297. My Marriage Is Over because of Secks Parties?

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Can I ask you a question? Why you don't ever
play with my nipples? I got nipples too. It's my
turn to get tied up knocking headcuts though I got PTSD.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Welcome the hardest soft where men speak. So hopefully somebody
will understand.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
When you say freaky?

Speaker 2 (00:18):
What's what's freaky?

Speaker 1 (00:19):
What? What do you mean by freaky? If I do this,
you're not going to tell your friends, right, you don't

(00:52):
want to talk about you know, we talk about a
lot of ship.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, but more on this on sex love relationships. Okay,
to make sure you a little comfortable.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
Usually have dial those over here. All right, good, so
he laughed.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
I've been watching it. I know what's going on. Got
to test.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
So you've seen have you seen the TD slap today?

Speaker 2 (01:16):
Oh yeah, I saw? That was nuts? That was crazy.
What was the it was? How much it was? And
then we were cad. Did you see his serious? His face?
That's why I was so funny. He was the other

(01:36):
him slap off.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
It was nuts. Slapof videos weird.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
That I don't know why and why.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
They about to say they probably get paid because it ain't.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
I don't want to do something.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
There has to be some type of prize at the end.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
You just signed up to get the ship slap out
of your TV. Understand the Lord, get practice for that.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
Go harder because you can't. Oh my god, we're in
this motherfucker. We're in this motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Oh man, that's a good game, ain't ship, bro ship.
I can't wait till some of your clips from last
week come out.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
But yeah, there was. They were slightly delayed. I was
waiting for them and I was like, where are they?
And then today came out?

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yeah you know what you guys?

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah God, Quest, yes, Quest, Yes, Yeah, you're a figger
you you you see you? When was that game Wheniga
went all over with the sword Zelda? You are Zelder?

Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Is a real life Zelda walking around? No?

Speaker 2 (02:46):
Yeah, baby, No, you're bragging.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
About It's not like you're bragging.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
It sounds like you're bragging. Tell we have a bet.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
We have a bet.

Speaker 5 (03:00):
So in the beginning of the year, I said that
I wanted to focus more on myself. I wanted to
get back into therapy and all that stuff. So I
didn't want to entertain anybody, and so I want to
do that through Labor.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Day, which is nine to one. Okay, I dipped my
big toe back into the dating pool not too long ago.

Speaker 5 (03:20):
And the bet was, if I was to have sex
before nine to one, I owe Lowton five hundred dollars,
but if I win, he owes me five hundred dollars.
So he thinks he's gonna win because I dipped my
big toe back into the dating pool.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
But if it ain't happened by now, she's gonna wait
about to say, how long has it been.

Speaker 3 (03:42):
Since December thirty, December twenty something?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Might closer? Please? You don't like it that close to
your mouth? Yeah, that's so about it?

Speaker 3 (04:06):
Who's he?

Speaker 2 (04:08):
You said? It's just the dating. There's no he, But
I like that move.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
I haven't disclosed that. Well, I'm not having like I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
I'm not saying I haven't told him.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
I haven't said that. I didn't want to, but you haven't.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
It's been weeks now and he hasn't tried weeks. Is
that anything in regards to it?

Speaker 3 (04:32):
There's been you know, fondling.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Might be comfortable, that's how it starts.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
But I did say that may it his undred dollars?

Speaker 2 (04:45):
What is that? So? What's taking so long? Like it's summertime?

Speaker 1 (04:50):
I know the pussy sweat and sometimes I know what
dude extra jo.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Wait, first of all, that's too much.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Not too much.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
I just say a pussy going on because the first
weeks it's important to the.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
So our schedules have just not been a line.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Okay, so he he needs some PTO. I'm gonna text him.
You call out next weekend my money schedules. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Is it a thing that I think we spoke about
this last week we talked about I think yesterday too soon,
Like if it waits too soon at the beginning, does
the fire die down in your goings?

Speaker 3 (05:30):
I don't think so. No, I said's still fire and
desire here.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
I feel like it just depends who you mess with.
You feel me like there's some people you're gonna hit.
The first night is like, nah, this is who I'm
jacking for a long period of time. And there's people
that make you a way, and it's like, this is
what I waited for because it.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Plays a part.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
It plays a part in it. It plays a part
in it. No fun, I get it. It plays a
part for me, especially like in my relationship. I'll show you.
She in the beginning, she let me know like if
it wasn't what it is like, I'm telling you, like,
I can't funk with you because it's not good. I'm sorry,
that's part of the relationship. So I'm like, I thank
god it is.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
So there's nothing something about waiting for some mid ass
box that just annoys the ship out of me. I
put up with all this attitude, all this for this.
It's like, nah, I want my money back calling Chase, right, I.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Don't know who to help money time everything.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
I kind of can rate somebody in my head, right,
like if she look good, because I'm always I think
I would always want to kill if she looked bad,
I don't know she fired, I'm gonna I gotta cray,
I gotta finish that. But if we talking to her,
it falls off. I kind of already know after the
first time or whatever. I just I just wanted to

(06:46):
kind of just spent bread.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
I don't spent time.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
I was talking to you, so I want to get
you on record.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
This sounds bad. I'm just here. I don't.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
I'm like nodding my head because I'm like listening to him.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
I'll come out and say it. Listen, at the end
of the day, you're dating somebody you invest in time,
good morning text, you invest in energy into somebody. It's like,
all right, I kind of just want to close the deal.
I feel like, you know, I put in it, I
put in the work. I might not even want to stay,
but I feel like I gotta do this. I got
to see it through. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
So it's just been like a schedule thing because all
last week I was hosting my homegirl Chirit, who was
here before shout Out. I was hosting her the whole
week to stay with me in the guest room. So
it's like I didn't want, Like if I want a
nigga to come over to crack me, I don't.

Speaker 3 (07:35):
Want her hearing the not I don't want.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
I don't want that.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
I want the house to myself. I want the house
to myself. I can make all the noises that I want.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Really wouldn't do it if they there, that's great. I
don't want to look away like you could have.

Speaker 4 (07:49):
Like I mean, I wouldn't. I would rather my man
is not there. But if he in the living room
and I'm in the room, I'm quiet.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
I could have took out for a nice well wait.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
So quiet sex when you're hiding from somebody it's it's
not just like.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
It's like laughing, you know what I'm saying. They're in
the room.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
They're like, they were in the room. Like I'm loud,
so hold your mouth. No, I don't want to do that.
I'm loud.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
That's why you hears you all the time.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Maya's a dog.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
But I was doing me and her, we got it.
Last night.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
Kids were still up in the room, they were still
walking around. It was too seve in the morning. I'm like,
they're still up, shut up, don't see.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
I'm like that work. That made it part of the vibe.
That makes it part of the vibe. I got her
head back, holding her mouth close.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
She's like, and it's so crazy. She was like, no,
he can come over, Like it's okay. I'll be in
the room with Maya. And I'm like, not.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
The room with the dog.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
Because it's the first time, too, it would be the
first time. I'm like, you gotta take a pot off.
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
You know, something like that happened one time, right, And
I didn't realize I was younger though, right, so I
didn't I wasn't unaware of what was happening. I had
went on with my boys whatever, and I had a
shorty that was waiting for me at the crib while
I got home. So she was waiting for me outside.
So I came in. It's me and like maybe three
or four of my niggas. Me and Surety go inside,
but they just outside talking to polit taking outside my house.

(09:28):
So now we in my room. We had a balcony
you feel between my room, were chilling in the third mind.
She was pressing the gas like she wanted to play
like O D. But she in my room now like
moving kind of funny. So I'm just like, okay, you know,
I guess if you want to change the moving funny.
How now she's not pressing no gas like now she
acting like a stranger. I'm just like, okay, you know,

(09:49):
like this is not what I wanted, but fuck it
is what it is. So she leaves. I don't get
no play. The next day, she calls one of my
mutual friends and was like, how the niggas outside the
crib made her uncomfortable. I was like, I can feel
I didn't see it was outside the house. Why wouln't
you get rid of them niggas though they were not
in my house?

Speaker 3 (10:09):
I would have still got rid of them, brod On.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
They're literally in the street across you from my house.
Bro you finished cracking and she got to walk through
the wool Tang clan. Some girls don't care.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
You, just like I don't want to walk past your
niggas after you.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
That's like us having to walk through the projects, and
that every nigga gotta walk through the projects at least
once just to get that experience.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
So I was in with it one night, never going
back again. That's a crazy place plan.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Even the chicks is dangerous.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
What was you doing trying to get some action from
a ship like you? Really?

Speaker 1 (10:50):
You was worried about the gun in your crib last week.
Now you're going to the projects and Coney Island. You've
always contradicted you.

Speaker 2 (10:58):
I knew what I was getting myself into this. I
knew it better be guns did and better.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
There's something about a chick that really be on it though,
wanting your ship. Yeah, she don't give fun about the
niggas in the other room. Commit come in like it's
something not that they have you like yo.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
So here's the thing.

Speaker 5 (11:14):
I may have a little bit of PTSD with it,
because when I was in college, right. I. I was
talking to a guy whatever and he we had sex
in the bathroom and his homeboys were like outside. But
then I saw the bathroom door open a little bit,
and then when I looked, they closed it really tight.

(11:36):
And so since then I never liked having sex with
like people other people in the house because that ship,
like that blow minds would bus wht.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Me first stopped by saying, looking, let me first, I
understand why you feel some type of way, and they
were wrong. Well, me also stopped by saying, I probably
would have cracked the door open.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
And peaked into anklet creepy college.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
Yeah, I want to say younger younger me. I don't
know if I would have been. But nigga.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
Ship not to initiate the door open.

Speaker 5 (12:13):
It made me feel so uncomfortable. It made me feel
so uncomfortable. Ever since then, it's just been like.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
But what made you go in the bathroom with the
nigga when his friends was in the room.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Anyway?

Speaker 2 (12:22):
College? Because college, I mean, all right, you know what
you never want to do. You went to any kind
of college, Hampton University, so you know what college is like.
But it college? You went to school. I don't go.

Speaker 4 (12:43):
To college because I went to wait too, and it
wasn't nothing crazy, like honestly, maybe like two up there,
and you know what I'm saying, really state your old
up staying from New York. You said to right across
the street from a univer university.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
You went there for four years. I went there for
one year year.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
I guess I think made him averaging the same because
I got some after the first semester and then I
lived off of so I only lived there. I got
some out of when I was living in the townhouse
once I got off of campus, but on campus, I
only got some of my last day, like literally when
everybody was packing up. My roommate kicked my my my

(13:26):
my friend kicked must have tipped off my roommate to leave,
and I was out and about my friends. I come
back to my room. Both the beds is together, it's
candles and ship around. She laying in the bed and
this is my homegirl.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
I didn't know, nothing was nothing, but she fell, she
felt last.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
Day and I never spoke to see that again.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
Bro, she felt it was a movie.

Speaker 4 (13:52):
Bro, I'm looking at like what because now you got
to think about it? And he was like you don't
even know what she's doing. You know what really had
that movement? You know what really happened. She was sad
that you ain't getting no box friend. She was like,
she was like, yo, let me let me look.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Out for this nigga. You hear him? He like, Yo,
we made love you know yo?

Speaker 1 (14:13):
For real some time after that, I'm that she never
never came back to the school, nothing like I never seen.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
That would have bothered the ship out of because you
think you're just gonna you're not gonna call me a
text me on Facebook like you're.

Speaker 4 (14:27):
Just gone, you know, because it's usually be us like
we will ghost the female, like, but it's happened to you.
And I was like, wait, what.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
I'm gonna say some some corny but I think it
was good for her too, Like we made love.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
It was you know what I mean? It was mad
like it was. Yeah, it was a vibe. Neither one
of us probably knew what was We just niggas playing
a van saying you know, I had a girl do
that to me one time, minus the sex though it
was a friend of mine in college. Right. She she
was going through like some real rough times. Her mom
had passed away. She wasn't really doing two old mentaling,

(15:04):
she just dropped out of school. Never seen her again, Mandra,
I went to college like twenty twelve, never seen her again,
Like two years ago. I see somebody adding me on
the Gram and I'm like, I know that ain't who
I think it is. So like she writes, she added me.
We were catching up this and the third come to
find out she's fucked with like one of my with
a very close friend of mine. So I'm like, wait,

(15:27):
are you only writing me because you see like me
and him a friend, so you know where to found
me this whole time? Yeah, you just now writing me? No?

Speaker 3 (15:35):
No, no, that was a plot she plotted on you.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
I don't talk to me you.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
Yeah, absolutely, what was Why was she why was she
writing for?

Speaker 3 (15:43):
I say I don't do this, but allegedly no, I
really don't do this. But really no, I really don't
do this.

Speaker 5 (15:54):
But the plot was she may have gone through something
with your friend. They probably not see to I, or
he's doing whatever he's doing, and now she's coming to
you as his close friend, trying to get buddy buddy
with you and probably try to safe some information out.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Of you yeah, it usually happens. I'm good more times
than others. I'm good.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
I'm good.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
That's the whole plot with that.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
You know my feeling. Sometimes I wasn't jaggulant because you
wasn't the mean about the like I was my friend.
I was generally concerned. It was I wasn't even trying
to fuck well. We were just friends and you just won't.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
Cut the friendship because she hits you, because she was
messing with you.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
I didn't speak to her like ten years, and it's
like you just you knew where to farm. You just
didn't say anything. Get the fuck out here. Nah, I'm good.
I was a feeling. Can I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
Every nigga s I don't give a fuck three times
gives mad. Fuck.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
I don't give a fuck mad time they give them
mad they do. Was friends like you know, like if
you was a girl I was fucking with, I probably
would have been like I would have got over like
friend like friend. Breakups be kind of tough for me.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
Breakups are so much worse than relationship breakup.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
The worst broke, the worst heart except for you, the
worst breakup the most. The worst heartbreak I ever had
was a friend breakup, that ship, I was devastated for
like at least three and a half years.

Speaker 3 (17:22):
That wash three and a half years.

Speaker 5 (17:24):
It is crazy, but I've been I've been dedas thestated
by a relationship, well friendship breakup. But then I realized
that she was talking about me, and I was.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Like, WHOA turned into evil? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (17:34):
It was like then I was like, oh wait, what
like she was spilling my business out?

Speaker 2 (17:38):
I think I think friendship breakups have longer.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Sad implications, but relationship breakups the first couple.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
Of days is hurt.

Speaker 1 (17:47):
That's misery.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Maybe maybe like your life is upside down? Can you breathe?
Like I can't eat you? Look? Wait, like, oh my god,
it was the worst.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
What's the worst breakup you went through? Like what happens?

Speaker 2 (18:05):
You ain't got to bring it back up?

Speaker 1 (18:07):
What happened to you?

Speaker 4 (18:09):
To be honest, I'm gonna say this, like I don't
a lot of stuff in my past. I don't consider
relationships until I got into the relationship.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
I mean, now you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (18:17):
So I can say, like we've gone through some ship
where it's like it was a breakup, but we had
to really stop sucking each other for a little while,
and like you said, the first few days, weeks, months, two,
three months, it's like you you don't even know yourself.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
So that's that's fact. My first breakup was in high school, Bro,
my very first girlfriend, the girl that's like the celebrity
fitness trainer, she broke up with me, my nigga. I
feel like every song on Hot ninety seven was like
a heartbreak song. Turned the radio off, playing on the couch, summertimes,
looking up at the ceiling, Bro, I'm crying, waking up,
tears in my eyes. I'm dreaming about this ship. I'm

(18:52):
never going through like this again.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
I already turned into a gangster.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
It's different when.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
It's different.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
It's different when you're young. When you young, girl.

Speaker 1 (19:01):
I was young, Bro, I was walking around with a
gun in my overalls.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
Overall.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
I remember I start her to find out when she
was cheating on me. I found out that, I tell you,
I told you the story like she was telling me
she was going out with homegirls, and but she had
broke up with me.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
And I ain't understand the breakup like.

Speaker 1 (19:32):
You acting mad. We were just in love. We was
just in love last week. So I knew where the
party was at. So I go into the party. I
know the owners. I go into the party. He let
me up into the v P and the balcony. Nobody
else is up there. I'm up there, just looking over
the balcony. You're not serious, and I'm just there. I'm

(19:53):
just watching. I see her, I see her friend. I
see her walk over to her friend. Like first, she's
chilling with this nigga in the spot, so they ain't
doing nothing. She's just chilling there. Then she walks over.
She I remember the whole ship. She put her hand
on her, her purse like this, and she walked over
to her friends. She leaned in, gave her a hug,

(20:15):
her and the nigga spin. So you spin, I spin.

Speaker 6 (20:21):
It's a spin off.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
They get outside. I run down, Yo. What's going on
with the sun right there? Right?

Speaker 4 (20:31):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (20:32):
Yo? Fuck this nigga, Like, what's going on? You? You leaving?

Speaker 1 (20:35):
What?

Speaker 2 (20:37):
The nigga just kept moving? I ain't got nothing, yo.
She's like, yo, we not to give her no more.
She breaks. She goes on, said that she broke over.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
He knew what it was. I'm slaying shorty tonight. He
knew she We ain't not giving them more. You gonna
have to leave me alone.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
You can't do this. You're stalking me, and she went
have to do.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
I'm just standing there he went.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
He went and killed that night too. Why why are
you doing that? You're good? It got bad, bro, because
I couldn't take that.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
I was going I was going to clap. I was
going to clap. I couldn't take my pride, bro, My
pride could not deal with that.

Speaker 7 (21:18):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
Your first halts like equipment, like a death, Like definitely
don't feel like why do you look like this? What's
that broken left you? Well?

Speaker 3 (21:33):
No, I've had my heart broken.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
What are you smirking like that you go through?

Speaker 5 (21:39):
I'm laughing at this because it was so it was
so passionate. It's like your commit a passion of crime.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
I was going to clap him, plan.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Mind crime of passion.

Speaker 5 (21:53):
I've never been so close to someone who's been close
to doing a crime of passion.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
I don't think you even understand how deep this was.
Like it was a stand off from the middle of
the street with like four of his niggas and me,
and she's in front of me like no, and I'm like, yo,
I'm ready to die for this. What's what you're trying
to do? What you're trying to do? And Homie really
was like, yo, I'm out. You love her, bro, know
you love her broad bro because you wild because him.
It was like he had him and his three man's

(22:18):
we in the middle of Macdonna between Troop and MASSI
no trooping, yeah whatever. But at the end of the day,
trooping Tomkins facts in the middle of the street. I
got the grip like, yo.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
She what's the word? Yeah, you know, make you do
some crazy ship?

Speaker 3 (22:41):
It does, No, it really does.

Speaker 2 (22:42):
I definitely don't know what I told you all the
one time. I was sure we wasn't really together, but
she was together in my head. She stopped, you know,
you know, because that ship counts. Then she stopped. I
thought she stopped sucking with me, But she did it.
She just wasn't feeling good. She wasn't picking up my
phone call. Like the whole day. Some drive on my
man's we drive past her block and I see her

(23:04):
called it you mean the hot So I put my
hands on the hood of her car to see that
show was warm. How did you think about that?

Speaker 1 (23:16):
I was with a nigga that went further than this
but this is a toxic story. Keep in mind, I
was this was thirty years ago. I was in the street.
We was dumb. I was just talking about this with
my man. His girl broke up with him. Somehow he
knew where she was that night. So we got into

(23:37):
my man's.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Work van, you know, not the workan. Some reason, my
man had his work van.

Speaker 3 (23:43):
It was like the white workman.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
It was a brown van, but it was his work van.
I don't know why he I don't know what he
was doing right, why he had a brown work.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Have no idea, but he had this.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
But he got fired behind the No, you don't know
what happened. We pull up. We parked down the block
by the fire hydrant. Were watching her with two niggas
in front of the crib. So my man like, fuck
that geezer, pull up his niggas. G's my homeboy, nigga.
We pull up in front. He calls her over. She's like, oh,

(24:15):
they arguing this. Nigga snatches her purse, pull off. Deze
takes off, So we like going through a purse a van, Like, yo, what.

Speaker 3 (24:28):
What are you gonna get from that?

Speaker 1 (24:29):
We spin around the corner. He's like y'all gotta give
her furs back. We spin around the corner. Now it's
three niggas outside, right, They arguing in front of the
fucking ship. No no, no, you in front of these niggas.
You with these niggas da no that.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
She's like, yeah, no, no no.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
He grabs her. They tussl him. He pulls it into
the vand d nigga backs his gun out. One of
them niggas backs the hammer out, points at the van.
I'm like, God, the nigga drops her. Geezer pulls off,

(25:14):
but he's down now because we think they're gonna call
clapping at us, he.

Speaker 2 (25:18):
Starts hitting the car. Boom, Wait, he ran.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
Over her, but she didn't. She wasn't hurt.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
She had like a little she had like a little
like Bruis.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
Because when he dropped us, somehow the car with boom
boom boom boom boom crashes. It's a dead end block,
crashes into the corner while we going to boom boom.
Me and the nigga that grabbed the hops out were
running next. But you gotta imagine she's laying in the

(25:53):
middle of the street. I dip, I go home up
the nigga that grabbed one another way left. I went
to work.

Speaker 2 (25:59):
This is at the time, work matraumatic. I went to
work the next morning because I had to get out
of the hood. I thought thought we was under the rest.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
We killed somebody. I was at work, Yo, all day.
My mother fucking heart was in my ass. Bro. I
was so scared. I know, I'm going to jail. This
nigga tried to kidnap her, like ran over her.

Speaker 2 (26:22):
Bang crash car.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
It's a whole crash scene. Bro accomplished, and the nigga
hit me somehow. He beat me or called me something.
I remember. I'm like, he's like, yo, you're at I'm like,
I'm gonna work, Like, yo, what what's going on now?
He's like, oh, no, she's good. She's right here.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
Oh god, what you mean she right here? What she's
all right? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we are glackhere. Youre at? No, No,
she laughed, she liked up, excuse me, this is like
that still happening. That happened to me just summer. This

(27:01):
is why you low key see all right. You see
it's a thin line, because I can receive some slack
for this. This is why sometimes you gotta learn when
to mind your business. Though, you know what I'm saying.
I might a told story before. I'm leaving his backyard
party in the East. Why am I in East New York?
I don't know, but I'm leaving the party. I go
to say bottle my man's you feel me? I hear
him yelling. He's a loud nigga, so he's always yelling,

(27:23):
so it's nothing for me to hit a nigga yelling
from up the block. I turned the corner. He's tossing
with this girl. Now, mind you, the girl is smaller
than fucking Courtney. She's in the car and he like
yanks her out the car on some grand the photo shit.
So he got against the gate like this pinned up,
and I'm like, yo, what the fuck? I'm like, yo, yo,
fucking So I'm trying to get him awful, but he's

(27:44):
so sweaty he's slipping on my hands. I'm like, oh
my god, I need help. So I call my man.
I say you, I can't grip this nigga, Like, help
me get this nigga off of So I get an
off or whatever. He trying to fight me. Now, all
types of crazy shit. So the night is over.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
I leave.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
The next day, he calls me, he apologizes, and she's
right there with him the very next day. And I'm
just like, damn, saying, I.

Speaker 3 (28:06):
Don't, don't, I don't.

Speaker 5 (28:08):
I don't play those games. Once you put your hands
on me, you yoke me up, you do any of that.
It's it's an automatic note for me.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
Like how do you know when to mind your business
and when to keep it pushing? Like how do you know?
You never know? You know what I'm saying, Like do
you buy your business when you see somebody put your
hands like you have no choice? But you know what
I'm saying, you have.

Speaker 4 (28:27):
Understand understand with somebody that that I know, I'm definitely like, nah,
you're wilding. But in the street, random you walk, you
walking out of restaurant and you see something happening. Now,
because that's how niggas be done.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
I did that.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
I ran down on the nigga beating up his chip and.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
YO, get off. You know it's a girl.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
That's a girl. They both was on my butt. They
both get that.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
She's like out of here.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
What you She probably started it, But.

Speaker 5 (28:58):
You know, that's kind of the issue that a lot
of women are facing now like we can. It could
be a stranger harassing us and people would just stare
and look and will get harassed or touched or sexually
assaulted because the same mentality like I don't want to
get involved because I don't want to get killed.

Speaker 3 (29:15):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
I heard about that. I heard something. There was a
story recently. Damn, this is got dark people getting beat up,
all kinds of ship in this episode. What the hell
were talking about over crazy?

Speaker 2 (29:29):
The craziest part was they want together the next.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
Day on he was she broke, she got back with
him like they literally that whatever that interaction was, you know,
they probably talked all night on the phone and uh
don't she probably linked them and they was back together.

Speaker 2 (29:41):
Literally boyfriend girl games. This is how I know I
got an issue because when you said that, the first
of that came to my mind. I know they fucked
like rabbits that night. That night, Yeah, I know, they
was fucking crazy. Sucks what makeup? It really was like, wow, ship,
I don't want to go down that route.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
I got two stories though. It's change the changes, change
the pace, right, and then Courtney has something.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
She wants to say, I do.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Jesus christ you literally begged us to talk about it,
not beg but.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
Okay, all right, Courtney, Okay, God.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
In any case, I have two stories one damn, I
forgot these motherfuckers, okay, one where I might be the
bad guy and another one where I'm somebody else might
be the bad guy.

Speaker 2 (30:33):
Which one you want to hear? You me?

Speaker 1 (30:37):
Yeah, I'm gonna start this with a question. When a
woman initiates, how long like was she? Like? So this
is the woman initiate, right, this is the relationship initiate?

Speaker 8 (30:52):
Yes, yes, you sleep now you're sleep but you feel
the warmness now it is booty on you, right, they
booty on you and then they act like they sleep.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
How long after that move before you actually start doing I.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
Was about to say a few like yeah, probably like
close time in there? A minute if that? Maybe?

Speaker 5 (31:16):
Yeah, you got three minutes before what you got to
make a move and then and then I'm sleep again,
sleep again, unless unless you wake me up with the dick.

Speaker 3 (31:28):
Okay, but you got three I initiate it. You got
three minutes. If not, all right, then if you're trying
to wake me up with.

Speaker 4 (31:34):
The deck, it's not fully like an initiation, feel me,
because even after they do that, we still gotta dude, you.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Gotta right man ship like good. Only that's they got
one job to me.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
Just hit the butt, do some ship.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
They just put their booty on you, and you know
your ship ship fat. They just wrap their booty around
your side. That's enough, somebody.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
The bad guy part of me is I went back
to sleep. That is all you wanna do.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
I waited about an hour and twenty minutes and then.

Speaker 3 (32:06):
I was like, all right, what did she wake up?
And saying like I wanted sexy, didn't you know?

Speaker 1 (32:12):
I wound up. I wound up, you know, taking it,
taking it there. But my thing, Remember I told you
the kids were still So I'm sleep though I feel
the body movement, but that's all.

Speaker 2 (32:21):
That's it, because we gotta do all the work. I
gotta do all the work. This is all you have
to do is wrap your butt around me and you're good.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
You just get fucked and I gotta make you nut
mad times and didn't make myself not after that, like.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
This is it, and then the like damn all day
you didn't even doing nothing.

Speaker 5 (32:39):
It's a move because you guys always fall for it
and you don't complain.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Because they can complain. They don't call you a bitch.

Speaker 5 (32:49):
I think, so I'm gonna call you sassy or a
bitch for complaining about it. Women, No, no, y'all talking
about those weird ass people.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Be more like like, oh so you don't want it?

Speaker 1 (33:02):
I tried. You ain't feel me put put on you.
I was puddling with you.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
You feel nothing? Yeah, back always her, Yeah, yes, yes, today, yes.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
Today, that's a fact that literally my background'm tired though.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
Or something something gave me up, get on top of something.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
What happened to the days where they would give you?
Do you want a massage? You know what I'm saying.
Set the ship off. You know I'm gonna performed, right,
you know I'm gonna perform What happened to the days
when you warm me up?

Speaker 2 (33:32):
Now it's just all about you spoiled now.

Speaker 4 (33:34):
No, we definitely look a look at I can't relates this.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
No, she's saying that I initiate. I can't.

Speaker 3 (33:46):
I'm saying I cannot relate.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
You know what I'm saying. Somebody else initiated though with me.
Do y'all remember this clip? Let me play this clip.
Jesus Christy, Hello, Hello, Hello, hello, hola hell. Before we
get back into this episode, I really need to ask
y'all a serious question, very serious question. We're not playing
no games. Have y'all been using your load boosts? Have

(34:13):
you been boosting your load?

Speaker 2 (34:16):
Ladies?

Speaker 1 (34:18):
Are you wet? Have you been using your soaking wet? Huh? Now,
I talk about this for months. I've been talking about this.
I told you I take it. I told you my
girl takes it. And I want to know have y'all
are inspired by what we're talking about? Fellas? I know
you've done this because all of y'all some horny ats, right,

(34:41):
I know you've gotten that to that point where you
nodded and it was just like boop or it was
just like a little come on. You might get a
little drip out. You know you could change that. You
use a couple of these pills a day. These are healthy, right.
These are not like some stuff that you buy at
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(35:01):
my shades on so I can't read with the mate.
But it's all healthy ingredients, right. And you load up,
you boost your load with load boosts, you actually able
to shoot more, It tastes better, you last longer, Bro,
I ain't gonna lie to you. My man's felt a
little harder too while I use these. This isn't my

(35:23):
personal one. Minds is in the back, but I've been
using these for about three weeks. I'm telling you my
ball's full right now. And you already know I do
what I do in the morning every morning.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
I'm hard right now.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
Trust me, I don't really know what to say to y'all.
Accept try it. You go to load boost dot com
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(35:58):
If it doesn't, it's like you already got a discount
on the product. But it is gonna work. I'm telling
you it's gonna work. My girl's telling you it's gonna work.
Courtney is telling you it's gonna work. Like everybody's telling you, Bro,
this works. You shoot more, it tastes better, your horny all.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
The damn time.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
I know you gotta do is get this bottle of
load Boosts by using code hard or soft on load
at loadboost dot com. Also, ladies, y'all can do the
same thing. This is what Courtney and Today have been using. Right,
you use this a couple. I'm telling you by tilling
you get to the second week, you're gonna be like, nah,

(36:35):
I'm feeling the vibes. I'm feeling the vibes.

Speaker 2 (36:40):
What do you have to lose?

Speaker 1 (36:42):
Or don't you don't like being Solpa well because I
like Solka Well, I don't know if the ladies and
if you're into them days, if the girls like girls
the way I like girls, Maybe y'all don't like Soka wet.
I love soain wet. And there's another thing that you
can use. You can also go get your drive boost yes,
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(37:05):
your libido and helps your libido, makes you want to
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Go to load boost dot com cop all three, get
drive boosts for you and her, get Soaking Wet for her,

(37:26):
Get load Boosts for you, and use cold, hard or
soft to get ten percent off. I'm not I really
don't have nothing else to say. If y'all ain't been
using it. Y'all just want to Hey, you know what,
y'all just want jokes all day and all that because
somebody told me, like, yo, I like harder soft because
it teaches me things. Not just because we like to
laugh and joke on the show, but because it teaches

(37:47):
me things. And I'm trying to tell y'all right now,
do y'all just like getting like inn windows and stuff?
And you take it there, take it you know where
you want from there, because I'm actually giving you game
right now. And if you aren't using going to load
boost dot com, that's on you. You're not really here
to learn, You're not really here to get better. You're
not really here to boost your load or to be
as soaking wet as you possibly can. That's the case. Hey,

(38:12):
let's get back to the show. That's on you, right
being dry as a choice? That wasn't crazy.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
That was crazy.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
I'm sorry for what you're about to hear.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
All right.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
I'm just let you know one of my fantasies right now,
because I've gone far with all.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
The things that I want to do. I want to
lock somebody in my.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Basement on like a saint Andrew's cross or like a
stockhold where you put.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
Your arms in it your head.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
How long you think you could be down in the
basement with me coming down doing something crazy to you,
flogging you, penetrating you, and then leaving.

Speaker 3 (38:49):
You have access to food and the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
I'm definitely giving you access to from the bathroom, you
have probably had one of my slaves, like making sure
that you are. I don't even think last Yes, I
could probably do forty eight hours for what.

Speaker 3 (39:05):
Was this crazy?

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Forget so I will buy your niggas to watch the
game and then you give me some beers from.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
Now stairs.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
Tea talk podcast.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
But two days or nuts crazy.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
Somebody sent me this clip in my d M right
and they said, I want to be a slave, Sir oh,
I said, what makes you think you deserve to be
my slave? Because I'm already dumb old? Now, like I
got to talked you know, really, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
I gotta make you think that I got you know
what I'm saying. You know, I gotta make you think
it's a it's a bonus for you to be in
my presence.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
That came in Sussive.

Speaker 4 (40:04):
I want to it's like fifty's like fifty shades of time.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
How fucked it up? You gotta pay rent, nigga, that's
the first things. First. You ain't stay here for free.
You want to be a freaking tan, not a slave.
This year up the least cropper.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
Her response, or, to be honest, I think that this
was I think this is catfish. I think this is spam.
Maybe some niggas.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
Yeah, I said, a woman, you know what I mean?
I checked the pictures.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
Is all weird, all right, right? Something just trying to
get a link that they can take it, trying to
get your Gmail, trying to get your Gmail. But I
was working. I was working, so I'm having fun with it.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
Right.

Speaker 1 (40:48):
Besides, this is practice. You never know when this happens
for real. So I said, what makes you think you
deserve to be my slave? What do you think? They said?

Speaker 2 (40:58):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
I have hyper mobility, that my muscles, sin news and
ligaments are more flexible than they should be, so I
can be put in any position you want. Also, I've
done gymnastics, yoga, and pilates, so I can be in
those positions for long. I think I can even last
weeks or months in your basement.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
I would have left. So that's when I realized that
that I'm not quite well. She said, months you're trying
to sign at least for real. I don't never want
to do it. Just left weeks crazy months. Months. You
want to live here? You know you know what it is,

(41:40):
They squatt you're trying to get you get free food.
All I gotta do is unless you do this, and
I got to do this thing. Yeah, let me just
get a piece of mail here, I said.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
So, I'm still in the character, but I'm just because
nothing she said would have been good enough. Nothing they
said it was supposed to be good enough. So I
said not good enough, and I ghosted because I wanted.
I knew they was going to chase now like yo, right,
So she says, can I know what you like so
I can see if I fit in that or if
I can please you. Ghost For about a week, they

(42:13):
hitting me, hello Hello. You're not going to say nothing,
hello Hello. So this Tuesday I asked, why do you
keep messaging me? Because I was gonna right, I was
just gonna keep this ship going. They said, what is
my fantasy?

Speaker 2 (42:30):
Too?

Speaker 1 (42:31):
Literally? I just thought that I found what I'm looking
for in life. I said, you think being tied up
in my basement is what you've been looking for?

Speaker 2 (42:38):
You crazy? You're crazy.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
Because I knew, I know that this is not really weeks,
weeks and months is crazy.

Speaker 2 (42:53):
Thought forty eight hours was crazy? Yeah, that was a lot.
That's an ac trip right there.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
Months crazy need sunlight.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
It's not even something even give you.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
If you be lockdown, you get an hour outcry.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
To get your pussy. It's like months is past, like
what is going on?

Speaker 8 (43:11):
Like I don't I don't want the better ready all right?

Speaker 2 (43:15):
But you saying that though I want to. You know, Courty,
I know you probably go through this a lot. I'm
gonna save you from this cause I know the answer
to you is yes. Max the Fellas Yesterday YouTube. If
you have a link with a girl and like really
early in the link you feel like she might be crazy,
Like the first link, like you meet her, like let's

(43:35):
say you meet off the Grim, Like now you see
him personally, you're saying like you're looking at her, you
like you might be a little off and this might.

Speaker 4 (43:43):
Be excited something that she might have said or you
just it's just the look.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
It's just the look and vin like something something about
her make you a little uneasy and you like.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
And it's nothing that she said, nothing that she said.
She just got the crazy look in her eye.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
Like, So, here's my thing. I feel like if a
chick is super duper eager to fuck me, it throws
me off, abe, you know what I'm saying, Like, because
I don't know if it's like the former hood and name,
I'm like, she's trying to rob me, trying to or
something like, I don't know what it is. So like
this girl was very pushy, impressive and aggressive and usually
ill find a little sexy but before the show, yeah,

(44:21):
it's wait, before it, what's the first link? You know
what I'm saying. It's like, Hi, you know, I like
pasta and pizza, Like what's your name? You know? Like
it was real aggressive and I was like, Yo, I
told my man call me real quick now on one.

Speaker 3 (44:35):
What's aggressive?

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Yo? She once she was touching me like really early.
I'm like, okay, you know, a little arm touch was cool,
but like aggressing my thigh type ship and I'm just like,
damn girl, like hold on, like just chill out for
a second.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
What y'all deem too aggressive on the first link.

Speaker 1 (44:51):
It depends on so long since I had a first link,
I don't even remember.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
I like it.

Speaker 5 (45:02):
Shoot, shoot, all right, well we're gonna pass him.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
Uh. To be honest with you, it really depends on
how she looks. That has a lot to do with
it too. I'm gonna keep it. I'm gonna keep it
a smoking.

Speaker 3 (45:14):
So if you're not attracted to her and she's being
too aggressive.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
Your hands to yourself.

Speaker 3 (45:19):
Man, So why are you going to date with her.

Speaker 2 (45:23):
On the day? If I don't find will hold on?
That's the thing.

Speaker 4 (45:26):
Sometimes they are attractive in pictures, then you get to
the day.

Speaker 2 (45:31):
Sometimes.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
How many times you've been catfish?

Speaker 2 (45:33):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (45:34):
Yeah, time you've.

Speaker 4 (45:37):
Never been catfish? I'm a professional, I've been. I've been
on line a long time, so I never catfish. But
it's it has been times where something wasn't It wasn't
all that it seemed to be, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (45:50):
So like there was heavily filtered pictures on Instagram angles.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
Yeah, the build is not. Yeah, the bill is not.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Times that happened to you maybe like m two or
three times, so several seven over the over the course
of my whole life. Yeah, listen. In the social media era,
it happens. There's people that have It's funny because I say,
I'm not photogenic, so a lot of people be like,
you look better in person.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
I mean there's a lot of people that are extremely photogenic,
but they don't look like that in person. Like you
meet them and be.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
Like, hmm, that's not how you look.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
You kind of look like your pictures, but you kind
of don't.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Don't like whatever you I see what you was trying
to do work on line, Yeah, but nah, this is
not going it's not going here.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
I remember, y'all worst catfish the worst.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
I remember.

Speaker 5 (46:43):
I was a catfish. I was young, thought rooms.

Speaker 2 (46:46):
Oh yeah, we was hold in the heaven oh ship.
I was a calffish too. Yeah, I was lying. I
used somebody those pictures. I use my cousin pictures. Well
my cousin was like, I was like sixteen, yeah, would
be No.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
I used and I did wrong.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
I know.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
I used the Leah.

Speaker 2 (47:04):
You did not wait a leah? All right?

Speaker 6 (47:07):
Okay, like are you somebody?

Speaker 2 (47:17):
Were you acting like?

Speaker 8 (47:19):
No?

Speaker 5 (47:19):
I was acting like someone else, but I used the
Lea's picture and they were dumb, and I was like,
you know this is, but I used like young a Liah.

Speaker 2 (47:25):
So now people don't like I think about it. I
can't for somebody in person. How do you care for
some person?

Speaker 1 (47:31):
But they did it to themselves. I went to a
pool party. It's a pole party, right, but it's thirty
people here whatever, right, he said, Sorry, Shorty thought I
was somebody from the Helter Skelter, you know, Buckshot Shorty
and the niggas. You'll remember that. I know what you're

(47:54):
talking about, you know, don't front you know I got
you open like that, that whole crew back then.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
So she thought I was one of the rap so
you went along with him.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
So I was that rapper if you don't.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
And I killed at the Boo party, Chris. He thought
she was sucking a rapper. I ain't gonna lie. I
never I never told this story, right, you know time
one time I went to Girsh Right, yeah, this is
this is a couple of years. This wasn't that long ago.
I went to Girsh and there's a basketball player named

(48:27):
Lance Stevens. Everybody swore me and it was the same
nigga a very long time. So as I walked in,
as I walked in he walked out. Girl, y'all want
to take a picture with you. I'm like, you don't
take a picture with me. I know who you are.
I'm like, oh no, miss, I'm not who you think
I am. It's not sure. I just show you. I
know who you are. Don't lie to me. I'm like,
all right, you're gonna take this picture, Like, who the

(48:48):
fuck is this? Nigga? I take the picture looking man stupid,
like I know I ain't who it is, but whatever,
So I go along, like, you know, you'll give me
your number. Whatever. She was cute and me have none
more else we talking said the third She's like, I
want to come to one of your games. And I'm like, yeah, wait,
did you ever tell her that? She wasn't I told
her in the beginning it wasn't me all right, But

(49:09):
on the phone, did you say that? She said? Hey? Lance?
This was like, what's good? This will have the same night,
This will have the same night. Some text us. She's like,
I want to come to one of your games. Like, yeah,
I'm gonna put you up and put you up whatever
I'm trying you I could beat. I want to go
with it. Boy, I'm gonna call you when I get home.
I'll call her when I get home. I'm blocked. I'm like,

(49:30):
somebody probably told you I wasn't who I said. I
told her it wasn't me, But you won't listen. That's fun,
I said, I said, I started with the truth. You
ever been cafish?

Speaker 4 (49:42):
I want to say, maybe just the parents wise, like
you said social media area, people just look like sign
out really just was.

Speaker 1 (49:50):
Like did you follow through? Like once you once you realize,
did you still with the date?

Speaker 2 (49:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (49:55):
But after that was clipped, it really was just in
apparents thing like you made yourself look like anything against
you know, bigger females, but you were just way bigger
than me. And you know how females be Like she
think you feel me? I'm like, oh yeah, you think
she was.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
Like I've been trying to tell people now the pictures
that y'all be liking, look at that, like that's a
lie for me.

Speaker 2 (50:20):
Bro, that's a bigger girl, not wrong with it.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
They'd be beautiful and very full to gender it beautiful,
but that's not when they show up.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
She's six too, a pretty girl.

Speaker 4 (50:30):
That's the crazy part. But I just didn't get with it.
Was that did the day paid whatever.

Speaker 1 (50:36):
I definitely killed still after being catfish, because what we're here.
I thought I was get some bundles tonight. I'm not
just gonna go home bundless.

Speaker 3 (50:45):
I've been hat fished.

Speaker 2 (50:47):
Oh my god, that's the most common thing.

Speaker 5 (50:51):
And like once I saw the hat come on, the
hat fish. When I saw the hat come on, she
was more more often he was. He was no receeding hairline.
I could deal with a ball nigga Michael, but a
receding hairline and you don't want to do anything about it.
It's like yeah, Like it was like he ruffled his

(51:13):
hat a little bit and I saw and I was.

Speaker 2 (51:14):
Like, it's the adjusting that fitted had this on the side, like.

Speaker 5 (51:22):
So fun And I was like, see, why would you
because even though all his pictures like he had a
hat on him, like and that's why from then on,
I've always been.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
Like, take your hat off my house.

Speaker 5 (51:32):
Not only that, but I've been like, I got to
see pictures with your hat.

Speaker 2 (51:34):
Off, so crazy, that's so funny to think, what would
you say.

Speaker 4 (51:38):
No, I'm gonna say it's kind of what AJ said,
but in reverse. So like AJ said, like he's seeing
the girl and she was bigger than what he was
like on to be, don't do that, forget it ahead.

Speaker 2 (51:56):
I didn't know what he was trying.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
I know what he's about.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
Okay, so what are you about to say?

Speaker 4 (52:02):
The same way A has been catfished as far as
somebody being bigger, I've been catfished as well, but in
the reverse. So I thought somebody was bigger, and then
when I seen them, they didn't.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
Have some of the weight.

Speaker 4 (52:15):
So it was like a different it was a different vibe,
and it's like, yo, I didn't sign up for this,
respect respectfully. No, no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on hold,
I didn't sign up for this, right if I if
I pulled up on the picks and in the pics
you're like two seventy five, three ish, and then I
see you when you're like one seventy, it's like talking

(52:36):
about like I didn't sign up for this, like respectfully,
I mean respectfully, the same way, the same way age
didn't sign up. If you know what I'm saying. If
it's a different situation, get what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
Yeah, he wanted something.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
He is the BBW, that's his joint. So he was
disappointed that she got her life together, that's mad, funny
catfish and reversed. He's yo, why yo, yo yo? You

(53:10):
gotta think yo. So when I listen to people, I
think about the way they mind processed.

Speaker 7 (53:15):
I know, I knew in a minute he said it reverse,
I said.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
Because he looked at her and was like, she's not
as big as I thought she was.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
I don't want it.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
He's really too something to do something like he really
was like.

Speaker 2 (53:32):
Like if she's not a power forward, he know, but
so is she cat fishing? Like does she make herself know?

Speaker 4 (53:40):
She took the pictures that she had up, and the
pictures that she was promoting were post surgery, pre surgery,
pre workout, and it's like, I'm all for listen, I'm
all for somebody taking their health into their own hands.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
I support all of that.

Speaker 4 (53:55):
But but if I'm sliding up on that, If I'm
sliding up on.

Speaker 2 (54:01):
That, that's what I'm sliding up on.

Speaker 4 (54:03):
Like if I'm there for the transition, cool, but it's like, ah,
like my mom was somewhere else, and then it's like
it's cool, Like you know what I'm saying. It's not like,
you know, we could be friends and ship, but you.

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Know we did a Ford the Love Yesterday episode this week? Yes,
was she was? She?

Speaker 2 (54:20):
Yeah? No? No, she was fine? Yeah, Christal, she was
weight class for sure?

Speaker 4 (54:24):
Do you hold on? Hold on, hold up, because hello,
you were good. I'm just I just want to know
if we go you just raided surety because she wasn't
your weight.

Speaker 2 (54:44):
That would know that was her specifically, But that's.

Speaker 1 (54:48):
You, specifically, Alsome, that's something that you do. You said,
that's what you do. Am I wrong that he saw her?
She wasn't in his weight class? He was not impressed,
he was not news, he's not attracted. So how am
I wrong for sake for just calling it what it is?

Speaker 2 (55:05):
All right? Anyways, No, you're not blogging for once.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
Yeah, so I'll take it. I'll take it class. He
goes by way preference.

Speaker 4 (55:22):
On.

Speaker 2 (55:24):
Yeah, Yo, this sounds bad. I don't like what you're
doing time right now. I'm so sorry. I'm not even
I'm just asking if you liked.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
What you saw?

Speaker 2 (55:34):
Yes, yeah, yeah, episode was amazing r Yeah yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:36):
I think christ was really fire. She's really dope. Episode
was really amazing. I can't wait till y'all listen to
this episode. It should be going up By the time
you guys.

Speaker 2 (55:44):
See this.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
Episode, it should be already up on Patreon. In the
orgasm tier happens to us. We got a d M
this week. Yeah, and so we got an email and
a d M.

Speaker 3 (56:00):
Oh, it was both. I thought it was really email.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
I was trying to get it a call in. Oh,
so I see her page everything. I was trying to
get it a call in. She hasn't seen the message.
But you said that you wanted to ISO on this.
Do you want to read Do you want to read it?

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (56:13):
I can read it and then I can reply to it.

Speaker 2 (56:16):
Because I don't even know how to respond to this.

Speaker 3 (56:19):
I did. I took some time to think about it.

Speaker 2 (56:23):
Lots.

Speaker 5 (56:24):
She titles the email my dumb ass husband. Hey, Tahoe,
my husband blank listens to your podcast Harder soft, and
to my understanding, periodically throws sex parties. Recently, we've been
arguing so much due to him entertaining other women and
just decided to get a divorce. I wanted to see

(56:46):
what the root of his problem was because he tells
me he really don't have any complaints with me. He
just says he would rather divorce because he don't want to.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Hurt me anymore.

Speaker 5 (56:56):
So last night he tells me he wants to go
to a sex parties and I feel like I I
didn't want to. I feel like I feel this is
the bigger reason he wants to divorce. I even asked him,
other than his sexual urges, what other reasons he wants
to divorce. He couldn't give me an answer. So this
dummy is about to create a broken home over some
ship he listens to on a podcast, like we have

(57:17):
two children and he's trying to establish business and couldn't
live the lifestyle even if we weren't married. Please read
this one on your one. Please read this on one
of your shows, and let me know, let him know
how dumb.

Speaker 2 (57:30):
He is this So what's the straight that we could
because what is he doing from what he hearing? Well,
it's not.

Speaker 5 (57:49):
I thought about this when Tyles sent it. At first,
I was just like, what have we got to do
anything about this? But I think there's a couple of
things that we need to kind of break down here.
So I am replying back to you.

Speaker 3 (58:00):
Can I say her name? H Yeah, sure, Okay, I'm
replying back to you.

Speaker 1 (58:04):
The reason I say you can say her name is
because she wants you to say his name, but he didn't.
He didn't consent to she is, So I think it's
cool to say her name.

Speaker 2 (58:13):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (58:15):
So yeah, I was thinking about this after you sent it,
and I was like, let me respond back to her
in a letter way letter form way.

Speaker 3 (58:23):
I wrote it.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Oh shit, don Juan DeMarco Hi Kenya.

Speaker 5 (58:30):
First off, I hear the frustration and hurt in your message.
You're dealing with a very emotional situation, and it's understandable
to feel betrayed, confused, and angry. That said, what you've written,
your husband doesn't sound dumb.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
He sounds like he.

Speaker 5 (58:47):
He sounds like someone who's emotionally overwhelmed and maybe struggling
with an internal conflict, wanted to explore something sexually or
ten sex parties doesn't automatically make someone a bad partner,
but how he's going about it matters a lot. Here's
a few things to consider to share with him. He

(59:08):
needs to be honest with himself and with you. It
sounds like he's trying to avoid directly telling you his
needs or fears. If he feels constrained sexually, he should
say that plainly and take respon responsibility for what he wants,
not frame it like I don't want to hurt you
and then walk away without trying to resolve anything.

Speaker 3 (59:27):
That's avoidance, not care. Marriage doesn't kill.

Speaker 5 (59:32):
Sexual freedom, dishonesty does. There are a lot of couples
who explore non monogamy, sex parties or alternative lifestyles together,
but the only it only works with transparency, trust, and
mutual consent. It's not that something. If that's not something
you're into, that's okay too. But the real problem is
him acting like he's the only option is divorce or

(59:54):
secret sex. He's possibly romanticizing lifestyle. He's not ready for
you said he's trying to start a business and you
have two kids. But real talk, the sex party lifestyle
isn't what it looks like it's on the internet or
in the podcast. It takes emotionally emotional maturity, time, money,

(01:00:15):
and a strong sense of self. If he thinks walking
out on a marriage will give him that easily, he's
chasing a fantasy, not freedom, And this altogether deserves a
grown conversation, not yelling, not blaming, not shaming, a real, calm,
sit down conversation about his ones, your ones and whether
if you guys have a future together to have both

(01:00:37):
of your needs in there. So a therapist or a
sex therapist could help you guys a lot for clarity. So, Kenya,
I know you feel that your home is being disrupted
by something guy started with the podcast or a new influence,
but this is really about unmet needs, poor communication, and
emotionally immaturity on his part, not just the podcast or

(01:00:58):
sex parties. Needs to take accountability and you deserve clarity.
That's what I have to say to her.

Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
You smoke that court. Thank you, y'all agree. I have
a question based on that in a relationship, right, should.

Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
You just wait? Don't take it somewhere else.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
No, it's based on what she said, because she she
made a very important thing, right as is it your
responsibility to just be straight up about what it is
you have issues with and et cetera, et cetera. Or
does a person have to create a safe space for
you to feel comfortable expressing yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:01:36):
I think there's both.

Speaker 5 (01:01:37):
I think there's a safe space that needs to be created,
and I also think that a person needs to come
with honesty. But my problem with him is that he's
he's taking the avoidant route altogether.

Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
Why is that?

Speaker 1 (01:01:50):
What if he's scared to tell her that's what it
sounds like.

Speaker 2 (01:01:53):
It sounds like he don't comfortable, get.

Speaker 3 (01:01:56):
Right, but doesn't make it right if it's easy.

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
I went to that page.

Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Yeah, what's your life?

Speaker 1 (01:02:02):
She's very cute, nice, very cute woman, she has had
two kids.

Speaker 2 (01:02:07):
Nice, all right? Not get the off.

Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
I'm so sorry. What Courtney, don't let him fool you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:33):
Courtney, don't read the room.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
So what I'm so what if he's scared to say
certain things, if this is a sexual thing, and what
if he's just not attracted anymore or it's not it's
not that's not something that you could just easily tell somebody,
or maybe you have said it over time and they're

(01:02:56):
not picking up what you're saying, and things have gotten
to a very Monday place in your relationship where it's
not really active like that, and so you start, you
know how, you it's make a mountain out of a molehill.
He's already at sex parties. He's already like, yo, I

(01:03:16):
want to do all this crazy shit, but I just
want to actually I want a healthy sex life. What
if that's what it is?

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
But My thing is.

Speaker 5 (01:03:25):
If he wants to explore sex parties and he wants to,
I don't know what he's looking for. It looks it
sounds like non monogamy stuff, But that's okay. If he
can't be transparent in his marriage and he can't be
clear in his marriage, how do you how do you
think he's going to maneuver somebody?

Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
I think that's that's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
I'm not going to say, especially when women fire back
at you when you say something like that to them
when they had kids, and it's like it.

Speaker 4 (01:03:51):
Comes from where she said, YO, safe place, the same space,
and it comes with just being honest.

Speaker 5 (01:03:56):
Well, that's why I suggested, what you have a therapist
to facilitate that conversation. I can see that you facilitate
the conversation because you can't avoid it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:06):
Just go Just because you going to therapists don't make
it easy to say, though, you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
Still got to go home with this person.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
I thought about things when taking me and my girl
going to a couple of therapies, right, I thought.

Speaker 2 (01:04:18):
About things sitting there.

Speaker 1 (01:04:20):
I don't know how to say certain ship that I
might say to the therapist, and I'm gonna sound like
a fucking jerk off.

Speaker 3 (01:04:26):
Yeah, but then do you use weight?

Speaker 5 (01:04:28):
Do you let it sit and fester and it comes
it becomes more than what it is, or you you
settle it head on and you go through the therapy
and it's going to be uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (01:04:39):
But at least it was said.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
If I'm may right, because I know what we all
have things to say about this. But finding the right
time in place to have a really uncomfortable conversation is
not easy.

Speaker 3 (01:04:57):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
It's always, especially when you can be blind siding somebody
or attacking the probably the something that they never want
to hear from you or.

Speaker 5 (01:05:09):
They're insecure about, which I get, But it's like, what
do you do?

Speaker 3 (01:05:12):
Do you avoid it and let it a lot of.

Speaker 1 (01:05:15):
Times be holding it back because we can't say certain
ship to y'all when y'all be yo, I'm sorry, listen,
but I feel like y'all don't mind saying everything to us,
like like say like say me and my bem like
there are times when she basically says you bad father.
I would never in a million years call my being
a bad mother. I would never in a million years

(01:05:36):
call my bad mother.

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
You understand what I'm saying but because I get it literally,
I would never say it, even if there are things
where I could prove a point, I just wouldn't do that.
But they will do it to us. Don't care, you
know what?

Speaker 4 (01:05:55):
You know, it's not just think I'm not caring for real,
but I think that's just how they're wired for bro.

Speaker 3 (01:06:02):
Women versus something.

Speaker 2 (01:06:10):
Not everyone, but some point. I ain't gonna lie. I
hate to be the man versus women ship. But these
two just saying that made me feel a lot better
because I have the same issue. I Lois went through
something like I'm talking on my shorty yesterday and she
said some ship to me, and I'm like, Yo, if
I was to greet you with the same energy you
greet me with, you wouldn't that something? Guy? And you

(01:06:33):
feel just say this.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
The reason I look so frustrated with that is that's
part of it. We literally cannot. I don't think y'all
understand what it's like to be a man, and so
when we try to express certain ship, we're greeted even
by women with yo. It's just it's just a million pushbacks.
We don't feel heard, which is why we don't express.

Speaker 3 (01:06:56):
So what do you guys suggest to him to.

Speaker 1 (01:06:58):
Do listen, listen. I understand why you're saying that. I
understand you want to get to solutions, but I think
there's a lot of this is not just I.

Speaker 4 (01:07:08):
Was about to say, that's a lot of little complex,
that whole type of scenario.

Speaker 3 (01:07:13):
So yeah, but she wrote to.

Speaker 5 (01:07:16):
Us, So what do we said? What I said, what
I want to say to her? What are you guys
saying to her?

Speaker 2 (01:07:21):
Courtney? You know what I realized with you, in particular,
I feel like you don't realize how excellent of a
communicator you are, and you like in that one percent
of like communicators. So when you give your advice, sometimes
you're speaking from like your perspective from up there, But
for the average person who's like down here, Yo, it's

(01:07:41):
not that simple. That's why when I read it, I'm like, yo,
I don't even like I could tell you what to say.
It's like I can tell you what you should say,
but I wouldn't even tell you to say that because
I know I'm not saying I know, but like I
have a feeling like how she could possibly react to that,
and that could make a big ass snowball effect for
the worst.

Speaker 1 (01:08:01):
This is what I suggest. I've been thinking about what
you said in the last minute or so, what you're
doing by reaching out to podcasts, reaching out to his family,
reach it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
That's not gonna work.

Speaker 3 (01:08:18):
Wait, she reached out to his family.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
I would assume that if she reached out to us,
this is her breaking down. She's fighting for her life,
to save her marriage, to save like she has two
kids with this guy.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:08:32):
So I would assume that she's losing her mind over
this ship right now. You understand what I'm saying. And
if they've gotten to this point, you might have to
let him go. But in the process, level up, do

(01:08:54):
the things for you. Don't stop hitting them up, stop
going crazy, go get do whatever you think that wherever
you have lost yourself in that relationship, find you again
for you, because at the end of the day, regardless
of whether he comes back or not, you'll be doing

(01:09:14):
work for you. You know what I'm saying. Don't lose
yourself in what is happening here, because that's a very
dark tunnel and it can be very unhealthy for you.
Definitely can be unhealthy for your children, extremely unhealthy for
If y'all have to co parent, right. It can be

(01:09:36):
unhealthy for your friends, circle, for your family. Just think
about where this is going because you reached out to us.
We don't know you, ma, respectfully, we don't, but I
can feel the angst. I can feel the frustration and
the sadness that is masked and anger towards his behavior.
Let him, yo. I don't know if you realize this,

(01:09:58):
but niggas ain't as lit as we think we are.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
Big nigga chicks.

Speaker 3 (01:10:05):
Me time out because he might come to a play party.

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
What hold on?

Speaker 1 (01:10:09):
Hold on yo?

Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
What he was like, Yeah, I didn't want to stop you.
I don't stop you when the mind all that, yes, man,
yes we are. I don't don't don't be ruining your
web on the podcast.

Speaker 2 (01:10:32):
Don't be what. Don't be ruining your your your marriage
of a little podcast because I don't begin on that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:40):
I don't think I had nothing to do with that. Honestly,
I don't think I had nothing to do the best
and he's been on that way.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
Possible. It's it's a possibility that not we really could
be the I don't want to see the main reasonable
we really could have influenced that to somebody. I can
see that I've seen it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:59):
Happen, likely of it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:02):
Yes, Remember she's spent him all the time, so she
knows him. So it's like if you never ever did
no shit and then you start listening to this ship.
Now you talking about toys, you gotta fucking get the button.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm gonna keep all
the TV's on. I'm gonna keep it a hundred with you.
I drove from Atlanta to New York one time.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
Right what happened?

Speaker 2 (01:11:25):
I don't know what just happened? She came back. I
drove from New York to Atlanta one time and I
was talking to this girl and it was a thirteen
hour drive. She said, Yo, you know what, you should do
this podcast? And I was like, what's the podcast? It
was called Horrible Decisions. That was the first podcast that
I ever listened to in my life. And I listened
to that shit for like thirteen hours straight. And after
that car I was when I was like, you know what, damn,

(01:11:45):
Maybe I should start maybe like looking at shit a
little different, like sex, toys and things like that. Off
of one car ride. Listen to the niggas so I
can easily see how you know what I'm saying. Saying, Yeah,
facts niggas is funny. You know you thinking niggas getting laid.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
Ship.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
I don't not anymore, so.

Speaker 4 (01:12:09):
She said, said she was like when I asked him
was the problem with me? He said he ain't have
one you know what I'm saying, so, or he couldn't
articulate you know what I'm saying. So to me, that
tells me more. It's either if he's not clear on
his issue, is that he maybe wants to explore, or
he feels like there's blowbacks for him really saying what
the real thing is.

Speaker 2 (01:12:28):
It's always blowback for us. It's man the moment because
their relationships could be over. So you like, you know,
I'm say, you're trying to avoid so you just rather
than what he's breaking up but it but it's gonna.

Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Come in a way where it's gonna be like, Yo,
this nigga wanted to do some.

Speaker 3 (01:12:43):
Other you know who that problem is.

Speaker 5 (01:12:45):
I have a little tolerance for avoiding people because and
here's my thing, this is the reason why I have
a little tolerance for it, because I create I always
create a space where you can tell me things and
I take.

Speaker 4 (01:12:56):
It for it's value, and that's what lou was talking about,
what you being in that woman.

Speaker 5 (01:13:00):
Right, But I still I still encounter avoidant people, which
is blow mind.

Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
You will because you're going to attract the opposite in
some kind of way, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
So according can I ask you an honest question, I
want you to think about it before you answer it.
Do you think that you really provide the safest spaces you? Absolutely?
The only reason why I'm not I'm not talking about
you personally, but it's only because when I speak to
certain girls and ship like that, when I speak to
my girl and she'd be saying ship, I'd be like,
know the fuck you don't? Know the fuck you don't.

(01:13:33):
But I mean, listen, if you say that you do, it's.

Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
Not because I'm saying it.

Speaker 5 (01:13:36):
And like, because I've been told plenty of times by
plenty of men that I create that safe space for them.
So when i'm when I so when I encounter avoidant men,
sometimes I'm just like, you can't use that excuse of like, oh,
it's just gonna blow back in my face.

Speaker 3 (01:13:54):
Not with me at least, you can't do.

Speaker 2 (01:13:55):
That with me. But when you have ran, I'm about
to say you go do it. Sometimes you're gonna be
sometimes niggas got PTSD.

Speaker 3 (01:14:04):
You need to go to therapy.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
That's just women. That's just the reality of what guys
deal with, you know what I'm saying. It's like a
girl like whenever you see it, if you see a
nigga come out of a car try to talk to
you at night, you go like, yo, what the fuck
what are you doing? But in reality, he maybe just
want to say I think you mad pretty whatever. You
know what I'm saying. All right, PTSD, it's the same ship.
I said, you gotta go to therapy. Nah, it's just
the reality of what guys deal with the same way

(01:14:27):
women have to deal with guys in the capacity they
deal with and reference of you know, guys being creeps
or like physical abuses or shit like that. We kind
of gotta deal with the women of Yo, I don't
really gotta. It's just coming common for us to have
a I don't have a safe space to say how
I really feel, or I can't really talk to you
the way I would probably want to talk to you.
Like that, We got the same exact ship, and you
know what's so funny, you only have this when it's

(01:14:49):
like romantic situations. When I talk to my homegirls, I'll
be getting do to all. Most they understand what I
be somebody watching, but in their relationships they have the
same profit I have sometimes in my relationships. It's just
how it goes sometimes to be honest with you.

Speaker 3 (01:15:05):
It sucks for definitely dotely do because honestly, like for me.

Speaker 5 (01:15:16):
And I'm probably searching a needle in a haystack, but
for me, I want a partner who's not afraid to
have a comfortable conversations with me. And I always tell
like men like listen, you gotta be honest with me,
even if it hits my feelings, because at least at
the end of the day, I can respect you for
being honest with me.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
A cordon, I want to give you one piece of advice, right,
I don't want you to change nothing that you're doing.
And you're gonna find what you're looking for. And it's
not a lot of niggas out there that's gonna fit
the qualification what you're looking for, but it's out there.
Just don't get discouraged because they do exist. You know
what I'm saying that I do exist. Bumble bee theory
that do exist. It ain't a lot. It's not a

(01:15:54):
lot for a person like you. Your margin of niggas
is like this. I know it's like this.

Speaker 3 (01:15:57):
I know.

Speaker 2 (01:15:58):
I know in this big ass world, you're not really
gonna find them. But eventually, if not already, then you're gonna,
my man a hit.

Speaker 3 (01:16:09):
Airplay, Yes, you know how to do it?

Speaker 2 (01:16:11):
No, lord, let me get a differ into the candy job.

Speaker 1 (01:16:19):
This one.

Speaker 3 (01:16:20):
Yeah, yeah, airplay? Mm hmmm, how did you get to work?

Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
M mm hmm?

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
All right, thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
I am that nigga. You start good starbursts. Yes, once
you start.

Speaker 3 (01:16:38):
To, you can't stop.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
She fucked you up?

Speaker 3 (01:16:42):
All right, we bite.

Speaker 2 (01:16:47):
I want to like to cheat, y'all Star wars for
y'all start talking. You know it's what we're doing, y'all.
Is the only professional I met him down first agent tow.
Y'all have some real so you gotta. This is also
a j first podcast shout getting your cherry pop. How
remember your first podcast? I don't think I even remember.
Have you ever podcasting? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:17:10):
I was patting before them, well not before them, but
before I was on this show.

Speaker 2 (01:17:15):
So two eighteen.

Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
But so going back to what we were talking about, right,
you ever been in a relationship. Everybody's seen you seem
like you think all the other chicks want you, so
you think. You start looking across the street all the time.
The grass is green over here. You you just your
mind is like, yo, I could be over here, I

(01:17:40):
could be, I could be. It just feels like everybody
flirting with you.

Speaker 5 (01:17:45):
You have a break up because I know what and
then nobody in your line.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
Nothing nobody, I have no motion?

Speaker 4 (01:18:00):
Yo?

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
What is wrong with y'all? Or you just meet weird
chicks with like or even the chick that was giving
you rhythm, you find out that she lived in the
in the shelter. It's not why there's nothing on shelter pussy, Relax, Relax,
what I'm just she ain't got her shi.

Speaker 1 (01:18:18):
No, if you live in a shelter, don't date me.
Get your ship together.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
Rel They give you the partment.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
We're not you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:27):
Said, shelter ship.

Speaker 4 (01:18:30):
You're disappearing at night like Cinderella.

Speaker 2 (01:18:37):
Ro because you gotta get to this spot by nine o'clock.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Give a bed seven.

Speaker 2 (01:18:43):
Come back box on the SOD. They're gonna tell it
to us. They're gonna say that ship to us what
all the way around?

Speaker 5 (01:18:50):
Definitely, no, I agree like you, if you were in
that type of situation, maybe you shouldn't be dating.

Speaker 3 (01:18:56):
You should be elevating your situation before you date.

Speaker 2 (01:18:59):
Sorry, Shelter Pus ain't that bad. I don't even know
how you know that, but fine.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
What I'm saying is my niggas always like he's really
thinking that he gonna go to play parties and be
so lit Y'ALLMA tell you right now, play parties is
the best. But when you win, when you with your girl,
when you with your partner, when y'all go and y'all
are really good play partners, or y'all doing your thing,
y'all y'all show off in front of people, exhibitionists and

(01:19:23):
ship like that.

Speaker 2 (01:19:24):
Going as a single man ain't as lit as most people.

Speaker 5 (01:19:27):
What it is going to do, like most men at
play parties is play the wall because he wouldn't know
how to approach women right, He wouldn't know how to
like start that conversation like, oh, let's because he has.

Speaker 3 (01:19:41):
No he's not he has no experience.

Speaker 2 (01:19:42):
Your first play parties sucks. You don't really you know?
Having going to a play party again a job for
the city until you get the top. Pay this ship sucks,
keep your first What the fuck is this? Yeah, I'm
going back to my shield. Here's some bulls. You're gonna
tell you my first play, I was walking around just
this nigga was walking around. I didn't know what that

(01:20:04):
shit was. I mean it turned off the second one.

Speaker 1 (01:20:06):
The second one is like that too, and I was
too the first couple of joints in there. And we're
gonna talk to you about this shit in the second
age because I know you ain't. You like, what the fuck?
But what I want to say is this right? Because
I think that there is life for both of them.
Court and to the ladies out there listening, I definitely
don't want you to feel deflated by our admission of

(01:20:29):
not feeling like we could talk to you about certain
shit or you know, I was like, yo, she got
your kid. I want you to feel like, oh, niggas
men really hate women. No, it's just not easy to
be y'all. Y'all communicate a certain way, and then with us,
I don't feel like y'all have the same breaks. Y'a
don't have to have the same breaks with us. We're

(01:20:50):
taught to just holdhit in. We're taught to take a
certain type of abuse. It's masculine, it's manly.

Speaker 2 (01:20:55):
That's what we're taught.

Speaker 1 (01:20:56):
Not to really feed into our emotions like that. Right,
So y'all get a lot of.

Speaker 2 (01:21:00):
Shit off, and then we'd be all right, yo, baby,
come me on and whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
Right, we're not taught the same way with y'all, And
we also don't have the same experience with y'all, and
so we can walk around with some hurtful shit in
our heart or be scared to say some shit to
y'all for a long time, operate and literally operate like
nothing's because we.

Speaker 2 (01:21:23):
Don't even know how to approach you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:25):
Plus were not really emotionally intelligent to really be able
to del right to delve in and say, okay, this
is how this has affected me.

Speaker 2 (01:21:33):
I need to find a way to express that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
We don't even know how to do that a lot
of times, a lot of times, yo.

Speaker 2 (01:21:40):
And please, ladies, gentlemen, everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
Of course, I'm not talking about everybody, of course, it's
it's not a blanket statement.

Speaker 3 (01:21:49):
So my question is are we making excuses?

Speaker 5 (01:21:54):
No, I'm saying, are you the fact where he said
emotionally intelligence, Like we're not emotionally intelligent to communicate these emotions.

Speaker 3 (01:22:03):
I'm like, is that a you don't get frustrated asking
a question? No, I'm asking. Are is that an excuse?
Are we using it as an excuse?

Speaker 2 (01:22:11):
No, that's not an excuse. That's like learned behavior. That's
literally like conditioning. That's like social masking, condition that they
were born. So for you guys, you might think it's
so simple, we'll just do the opposite. It's like, it's
like every time I wake up in the morning, I
ain't gonna hold you. I wake up, I do the
same exact play every day. So for you to tell
me to wake up and do something different, now, like subconsciously,

(01:22:31):
this is what I do. I can't really imagine myself
not operating, not running this play this way. So I
don't think it's an I'm not I don't want to
say it's an excuse. But honestly and truthfully, it is
just the reality of what most guys, at least most
black men, at least from what I know. I don't
know what they are, but it's the guys that I
see men of color. It's just how what it is
we've dealt with. I was speaking to my shorty yes
to day's. We was beefing like the last two days,

(01:22:53):
and I just calmly just told about a lot of
shit that was bothering me. And she's like, yo. She
literally said, you've been just acting the reason why I'm
so thrown off because you've just been fine and now
you just have all these things to get off. And
I'm like, well, Yo, To be honest, I've kind of
been holding this down for like a little while, you
know what I'm saying, Like it was something that happened
when we came back from Jamaica that was like a

(01:23:13):
month ago. But I just now and you know what
fucked this? Let me get this off. I don't really
think it's an excuse. Ta Hoe's dead ass one thousand
percent correct, and it's kind of how we've been conditioned
to operate, so it's down to keep it going.

Speaker 5 (01:23:25):
So I'm looking at the chat and it says it
is an excuse, but it's a real perspective that demands attention.

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
Hey, j what you did.

Speaker 4 (01:23:35):
It goes both ways only because I feel like it's
not an excuse, but it's learned behavior too, Like we're
literally taught I just like you said, you just had
to I've recently had conversation like this, like, Yo, it's
always harder for me to tell you like what I'm
dealing with, because if I tell you what I'm dealing with,
after knowing what you're dealing with, what are you gonna

(01:23:55):
do for me?

Speaker 2 (01:23:56):
We're where we're the man.

Speaker 4 (01:23:57):
We're the man, take care of the family, take care
they take care that you can't make no excuse no
matter what's going on.

Speaker 5 (01:24:03):
But at what point do we take At what point
do men take accountability and be like, Okay, let me
get out of this mindset. Let me get out of
the mindset of like.

Speaker 4 (01:24:11):
I think for me, it depends on who you messed
with because I've never had to do it that before
up until recently. So yes, I had to learn to
try to at least.

Speaker 5 (01:24:20):
Express myself, like the emotion intelligent part, Like how do
you get out of that mindset of just like okay,
go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:24:27):
No, no, no, I was gonna say, just if you're from
a different perspective, I guess quote being emotionally intelligent, I
think that's not even always the endoor be all, because
as everybody is saying here, even as a man, even
when you communicate the best, even when you say the
right shit, Y say all the time, I say all
of the right shit or whatever, I'm the same way
in a relationship. And even that, it's still met with attitude,

(01:24:50):
it's met with deflection, it's met with being told that
it doesn't matter, or well, I could feel this way,
but you can't feel this way. Hey, it's the same thing,
but when you do it, it's less than it's not
as much, right, So it's not even about the being
able to communicate part. It's really how you're being received.
And that goes for both people too. Like going back

(01:25:11):
to the environment conversation, right, like what type of environments
are we creating for both people to express ourselves because
sometimes that is mostly the main reason why people are
not saying what they really feel, because the environment is
so tainted that even if I do say what I feel,
it's a whole nother problem. It's an even bigger problem. Actually,
you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:25:31):
So you know what, yes to you A thousand percent correct.
And I'm gonna be a bad guy as usual. Fucking
I'm gonna say it, Corey. Remember the question that I
asked you earlier when we were off air. I'm gonna
just this is not pertaining to you because I feel like,
again you're in a different bracket. Women, y'all are not
as good as receiving communications you think you are, and
you don't make the space as safe as you think

(01:25:53):
it is. And how do you get out of this?
Like what AJ said, it does go both ways, yes, men,
as you're responsible for your own happiness, your own growth
and progression. But if you're in a relationship but you
struggle with this, your partner also has to be a
person there that's gonna help you do this as well.
That as does take two to tango. And I'm just
saying this based off of the relationships that I've seen

(01:26:14):
and just the stories that I've heard and what it
is that I've encountered a witness yesterday, It's a thousand
percent fucking correct. I can I can literally write down
I got. I didn't ask chat GPT what to say
that Nigga is never wrong, and I still got pushed back.
You know what I'm saying. So I ain't gonna front
that as do go both ways, only you don't provide
as safe as the spaces you might think you do.

Speaker 3 (01:26:33):
I would agree that it takes. It takes.

Speaker 5 (01:26:35):
There is a there is a point of like you
have to learn how to receive what you're hearing and
not respond in a way that is demeaning or counterproductive
because a lot of people in general, a lot of
people don't like to take criticisms because they take it
to heart. They think it's very it's it's personal, when
really it's not really personal. And so I can see

(01:26:57):
where it's like, you have to be you have to
receive that, be able to receive.

Speaker 3 (01:27:02):
The information that you're getting and vice versa.

Speaker 5 (01:27:05):
But going back to what I was saying, is that
okay just because it is just because we say it is.

Speaker 3 (01:27:12):
What it is?

Speaker 5 (01:27:13):
What do we do to fix that? And that's the
question I was That's the question I was asking because
I was like, is this just an excuse? What can
we do to actually fix that? So I'm asking you guys,
as men, to get out of them. How do we
get out of the mindset of like this is what
it is, and we just don't we're not just emotionally intelligent.
That's why I was saying, are we using this as
a crutch or an excuse help me.

Speaker 1 (01:27:35):
I mean, I've been sitting here thinking about I want
I have frustrated.

Speaker 2 (01:27:39):
I think you thought I was frustrated.

Speaker 1 (01:27:40):
No, I've been sitting here trying to answer the question
in my head, and it's that's hard. It's for her.
I don't think that she can solve what he No,
he's I think that how do you.

Speaker 3 (01:27:58):
Know you know what I'm saying he got.

Speaker 2 (01:28:00):
We don't know. We don't really know that situation.

Speaker 5 (01:28:03):
But you were saying that she can't solve and I
was like, yeah, I was agreeing with that.

Speaker 1 (01:28:07):
Yeah, like we don't know what his real reasoning here is.
It can't be that I want to go to sex parties.
There's got to be something else. And besides, he's got
to be there's something else that's not there. Now if
I said, oh, maybe she gained weight, maybe he's not
attracted them more, maybe their sex life a what it is.

(01:28:27):
Because I'm taking for what she's saying. When you're saying sex, right,
I'm thinking, y'all, shit ain't jumping like it was. I'm
thinking that there's something he's not happy with. That's because
you said he wants to go to sex parties. He's
gonna blow this up because he wants to go to
sex parties. Okay, so that means there's something there along
that line, that there's something.

Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
That owners go from one to the other.

Speaker 1 (01:28:51):
It's got to go. I'm just going from point A
to point B with what what she provided us with.
And then, like I said, I looked at the pictures whatever,
maybe after too, baby, who knows. I don't know. And
a part of me I still think you fire. I
looked at all your pictures. She's fired. So I don't
know exactly what right, but I do think this, and

(01:29:12):
I've seen this happen. You let him do what he
gonna do. Streets gonna push that nigga right back. Street's
gonna show him what he.

Speaker 3 (01:29:22):
Were nasty out here.

Speaker 1 (01:29:23):
The streets is you level up. You level up as
you as you can. Don't take work on yourself. Heal right,
become a whole again. A lot of time when you're
a relationship, you lose yourself. You wind up only being
half of that person now, and you don't even remember
where the other half of you went. You just kind

(01:29:45):
of like lost because everything that you know is this
person and all of that he'll go find yourself, go
be yourself, Like, don't chase him. Let him go do what.

Speaker 2 (01:29:54):
The fuck he going to do.

Speaker 1 (01:29:55):
As agent said, sometimes they take a month, Sometimes it
take two to three months. Whatever. I was broken up
with my girl for five months and I had action.

Speaker 2 (01:30:04):
I went right on home.

Speaker 1 (01:30:05):
I remember, I went right on home, and I swear
when I went home, it felt so good, Like, yo,
fuck all that shit.

Speaker 2 (01:30:15):
I felt so good being back home. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:30:19):
I think me personally, that's that. If it goes that way,
he gonna learn a good lesson. If it don't, you'll
be better off, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:30:30):
Facts the piggyback off of Toye. You said it earlier, y'all.
Remember back You remember when Jermy was on the Knicks
and he just could have missed a shot for like
a month straight and say, Yo, THEA Sneakers missed the
New York City, we gotta sign them, we gotta sign them.
Then he kind of just drifted away a little bit.
Same thing with life. Don't be a prison of the moment.
You know what I'm saying. Shit might not be super
dupilet in your relationship right now. Don't let that be

(01:30:52):
the end, or be all, or like the fucking symbol
for what your relationship was is and what it's gonna be.
Don't be a prison of the moment. You're gonna think
you want to go to play parties and shit is cool.
I promise you, bro, It's not what you think. It
is honesty and truthfully like the life. It don't be wrong.
It could be fun, you feel me. I'm not gonna
say it's tried. It can be fun, but it's a
lot of things that come with that. And please just

(01:31:14):
don't fuck around and ruin you what you built for.
I don't know how long you've been there, you'll mad
and got two kids, y'all clearly probably got some time,
and don't want all of that over a temporary down.
In relationships. You got ups and downs, bro, don't just
bail out on the down. Don't be a prisoner of
the fucking talk to him him, niggas. Don't be a
prison of the moment. You feel me because I've been there,
I ain't gonna frat I have been there. I have

(01:31:35):
been a prison of the fucking moment and left my
shorting and I was to this day I feel that
was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.

Speaker 1 (01:31:41):
In my life. You always talk about it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:42):
I always say, I always say, if I could go
back in time, Well, I mean not now. I'm good now.
Before I got now, I always said, like, if I
could go back in time, I always wish that I
had the tools and the resources and capabilities that I
did now, because I could have really situated with what
I had then, you know what I mean. And I
alway is prisoner of the moment and fuck that whole
shit up.

Speaker 1 (01:32:03):
I want to say that too to him, To piggyback
of what you said, is you always say, bro, and
he's nothing more valuable in your family, especially when you created.
You're gonna go somewhere else and you're gonna bounce around
you and get this, that and the other whatever whatever.

(01:32:24):
Wherever you're successful quote unquote successful at in the street,
you're gonna realize that you left your whole family to
do that. Your kids. There's gonna be a day when
you regret every mistake that you're making right now, and
that's gonna be a heavy ass weight to carry because
you're gonna have to drop him kids off and get

(01:32:45):
your car and go wherever you're going there's gonna be
a day where you realize you chose nothing over something.

Speaker 2 (01:32:54):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:32:56):
That's that's what this is. Sometimes when you're at your worst,
when you're at your lowest, that's when you gotta fight
the most. When it matters. That's when it fucking matters,
you know what I'm saying. And that's also when you
find out who the fuck you really are or what
y'all are. That's when you find out it ain't when
it's all good, bro, It's not when it's all good.

(01:33:19):
When it's all good, you never really like somebody said,
I was I was watching some type of show and
somebody said, yo, when the touch when the quarterback does touchdown,
you never see him go back and look at the
game tape because he can't learn nothing from that moment.

(01:33:39):
There's a million of different things that could have mattered,
right that he can say, oh, but you never do.
They just celebrate everything's good, everything's good. It's when he
throws the interception, that's when he goes and looks at
the game tape like, damn.

Speaker 2 (01:33:52):
Fun I did this.

Speaker 1 (01:33:53):
I did this wrong. The next time, right, when you're
at your lowest, that's when you dig in, bro, that's
when your motherfucking study the game, startling realizing, man, you
know what I'm doing this wrong? I did this wrong.
You know what I did yesterday? I took today out.
We're looking for cribs, and I took my plate to go,

(01:34:16):
some of my plates to go, and her fucking ass
puts her biscuit and sausage in my plate.

Speaker 2 (01:34:25):
To go.

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
So I wake up this morning three forty I grabbed
the plate.

Speaker 2 (01:34:31):
I leave.

Speaker 1 (01:34:33):
Here. She texts me, you took all the food. It
was mine.

Speaker 2 (01:34:39):
I thought it was mine, thought you.

Speaker 1 (01:34:40):
Why would you wanted to biscuit?

Speaker 2 (01:34:42):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:34:42):
Yo, Right, I'm talking to them in the discord in
Hercules here, He's like, yo, you were supposed to save
her some of that food, because that shows him how
much you care about her, that you that you cared
enough to split it in the morning and leave her
some shit to eat like that's a yo. I know

(01:35:03):
that sounds crazy. I know that sounds crazy. She said
it was mine.

Speaker 2 (01:35:12):
That's what I said. She took her biscuit and sausage
and put it in my plate.

Speaker 1 (01:35:17):
I'm a lion, she said, was it yours?

Speaker 2 (01:35:21):
She said? She said, how you're going to share what's
my Yeah, she said the out.

Speaker 1 (01:35:28):
At the end of the day, I realized that, yes,
that a non sexual active intimacy would have been to
leave for some food. She would have felt like, Oh
he really did that for me, Right, that's a bit.
That's a relationship building moment that.

Speaker 2 (01:35:44):
I failed at today. I didn't.

Speaker 1 (01:35:45):
I didn't think about it. But it's something that yo, dude,
imagine if you woke up and she saved you some
of the food that you.

Speaker 2 (01:35:53):
Bro good looking.

Speaker 1 (01:35:55):
I love you forever, you know what I'm saying. But
I took it last, you know, like damn. I was like, damn,
I missed a moment, right, you do look at the
game tape, bro, look at to see the moments that
you might have missed. And this family, you got two
kids and a wife that's fighting for you.

Speaker 2 (01:36:12):
She's fighting for you. She wrote on about to say
you gotta be doing bad. You're right enough.

Speaker 1 (01:36:17):
Look at the game tape player well, and.

Speaker 5 (01:36:19):
Something in the group in the chat that's being thrown
around and said, it sounds like you guys are saying
stay for the kids. But I don't think that's what
they're saying. I don't think that they're saying stay for
the kids.

Speaker 1 (01:36:28):
That's not what we said.

Speaker 3 (01:36:30):
That's what I got from Tahoe. That didn't sound like.

Speaker 1 (01:36:34):
What, well, that's her stay for the kids.

Speaker 5 (01:36:35):
No, No, she was saying that. It sounded like you
were saying stay for the kids. But I'm like, I
don't think that sounds like that. People just be I
don't think it sounds like that. I think it's you're
saying you gotta fight when you're.

Speaker 1 (01:36:46):
Love your wife, not part of your family. I said,
that's your family, yo. People be together ten twenty thirty years.
You think it was easy.

Speaker 5 (01:36:53):
No, My parents were together for it was going to
be thirty years. I've seen ups, I've seen very lows,
and like the way that they stuck. They stay for us.
They stay because they loved each other and they love
the family that they created.

Speaker 3 (01:37:09):
Honestly, truly, the kids.

Speaker 2 (01:37:11):
I'm always teaming for them.

Speaker 1 (01:37:12):
Kids.

Speaker 2 (01:37:13):
Then work out, do what you gotta do. Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:37:15):
I don't know, Well, that's what that's how I feel,
all right. Sorry, Kenya. I hope this sweet your way.

Speaker 2 (01:37:24):
Kenya, Kenya, I wish you well. My my African sister.

Speaker 1 (01:37:30):
So we've been talking about these play parties by the time.
Y'all hear this, we will have done. Just came back
our summer play party game day. AJ showed up in
his uniform.

Speaker 2 (01:37:45):
Jets jersey is crazy. I was gonna not let you in,
but it's cool. I did it for New York.

Speaker 1 (01:37:51):
That's tough, as y'all know. We're doing the game day.
It's all athletic. Where play party? So AJ, But have
you ever been with a party? But you throw parties?

Speaker 2 (01:38:02):
I don't throw them.

Speaker 4 (01:38:03):
I have in the past when I was younger high school,
but it's like the first party I've thrown since then.

Speaker 1 (01:38:09):
So, yeah, what do you think of? Play party?

Speaker 2 (01:38:13):
Is the way you're talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:38:16):
I'm thinking of some sex ship, like I don't know,
like couples whatever they be doing, like movie type.

Speaker 7 (01:38:24):
It is.

Speaker 5 (01:38:25):
You know what my friend said, She thought that it
was like techno music and like lights flashing and niggas
is having sex everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:38:34):
And I'm just like, like, like movent or like that
seen it? What we have had a mask?

Speaker 5 (01:38:40):
Yeah, but I was like, it's absolutely nothing like that.
It could be, it could be, but it's nothing like that.

Speaker 1 (01:38:46):
That's I've seen some nigga that sounds like a white
gay play party.

Speaker 5 (01:38:50):
Yeah, this is a white It is a way, but
it is a It sounds very like what you see
in the movies.

Speaker 2 (01:38:56):
Seen the Bad Boys too. Yeah, when the nigga's overdose
on the exit. Oh yeah, that's.

Speaker 1 (01:39:02):
What bear party got.

Speaker 3 (01:39:04):
A dancing bear party sound like a dancing bear.

Speaker 1 (01:39:06):
Yeah, so dancing bears.

Speaker 3 (01:39:10):
Dicing bears, it's a category in porn.

Speaker 5 (01:39:13):
But basically, this guy is dressed up in a bear
costume and he's going as just women and he's just
going around and he's like getting his dick sucked and
like women are fucking him in the in the bear
and there it's wild in the bear suit.

Speaker 3 (01:39:31):
He flipstick in the.

Speaker 5 (01:39:32):
Bear suit and like women just start sucking his deck
and like and it's like it's it's kind of like
a reverse gang bang.

Speaker 2 (01:39:39):
Almost tied me up a bear suit. As much as
I've done. He is the honiest nigga. Like I've seen
a Spider Man joint, you feel me, I've seen a
spider Man porn with the Spider Man Ship the film
and ship you feeling about a bear? It is just

(01:40:00):
very diable. Shout out to the bear.

Speaker 5 (01:40:04):
Is it No, it's just dancing bear? But you know what,
it doesn't do anything for me. I don't like that porn.

Speaker 2 (01:40:11):
I'm just like.

Speaker 5 (01:40:13):
Because it's like they don't like a lot of the times,
maybe because I'm not seeing the full version.

Speaker 3 (01:40:17):
But they're not fucking. They're just sucking this bear's dick.

Speaker 2 (01:40:19):
Well, I'm not mad at that part.

Speaker 3 (01:40:20):
I want to see fucking.

Speaker 2 (01:40:21):
I want you to.

Speaker 3 (01:40:22):
I want to see you fuck the bear. That's what
I want to see.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
Does your face showing the bear or is it.

Speaker 9 (01:40:27):
A full Put the phone away? O, my god, yo?

Speaker 1 (01:40:37):
What they have? Like? Why they have black bears?

Speaker 2 (01:40:42):
They have brown bears, have teddy bears?

Speaker 3 (01:40:45):
Not that bears.

Speaker 1 (01:40:46):
Not a teddy bear.

Speaker 5 (01:40:47):
No, it's like this one. It's like this one, this one,
I hear the first one, the white ones.

Speaker 1 (01:40:52):
Yeah, this is a wild bear.

Speaker 3 (01:40:54):
It's usually like that.

Speaker 2 (01:40:58):
One hundred and fifty nine dollars. I get.

Speaker 3 (01:41:04):
All right, Wait, so you want to tell him what
a sex party is?

Speaker 2 (01:41:10):
Sorry, play, I was about to say, so, it's the sec.

Speaker 1 (01:41:15):
It is.

Speaker 2 (01:41:21):
Play.

Speaker 1 (01:41:22):
So it's different than sex, right. Some people just like
being tied up, some people like being spanked. Some people
there are things called sensual play. As a matter of fact,
he though he left out, he's here, but he was
here he left. Well, he does sensual deprivation, so sensory deprivation,

(01:41:50):
so he might do things with cold, cold things or
hot things. You got electric things, you got fire things.
Actually people actually get massages with fire.

Speaker 2 (01:41:59):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 1 (01:42:00):
So those are forms of play, right, Remember wh I
was talking about tying some people up in the basement.
A lot of that don't have nothing to do with sex. Right,
It's somewhat of a full play, but sometimes completely separate.

Speaker 3 (01:42:12):
Sometimes you can orgasms off of it too.

Speaker 1 (01:42:15):
I saw a girl getting spanked and flogged into an
orgasm where she could not stand anymore. She literally we
had to walk her to the bed so she could
gather herself. And the dude that did it never has sex. Well,
they never had sex, so would you consider that she's

(01:42:37):
actually listening? But yeah, so you're able to go to
these things and just really interact with people that are
in the same mindset, lifestyle, and yeah, sometimes it does
turn into sex. Sometimes it does. I would never tell

(01:42:58):
a man to go there thinking that it's just going
to cash out. Okay, if you go there looking to play,
you have more chances of cash. Now, just play, just
enjoy the moment, ask people what they want to do,
and go along that line. If you're into it, you
know whatever, whatever do that. Like one of my things
is walking through and I got my little massage orling

(01:43:18):
my little bag right here, you know what I'm saying,
and just knowing that your body and next thing you
can I do this? Can I do that? Next thing?

Speaker 2 (01:43:27):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:43:27):
Clap clap clap.

Speaker 2 (01:43:29):
Yo.

Speaker 4 (01:43:29):
That's fine, Yo. I might have to steal that. But
they got a massage, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:43:34):
I'm still I like that.

Speaker 3 (01:43:41):
To me, you want to get the fuck out of here?

Speaker 2 (01:43:45):
Being honest transferred about what I want.

Speaker 1 (01:43:51):
Yeah, right, foot, massage, back whatever. Women love massages, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:43:58):
You know what it turns on.

Speaker 3 (01:44:00):
I don't know if I really like them like that.

Speaker 2 (01:44:03):
Yeah, Accordny is such a very unique and I don't
know if.

Speaker 5 (01:44:06):
I like massages like it don't do nothing to me.
It doesn't get me aroused. Maybe I'm not getting massaged, right.

Speaker 2 (01:44:12):
But yeah, that's gotta be the thing that's interesting.

Speaker 5 (01:44:14):
I don't maybe I've never gotten a massage, right, but
I just does didn't do anything.

Speaker 1 (01:44:18):
So what could God do to put you in the mood.
That was because I was thinking the massage puts a
woman in the move, So what could I got do
to put you in?

Speaker 3 (01:44:27):
That's non.

Speaker 2 (01:44:31):
For me?

Speaker 5 (01:44:32):
It would be like whispering in my ear, or like
kissing me along my neck, or like rubbing me like
in between my thighs, or like giving me compliments in
between each kisses like that will that will.

Speaker 3 (01:44:46):
Get me going? But a massage, I'm just there Like.

Speaker 2 (01:44:51):
You're tense.

Speaker 3 (01:44:52):
Massage, I'm always tense. Learn a massage.

Speaker 5 (01:44:54):
It's the weirdest thing, the weirdest thing.

Speaker 3 (01:45:03):
Don't get me there.

Speaker 2 (01:45:04):
What's your back? If you're gonna feel me, you gotta shorty,
you know you're about to get ahead in the mood
or you know, get situated. What's what's your play? What's
the play that you run? Because everybody gotta play? Tell
you something.

Speaker 4 (01:45:14):
To be completely honest, I am barely doing this year though,
Oh to be like when I.

Speaker 2 (01:45:24):
Was outside, I.

Speaker 4 (01:45:27):
Clean it up, clean it up when I was outside,
But not for me. Like the way I used to
think is like I would rather than want it more
than me. I know I wanted already, That's why we're
already here. But I need you to want it more
than me, because you know, back in the day when
we were young, like females, all you wanted to do
was me. You know I didn't you want it to
fuck me. You knew what you want it, you know

(01:45:49):
what I mean. So it's more. It was more so that.
But anybody tricks like that. Massage is the easiest thing.
It leads to it literally every time.

Speaker 5 (01:45:58):
So what are some things that that turns you on
that a woman can do to initiate?

Speaker 2 (01:46:03):
And I could do that when we get to the heart.

Speaker 3 (01:46:07):
Right, let me hold it, put it in that.

Speaker 2 (01:46:11):
But I agree with him.

Speaker 1 (01:46:13):
You always didn't say that, yo, I want her because Yo,
I know what I'm gonna do to you. But I
don't want you to think that I'm all on you
like that like Phoenix meaning to do it Brona like that.

Speaker 5 (01:46:27):
It's so crazy because it's like the more that a
man acts like that, the more I want to give
it up exactly because I'm like, coy you all right, why.

Speaker 1 (01:46:39):
Ain't trying nothing exactly? And then I'm gonna turn your
world upside down. But I do need you to like to.

Speaker 3 (01:46:48):
Give me the green, like give us the green, like.

Speaker 2 (01:46:51):
Niggas all day. What I'm saying, you get that on
the I don't want to just be wanting to make.

Speaker 5 (01:47:03):
But it's kind of like, Okay, maybe it's not the
same because I was going to say, like when a
man says, oh, I don't give you a compliment because
you get compliments every day, that's the whack.

Speaker 2 (01:47:11):
But that's that's kind of like.

Speaker 3 (01:47:13):
That's why, that's what I'm saying. That's what I said.
Never mind, it's not.

Speaker 1 (01:47:15):
Like I understand what you're saying. But no, it's not
like that. It's just that like.

Speaker 2 (01:47:23):
I want you to know that I don't know. This
is a lot to it.

Speaker 1 (01:47:26):
It's a whole conversation, but I want you to know
that I'm not pressed. Men want to want to take
you down for just your box.

Speaker 5 (01:47:32):
Like I think the men who are eager for it
have small decks. They don't have big dick energy.

Speaker 3 (01:47:37):
You know, you literally called big dick energy because it's
the energy that you're giving up. You're not pressed.

Speaker 5 (01:47:49):
Once you give with BD, I know you have something
slinging in your pants. But once you're too as like
you're too aggressive, you need to on it.

Speaker 3 (01:47:56):
I'm like, you're a strippy shrimp.

Speaker 1 (01:47:58):
You're telling me that you you've never met a guy
would be the e that didn't have a beat.

Speaker 3 (01:48:02):
My radar is one point one point.

Speaker 2 (01:48:07):
The dragon radar on one point drag one four star
ball right over there.

Speaker 1 (01:48:21):
Okay, let's start the damn show.

Speaker 2 (01:48:23):
Yes, all right, Yes, I'm sorry. That's hot. You're hot.
Oh he doesn't have a fans. Fans fans in the
car called HR. You are HR. I'm gonna call you
call yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:48:42):
Welcome to the Heart, A soft show, the show where
we talk about things people like in the bedroom and
things people don't like in the bedroom, the things that
make us hard and the things that make us soft.
I am here with my mont Frere Debone air. Damn,
that ship really just works right the more frayer dem

(01:49:03):
on there. Are you nervous for what you said? You're
going to get back at this week?

Speaker 2 (01:49:09):
Yeah? I forgot next week, next week.

Speaker 3 (01:49:15):
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:49:17):
Yeah, niggas threaten you were white today.

Speaker 2 (01:49:23):
That's white chill. That's why.

Speaker 1 (01:49:25):
Yeah, you lace in here, Yo. The nigga took two
hours before we recorded.

Speaker 2 (01:49:34):
Boy, I had a stomach bug. I had to get
that ship out, no pun intended.

Speaker 3 (01:49:38):
I've never heard that remedy before.

Speaker 2 (01:49:41):
It's not, it's not you never heard that remedy.

Speaker 3 (01:49:43):
I've never heard that remedy before.

Speaker 2 (01:49:45):
It works. The next morning, feeling like what happened yesterday?
This nigga has some ginger shots. Can't to work? Feel good? Yeah?
I had to handle business?

Speaker 1 (01:49:56):
What what the tongue tour Nato? Oh my god? A
k A.

Speaker 2 (01:50:04):
Elegance?

Speaker 1 (01:50:06):
You know? Did you notice your man's walked around Brooklyn
called themselves elegance.

Speaker 2 (01:50:13):
Relaxed? There was another time.

Speaker 3 (01:50:15):
There was another time elegant ambon.

Speaker 1 (01:50:18):
Aka the ambiyonce.

Speaker 2 (01:50:22):
A k A chocolate for yes, you you gotta relax,
You gotta relax a k A. Which twenty is you
want first pause? Come on? Man? Got the tongue? Oh

(01:50:51):
I ain't say you the clip?

Speaker 1 (01:50:53):
I got the clip clip and I'm posting it from
my page so you can't stop it. I'm just going
to collabse.

Speaker 2 (01:51:03):
If you do, you know you're gonna start a war
that you cannot win. I'm one hundred percent show I
be taking it easy on your niggas, but just know
if you do that.

Speaker 1 (01:51:13):
I'm doing it. Get your artillery, get your.

Speaker 2 (01:51:17):
Herbie warning up. Okay I'm gonna save the best for
the last worry, but not first.

Speaker 10 (01:51:23):
Joseph, Joseph, you know his niggas Yo? We laugh, said
you just said, like literally, it wasn't even a minute.
Nickname is Nick Joseph.

Speaker 2 (01:51:35):
He should call his mom.

Speaker 1 (01:51:36):
He called his moms on the show an ast Her,
and she said, his name.

Speaker 8 (01:51:40):
Is jose was the first grade Joseph.

Speaker 2 (01:51:44):
So from yo, I'm trying to say, you named it
after Jesus Pops, his first grade.

Speaker 1 (01:51:48):
That's around the time when you learn best ship like that,
you name to take after Jesus Pops.

Speaker 2 (01:51:53):
What you want to do? You said it was take
your shots, shots shots. How you doing my friend? Oh
now I'm your friend, all of that? Doing good, man,
I'm doing good. Finally on vacation from work. Oh my god,
that's why.

Speaker 3 (01:52:09):
He was outside.

Speaker 2 (01:52:10):
When was it outside last weekend?

Speaker 3 (01:52:14):
This weekn I just passed.

Speaker 2 (01:52:15):
I wasn't outside, were you not? Oh? Yeah, yeah, in fact,
I was there. I was there. I was there, and
I was there. Then I slept all day Sunday and
missed the second event. But I'm doing good. Life is good.
Filled him outside with it, eat him better, working out,
cleaning up my house, started praying and meditating again. I

(01:52:38):
ain't like you know what so far was living. I
felt like very weird energy the last couple of weeks
a month. So been taking these last couple of days
just to kind of reset the whole aura or so
feeling good man, feeling good, honestly and truthfully feeling. Moms
is in town her today the show because she's getting
ready for some wedding and I don't got time.

Speaker 1 (01:52:59):
Like you, just do your thinks, pull up to the show. God,
that'll be fun, be fun.

Speaker 2 (01:53:07):
Not not not during wartime, very unusual, not war time.

Speaker 1 (01:53:17):
You introduce your co hosts.

Speaker 2 (01:53:18):
Who am I going for? First? Let me see? Uh,
I'm gonna go a courting you know, get yes all
the time we are chilling with the original. I was
thinking we got the original. Light skin, right skin, but
dog skin at heart a k A Perubian body wave

(01:53:42):
a k A. The eyebrows matching the part in the
here we see you. I know you're pencil them things
in the day mal aka. Not too much on the
foundation make up, real light, real light a ka sun
dredged with no panties on seah. I got carway a
k A clevang you're not really Cleveland today though, I'm

(01:54:05):
you know what I mean. It's okay, that's very low
for you, very very low on the Courtney cleavage ye.

Speaker 1 (01:54:12):
A k.

Speaker 2 (01:54:12):
The Kinky Batman a k A. Big Shop only if
you nasty a k A. Blanche from the Golden Girls.
What Blanche was the freaky one?

Speaker 3 (01:54:26):
I know, I don't want to be ROAs she.

Speaker 2 (01:54:30):
Was giving it up when I was don like damn
Blanch had like she had a roster.

Speaker 3 (01:54:36):
She really did.

Speaker 2 (01:54:37):
It's like at eighty yeah, the original a k a.
The Golden Shower a k A.

Speaker 3 (01:54:43):
Bacon Grease, long story sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:54:49):
Aka Courtney aka Courtney Heart Dashian a K. Five hundred
dollars all on once by September first, it's all in.
This is crazy disrespectful. One of the old singles. If
you give it to me anything who wanted?

Speaker 3 (01:55:04):
You don't have to You don't have to go to
the strip club, get that.

Speaker 2 (01:55:08):
You just go to the bank. Court just not doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:55:12):
You just go to the bank.

Speaker 3 (01:55:14):
I'm gonna do that. I'm not gonna do that that.
I'm gonna be like, you give me all the one
so they can look at me like, okay, absolutely not
doing today, Court, I'm doing good. It's been a long week.

Speaker 2 (01:55:28):
Actually it's been a light week Thursday.

Speaker 3 (01:55:30):
Yeah, I'm off tomorrow. So it was a beach day
for me tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:55:34):
What's just at the beach.

Speaker 5 (01:55:35):
It was I live at the beach. I like to
I like the Tan, like to do it. I like
to have the porn star.

Speaker 11 (01:55:42):
Tan.

Speaker 2 (01:55:42):
I'll be trying not to Tan. It just happens anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:55:45):
I'm like, you get chance, all right? Sorry, Okay, the war, yo,
you keep saying that I'm waiting for the war.

Speaker 2 (01:55:54):
Where's the war? Where's the war? You're not going to
see me pulling? Please? Did to the niggas in three hundred.

Speaker 1 (01:56:01):
You not like that?

Speaker 2 (01:56:02):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:56:02):
I'm like, you're not like that.

Speaker 2 (01:56:05):
We're embarrassing.

Speaker 1 (01:56:07):
No, I'm going to embarrass me.

Speaker 2 (01:56:12):
I beat you to it.

Speaker 5 (01:56:14):
Uh but yeah, tomorrow's each day. You gotta keep my
porn star.

Speaker 2 (01:56:18):
Uh uh?

Speaker 3 (01:56:20):
Tan like the super points, you know the ones.

Speaker 2 (01:56:23):
But like you can see like a little line be
mad white.

Speaker 5 (01:56:25):
Everything that was mad that should be super sexy. I
love that ship, especially when they alright, I love that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:56:32):
Y'all want to introduce your other coves?

Speaker 2 (01:56:35):
All right? The man behind the cam you have triple
us aka side Quest Yes aka Zelda, spider Man, Venom
aka Venom or Peter Parker. Depends on who you ask,

(01:56:56):
ak my neck in my back aka catfish and reverse.
Never heard that one before, Never heard that one before.
A K two something to do something, three something to
see something, and four something or more something. A K
one something is none something because apparently sat of your
weight class a K A B b W connoisseur.

Speaker 3 (01:57:21):
No B b W granny.

Speaker 2 (01:57:24):
Oh no, don't do that, don't do that, dumb job. Okay,
I was gonna leave that one out good.

Speaker 3 (01:57:37):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:57:38):
I had to spending the narrative.

Speaker 3 (01:57:42):
I had to. That was interesting.

Speaker 2 (01:57:45):
Oh like that was That was wild crazy. I ain't
gonna chat. That was a little tough.

Speaker 1 (01:57:53):
Now, yes, yesterday, How you doing today.

Speaker 2 (01:57:55):
My friend? I'm doing good.

Speaker 1 (01:57:57):
Big cousin family, family. My boy been putting out fires
for a week now. She had a fire in the
discord yesterday.

Speaker 2 (01:58:06):
You know what, I want to come back to the discord,
but I need to make sure safe space. Wait, hold on,
I've been putting out fires. That's all you do. Whatever
the stories, I'm not surprised what happened. Talk about it.

Speaker 3 (01:58:19):
No, No, I'm saying like it was a fire about him.

Speaker 1 (01:58:22):
No. Oh, I'm surprised he doesn't know what I'm talking about.
That's why I'm trying to avoid it. So, yes, come
back to boom. You invited a friend to the show today.

Speaker 2 (01:58:36):
Yes, we got we got damn soon, Idriss Blood Diamond,
a looping Fiasca, What the card he is? You got

(01:59:01):
a k Aaron Rodgers go whiles you in a Judge
Jersey tonight. It's cool, It's cool. AKA the African connection.
What is good? My fucking Nigerian brother? What's up?

Speaker 1 (01:59:13):
Yo're shaking?

Speaker 2 (01:59:15):
Yeah? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:59:17):
Show super thank you, thank you, thank you. I've been
watching it for like the last two weeks. I literally
just stopped. When I'm sending it to people, I'm like, yeah,
I'm about to go in there show like you're about
to be talking about this stuff talking us.

Speaker 2 (01:59:31):
I'm like, I'm just you know about man vibe out
man for real.

Speaker 1 (01:59:39):
We asked some invasive questions on this podcast on the show.
Couldn't make sure to remember anytime I said. She's like
mm hmm, and so I'm going to invade you.

Speaker 2 (01:59:57):
That's wow, crazy, that was necess you can't you didn't
even need to do that. That was it was so unnecessary.
I'll be waiting, I said, did I just wait to
see what? Why not wait another nigga?

Speaker 3 (02:00:11):
It's funny though, it's funny.

Speaker 2 (02:00:13):
It's a funny.

Speaker 1 (02:00:16):
Part of that invade is crazy.

Speaker 3 (02:00:19):
Crazy, I'm gonna invade you.

Speaker 2 (02:00:21):
Whoa, I said.

Speaker 1 (02:00:23):
I led with invasive and then I said, so I'm
going to it's a little It was.

Speaker 2 (02:00:28):
The have the silence on it. Look at looked at him,
make a second guess.

Speaker 1 (02:00:35):
He like, please, please, if you're watching this, rewind and
catch his catch his face out.

Speaker 2 (02:00:43):
He was like and he was like, like that was tough.
A little bit. That was He's like, that's why I wait.
I had to wait.

Speaker 1 (02:00:59):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (02:01:00):
Sometimes you catch it. We asked three questions on this podcast.

Speaker 1 (02:01:05):
One is.

Speaker 2 (02:01:09):
She clean it up? Clean it up? What is?

Speaker 1 (02:01:16):
The first one is over the course of the last
week or so, what has made you hard in the
last week? Something that got you aroused in the last week?
Right now, this is something particular. After this, we're gonna
ask you something more general about your sex life.

Speaker 4 (02:01:36):
Okay, past week, so that's made me hard. I gotta
just go with my shorty, she went away, somebody. I'm
watching videos of her friends because I'm truly trying not
to watch her ship, so she's gonna be like you
on my bag. I'm watching all her friendship thought and
I'm just damn so tough. Shorty really fired. I'm just

(02:01:59):
back home, like she would have told me to come
like a kid.

Speaker 2 (02:02:05):
Like I'm at this pool party. She was, she was
home about you, she was, in fact, but yeah, amazing, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:02:18):
That's actually really dope to actually like you're not being
on your girls pass watching her friends, like.

Speaker 3 (02:02:23):
My shorty is math. That's like I want to hear
my men.

Speaker 5 (02:02:27):
Say that, like, oh yeah, like my shorty fire like
she was out with her friends, and I like that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (02:02:34):
Really underrated thing. For real, it really is your relationship
very underrated.

Speaker 1 (02:02:40):
I was out with my girl yesterday, well my fiance yesterday,
and you know, we're looking for houses and ship and
at some point in the day I looked at her
and was like, yo, my shorty bad. As fun sign
my shorty bad.

Speaker 4 (02:02:57):
When when I'm when we were together on time, like
throughout the day, always got to get one of two
of those moments like they just don't think.

Speaker 2 (02:03:07):
I went to the boil, the boils did whatever, and
she just with the crab blag and I'm just looking
at it like I want to crack your ass. We
get some boiled butter on that ass. She was just yeah, yeah,
all right, you're not going It was on the same page.

(02:03:32):
It was on the same page.

Speaker 3 (02:03:33):
Let me get that boil butt on your ass.

Speaker 2 (02:03:36):
It was on the same page. Like I wanted to
put it on the plate.

Speaker 1 (02:03:40):
All right, bro with the garlic.

Speaker 2 (02:03:43):
This is why I don't talking with the potatoes in
the car in the corner the car. But I said, yeah, baby,
let me crack that right now.

Speaker 3 (02:03:55):
We're saying, like, you.

Speaker 2 (02:03:56):
Know, she had the crablan. She was cracking that, like
damn right now. I get it.

Speaker 1 (02:04:02):
Though. Sometimes you just look at your ship doing the
weird of ship and be.

Speaker 2 (02:04:05):
Like, yeah, that's me.

Speaker 3 (02:04:07):
Yeah, yeah, that's me.

Speaker 1 (02:04:09):
Yeah I thought you was.

Speaker 2 (02:04:14):
Yourself.

Speaker 3 (02:04:18):
I'm finishing the senses, like, yeah that's me.

Speaker 1 (02:04:22):
Fa aj, I ain't gonna lie. You nailed that for real.
She got shell. Yeah, I can't wait to get there. No,
she got these glasses right, so she's in this in
the glasses spot or whever, the optomologists whatever, and she's
like trying all these all these glasses and I'm like, yo,
why would you get those fucking glasses from the optalmologists?
Go to the damn sacks and some ship, get get

(02:04:45):
some fire ship and you put the lens in the
you know what I'm saying. I'm like, yo, so whatever
she wants up getting some Dior ships and my nigga,
she put them ships on the outfit through the clip
glow starting to match the joints ponytail, and I'm looking
at it.

Speaker 2 (02:05:04):
I was like, Yo, you're kind of fire you kind
of you're kind of tough, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (02:05:12):
You kind of why that's that's not good enough?

Speaker 3 (02:05:14):
Kind of like you are fire tough.

Speaker 2 (02:05:21):
I always want Sorry I didn't bring the lunch.

Speaker 3 (02:05:25):
Bulls like, oh yeah, you're kind of handsome. Not you're handsome.

Speaker 1 (02:05:30):
Oh my god, I think you can't say you're kind
of cute, you know, you never I think.

Speaker 2 (02:05:35):
The kind of more disbelief every time I come, every
time you come here, Now I really be, I be
really seeing the problems I have with women just pop up.
I'm like, it's not just her, it's all of y'all
is a collective y'all baard.

Speaker 1 (02:05:49):
Somebody said, beast fine ship, though.

Speaker 3 (02:05:54):
I don't like that ship.

Speaker 2 (02:05:56):
You are older, nigga.

Speaker 1 (02:05:59):
You want to be a Waiian so bad?

Speaker 2 (02:06:02):
You say you will be so bad? Like you what
I'm saying, you want to be a Waiian like, yeah,
of course you would look at you.

Speaker 3 (02:06:16):
Find ship is not like I don't want my man
to call me find ship.

Speaker 2 (02:06:20):
Lingo is not. I'd probably say it to her, but
calling her that, I can't. I like my ball ship.
I ain't gonna lie, and I'm about to say that too.
I don't like that. What is my my ball? Girls like,
that's my ball. That's my ball, my ball basketball?

Speaker 3 (02:06:43):
Isn't that some ship to Phi when they called someone
the ball, you know.

Speaker 2 (02:06:48):
That's my that's young boy, we're talking about my.

Speaker 1 (02:06:52):
That's my I about to take my ball and leave.

Speaker 2 (02:06:54):
That's literally what that's saying. I'm gonna take my ball
in the shock.

Speaker 1 (02:07:01):
You like, that's what I say, the ball from me?

Speaker 2 (02:07:08):
Like, coach, you can't take my ball from me?

Speaker 1 (02:07:11):
Yes, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (02:07:13):
I don't I don't know that far. I don't know that. Yes,
you like that, I said, it's it's the better out
of all of the bad ones find.

Speaker 1 (02:07:21):
Over ball schools with them, and he likes to relate
to the kids.

Speaker 3 (02:07:25):
So yeah, I get he's a real young old Wyan.

Speaker 2 (02:07:32):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (02:07:33):
I am also going to ask you a j something
that you like in the bedroom period, something that makes
you hard right now. This is normally when we asked this.
You know, people say what they think.

Speaker 2 (02:07:50):
Men like. I don't give a men like. I don't
if I women, I don't want to hear what women like.

Speaker 1 (02:07:55):
I'm talking about you some ship that you like your
I personally like thing, And it don't have to be
something everybody got agree with. Shit, it might be that
you want you like standing on your head and give
your dig something like, like, that's something that you like.

Speaker 4 (02:08:09):
I was about to be real general. I really just
love her, I always have. It was a point where
I really was on something. I'd rather get head than
fuck if you make me not off head some good.

Speaker 1 (02:08:21):
Yeah, it's wrong with your answers to Jesus pieces. I'm
good out Jesus pieces in that throat.

Speaker 5 (02:08:26):
So what specifically about head do you like like? Is
there a certain like do you like it more on
the top, do you like more shaft?

Speaker 3 (02:08:35):
Do you like deep throat. Do you like what do
you is it? Is it something specific about that?

Speaker 2 (02:08:41):
All right?

Speaker 4 (02:08:41):
To make it general, like for right now, what I
do with it really be a mixture different days. You know,
you're always tired. So when we ask, y'all gonna perform
how I want to perform in that certain day. You know,
so one day you might want to do this, You
might do that a little better, one day you might
you give you want to add of hend, grab the

(02:09:02):
balls and ship like every time.

Speaker 2 (02:09:04):
It's a little different. My head.

Speaker 4 (02:09:06):
It's definitely it gets me that if you're giving me
good head, and then we definitely get to the fucking.

Speaker 1 (02:09:13):
Fucking afterhad so I got something next to the other day,
I'll be done things that make me hard. She's moaning
while she's sucking my Oh damn, bro, I'm in the pumpkin.

Speaker 11 (02:09:31):
Your moaning, like I tell you what I'm doing it.
The moaning like it's doing something to you. The moaning
like you love it because.

Speaker 4 (02:09:47):
It's just like you care for her, Like now you're
really doing this, You're going hard because you want me
to feel it.

Speaker 1 (02:09:52):
Yeah, it's where she came back from Costa Rica, like
she missed it, Bro, look, I got tears in my eye. Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:10:00):
It's like she missed it.

Speaker 5 (02:10:02):
Bro speaking of Talma was real bored when today was
not here. I was looking at the whole different.

Speaker 2 (02:10:08):
I was like, Nigga killed my dick story to talk.

Speaker 5 (02:10:11):
About me rapping with a Yeah, he was rapping with
chat Gept. I'm like to they needs to come back
a sap.

Speaker 2 (02:10:19):
Yeah, Nigga wasn't.

Speaker 1 (02:10:20):
It wasn't.

Speaker 2 (02:10:21):
He wasn't.

Speaker 3 (02:10:21):
He wasn't himself lost and then lost to chat Cheep.

Speaker 1 (02:10:25):
How you lose the chat anybody's gonna lose the jack
chat Cheept cam. Look, so I saw cam do it
cam from diplomats from Harlem. I know that's I've seen that.
I'm sitting here editing like y'all don't. Y'all don't know
the process, right, But you got to sit here for
like an hour and change uploading the videos, you understand.

Speaker 2 (02:10:47):
So I fucking had time. I have no buzzy at home.

Speaker 1 (02:10:51):
So happened.

Speaker 2 (02:10:53):
I don't get invited, y'all be all out with little party.

Speaker 3 (02:10:56):
Don't come out unless you're making money.

Speaker 2 (02:11:00):
That's a good excuse to make.

Speaker 1 (02:11:01):
That's a good excuse. That's a good one.

Speaker 2 (02:11:02):
That's Tahoe is the girl who wants to be invited, but.

Speaker 3 (02:11:07):
She's never shows us.

Speaker 2 (02:11:08):
She just wants to.

Speaker 1 (02:11:09):
He just wanted to know that why you can't never
get invited though never never, you're not gonna come if
you ever invited me.

Speaker 2 (02:11:16):
Something about to say getting the invites. No, he's never
invited me nowhere. You're a fucking liar. You a motherfucking liar.
I lied. He plays with like two summers straight. You
can't once.

Speaker 1 (02:11:29):
That's not that's literally the only time.

Speaker 2 (02:11:31):
The last time we went out with me and him
in Mouse that was the last.

Speaker 1 (02:11:33):
Time we went out together. Invite me some place.

Speaker 4 (02:11:36):
I'm having a Jersey party August thirty first. I would
give all your complimentary tickets to come.

Speaker 1 (02:11:41):
Let's pull up.

Speaker 2 (02:11:42):
I just want to see if she's gonna come from.

Speaker 3 (02:11:44):
He's not gonna came, Bro, when is it.

Speaker 2 (02:11:45):
Augustudy first party.

Speaker 3 (02:11:48):
I'm gonna be coming back from my cruise.

Speaker 2 (02:11:50):
You know he's not gonna come. Hopefully he goes to you.

Speaker 1 (02:11:52):
What did you come back to the.

Speaker 3 (02:11:55):
From the twenty third to the thirty first?

Speaker 1 (02:11:59):
You know, pull not loan Yo stops because out of
anybody in here, who y'all think be lying around here.

Speaker 2 (02:12:07):
Do you think it's me or do you think it's him?
Last week you said I invited you just how many
places in the past, But you do not come outside, bro,
you don't Some people just not outside through. But he

(02:12:27):
will go be hold on, But you don't invite the
nigga that be outside who you Yeah? You know, Yes,
I never him nowhere because he's so miscellaneous. I don't
even think to invite him somewhere miscellane is you know,
he's always doing some next level ship. Can't call the
nigga miscellaneys. That's kind of yes, he's a miscellaneous nigga.
He just he's anything going for that. He's anything records, loan,

(02:12:48):
he's anything records.

Speaker 1 (02:12:51):
Yo, a j thank you. What's the name of your party?
It's the Jersey Affair, The Jersey Affair.

Speaker 2 (02:12:57):
Wait a minute, what is that? Was just the ideal theme?
Literally just the thing.

Speaker 12 (02:13:03):
So is in jerseys like judge jerseys, not just judge
jersey jersey like actual wife you just hit me basketball jerseys,
baseball jerseys, any kind of jersey.

Speaker 1 (02:13:13):
I just want you to read what wife you just
hit me with? What does it say?

Speaker 3 (02:13:20):
Family barbecue? You missed last year.

Speaker 1 (02:13:23):
Okay, stirty first, I'm coming.

Speaker 2 (02:13:30):
I'm coming, bro. I have a reason. She's gonna write
us a letter.

Speaker 1 (02:13:34):
I have a reason copping barbecue. But I got somewhere
I gotta go, all right, So now y'all know I'm
coming because I gotta go to the barbecue anyway. But
now I got a reason to leave.

Speaker 2 (02:13:47):
Am I good doing that? If I just show up?

Speaker 1 (02:13:50):
Can I dip?

Speaker 2 (02:13:51):
He's gonna show face, get a glisy and dip. See
that was good? Was I'm glad that you did that?
You know, I love be a good glazen. I know
everybody gonna die now.

Speaker 1 (02:14:09):
Yeah, man, the moaning my head now a j close
us out, man, Things you don't like in the bedroom,
things that make you soft.

Speaker 2 (02:14:22):
M hmm.

Speaker 4 (02:14:22):
You gotta keep stopping, they heard, Oh my god. And
it's not all the time, of course, but the times
we're always hurting too much and we got to keep stopping.
Like automatic games.

Speaker 7 (02:14:36):
It's big, he said, A thousand dollars. Now you know
you just gotta be said, you just gotta read. I'm
watching him right, Corney.

Speaker 1 (02:14:55):
Just my wife is like that, though, Man, she don't
have the movement riz sometimes like isn't there a way
to tell somebody, like to guide them away if they're
like doing something wrong.

Speaker 2 (02:15:14):
She'd be like like yo, like yo, yo, we in
the middle of action. Were you jerking and.

Speaker 1 (02:15:27):
Like I'm crazy?

Speaker 2 (02:15:30):
Yo? Exactly, it's just stop and alert thing like this
is not a better way to do this.

Speaker 1 (02:15:39):
Got to give me.

Speaker 2 (02:15:42):
I've definitely been yo. It's it's mad moving like rong.

Speaker 3 (02:15:51):
I don't like that. Don't try to put in wrong.

Speaker 1 (02:15:56):
Yeah, that's any to just take a little bit first,
just wrong, take a little take a little like yo,
that's not you know, that's my ass right, Like you
gotta say you.

Speaker 2 (02:16:06):
Know what I mean, Like you into that?

Speaker 1 (02:16:08):
What you give it up? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:16:11):
With that when I get it off.

Speaker 1 (02:16:13):
While you looked at him like said, exactly get it off. Yeah,
if you get it.

Speaker 2 (02:16:18):
Off, I will with it. You don't like it, No,
I've tried comfortable.

Speaker 4 (02:16:24):
Not that I've tried it, but Wronghod type thing, you
know what I mean, wronghome wrong And I'm like, oh,
I ain't even do that for me.

Speaker 2 (02:16:34):
He's not into that at all comfortable, Like you know,
I'm gonna say something like you literally in my defense
some you know, everybody's shaped differently, right, I swear this
one girl, her pushing her butt was like right next
to the like this like it was mad close, like
no margin for error. I'm like, nigga, she have no
she had no what she have no good? No space?

Speaker 1 (02:17:03):
Bro, you can eat her pussy and at the same time, Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:17:08):
That's crazy, y, she had no That's what it was.
How you just no couch? I would say something I
did maybe, yeah, don't do that, I think twice.

Speaker 1 (02:17:23):
I'm chilling, but sere ladies, can y'all learn how to
adjust more gracefully, like.

Speaker 3 (02:17:34):
Huh when it's wrong? Hold why, I just can't.

Speaker 1 (02:17:36):
It takes more time. It takes a lot of time
to get in there. Bro, you can adjust the wrong
hold like no, that's you could be like that. You
know that's my ass right.

Speaker 2 (02:17:45):
Wrong hold wrong, hold wrong. I just killed the whole.

Speaker 3 (02:17:51):
I'm gonna kill it every time.

Speaker 1 (02:17:55):
Off and I'm laying down there crazy. You have took
an annoyed break. I got like give attitude like y,
I just need a second?

Speaker 4 (02:18:07):
Yes, oh yeah, of course, not an attitude, but definitely
like hold on real quick, extra long on the stretch.

Speaker 2 (02:18:16):
You never did that, like I was annoyed.

Speaker 1 (02:18:18):
You ever took an annoyed break? Just no, because you
don't annoy annoying.

Speaker 2 (02:18:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (02:18:25):
Yeah, I was like, I don't think men has ever
done anything to me to annoy me. But like you know,
I don't even want this anymore unless you like, unless
you're like sweating on me too much, Like it's like
too much sweat, and I'm just like, okay, we need
a break.

Speaker 2 (02:18:39):
I don't got towels. I told you I had to
do the headband one time because I was just sweating
for real, for.

Speaker 3 (02:18:47):
Real, I'm just thinking about like that you want. I'm
a missionary kind.

Speaker 2 (02:18:52):
I was. I was in the push look like Game
I was in the push look like Game seven. I
was putting work.

Speaker 1 (02:19:00):
Yeah, I don't think women understand, like y'all don't give
us enough credit, bro, the amount of work will be.

Speaker 3 (02:19:05):
Putting in, I will say. I like I said, I
tried fucking with my strap on and it didn't I
sucked at it. It was it was hard. It was
really hard.

Speaker 1 (02:19:17):
It's a lot.

Speaker 3 (02:19:17):
And then and then try that with a bed.

Speaker 2 (02:19:22):
And then you got the bed is moving. That's hard.

Speaker 1 (02:19:25):
And how many things do women have to do? At
the same time drawing sex.

Speaker 2 (02:19:31):
Maybe like two to what's that?

Speaker 3 (02:19:33):
If I'm writing you, I can either.

Speaker 1 (02:19:35):
Always go to writing. You always got when I'm talking
about in missionary, in dogging. What are the things that
you have missionary?

Speaker 3 (02:19:42):
I could pin my legs back, but I'm holding it.
I can pin myself. I can hold my own legs.

Speaker 1 (02:19:47):
Oh, you're going back behind your head like like.

Speaker 5 (02:19:49):
I'm holding my own legs. Yeah, holding your own legs
in doggie style.

Speaker 3 (02:19:54):
You can spread the butt cheeks. Ooh, I like it,
but y'all like it. But y'all like it, You'll like it.

Speaker 2 (02:20:05):
We're gonna accept the fact that most girls are pillow princesses,
most of them.

Speaker 3 (02:20:11):
Style.

Speaker 2 (02:20:14):
I'll be having I'll be having to pick you up,
having to spread legs. I'll be having a joke you
playing with this kiss, that talk, this block my sweat.
The sexual Olympics, the horny Olympics.

Speaker 1 (02:20:27):
You guys, it's a lot going on that we gotta
be in. First of all, the rhythm gotta be the
good stroke. That's one thing you got to continue. That's
a lot just just making sure because if you've got
a good stroke, you know what you're doing to the box, right,
But then at the same time, you pulling here, you
gotta make.

Speaker 2 (02:20:48):
You got a titty in your hand, You're buying in
the neck like you gotta be a fucking put on.
Mean want you to talk, yeah, and then talk that
after care ito, Like why'd you move.

Speaker 1 (02:21:14):
Right there?

Speaker 2 (02:21:16):
I'm holding I'm holding up an ass cheek. Y'all love it.
And I gotta get the rag and the gator ring.
Y'all love it.

Speaker 1 (02:21:26):
Though I'm not really complaining, but I'm just saying, do
y'all realize how much a nigga that's really knocking, how
much ship he's having to do and pay attention to
At the same time, meanwhile, you got whatever energy is
in your loins, you're trying to control that so you.

Speaker 2 (02:21:40):
Could get this off. You are really like you're throwing
five or six things and every good moment just to.

Speaker 1 (02:21:46):
Be a good lay a j Thank you so much
for pulling up on the show, my bro.

Speaker 2 (02:21:54):
Thank you guys.

Speaker 1 (02:21:56):
How can we find you? How can people find you?
Is your page public?

Speaker 2 (02:22:00):
Yes? My page is public, all.

Speaker 1 (02:22:02):
Right, because they gonna want to come to your Jersey party.
How can they find the Jersey party?

Speaker 4 (02:22:05):
Yeah, the Jersey Party you either go through my page
I g. Everybody hates AJ or the event page. Rewind
the night and it all our events will be going
up there when we start actually throwing events. This is
just number one trying to see hobby bo also just

(02:22:26):
a vibe for real. But Yo, you see people throwing
parties like crazy. Not everybody making money. I'm with the money,
so to get it.

Speaker 1 (02:22:33):
That's what it is.

Speaker 8 (02:22:34):
Man.

Speaker 1 (02:22:37):
If you linking up right, save your your game day outfit,
put it on, come to the Jersey party. You know
what I'm saying. Ladies, you want to see them tennis skirts? Yo, Yo,
that's how you shoot. That's how you shoot.

Speaker 2 (02:22:54):
That's actually kind of fly a tennis skirts. When you
got the fat ass with the tennis skirts, that's just
like a tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (02:23:01):
I ain't gonna lie. I've seen some nasty ones though,
I've seen it with not nasty, but it's like with
a long drawn just the tennis court be up here.

Speaker 2 (02:23:12):
And the ass just be out, bro just walking around,
ass out and I'm just like the tank top.

Speaker 1 (02:23:19):
You just fucked this up, tennis top.

Speaker 2 (02:23:23):
Right right.

Speaker 1 (02:23:24):
Really excited to see y'all this weekend. Just shout out
to everybody. That fuck with us. Shout out to a J,
shout out to tongue tornado over there.

Speaker 2 (02:23:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:23:38):
We had something that's been making noise over there the
whole time, Courtney, are we seeing you at the parties?

Speaker 3 (02:23:47):
I have to let you know Friday tomorrow. I forgot
tomorrow's Friday. Yeah, I'm gonna have to let you know.

Speaker 5 (02:23:56):
I'm maybe able to do Kingston drinks, but I'm not
sure if I could.

Speaker 3 (02:24:00):
Do the play party.

Speaker 1 (02:24:02):
All right, we will see you guys next week. Sex, Love,
Relationships and account you reals, Courtney, be quiet when say accountability,
because women don't be accountable. Putting that out there, I'm
just putting out there. This is the hardest sort.

Speaker 2 (02:24:18):
Just put it out. Let's put it out there, man,
this episode, just put it out there. They don't be accountable.

Speaker 3 (02:24:26):
Yep, that's who put that fan back on it show.

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