want to
lean more in our feminine, andthere's gonna be times where
we're gonna want to lean more inour masculine.
And I need, I think we need tolearn to be able to flow
comfortably between the two.
No suppressing, nooverpowering, no um, you know,
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giving giving um giving more uhface time to one than the other.
Um, that's what we've seen.
So we up until this point,let's just break it down, right?
In a nutshell, up until thispoint, men have pretty much had
their, you know, um what's itcalled?
Their their their um free passto be in their masculine a
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hundred percent of the time.
None of them have really beentaught unless, I mean, they're
you know, some of some, youknow, some newer generations are
are being more conscious ofthis.
But um, for the most part, noneof them have really been given
the permission to be in theirfeminine.
Um, they certainly weren'tencouraged to do that in school,
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they certainly weren'tencouraged to do that when they
were younger.
Um, my generation, it was uh,you know, you did not encourage
your son to be in his masculine.
That did not happen at all.
Um, I don't know if that's thecase with families today.
Um, but you know, I I I I thinkI can I can safely say that if
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you're from my generation, I'venow just recently turned 51.
If you're in my generation orprior, boys were taught to be
boys.
Like there was no, you know,there was no room for being in
your feminine energy as a boy.
You were cut off from yourfeminine energy completely.
Now, having said that, okay,having said that, many women
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will all many people will alsosay that women have also been
very heavily in their masculineever since, you know, the
feminist movement, which was wetalked about in the first
episode, I believe, was womenstepping into their masculine
role so that they can create asafe space for their feminine to
heal and rise.
So we actually needed thatevolution.
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We needed that to happen, andwe still need it to happen
because you know what?
We still got work to do.
We're not done.
There's still imbalances inrights with women and men,
there's still gender violenceagainst women, there's still
discrimination against women umin our schools and our
institutions and ourgovernments.
Um, and so, you know, for manyreasons, we do need to be able
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to access our masculine.
Now, let's look at women priorto the feminist revolution, uh,
the feminist movement, sorry.
Um were they in their feminine?
They, you know, I mean, I mean,I guess you can say, what,
because they cooked and cleaned,um, and they smiled a lot and
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they were pleasant and supportedtheir husbands and ironed their
shirts and took care of theirkids.
Is that what it means to be ain your feminine?
Because it's not.
And I don't know where thatdistortion ever took place.
So women actually weren'tallowed to be in their feminine
either.
They also weren't allowed to bein their masculine.
They were actually completelyoppressed until the feminist
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movement took place.
And when the feminist movementtook place, they started to step
into their masculine so theycould make space for their
feminine to rise and heal, likeI said.
And so now we're seeing somewomen really start to step into
like we stepped into ourmasculine, we, we, we, we, we,
we, we sort of started to masterthat.
And now we're we're starting totake more active steps to step
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into our feminine and learn toempower and work with that.
But also, again, we're notdone.
Okay.
There's still a lot of work todo.
Um, but you know, that's kindof how I put a nice neat little
bow on, you know, the last like50 years or whatever it is, 100
years.
Um let's just start by, youknow, being first off, you know,
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when we're talking about beingin masculine and feminine, when
we can balance these twoenergies within ourselves, that
is when we are the most powerfulwe can be.
Okay.
We literally have the power tocreate worlds, okay, within us.
And whether intentional orunintentional, and I do believe
this was intentional, thefeminine and the feminine energy
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within us was suppressed.
Feminine energy is actuallyvery powerful.
Um, feminine energy is actuallyintuition, it is creativity,
right?
And creation energy, not justabout creating babies, you guys.
Okay, this is a this this isall kinds of creation.
So it's intuitive, it is uh inuh creative energy, it is
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wisdom, it is emotionalintelligence, it is it is flow,
it it is being uh able to accessyour flow state, your most
empowered, flow, creative,powered state.
Okay, the masculine is thestructure, it's the balance,
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it's the safety, is theprotection.
It's it's it's it's taking it'staking the it if you if you
picture the two energies workingtogether, the masculine creates
a safe container for thefeminine to be in her creative
expression.
The the feminine will downloadcreative ideas and and
innovation, and and themasculine will like make it
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happen.
These are how these twoenergies work within us.
When we can bring theseenergies into balance within
ourselves, we become unstoppableas beings.
And so what happens is when wecan do that, when we when we can
bring these energies into unionwithin ourselves, we come, we
come into union as within, sowithout, we come into union in
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our with our world around us.
We come into union with otherpeople, we we start to we start
to co-create together, we startto make magic together, we start
to create worlds together, westart to create shifts together,
we start to create the mostpowerful and innovative change.
And that is because we areworking in harmony with our
masculine and feminine energies,both within and without.
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Does this make sense?
Like, rewind this if you needto.
Like, this is really important,okay?
And so it's very important toremember that both men, women,
um, non-binary, we all haveaccess.
And I I apologize that I keepsaying both.
There is my conditioning reallycoming through.
Um, and I'm trying to own thatas best as I can.
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But when I start to speak, whenI start to channel,
unfortunately, a lot of my likea lot of where I've been
conditioned can sometimes comethrough in my language or my
choice of words.
And that's just because um itis, it has been, you know, so
ingrained for me.
So, you know, that's all of ushave access to masculine and
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feminine energy.
So that means men can be intheir feminine, they can be
intuitive, they can access flow,they can be, um, they can, they
can um harness emotionalintelligence and emotional
alchemy and wisdom and trulyembody it.
Women can be in theirmasculine, we can create, we we
well, sorry, we can build, wecan create structures, we can
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create safety, we can, we cancreate protection.
If you don't believe me, lookat a mother with her child,
right?
You telling me that's femininethat I mean, yes, sometimes she
can might be in her feminine,but a lot of the times a mother
is in her masculine, she isprotecting, she is providing,
she is creating a foundation.
That is not feminine energy,that is masculine.
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Okay, so we absolutely,everybody needs to be able to
switch to and from masculine andfeminine, ebb and flow, yin and
yang.
And we need to, you know, it'sone of these things that needs
to be very um cyclical.
If you look at it, you know,the way I break it down, and and
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there's going to be nuances,and sometimes we'll toggle back
and forth.
But basically, what it is is,you know, it's about stepping
into our feminine energy first,getting into flow state, get
tapping into creativity, tappinginto intuition, getting a
download of idea.
Once we have that download ofidea, then the masculine steps
in.
The masculine starts to stepin, starts to take action,
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starts to do the thing, set upthe structure, set up the
foundation, move all the movingparts to get everything um in
align so that that whatever thatdownload was, that inspired
idea, that intuition can be madeinto physical.
And then once that it's madeinto physical and that work has
been done, again, very nuanced,we'll talk and back and forth
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between the two constantly.
Once that's done, we go backinto feminine, we rest, um, we
tune into our intuition, we wefeed our creative channels and
until the next intuitive hitcomes along.
And that's how we're basicallysupposed to move through life.
Every single one of us.
Now, you mean to tell me thatwe have built a society in a
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world where we are given timeand space as men or women or
non-binary or whatever youidentify with, you mean to tell
me that we've created a society.
We've created systems,institutions, religions,
churches, synagogues, schoolswhere we teach people.
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So you're gonna take action.
So you're gonna sit down,you're gonna get creative ideas,
and you're gonna get downloads,and then your masculine is
gonna kick in and you're gonnatake action.
And then once the action istaken and you build a foundation
and you build the thing, thenyou're gonna go back into your
feminine and you're just gonnatake a pause and you're just
gonna take a rest and you'regonna let creativity flow and
you're gonna get creative,you're gonna let creativity run
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run wild again, and you're gonnaget into flow state again, and
then you're gonna wait for thatnext inspired idea, and then
boom, take action.
Do you mean to tell me that inanywhere in the world we've been
taught that that way of livingis okay, whether you identify as
a man or a woman or a non-bieror whatever?
No.
We're all required to takeaction, we're all required to
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work, we're all required to umcreate a foundation.
And for those of for those whoare fighting for women to be
women again and to be at homewith the children, that's
actually not being in feminineeither.
Like I said, there's nothingmore masculine than a mother
taking care of her children, andnot for anything, but as women,
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we're meant to create a hell ofa lot more than just children.
Like, doesn't stop there.
And for those of us who havenot had the opportunity to
create children, who have nothad the desire to create
children, who have not the hadthe physical ability to create
children, like you don't sayshit like that.
Like, I'm sorry, there's muchmore that we're capable of in
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this world than just havingchildren.
I'm not saying there's anythingwrong out there with women who
are having children.
I honestly, I wish I could havegone down that road.
That, and that is my that is myjourney.
I wish I could have gone downthat road.
I didn't.
Life had a different path forme.
Okay.
And you know what?
I've made peace with that path.
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And there are many women outthere who just don't have the
desire to have children.
And I don't think women shouldbe forced to have children if
they don't have the desire to doit.
And I don't think that thatshould be made bad or wrong.
I think we need to really sitdown and ask ourselves: what is
it about keeping women at homethat makes so many people feel
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safe?
And I think it comes back to, Ithink we're afraid to let
people be in their full powerand potential.
And I think, well, maybe notall people, but I think there is
a force out there that isafraid of people stepping into
their full potential becausethey know that once we step into
our full potential, even theycan't control what we're capable
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of.
And so I think this narrative,and and and to say, you know,
when we talk about thetraditional family, man, you
know, builds a home, goes towork, provides for his family,
the mother stays home, takescare of the children, puts
dinner on the table, and ispleasant and smiley and
supportive of her man, neitherone of neither the man nor the
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woman are in their empoweredstate.
Because the man is cut off fromhis feminine, and so is really
the woman.
Neither one of them has accessto their empowered feminine.
They're actually both in verymasculine roles.
If if if we're really likebreaking it down, they're just
two different expressions of thesame thing.
Like neither one of them is intheir empowered feminine where
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they're accessing flow andcreativity and in and intuition
and and and higher wisdom.
Neither of them.
So there is a huge part of apower source that we are
discouraging people fromaccessing, that the world is
discouraging us from accessing,and we need to start shutting
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that down.
And the way that we shut thatdown is again, it has to be an
internal choice.
So if you're listening to thispodcast and you're liking what
I'm saying about feminineempowerment, you can do this
work.
You can do this work bystarting to recognize when
you're in your masculine andwhat that looks like, when
you're in your feminine and whatthat looks like, and being able
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to bring some balance betweenthose two energies.
Because the other thing thatfeminine energy is, it's also
healing, it's also empathy.
And these are two things, theseare two energies that are very,
very much lacking in today'ssociety.
We are very much lackingempathy, we are very much
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lacking healing.
And the more we keep pushingaction and strategy and power
and accountability and and youknow um safety and protection,
we're losing sight of what'sreally gonna heal this planet
and all of us as a humanity, andthat is the empathy piece,
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right?
And the healing piece.
And so when we can giveourselves permission, you know,
no matter what we identify as,when we can give ourselves
permission to be in both ourmasculine and our feminine and
just start to pay attention,right?
When are you taking action?
When are you strategizing?
When are you thinking?
When are you using logic andreason?
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Um, and and and and and beingin in in protector kind of
energy, right?
That is when you're in yourmasculine.
So pay close attention to whenyou do that and what that feels
like and what triggers you to dothat.
And then pay close attention towhen you're feeling like you're
forcing, when you feel like youhave to force the doing, the,
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and and this is for women too.
When you feel like you have toforce checking off your to-dos,
when you feel like you'reconstantly overthinking and
overanalyzing and and andconstantly worrying and and and
second guessing yourself, whenyou feel like everything that
you're trying, nothing isworking, nothing is working out
the way that you want it to,that's a sure sign that it's
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time to go into your feminine.
That's when you know.
When it starts to feel likeyou're spinning your wheels and
you keep doing something, it'sdoing things and you're getting
nowhere, you're working harder,you're getting less pay, you're
working more hours, you're notgetting ahead, um, you're
investing more and more to getto to take care of your family,
but your family's falling apart.
That's a sign that it's time togo into your feminine.
That's a sign that it's time tostop, slow down, take a rest,
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tap into flow state.
Allow yourself to be open towhat you might receive and just
wait and be in creative energyuntil you receive the inspired
idea, then take action again.
So we have to be able to startto step in and out of one and
the other.
And this is gonna, it's gonnabe clunky, it's gonna be messy,
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we're gonna fumble it, and it'sokay.
The important thing is thatwe're mindful of it.
And if you've downloaded, um ifyou've downloaded the
masterclass in the playlist,there are some great journal
prompts in there to support youand some great affirmations to
support you.
Um, but really, and and we I dobreak down in the masterclass
the nine feminine superpowersthat are actually going to help
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you with all of these things,they're gonna help you with
intuition, they're gonna helpyou to let go of control, they
are going to help you to um tapinto creativity.
Um, all the things that we'retalking about, all the things
that are gonna really help youto step into and embody your
divine feminine power, um, isthe the tools are there.
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And it literally takes minutesto switch and turn off the
masculine switch and turn on thefeminine switch.
And that's when you're gonnaget the clarity.
That is when you're gonna getthe um the clarity, the creative
idea, the inspiration, um, theinner knowing, right?
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That's when you're gonna getthe guidance that you keep
looking to your external worldfor.
That is when the solutions aregonna fall in your lap, is when
you can kind of go back and andand be in your feminine.
And so the way we heal thatwithin ourselves, right?
If we look at, you know, whathappened with the feminist
movement, women stepped intotheir masculine energy to create
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a safe space for the feminine.
So we need to create a safespace, and that's part of the
healing process.
We need to create a safe spacefor the feminine.
So, what does that look like,right?
For women, again, it was thefeminist movement, but well, how
do we do that individually?
Carve out time to be in yourfeminine um embodiment, carve
out time to to dance, to play,to write, to journal, to
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reflect, to meditate, to just,you know, do creative things
just for the sake of doingcreative things, not because
they yield a return, right?
And that goes for men too,right?
And and non-binary, take a timeout to be in your feminine,
carve out that time and space,right?
I when it comes to gender, andthis is really important, you
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guys, when it comes to gender, Ithink we need to, you know,
because I typically women can bemore in their emotional body
than men, because more, youknow, more often than not, women
do lead more feminine than theydo masculine, and vice versa.
Um, men lean more towardsmasculine than feminine, but not
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a rule, just generally.
So this means as women, we alsoneed to give space to the
masculine and let them know thatit's safe for them to feel
their emotions when they'reready.
We can't push this on them,right?
Um, just like you don't want tobe pushed to feel something,
neither do they.
And you know, they've beentaught it's on, but the whole
world, we need to create a safespace for the masculine to step
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into his feminine, to feel, tomove through um their emotions,
to access emotional alchemy, toaccess creativity, to access
empathy, right?
And that's gonna be anuncomfortable process because
that's been suppressed for avery long time.
So we need to make space forthat.
We also need to create safetyfor the feminine, right?
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We need to create thestructures, the foundation.
We need to create theinstitutions that are gonna
allow for feminine energy andallow her to feel safe.
This means also creating thefoundations and the institutions
that are safe for women.
Do you see where I'm going withthis?
Only then are we gonna healthis divide because otherwise
we're always gonna be playing onopposite sides of the fence.
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We have to give what the otherneeds and with with to
ourselves.
Like we have if we identify asfeminine, we have to give space
to our masculine.
If we identify as masculine, wehave to give space to our
feminine, first within ourselvesand then for each other.
That's how we heal this.
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Because we can when we can bothtap into our natural balance of
masculine and feminine, that'swhen we heal ourselves.
That's when we can ask accessto higher love and higher
wisdom, and that's when actuallywe can create more intimate and
close connected relationshipswith each other.
That it has to start withourselves first, it has to
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start, it's an internal job, andit starts with everyone, not
just men, not just women, notnon-binary, not transgender.
Everybody has to do this work.
This is when we become the mostpowerful humans.
And I believe that this hasbeen intentionally kept from us
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because they knew that if wediscovered how powerful we are
in our masculine and femininewhen they're when they're in
balance and when they're inharmony, they would never be
able to control us.
And so they've tried everythingin their power to control us.
And when I say they, I don'tmean men.
Okay.
I mean patriarchalconditioning, I mean patriarchal
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institutions, governments,churches, religion.
Um, all of it has, I believe,been distorted to serve a
patriarchal agenda, right?
And that's the part, that'sthose are the cracks that we're
seeing in now.
Though that's what we're seeingslip through the cracks and
become it, it's becoming so it'sit's so obvious, it's hard not
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to see anymore.
Um, and I think as more andmore people start to wake up to
this, I think more and morepeople are gonna start to
realize, hey, I don't think weknow the full full story here.
And I don't think we do.
I don't know if we ever will.
What I do know is that we haveto start trusting ourselves
more, not what we're told.
We have to start trusting whatwe're seeing, not what we're
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hearing, right?
It's that it's like that, it'slike that saying in
relationship.
Um, trust what they do, notwhat they say.
Right?
Because people can sayanything, but it's what they're
doing that tells you really whothey are and how they're being.
That's what tells you who theyare.
So um I think when we canstart, like I said, I can't say
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this enough, when we can startto make safe spaces for our
feminine to lean, to, to, tolean into that energy and allow
it to be expressed through us,and then all like being able to
oscillate between our masculineand our feminine and provide
opportunity for both, um,knowing when to bounce back from
one of the other.
So you'll know when you'reready to bounce out of your
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masculine.
What like I said, when you'reoverthinking, overanalyzing,
over-strategizing, you're burntout, you're tired, you're
exhausted, and everything you'redoing, nothing is working.
Everything is doing the exactopposite of what you want.
And I've experienced thisfirsthand recently.
And that's when I and I've beentrying to settle back into my
feminine, and it's been hard.
It's scary, it's uncomfortablebecause there's no guarantees,
there's no rhyme or reason,there's no logic behind it.
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It goes against everything thatwe've been taught to do.
So I've had to like really facesome of my worst fears and
saying, you know what, it'sokay.
I've the universe has my back,everything is gonna be okay.
I know this route has not beenworking.
No matter how much I keeppushing and striving and
strategizing and trying to forceand trying to control, all I
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keep doing is pushing thingsfurther away.
That's when you know it's timeto step into your feminine.
And it is uncomfortable becauseyour worst fears will come up.
Because this world has toldyou, but if you don't work hard,
you'll won't be, you won't beokay.
You're not gonna survive, youwon't do well, you're not gonna
have money, you won't have arelationship, you won't survive
if you don't have arelationship.
Who are you if you're a ifyou're a woman without a
relationship and a man in herlife?
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If you act like this, you won'thave you'll never be able to
get a man.
If you're in your if if ifyou're a feminist, you'll never
have a no man will ever loveyou.
He would want to be with you ifyou're from like there's so
much.
You have to ignore all of thatand sit, create sit in that
creativity, sit in that flow, dothe emotional alchemization and
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trust that the intuitiveguidance is going to come
through when the time is right.
And when it does, that's whenit's time to go back into taking
action.
And so you jump right back intoyour masculine and you start to
take action, you lay thefoundations and you and and you
make the decisions and you andyou set up the strategy and you
get everything ready, you hitgo, and then it's time to go
back into your feminine, take atime out, get back into flow and
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creativity and andself-nurturing, and just keep
going back and forth betweenthese two energies.
And that is when we become ourmost powerful.
Um, and taking those timeoutsthat we need to be in our
feminine can can feel reallyuncomfortable.
They can bring up our worstfears because, like I said,
everything in society has beendesigned to keep us from.
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That we're constantly beingasked to do.
We're constantly being asked totake care of.
We're constantly being asked tobe productive, to complete
checklists of shit that at theend of the day we don't even
know what we've done.
Like we've done so much, youknow?
Um, and so yeah, it isuncomfortable to be in your
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feminine, whether you're nomatter what you identify as,
doesn't matter.
It's always uncomfortable.
But know that it's the moreuncomfortable it is, the more
important it is for you to dothat work until it becomes
comfortable, until you caneasily oscillate between the
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two.
And that's when you know you'vetaken your power back from all
the programming and conditioningthat has tried to keep you in a
disempowered state.
Okay.
Um, so hopefully that makessense.
We're gonna be talking a lotmore of this on the podcast.
So stick around.
Let me know which part of thisepisode or even this series
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resonated for you the most, whatyou take away from it and what
you're gonna apply to your lifetoday.
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questions, any comments, pleaseemail me at mariafemcoach.com or
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Until next time, you guys,massive love.
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome back to the show.
Welcome to part six of theunapologetic feminine awakening
series and the last and finalpart.
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Um, and just start bingelistening to all the episodes.
So we talked a lot about thejourney of masculine and
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feminine.
We talked about um where wekind of went wrong on the
journey and you know what that'skind of um where that has kind
of led us to today.
And today we're gonna talkabout how we heal all of that um
within ourselves and withineach other because we have to
remember like I can't stressthis enough.
Masculine and feminine isenergies that we both have, like
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I keep saying both, and Iapologize that all people have
access to men, women,non-binary, it doesn't matter.
We all have access to masculineand feminine energy in varying
proportions.
Some will lean more masculine,some will lean more feminine.
That has no that has no umimpact on um it's not affected
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by gender.
It has no impact on sexualorientation or sexual
preferences.
It is what it is.
They are both energies, theyexist within everyone, and each
and every one of us has our ownunique sort of balance of both.
One some will again will leanslightly more towards one, and
one will lean slightly moretowards others.
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What I have noticed is thattypically people who lean more
in the masculine direction willattract more feminine partner,
and people who lean more in afeminine direction will attract
a more masculine partner.
Again, gender ain't got nothingto do with it, okay?
Um, so um I will say, you know,we definitely need to create
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some healing in terms of ourmasculine and feminine energy in
like in humanity as a whole,but it has to start with
ourselves.
Like we have to do the innerwork first.
When we start to healourselves, that's how we create
a ripple effect of change andhealing.
Um, so then we could start toheal each other, start to heal
relationships, and theneventually heal the collective.
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But the work has to startinternally first.
Men and women.
Okay, I like I can't stressthis enough.
Like, I feel like it's sofunny.
Like, I feel like this wholeseries, like people have
commented, oh, like, you know,it sounds like you're really
angry at men and you're reallyhating men.
And like, no, this is this ishealing.
We all need to do.
We all need to hear heal ourinner feminine and and and help
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her come into her power um andrely a little less on our
masculine, which is what we'vebeen taught.
So what we're seeing right nowin the world and and play out
and and in in in in you know,social and political spheres is
is this how we've leaned soheavily in our masculine and how
the impacts of that, right?
Um power struggle, um, youknow, um, animosity from one
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group to the other based on raceor religion or color or gender
or you know, political points ofview.
Like we're we're divided on allsides of uh in all direction.
And I think that's becausewe're divided within ourselves.
Okay.
There's a lot of narratives outthere that are saying that, oh,
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you know, women have to be lessfeminine and feminine, feminism
has been what what you knowbroke down relationships and and
broke down how men and women,you know, work together.
I don't think that's true.
There's other, there's other umspiritual teachers out there
who will say um that thefeminine needs to heal and get
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out of her masculine and intoher heart space.
I think we all need to heal andget out of our masculine and
and be spend more time in ourheart space.
And I'm gonna explain, like Iknow that my perspective does
not agree with some of some ofthe other thought leaders on
there out there.
Um, and I'm okay with that, butthis this is what I believe is
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actually gonna create the shiftthat we need in ourselves and
each other and in humanity.
Um, so hear me out.
Like, let's let's let's diveinto this for a second, okay?
So we start by healing on theinside, right?
We healing with healingourselves, healing our ability
to be in both our masculine andour feminine, maybe not at the
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same time, but being able tokind of move between the two.
Like we're there's gonna betimes where we're gonna want to
lean more in our feminine, andthere's gonna be times where
we're gonna want to lean more inour masculine.
And I need, I think we need tolearn to be able to flow
comfortably between the two.
No suppressing, nooverpowering, no um, you know,
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giving giving um giving more uhface time to one than the other.
Um, that's what we've seen.
So we up until this point,let's just break it down, right?
In a nutshell, up until thispoint, men have pretty much had
their, you know, um what's itcalled?
Their their their um free passto be in their masculine a
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hundred percent of the time.
None of them have really beentaught unless, I mean, they're
you know, some of some, youknow, some newer generations are
are being more conscious ofthis.
But um, for the most part, noneof them have really been given
the permission to be in theirfeminine.
Um, they certainly weren'tencouraged to do that in school,
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they certainly weren'tencouraged to do that when they
were younger.
Um, my generation, it was uh,you know, you did not encourage
your son to be in his masculine.
That did not happen at all.
Um, I don't know if that's thecase with families today.
Um, but you know, I I I I thinkI can I can safely say that if
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you're from my generation, I'venow just recently turned 51.
If you're in my generation orprior, boys were taught to be
boys.
Like there was no, you know,there was no room for being in
your feminine energy as a boy.
You were cut off from yourfeminine energy completely.
Now, having said that, okay,having said that, many women
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will all many people will alsosay that women have also been
very heavily in their masculineever since, you know, the
feminist movement, which was wetalked about in the first
episode, I believe, was womenstepping into their masculine
role so that they can create asafe space for their feminine to
heal and rise.
So we actually needed thatevolution.
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We needed that to happen, andwe still need it to happen
because you know what?
We still got work to do.
We're not done.
There's still imbalances inrights with women and men,
there's still gender violenceagainst women, there's still
discrimination against women umin our schools and our
institutions and ourgovernments.
Um, and so, you know, for manyreasons, we do need to be able
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to access our masculine.
Now, let's look at women priorto the feminist revolution, uh,
the feminist movement, sorry.
Um were they in their feminine?
They, you know, I mean, I mean,I guess you can say, what,
because they cooked and cleaned,um, and they smiled a lot and
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they were pleasant and supportedtheir husbands and ironed their
shirts and took care of theirkids.
Is that what it means to be ain your feminine?
Because it's not.
And I don't know where thatdistortion ever took place.
So women actually weren'tallowed to be in their feminine
either.
They also weren't allowed to bein their masculine.
They were actually completelyoppressed until the feminist
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movement took place.
And when the feminist movementtook place, they started to step
into their masculine so theycould make space for their
feminine to rise and heal, likeI said.
And so now we're seeing somewomen really start to step into
like we stepped into ourmasculine, we, we, we, we, we,
we, we sort of started to masterthat.
And now we're we're starting totake more active steps to step
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into our feminine and learn toempower and work with that.
But also, again, we're notdone.
Okay.
There's still a lot of work todo.
Um, but you know, that's kindof how I put a nice neat little
bow on, you know, the last like50 years or whatever it is, 100
years.
Um let's just start by, youknow, being first off, you know,
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when we're talking about beingin masculine and feminine, when
we can balance these twoenergies within ourselves, that
is when we are the most powerfulwe can be.
Okay.
We literally have the power tocreate worlds, okay, within us.
And whether intentional orunintentional, and I do believe
this was intentional, thefeminine and the feminine energy
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within us was suppressed.
Feminine energy is actuallyvery powerful.
Um, feminine energy is actuallyintuition, it is creativity,
right?
And creation energy, not justabout creating babies, you guys.
Okay, this is a this this isall kinds of creation.
So it's intuitive, it is uh inuh creative energy, it is
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wisdom, it is emotionalintelligence, it is it is flow,
it it is being uh able to accessyour flow state, your most
empowered, flow, creative,powered state.
Okay, the masculine is thestructure, it's the balance,
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it's the safety, is theprotection.
It's it's it's it's taking it'staking the it if you if you
picture the two energies workingtogether, the masculine creates
a safe container for thefeminine to be in her creative
expression.
The the feminine will downloadcreative ideas and and
innovation, and and themasculine will like make it
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happen.
These are how these twoenergies work within us.
When we can bring theseenergies into balance within
ourselves, we become unstoppableas beings.
And so what happens is when wecan do that, when we when we can
bring these energies into unionwithin ourselves, we come, we
come into union as within, sowithout, we come into union in
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our with our world around us.
We come into union with otherpeople, we we start to we start
to co-create together, we startto make magic together, we start
to create worlds together, westart to create shifts together,
we start to create the mostpowerful and innovative change.
And that is because we areworking in harmony with our
masculine and feminine energies,both within and without.
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Does this make sense?
Like, rewind this if you needto.
Like, this is really important,okay?
And so it's very important toremember that both men, women,
um, non-binary, we all haveaccess.
And I I apologize that I keepsaying both.
There is my conditioning reallycoming through.
Um, and I'm trying to own thatas best as I can.
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But when I start to speak, whenI start to channel,
unfortunately, a lot of my likea lot of where I've been
conditioned can sometimes comethrough in my language or my
choice of words.
And that's just because um itis, it has been, you know, so
ingrained for me.
So, you know, that's all of ushave access to masculine and
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feminine energy.
So that means men can be intheir feminine, they can be
intuitive, they can access flow,they can be, um, they can, they
can um harness emotionalintelligence and emotional
alchemy and wisdom and trulyembody it.
Women can be in theirmasculine, we can create, we we
well, sorry, we can build, wecan create structures, we can
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create safety, we can, we cancreate protection.
If you don't believe me, lookat a mother with her child,
right?
You telling me that's femininethat I mean, yes, sometimes she
can might be in her feminine,but a lot of the times a mother
is in her masculine, she isprotecting, she is providing,
she is creating a foundation.
That is not feminine energy,that is masculine.
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Okay, so we absolutely,everybody needs to be able to
switch to and from masculine andfeminine, ebb and flow, yin and
yang.
And we need to, you know, it'sone of these things that needs
to be very um cyclical.
If you look at it, you know,the way I break it down, and and
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there's going to be nuances,and sometimes we'll toggle back
and forth.
But basically, what it is is,you know, it's about stepping
into our feminine energy first,getting into flow state, get
tapping into creativity, tappinginto intuition, getting a
download of idea.
Once we have that download ofidea, then the masculine steps
in.
The masculine starts to stepin, starts to take action,
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starts to do the thing, set upthe structure, set up the
foundation, move all the movingparts to get everything um in
align so that that whatever thatdownload was, that inspired
idea, that intuition can be madeinto physical.
And then once that it's madeinto physical and that work has
been done, again, very nuanced,we'll talk and back and forth
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between the two constantly.
Once that's done, we go backinto feminine, we rest, um, we
tune into our intuition, we wefeed our creative channels and
until the next intuitive hitcomes along.
And that's how we're basicallysupposed to move through life.
Every single one of us.
Now, you mean to tell me thatwe have built a society in a
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world where we are given timeand space as men or women or
non-binary or whatever youidentify with, you mean to tell
me that we've created a society.
We've created systems,institutions, religions,
churches, synagogues, schoolswhere we teach people.
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So you're gonna take action.
So you're gonna sit down,you're gonna get creative ideas,
and you're gonna get downloads,and then your masculine is
gonna kick in and you're gonnatake action.
And then once the action istaken and you build a foundation
and you build the thing, thenyou're gonna go back into your
feminine and you're just gonnatake a pause and you're just
gonna take a rest and you'regonna let creativity flow and
you're gonna get creative,you're gonna let creativity run
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run wild again, and you're gonnaget into flow state again, and
then you're gonna wait for thatnext inspired idea, and then
boom, take action.
Do you mean to tell me that inanywhere in the world we've been
taught that that way of livingis okay, whether you identify as
a man or a woman or a non-bieror whatever?
No.
We're all required to takeaction, we're all required to
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work, we're all required to umcreate a foundation.
And for those of for those whoare fighting for women to be
women again and to be at homewith the children, that's
actually not being in feminineeither.
Like I said, there's nothingmore masculine than a mother
taking care of her children, andnot for anything, but as women,
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we're meant to create a hell ofa lot more than just children.
Like, doesn't stop there.
And for those of us who havenot had the opportunity to
create children, who have nothad the desire to create
children, who have not the hadthe physical ability to create
children, like you don't sayshit like that.
Like, I'm sorry, there's muchmore that we're capable of in
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this world than just havingchildren.
I'm not saying there's anythingwrong out there with women who
are having children.
I honestly, I wish I could havegone down that road.
That, and that is my that is myjourney.
I wish I could have gone downthat road.
I didn't.
Life had a different path forme.
Okay.
And you know what?
I've made peace with that path.
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And there are many women outthere who just don't have the
desire to have children.
And I don't think women shouldbe forced to have children if
they don't have the desire to doit.
And I don't think that thatshould be made bad or wrong.
I think we need to really sitdown and ask ourselves: what is
it about keeping women at homethat makes so many people feel
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safe?
And I think it comes back to, Ithink we're afraid to let
people be in their full powerand potential.
And I think, well, maybe notall people, but I think there is
a force out there that isafraid of people stepping into
their full potential becausethey know that once we step into
our full potential, even theycan't control what we're capable
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of.
And so I think this narrative,and and and to say, you know,
when we talk about thetraditional family, man, you
know, builds a home, goes towork, provides for his family,
the mother stays home, takescare of the children, puts
dinner on the table, and ispleasant and smiley and
supportive of her man, neitherone of neither the man nor the
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woman are in their empoweredstate.
Because the man is cut off fromhis feminine, and so is really
the woman.
Neither one of them has accessto their empowered feminine.
They're actually both in verymasculine roles.
If if if we're really likebreaking it down, they're just
two different expressions of thesame thing.
Like neither one of them is intheir empowered feminine where
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they're accessing flow andcreativity and in and intuition
and and and higher wisdom.
Neither of them.
So there is a huge part of apower source that we are
discouraging people fromaccessing, that the world is
discouraging us from accessing,and we need to start shutting
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that down.
And the way that we shut thatdown is again, it has to be an
internal choice.
So if you're listening to thispodcast and you're liking what
I'm saying about feminineempowerment, you can do this
work.
You can do this work bystarting to recognize when
you're in your masculine andwhat that looks like, when
you're in your feminine and whatthat looks like, and being able
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to bring some balance betweenthose two energies.
Because the other thing thatfeminine energy is, it's also
healing, it's also empathy.
And these are two things, theseare two energies that are very,
very much lacking in today'ssociety.
We are very much lackingempathy, we are very much
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lacking healing.
And the more we keep pushingaction and strategy and power
and accountability and and youknow um safety and protection,
we're losing sight of what'sreally gonna heal this planet
and all of us as a humanity, andthat is the empathy piece,
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right?
And the healing piece.
And so when we can giveourselves permission, you know,
no matter what we identify as,when we can give ourselves
permission to be in both ourmasculine and our feminine and
just start to pay attention,right?
When are you taking action?
When are you strategizing?
When are you thinking?
When are you using logic andreason?
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Um, and and and and and beingin in in protector kind of
energy, right?
That is when you're in yourmasculine.
So pay close attention to whenyou do that and what that feels
like and what triggers you to dothat.
And then pay close attention towhen you're feeling like you're
forcing, when you feel like youhave to force the doing, the,
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and and this is for women too.
When you feel like you have toforce checking off your to-dos,
when you feel like you'reconstantly overthinking and
overanalyzing and and andconstantly worrying and and and
second guessing yourself, whenyou feel like everything that
you're trying, nothing isworking, nothing is working out
the way that you want it to,that's a sure sign that it's
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time to go into your feminine.
That's when you know.
When it starts to feel likeyou're spinning your wheels and
you keep doing something, it'sdoing things and you're getting
nowhere, you're working harder,you're getting less pay, you're
working more hours, you're notgetting ahead, um, you're
investing more and more to getto to take care of your family,
but your family's falling apart.
That's a sign that it's time togo into your feminine.
That's a sign that it's time tostop, slow down, take a rest,
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tap into flow state.
Allow yourself to be open towhat you might receive and just
wait and be in creative energyuntil you receive the inspired
idea, then take action again.
So we have to be able to startto step in and out of one and
the other.
And this is gonna, it's gonnabe clunky, it's gonna be messy,
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we're gonna fumble it, and it'sokay.
The important thing is thatwe're mindful of it.
And if you've downloaded, um ifyou've downloaded the
masterclass in the playlist,there are some great journal
prompts in there to support youand some great affirmations to
support you.
Um, but really, and and we I dobreak down in the masterclass
the nine feminine superpowersthat are actually going to help
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you with all of these things,they're gonna help you with
intuition, they're gonna helpyou to let go of control, they
are going to help you to um tapinto creativity.
Um, all the things that we'retalking about, all the things
that are gonna really help youto step into and embody your
divine feminine power, um, isthe the tools are there.
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And it literally takes minutesto switch and turn off the
masculine switch and turn on thefeminine switch.
And that's when you're gonnaget the clarity.
That is when you're gonna getthe um the clarity, the creative
idea, the inspiration, um, theinner knowing, right?
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That's when you're gonna getthe guidance that you keep
looking to your external worldfor.
That is when the solutions aregonna fall in your lap, is when
you can kind of go back and andand be in your feminine.
And so the way we heal thatwithin ourselves, right?
If we look at, you know, whathappened with the feminist
movement, women stepped intotheir masculine energy to create
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a safe space for the feminine.
So we need to create a safespace, and that's part of the
healing process.
We need to create a safe spacefor the feminine.
So, what does that look like,right?
For women, again, it was thefeminist movement, but well, how
do we do that individually?
Carve out time to be in yourfeminine um embodiment, carve
out time to to dance, to play,to write, to journal, to
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reflect, to meditate, to just,you know, do creative things
just for the sake of doingcreative things, not because
they yield a return, right?
And that goes for men too,right?
And and non-binary, take a timeout to be in your feminine,
carve out that time and space,right?
I when it comes to gender, andthis is really important, you
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guys, when it comes to gender, Ithink we need to, you know,
because I typically women can bemore in their emotional body
than men, because more, youknow, more often than not, women
do lead more feminine than theydo masculine, and vice versa.
Um, men lean more towardsmasculine than feminine, but not
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a rule, just generally.
So this means as women, we alsoneed to give space to the
masculine and let them know thatit's safe for them to feel
their emotions when they'reready.
We can't push this on them,right?
Um, just like you don't want tobe pushed to feel something,
neither do they.
And you know, they've beentaught it's on, but the whole
world, we need to create a safespace for the masculine to step
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into his feminine, to feel, tomove through um their emotions,
to access emotional alchemy, toaccess creativity, to access
empathy, right?
And that's gonna be anuncomfortable process because
that's been suppressed for avery long time.
So we need to make space forthat.
We also need to create safetyfor the feminine, right?
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We need to create thestructures, the foundation.
We need to create theinstitutions that are gonna
allow for feminine energy andallow her to feel safe.
This means also creating thefoundations and the institutions
that are safe for women.
Do you see where I'm going withthis?
Only then are we gonna healthis divide because otherwise
we're always gonna be playing onopposite sides of the fence.
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We have to give what the otherneeds and with with to
ourselves.
Like we have if we identify asfeminine, we have to give space
to our masculine.
If we identify as masculine, wehave to give space to our
feminine, first within ourselvesand then for each other.
That's how we heal this.
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Because we can when we can bothtap into our natural balance of
masculine and feminine, that'swhen we heal ourselves.
That's when we can ask accessto higher love and higher
wisdom, and that's when actuallywe can create more intimate and
close connected relationshipswith each other.
That it has to start withourselves first, it has to
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start, it's an internal job, andit starts with everyone, not
just men, not just women, notnon-binary, not transgender.
Everybody has to do this work.
This is when we become the mostpowerful humans.
And I believe that this hasbeen intentionally kept from us
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because they knew that if wediscovered how powerful we are
in our masculine and femininewhen they're when they're in
balance and when they're inharmony, they would never be
able to control us.
And so they've tried everythingin their power to control us.
And when I say they, I don'tmean men.
Okay.
I mean patriarchalconditioning, I mean patriarchal
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institutions, governments,churches, religion.
Um, all of it has, I believe,been distorted to serve a
patriarchal agenda, right?
And that's the part, that'sthose are the cracks that we're
seeing in now.
Though that's what we're seeingslip through the cracks and
become it, it's becoming so it'sit's so obvious, it's hard not
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to see anymore.
Um, and I think as more andmore people start to wake up to
this, I think more and morepeople are gonna start to
realize, hey, I don't think weknow the full full story here.
And I don't think we do.
I don't know if we ever will.
What I do know is that we haveto start trusting ourselves
more, not what we're told.
We have to start trusting whatwe're seeing, not what we're
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hearing, right?
It's that it's like that, it'slike that saying in
relationship.
Um, trust what they do, notwhat they say.
Right?
Because people can sayanything, but it's what they're
doing that tells you really whothey are and how they're being.
That's what tells you who theyare.
So um I think when we canstart, like I said, I can't say
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this enough, when we can startto make safe spaces for our
feminine to lean, to, to, tolean into that energy and allow
it to be expressed through us,and then all like being able to
oscillate between our masculineand our feminine and provide
opportunity for both, um,knowing when to bounce back from
one of the other.
So you'll know when you'reready to bounce out of your
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masculine.
What like I said, when you'reoverthinking, overanalyzing,
over-strategizing, you're burntout, you're tired, you're
exhausted, and everything you'redoing, nothing is working.
Everything is doing the exactopposite of what you want.
And I've experienced thisfirsthand recently.
And that's when I and I've beentrying to settle back into my
feminine, and it's been hard.
It's scary, it's uncomfortablebecause there's no guarantees,
there's no rhyme or reason,there's no logic behind it.
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It goes against everything thatwe've been taught to do.
So I've had to like really facesome of my worst fears and
saying, you know what, it'sokay.
I've the universe has my back,everything is gonna be okay.
I know this route has not beenworking.
No matter how much I keeppushing and striving and
strategizing and trying to forceand trying to control, all I
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keep doing is pushing thingsfurther away.
That's when you know it's timeto step into your feminine.
And it is uncomfortable becauseyour worst fears will come up.
Because this world has toldyou, but if you don't work hard,
you'll won't be, you won't beokay.
You're not gonna survive, youwon't do well, you're not gonna
have money, you won't have arelationship, you won't survive
if you don't have arelationship.
Who are you if you're a ifyou're a woman without a
relationship and a man in herlife?
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If you act like this, you won'thave you'll never be able to
get a man.
If you're in your if if ifyou're a feminist, you'll never
have a no man will ever loveyou.
He would want to be with you ifyou're from like there's so
much.
You have to ignore all of thatand sit, create sit in that
creativity, sit in that flow, dothe emotional alchemization and
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trust that the intuitiveguidance is going to come
through when the time is right.
And when it does, that's whenit's time to go back into taking
action.
And so you jump right back intoyour masculine and you start to
take action, you lay thefoundations and you and and you
make the decisions and you andyou set up the strategy and you
get everything ready, you hitgo, and then it's time to go
back into your feminine, take atime out, get back into flow and
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creativity and andself-nurturing, and just keep
going back and forth betweenthese two energies.
And that is when we become ourmost powerful.
Um, and taking those timeoutsthat we need to be in our
feminine can can feel reallyuncomfortable.
They can bring up our worstfears because, like I said,
everything in society has beendesigned to keep us from.
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That we're constantly beingasked to do.
We're constantly being asked totake care of.
We're constantly being asked tobe productive, to complete
checklists of shit that at theend of the day we don't even
know what we've done.
Like we've done so much, youknow?
Um, and so yeah, it isuncomfortable to be in your
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feminine, whether you're nomatter what you identify as,
doesn't matter.
It's always uncomfortable.
But know that it's the moreuncomfortable it is, the more
important it is for you to dothat work until it becomes
comfortable, until you caneasily oscillate between the
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two.
And that's when you know you'vetaken your power back from all
the programming and conditioningthat has tried to keep you in a
disempowered state.
Okay.
Um, so hopefully that makessense.
We're gonna be talking a lotmore of this on the podcast.
So stick around.
Let me know which part of thisepisode or even this series
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resonated for you the most, whatyou take away from it and what
you're gonna apply to your lifetoday.
And of course, of course, ofcourse, if you have any
questions, any comments, pleaseemail me at mariafemcoach.com or
you can DM me at the femmecast.
I'm always on Instagram, so youcan connect with me there.
Until next time, you guys,massive love.
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