Children are a gift from God, but can they actually hurt your marriage? Many couples unknowingly make their kids the center of their world, which can lead to exhaustion, disconnection, and marital drift. In this episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads discuss why a marriage-centric home is healthier than a child-centric home, how to balance parenting and marriage, and why prioritizing your spouse benefits your kids in the long run.
Discover:
- Why 2/3 of marriages experience a drop in satisfaction when kids enter the picture
- How travel sports and over-parenting can hurt your marriage
- The danger of the empty nest crisis—and how to avoid it
- How to raise independent kids without losing your marriage in the process
- Why prioritizing your marriage is one of the best things you can do for your kids
Take Action:
✅ Evaluate Priorities – Are you giving all your energy to your kids at the expense of your marriage?
✅ Set Boundaries – Avoid overcommitting to activities that pull you and your spouse apart.
✅ Make Date Night Non-Negotiable – Even if it means missing a kid’s event.
✅ Give Each Other Breaks – Swap responsibilities so both spouses get time to rest.
✅ Teach Kids Independence – Let them solve problems instead of catering to every need.
✅ Communicate as a Couple – Check in regularly to keep your marriage strong.
✅ Don’t Worship Your Kids – Keep your marriage first; it’s what gives kids security.
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