300. You Cant Just Date For The Sake Of Dating Anymore

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Can I ask you a question? Why you don't ever
play with my nipples? I got nipples too. It's my
turn to get tied up knocking headcuts though I got PTSD.
Welcome the heart of soft where men speak. So hopefully
somebody will understand when you say freaky? What's what's freaky?
What what you mean by freaky? If I do this,
You're not gonna tell your friends right now.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
We still chap it up once in a while, but
she turned into one of them.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
My man, my man, I don't like that, you know what.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
I don't like that either I like that man.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Or like you all my man, my man, every yo,
let me my man, yo yo. I'm glad I ain't
gotta deal with that because I got a man like yo.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
You have a man before, like act like you, like
you've been here.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
Like video and everything that oh I bought all of
these things from. Like man, it's like.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
It ain't even really about the mom man. That just
when people just do too much.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
It's it's just like, how are you really existing there?
We're doing this for the show.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
That's why ilways say this should be for the marketing.
That's why I say all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Why are you trying to market your relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
That's what niggas do all the time. Sometimes I tell
you all the time, it's not even sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
I didn't sucked up the clip. We was doing good cooking.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
You know he was.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
He was getting all this side of the he's a
turner ship off. Nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
What were you saying it's the marketing?

Speaker 1 (01:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:56):
No, I was saying, like, yeah, the relationship ship like
that should be all for marketing. Why I always say
sometimes is it really about being in a relationship and
doing the things in a relationship? Or is it about
the look? What can I post? What can I show?
What can I tell? Type ship?

Speaker 1 (02:08):
I know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
No, I can't even say that. No, I'm not gonna
talk what you can't say.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
No, I'm not forced to say no.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Because because it's a mutual, I just don't like friend
of ours. So there's the there's the two extremes, right.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
The one extreme is you never post your partner, or
you post them with the emoji face.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
Or no face or like the wall, it's just clouds
where their head would be right. And then you have
the you do way too much about your relationship in public,
Like I don't.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Even want you talking to my man, my man in
the house of me say yo, like is a can
we have a medium here?

Speaker 4 (02:44):
You ain't gotta go so hard they don't feel authentic
After a while, it don't feel authentic, manufacturer be.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
The problem with a lot of people in life. They
don't have no medium. Like it's always a polar opposite.
It's either really high or really low. Like you gotta
try to get in between.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
Bro, when I tell you every single post for three months,
my man, my man, and now I know this person,
you know not stable. This girl, you're not a stable person.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
So I know your.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Life behind the scenes is no way as perfect as
you're making a scene.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
So can we just live in reality?

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Correct?

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Right? I agree, that's what I want, like for people
live in reality because now you're putting up a bar
that's way too high to keep to carry, and it
can lead to you feeling embarrassed for what you've put
out there versus what your actual reality is.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
You know, now you've got to prove that your man,
your man, your man, your man, your man.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Right, you got to prove.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
That, and some ship that's not proven you don't have to.
I don't have to prove nothing nobody.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
That will also lead you to staying in a relationship that's.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
Not goodsed because because you're trying to prove and you're
trying to deflect from the things that you don't want to,
you know, exhibit, you're trying to make it seem like.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
It's something you can't even go back home without a
nigga no more. Because what happened to your man? Mayor man?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
What happens? He's going, he's going, he's he's he's gone.
I did that to what shorty? I knocked down once?

Speaker 3 (04:09):
How would you do that?

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Because I'm a dickhead. Wait what did you do?

Speaker 2 (04:14):
I knocked it down?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Whatever? When I finished knocking it down, she was a
big girl, by the way, ship I'm talking about one
of the biggest I've ever had. Like she was like
idle potato, like really cute.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
Though that's cute, that'd be the case, you know.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
What I mean. Okay, I'm talking about she rolled off
the bro Hold on, bro, I've told this before.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
When she laid on the bed, my end of the
bed went up.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
Have you ever rolled.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
It was like a sea saw.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
I was like this like rolled on sleeping against it
because it was.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
There was no equilibria. I couldn't do it right. Really, Yeah,
I'm not making this up, not making it up.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
I took I took down two big johns in my life.
One was really nice. She was shaped like a fucking
syrup bottle, and the other one was shaped like fucking
Kendrick Perkins. And she sat on my back. She sat
on my bad. That's when I had the cheap bad,
the way fed bad. She shot on my show. All
the water in my bed just crashed.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
It does that all the time.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
The first time I ever did that was the first
time I should ever happened. Like ship Hendrick Perkins.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
She was she was a big body. I know that
neck was crazy. That's kind of worthy. I wasn't, I mean,
but yeah, that was crazy. That was crazy. That was
that was crazy. But the reason I said that is
because I had a chick with strong shoulders mm hmm.

(05:46):
And her double hand twist was mean.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
She would.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Take it easy, take take it easy.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
I shoulder shrugs.

Speaker 1 (06:02):
But yeah, I took her home, and she knew I
wasn't her bag. I suppose she knew that she wasn't dollarge.
She kept talking down on herself. Matter of fact, that's
what it wasn't herring off. She kept talking down on
herself the whole time she was here, and I really
wanted to knock you down. This wasn't the we was
DM in and all that. This is the one that

(06:25):
I said. I asked her or she asked me if
I wanted to see how fat her asses? And she
sent me a p a video of her getting clapped.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Oh her. Oh so you've seen what it was in
for her?

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeah, I said, right, actually looked good. Fuck it it was.
It was seven I ain't caught it like one in
the morning, call like seven pm. You know what I'm saying,
you feel me?

Speaker 2 (06:51):
But then now she's talking down on herself. Yeah, I
know I need to.

Speaker 1 (06:56):
You know what I'm saying, trying.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
To keep no, take that off.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
You know what I'm saying, like yo, It was a
lot of that. So I knew that the confidence levels
was super low. When she got out, the call dropped uptown.
When she got out the car, she said, if you
don't call me, that's fine.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
One time is fine with me.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
She ain't say that it walked off.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yes, can you imagine that?

Speaker 3 (07:17):
Bro?

Speaker 4 (07:18):
No, you know what's funny. I feel like when you
deal with like women that are bigger. I run into
that a lot too, with people trying to like, you know,
like talk themselves into a certain space or downplace. And
for me, I'm like, Yo, I'm fucking with you because
I like what I've seen. Don't try to trick me
or try to get me to think something else, you
know what I'm saying. Like, I feel like, nah, just

(07:38):
let it be what it is. And you know what
I'm saying, let's let it flow type shit. I feel
like that happens. That happened to me a couple of times.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
A lot of the times too, Like certain people like
they look at me and now this perception of the
kind of woman they think I would deal with exactly.
And when women when I try to talk to a
girl who she don't necessarily think she's a part of
that perception, she starts to do that, I'm like, yo,
like I'm here because I think.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
This is a lot of this matter of fact we say.
I said, I said I didn't have many cop topics today,
I got a few. Because confidence is a big problem
out here, you know, I mean both parties, For both parties,
it's not even just men be having the issues too.
By the way, it's nothing the niggas here today, Yes, sir, Yeah,
shout out to court that she's on vacation.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
You know, labors in a couple of days. Maybe I
should never mind.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
Yeah, like, yo, you are you spending vacation?

Speaker 3 (08:29):
I'm just yeah, text real question, like hope you don't
spend my bread real quick to put the depositives.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
Give me a DP, give me a d P. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
You want to both spending my money? Give me a
d you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
DP is tough.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
Wow, one of my call of my hurts, one of
my hurts.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
But yeah, but the confidence you go, you know what
the DP is?

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Yes, I do know, Buget.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
I don't want that for court, but yeah, confidence is
a really major thing on both parties. You know what
I'm saying, Like, if you're going to do something like
I always if I'm a step, I'm a step correct.
You know what I'm saying, Like, even if I'm wrong,
I'm gonna be confident in being wrong. And then you
gotta go out there like, yo, this is what I'm doing.
You know what I mean? Like how I want to
move for.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Real, for real, since we're here, fuck it, what's up?
A clip went out from so Shameless today and the
clip mentioned women being hyper independent men now black men
being hyper dependent on women generally. Generally, this doesn't fall

(09:35):
for everybody, right. I feel like, once you start feeling yourself,
you got a great job. I got a great job.
You got your motion, your hip hop, you know what
I'm saying. Once you know who you are, you feel
like you got some motion. You kind of own up
to being a man a little bit more than when
you don't. I feel like, when you don't really know
where you stand in the world, you may.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
Need women to guide you, validate, validate you some time,
a just staying some something literature existence, like vuty of
your masculine Like would you date?

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Would you date a chick that's telling you you're she's
dating other niggas?

Speaker 3 (10:07):
No, even when I was a bump ass nigga, I
was yo, bro. One thing about me, I can't speak evil.
One thing about me, Bro, I put this on everything.
I'll call my homewer. She'd tell you, well, my account
was negative two hundred and fifty dollars in the bank
when I couldn't pay rent when I was three hundred
and thirty pounds. I have the same confidence I do
right now. I've always been a wavy nigga in my mind.

(10:27):
I always seen me in a way that other people
ain't seen me, and that's fine. And I always always
moved how I moved. I would never in my life
take that from for a nigga like me. I never
was like that.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
But to me, that does niggas confidence.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
I'm not seeing. It's confidences how I see the world.
I see my son understand that. But confidence means to you,
I know I'm that nigga.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
The nigga's not gonna be able to stand on what
I'm doing. Of course you're doing you. I'm gonna see
you later, Like, send me a video when you get home.
You know what I'm saying, Send me something.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
You'll get me something, tell them, get me something.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
Oh if we date, if I start and you I
know my power, I know, especially if I'm on that,
I would.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
See what you're trying to say. It took me a
minute to develop that, you feel me?

Speaker 1 (11:08):
So you y'all? So where were you? Where were you
at with it?

Speaker 4 (11:10):
But at first I was kind of like kind of
similar like at first not being established or trying to,
you know, find myself in my career, Like it took
me a minute to establish that level of confidence because
I felt like at any point in time, I could
lose it to the more money.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
The more motion, the more whatever.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
Right, And it wasn't until I started to really make
some headway for myself. And I always belie the same thing,
like like I always believed that myself always knew what
I would look like at the end, right, But that's
why I always stayed with the work. And I feel
like did just through that path. I just feel like,
you know, it's tough, bro, It's tough when you're trying
to find yourself, especially when you have the women that are,

(11:46):
you know, telling you the opposite sometimes, you know what
I'm saying, diminishing your confidence, poking at the confidence sometimes, right,
So you got to kind of build that armor, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
Think society tells black men they ain't shit unless they
have right, unless they have things, unless they showing up
with the sneak is to watch the jury. Whatever the car,
the motion where you could take me to this level
of restaurant can you take me on trips for my
first date like you, what can you do for me?

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Also the culture to our culture too for preparations.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
I think our culture perpetuates that. So I think men
find it very hard. Black men find it very hard.
And I don't know what white people, Asian people's Hispanic well,
I think Hispanics is in the same kind of as us, right,
but I don't know what their pressures are with dating,
So I can't say compared to anybody, but I know
with us, I think that it's hard for us to

(12:33):
just show up as just us. You can't be going
through nothing. You can't not have a great job or
not have no motion and still present yourself as like
a good option, good women.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
I want to I want to channel my inner Dodge
because no face is just sitting right here when I
say this. Do you think this comes from not just men,
but both parties not dealing with people that actually like them.
What if you do with somebody that actually likes you
for you? You know what I'm saying, it's like you
the nice job and the car and ship. Yeah, you
know that's ice on the cake. Well, about dealing with

(13:05):
people actually like the cake itself?

Speaker 1 (13:07):
I agree with you, but I don't feel like men
know how to show up as themselves and just I
think it's hard for men to. I think men project
bad shit on women in dating now because they already
see what society is saying they need to be.

Speaker 3 (13:23):
And also to figure back on you.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
I feel like it's also tough to because I feel
like a lot of men don't know who they are, right,
So you want somebody to love you for you, but
you don't really know who you are, So that's you know,
that's always That's what I'm saying that you need.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Them to say, No, I like you, that's so like
I want you for you or you yo, I don't
care about all those things.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
No, I'm not gonna worry about no other niggas.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
I want you like. I think our guards are super
up because of the culture walking into it, and I
think we project a lot of bad shit on women,
not saying that women don't have the floors, but since
we'll it's only niggas here, we're gonna talk about niggas, right.
I think that we project shit onto women in dating
because of what the culture says, and because we need

(14:05):
them to validate us now and this is a general thing. Again,
there's a lot of niggas that's not like that. But
I think that the experiences that a lot of black
men go through come from what yesterday said, not knowing
who they really are and needing.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Validation.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
I feel it's it feels like a double ed showed
when it comes to that. I feel like men do
need more validation now than they have in the past,
but also feel in the past is because, like I
don't want to just say validate. I don't feel like
that nurturing energy was there. I feel like, based on
like how I feel, based on like the situations and

(14:43):
predictments we leave women we put women in, we kind
of drain them of that nurturing energy. You know, it's
not as accessible now or available now as there was.
Price Beyonce, it's more, Yo, these are the thoughts of
child television. I have nothing bad to say about being.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
Min pay my bills, all my single ladies. Bro. She's
been pushing this women empowerment ship for a long time
and they, Yo, they built it.

Speaker 3 (15:10):
This is twenty years of that.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
You know.

Speaker 3 (15:11):
It's funny, twenty years of that. I blame the city girls.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
They Beyonce without the city girls. With Beyon, there would
be no.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
City beyond walk.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
Some city girls could draw.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
That's a good point.

Speaker 4 (15:21):
I feel like it went from more nurturing energy to
competitive energy, right. It became more together in competition. You
know what I'm saying now, it's not like, Yo, we're
doing this together black love. You know all of those things.
Is now, how can I outdo you?

Speaker 1 (15:33):
Right?

Speaker 3 (15:34):
How can I outpace you?

Speaker 1 (15:35):
How can I outschool?

Speaker 3 (15:35):
How can I outwork you? I feel it's I don't
necessarily feel as well, you know what I guess. You know,
all you can say is competitive. I feel like dating
was like a game of poker. So like I'm holding
my cards in your cards, but you're looking at me
just like you're gonna fold, right, You're like you're gonna fold.
And we're just sitting here just not folding, trying to
see what each.

Speaker 1 (15:53):
Men are asking men what they bring to the table. Yeah,
so what women are asking men what they bring to
the table?

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Now that one, Yeah, that's niggas.

Speaker 4 (16:02):
Literally, that's what's really happening right now. Niggas that I
built the table, niggas, like what you're putting on it?

Speaker 3 (16:08):
You know, bro, I ain't gonna. You know, times have changed.
I feel listen, times have changed. You know, things have changed,
and I feel like we both have to be more
acceptance of the fact that things have changed. You know
what I'm saying. Yeah, it's kind of it's kind of
hot ninety seven. Check my camera from me, make you
know what I'm saying, like, make sure I get some
air to please. I think I'm in here looking like

(16:29):
a I just wanted to double chuck. I mean, I
already checked that nigga camera. But niggas want to Niggas
want to be. Niggas want to be everybody want to
be Jordan's. He want to be He's Jordan's.

Speaker 1 (16:42):
He want to be checked. He want to be Jordan's.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
That's crazy, nigga Jordan's. That's probably yo.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
Look here, Steve all Right, hit the big shot.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
When we need a nigga. But yeah, go and see Steve,
it's crazy. Come on, Steve curR hit the biggest alright, reality, reality, reality,
save bron correct.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
But I said, don't take the bait. What I love Beyonce.
I just feel like there's been I love Beyonce. I
just don't have to.

Speaker 2 (17:09):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
I don't have to be the same way. I can
talk about Drake, I can talk about Beyonce, I can
talk about anybody I like. I can see floors. I
don't even think it's a floor.

Speaker 3 (17:16):
Talk about Drake, all right in any case, But I
can't be like Memphis Bleak or something. Do y'all feel that? No,
I don't feel like anything old. Sorry, y'all, we give
us a quick second. We gotta I definitely came past us,
But I'm like, I don't even blowing. Is it in
reverse that ship blowing or sucking? You know what? Sorry?

(17:46):
But but yeah, they you know, but that's what dating is, trash.
Probably gonna hold you. I don't really fuck with things
like that, no more. So you can't just date. You
can't just date like for the sake of dating. No
more real ship and bro, this literally not feasible.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (18:01):
It's not back in the day where you could just
go out every other weekend. Nigga, you gotta literally plan everything. Yes, honestly, yeah,
I don't. I don't necessarily, I don't. Really I don't
know you know what I hold you. I feel like
I feel like you gotta date, though, so you gotta know.

(18:23):
I say this all the time, But you're not going
to know about the ship that you need until you
run into the ship that you don't want. You know
what I'm saying, Like a lot of people just want
to go out in life and just fucking have all highs,
But well, you don't know your highs.

Speaker 3 (18:35):
You can't identify your loves. Exactly what I'm saying, There
we go. So I feel like, granted this is a
very painful experience, dating is necessary because you got to
be able to identify your highs. Bro Like the nigga
that the process right, you feel me, I would have
known that I've known now.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
If I would have never went through my lows, I
wouldn't known what. So what I'm what I'm trying to
say is ultimately right because it's hard for me get
my thoughts. Wrapping in this has been a theory of
mind for Will is that I don't think that men
black men. I think that they feel isolated, not supported.
I feel like they feel the same pressure that other

(19:09):
communities feel as men, but I don't feel like they
feel like that women adore them the same way. Other
like saying that Asian women is going to date the
Asian man and she's going to be a woman in
his life, and the white woman is going to always
support the white man. Spanish, right, they alway Spanish, they're
always big up right. I feel that with the society

(19:30):
and the social media and shit like that, black men
don't feel and ladies.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Don't go, oh, we don't feel as we talk about men.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
Right now, y'all have y'all have every right to speak
on y'all experiences, and they can be very valid. So
but just let us have this one alone. ISO isolate this, right.
I feel like because there's the black men slander. Black
men need to do this. Black men are deadbeats. Black
men are what they call it, bullet bags. Like all

(20:00):
of these things, the men don't feel like men, or
like being men, or like accepting their role that they're
supposed to because they don't feel supported. They kind of
feel like they play it from behind. They started to
race like super behind, which makes them project onto women

(20:27):
that negativity and needing the women to validate them enough
to put them into the male spot instead of just
showing up as they're supposed to from the door. Does
any of that make sense what I'm saying, yesh?

Speaker 3 (20:39):
So they got a chip on their shoulder.

Speaker 1 (20:41):
They got a chip.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
And not believing in themselves a lot.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Remember we come from the I wasn't supposed to make
it past twenty five.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
The women wasn't saying that.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
The niggas was saying that. Imagine all the real niggas
not at twenty five. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
Then niggas was saying that this was the culture for
men to think the worst to themselves, talk the worst shit.
Bitches ain't shit. I ain't never gonna do this. I
ain't never gonna do that. Meanwhile, that shit ain't wasn't
happening with the female side. They was always going to school,
It was always being raised by their parents. They was
always being raised by both parents.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
Yeah, about to say something, I might get us assassinated,
but I'm gonna say it anyway. Do you feel that
rap and hip hop calls the decline in black culture
because what you're saying, or the message that you delivered
is it's not even one hundred it's a million percent accurate.
But that wasn't That wasn't a message that was projected

(21:34):
in the sixties or the seventies.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
Without a shadow of a doubt.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
We was in a skatering of bell bottoms, everybody was
in love without filming. Eighty five came when when the
fucking that nigga found hip hop in the Bronx eighty
whatever three eighty three started to decline a little bit. No,
I think message, here's the thing. And I say this
all the time. I say this all the time, Bro,
hip hop has always been a message of inner black thoughts.
If you listen, if you listen to R and B,

(22:00):
when you listen to women, R and B was theltest
R and B songs is about damaged women who are
damn well.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
Now, Mary J.

Speaker 3 (22:06):
Bligemen, damage is like eighties nineteen ninety Bro, it's not
even yeah, it's a road, it's her top song. Well,
i'll give you that. I give that shout out to
Mary Mary. But yeah, like but you right.

Speaker 2 (22:18):
Most of the artists. One of the best songs.

Speaker 3 (22:20):
Is and I hate, I don't and I don't want
to be Because listen, hip hop is odd ship. I'm
not saying trying to assassinate our ship. We should take
pride in us. It's not to be honest.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Though, because surely my murder came up with what as
we lay in the seventies and that was Morning Sunlight.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
I don't know the words.

Speaker 2 (22:39):
So basically she's sleeping. They both have other partners.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
But is that the decline of black you're talking about?
Like the culture I'm talking about. Yeah, so that's just
promoting poly the lifestyle, polygamous relationships. I don't have a
problem with that. But when you just sell that your
bitches ain't ship behold the trick or bitch, better have
my money over see my girls like better matchdown a cash.
Things like that the message that we put out there,

(23:04):
because that's where I kind of got my right standing
away from my mom and dad got divorced after like.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Two years exactly.

Speaker 3 (23:10):
I really have no example of the nigga my idea
of family and marriage Fresh Prince of Bella, Uncle Philan
viv I don't know the niggas. You feel me. So
when I'm listening to the dip set and I'm hearing
how Cameron talking about chicks, and that's how I projected for.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
A while, especially because that's how surroundings.

Speaker 3 (23:27):
So I was. I can't I can't see I. I
started the game negative ten points back. I ain't gonna
hold you. I didn't really start to really understand what
it was to be a decent human being until like
a couple of days ago. I'm being honest, that's that.

Speaker 4 (23:43):
And I think also as far as with the hip
hop point, I think what's being rewarded, right, because I
feel like at a certain point in time, the other
type of being black was being rewarded, right, the comments,
the righteousness, the black power, the community that was being rewarded.
That's who we looked at and that's what we gave
reverence to. Then when that changes, we give reference to
the dealers. You know what I'm saying, That the guys
who's controlling the things in the community.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
Right.

Speaker 4 (24:05):
So now even when you talk about the regular God
that's just doing the right thing, right, Maybe it's not
in the streets or popular, but he's just doing the
right thing. And you you would want your kid to
follow that path. There's no reward for that. There's no
there's no adulation, you know what I'm saying. That's like
they say, the nigga gets celebrated to come home from
jail more than they come on from college.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Right.

Speaker 4 (24:23):
That's for a reason fee what I'm saying, Because it's like, Yo,
this nigga just went and some shit that might not
be looked at by the hood as some monumental. But
the nigga who just shot fifteen people, he got a party,
We got a block party, we got barbecued, We go
to be giving them money. We're making sure he's ingratiated
back into the community. And the nigga come home from
college is trying to figure it out, you know.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Adapt.

Speaker 4 (24:45):
So it's like, so you're like, yo, bro, I got
twenty thousand and that I'm trying to put something together
and you you're not getting nothing from the community for that.
So I feel like to that point, that's where it
falls to them and the women, and the women part.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
The women is sweating it.

Speaker 1 (24:59):
They're not sweating that's the reward. That's the reward.

Speaker 3 (25:04):
It's all social conditioning, you know what I'm saying. I'll
be honest, bro. Like me personally, I was listening to
a podcast and niggas was clowning Chance the rapper because
he had an album talking right, she loved his wife right.
And then bro, shit got no media push, no radio spin,
niggas nothing nothing. You feel me like, why would that

(25:26):
not be pushed by the execs? Why would that not
be pushed by the higher up. You know what, do
get pushed every future someone that ever came out, you
know who knew every word me. You know what I'm saying.
You look at the message future promoting this chick, that chick,
this chick. I don't want this ship go back to
Steve Harvey doing lean for the pain, bitch? How dare
you move on? I know this your word for word,
and when you think about it, yo, it's kind of strength,

(25:46):
not it's kind of ironic when you think about the
messages that are being pushed and promoted. You know. And
I'm not even trying to be no super I ain't
even awoke nigga, bro, I'm just a regular nigga. But
this is why I do say. This is why it's
very important to have superior male masculine influence in your life.
You know what I'm saying. Like, this is why, like
I tell all my niggas whatever, this is why me

(26:07):
I try to pay it forward. You know what I mean.
Whenever I do get a chance to do something for somebody,
I try to do it. You know what I'm saying,
Like it was important to speak to your little nigga, yo,
bro go that way something and symb yo, just go
this way, go down this. Don't walk down fucking Hancock today,
walk down Jefferson. I'm telling this for a reason. When
you get older, you're gonna tell the same niggay you
walk down this way. It's very important as black men.

(26:27):
I don't even give a fucking on other niggas. It's
opponent as black men to really project these messages. How
you show up in business, may being a man of integrity,
being trustworthy, you know what I'm saying, how you handle money,
how you handle women, all these things and things that
I never had no blueprint too. Right, So that's why
I like it. If I started the game down, if
I started the game down seventeen, I want you at
least start at one. That's the goals. I want you

(26:48):
to start at the spot that I wasn't that.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
And go back to your point about the chance rapid thing,
and like you said, think about even go back to
look at who signed.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
Even you can think.

Speaker 4 (26:55):
About yourself, what's the last guy a person that you've
seen that was signed. That's like chance to rapper as
opposed to pop smoke.

Speaker 3 (27:04):
See what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (27:05):
Even if even if the thought of your head, it's like, yo,
I can't give you too many guys, that's coming from
you know, my wife, or that's coming from that.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
Type of images, But that become iconic in today's society.
That person is a person that you idolate, idolize, especial
the youth, right And I say that's where it starts,
the youth.

Speaker 4 (27:24):
And if the youth is being rewarded with Like I said,
you have to make a drill record order for us
to sign you. We're not even signing you unless you're
doing that type of music. So then what does it
tell the kids that's that's doing music? You know what
I'm saying?

Speaker 3 (27:34):
What is it? Path?

Speaker 1 (27:34):
Is it put them on? You know what.

Speaker 3 (27:36):
Bothers me about Drake. I'm sorry I had to do this.
This is just I'm gonna make this really good at all.
I'm not gonna go too too. The reason why I super,
the reason why Drake Withever my number one artist, bro
is because there was a time where men did not
discuss how they felt. You never discuss how that girl
played you like that. You never really discussed Damn, maybe

(27:59):
I fucked up. You never really discussed you I can't
get that back. You never really discussed her. You don't
really discuss the lows like that. You know what I'm saying.
I mean, hold this song Cray, but that was cool
one of his best songs to one of the.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
Best song, Amazing songs.

Speaker 3 (28:11):
And I'm never going to know.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
I'm not saying that just because of whole You're saying amazing,
vulnerable in that way because one of.

Speaker 3 (28:17):
His best but Drake. When Drake first came out, Drake
was the first nigga who when I listened to I said, Yo,
I've been through that this nigga in my journal, you
know what I'm saying, Like, he said what.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
You too?

Speaker 3 (28:31):
And and he got killed for that for a very
long time. Oh, this nigga's emotional niggas is that in
the third et cetera, et cetera, family and ship, you
don't necessarily know how just having an hour to express
yourself could be good for your mental health. You know
what I'm saying. I always fake being like that, but
I just never had the the platform or the space
where I could do that safely. Drake kind of made

(28:52):
it cool for niggas to express their emotions. Bro, And
I'm not even trying to be on no bit ship.
He really made it a thing.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
You know, you forcing me to segue to what into
last week's discussion. Yeah, that's what that's what you're doing now.
I don't know a lot of y'all don't notice. We
was recorded and we only posting the law you were
here for that. We're only posting the whole version on Patreon.
I told him I want to take it out, and

(29:20):
lou was like, no, I wanted in there because I
want to address it. Yes, I don't know, do you
want to take the I will say this. I know
we got into a little beef on on stage. We
got into a little beef on the show.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
Yeah, so listen at the end of the day, right,
A part of I don't want to call it being
a man, a part of being an adult, right is
you You make every step that you take, you think
it's the best decision that you made. You know what
I'm saying. Like you, you you react in real time
and in your head you think, yo, this is the

(29:56):
best way to do this or the best way to
handle that. Even if your destination might be correct, we
don't always necessarily take the best routes you know what
I'm saying. And last week we had a conversation about preferences,
preferences in dating history, of sexual history of your part
right and in real time, like I answered, and don't

(30:21):
get me wrong, at the end of the day, as
are my preference will be. You know, certain things ain't
for me and et cetera, et cetera. That's cool, but
you can I feel like, especially a nigga like me,
a nigga like a matcaliber, my.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
Status you do have.

Speaker 3 (30:34):
I do have a responsibility and reference of how I
go about answering certain things and addressing certain things that
may affect certain people. You know what I mean. And
I feel like last week I didn't necessarily take the
best destination. I took the worst, one of the worst
routes to get to the destination that I wanted to
get to. I will say, and hold let me land
this real quick because I'm trying to I wrote this
down to my rolodecks, and what I want to do

(30:56):
is I just is mental numbers ahead. So how you
know I'm not really an old nigga like that.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
It's a yellow page.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
But what I do want to say is I apologize
everybody that I offended anybody that you know, because you
don't you never realize how you might affect the people
that fuck with you, you know what I'm saying. That's
the shit that really make you feel like shit at
the end of the day, especially, never realized. And even
the people that don't fuck me, or the people that
just might have called it straight, you know what I mean.
I never want to be the nigga to be out
here straying or you know, shaming at people. So as

(31:27):
an adult, I want to stand here and say, like, yo,
I apologize for the fucking route that I took, the
way that I went about addressing that, and the answer
that gave, you know what I mean. Again, there's a
right way to do the wrong thing. I cannot. You
can never get mad at somebody for not having the
same side of perspective as you are, but you can't
get mad at them for how they choose to address it.
You don't need to be disrespectful to disagree, you know.

(31:48):
And I would want for myself the same that I
want from a partner, saying that I want from anybody else,
you know what I'm saying. So being a person that
has been there, like who has was disrespected because somebody
I didn't agree with somebody how I made me feel.
So because I don't really like how that made me feel.
That's not something I want to project or you know,
distribute amongst anybody. So I want to be you.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
Know, when that moment happened, I will say I kind
of pressured you into giving that response. I listened back
and I was like, yeah, the nigga was trying to weave,
weave that whole ship for a minute sometimes but and
so you know, I'm apologize to you for that. A
lot of times we flow, so I can't really like

(32:30):
always tell you know what I mean, what's going on.
But yeah, I was, I was, I was. I think
that I got bothered in that because of the community
that we've built and we are.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
There's not many men like us in this space thing.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
We might be the only ones.

Speaker 2 (32:46):
Really do you gotta learn like you gotta you got
a couple, You got.

Speaker 3 (32:49):
A couple, especially so when I so all right, I'm
you don't notice my Philly niggas you feel me. I'm
not saying there aren't any black men and the sex
positive space, but they don't come from where we come.
From right, and that's why I feel.

Speaker 1 (33:05):
Like where they come from.

Speaker 3 (33:07):
You yes, sorry, yesterday's all right, you're from hall them.
But what I'm saying is it's not too many. Is
I'm always gonna I'm always gonna pick us over them
because they ain't. It's not too many dogs that come.
It's not it's not we like dogs in this ship.
And when I say that, I mean, like, yo, we
really I don't want to sound I don't want to

(33:27):
I don't want to criminate nobody, but like niggas have passed,
you know what I'm saying, Like we don't necessarily come
from the best of We don't know the nigga's soft learn.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
What I will say is straight black heterosexual men in
this sex space. I just take it seriously. How we
protect the people that we represent, you know what I'm saying.
And Lon and I had a conversation and I really
appreciated that response, but that led to another conversation which
actually went further. I don't know if you want to

(34:01):
dive into that whole thing, which was about the tea app.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
And I was.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
Basically saying that the male tea app wasn't as necessary
or you know, coming from into their place. As the
woman one as it started, right, I thought that the
male one was in retaliation. And in that conversation, Loan
basically said to me, you being irresponsible.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
There are men out there that.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
Have gone through things that also need a place where
they can speak on their thing. And I believe he
was trying to get me to understand a situation. And
again I don't want it. But what I will say
is this, You did say this, and what I said
to you join our conversation is Joe, you have that
platform now you you yourself, have that platform for and

(34:52):
I would have understood it when you have said it,
but you didn't feel As men, we don't always feel
safe being vulnerable. True, don't like we feel like anytime
we do women go this nigga. But but when we
do it or right, so it's always like we not
really heard or it'll get flipped around, there will be

(35:13):
another negative response. So it's like somebody said to me,
you don't want to settle or in a relationship. I said,
I kind of want my relationship to be settled. I
don't want my relationship to.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
Be Yeah, I want, I want I want smooth.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
I just wanted so if I'm in a place where
I'm settled, I don't want to throw some shit that's
gonna cause mad waves and fuck my shit up all
the way again, honestly, bro. And so that brought up
with Louan told me, I don't know if you want it,
you don't have to know.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
That's cool pretty much. We had the conversation last week,
and what I want to say is, first thing is first,
my initial statement was I agree with him on how
the apps are currently being utilized on both parties. I
feel it's petty. I think niggas only made this ship

(35:59):
because made it and they just both on their throwing
soul in each other. That shit is so whack. Now,
of course we understand now that women do have a
legit reason for that app. Grant is not being used
in a way it maybe it should have been intended to,
but there is there is a very very alarming reason
as to how that app can be properly utilized. I

(36:19):
can make the space women better. And what I would
just wanted to say was the same thing could be
said for like guys, you know what I mean, You know,
fucking this is a stat most not most, but like
I think it's like sixty six percent of like domestic
violence cases be like niggas that get beat up by

(36:40):
women because it's niggas, though they don't. It never really
gets like nothing ever happens. A lot of the times
when men do, like call cops on women, they both
get arrested. You know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (36:50):
They asked him to take a leaf.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Leave, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
And then it's like, so it's not like I'm in
fair like you, like shorty, you can't beat me up.
I'm not saying I gotta walk down your chick's gonna
fucking snuffing. You'll rob me for my fucking glasses. I
don't have that fear, but I do have the fear
of damn like you can kind of take advantage of
me right now, like you've like you got the law
on your side, you got the internet on your side.
I can't really do too much. And if I do have,

(37:14):
if I do fight bad like nigga beat you're not
a man, you know what I'm saying, Like there are
things that can happen, you know you women can't fuck
key your car, you can't slash your tires. You know
what I'm saying, slash your mother tires if she goes,
nobody's gonna, yeah, she get in front of it.

Speaker 2 (37:28):
You you ask that no matter what happened.

Speaker 3 (37:30):
These are things that as a nigga, like I've I've
went through, you know what I'm saying, So like, yes,
it's not necessarily a fear of for my life, but
you're definitely shit for my mental health. I tell people
all the time, but I don't like to upload on
the gram like that because man, notifications just get my
mond rattle because it takes me back to a spot
where I was at before, you know what I'm saying,
Like even when I go out sometimes, like when I

(37:51):
go outside, like I don't I don't be as outgoing
as I You shoot you in the face. It's crazy.
I don't be as outgoing as I used to because, like,
you know what, I don't know how people are viewing me.
I don't know, you know, like it kind of does
like alter how you move, you know what I'm saying.
And not to say I'm gonna be on a t app,
but may Eve had a nigga to say, yoh, you
know what, bro, I think you should go down Jefferson

(38:11):
and not handcopting, maybe I will probably be in a
better space, you know what I'm saying. So again I'm
not saying the app is being utilized properly as niggas.
Who's tight that new niggas is fucking their chick. Deal
with it, you little bit ass nigga. We're not saying
there's no reason for that. But all I'm saying is like,
you know, like sometimes it's men we can look out
and protect each other. And you know, maybe the t
app could have ordered coffee whatever it is, maybe it

(38:34):
could have been utilized to make life slightly better for
niggas as it is for women as well.

Speaker 1 (38:38):
That was it. You know, this is no when a
man gets accused of some shit, that's him, especially socially,
that's him now, no matter what you do, would no
matter whether it's proven in court, whatever happened, if it's
him now, and that shit affects you. And so when

(39:04):
Loona and I were talking about different situations that can happen,
I was like, I wish that you were to you
know what I mean. And so I think we just
we got into a bad you know, discourse. But I
totally understand where you're coming from. I want to apologize
for my part in it, of course, as a leader
and as a person who I just y'all too. I

(39:26):
guess is tromp y'all to the closest niggas in my life.
I would hate for y'all to walk out of here
and feel like, Yo, I don't know where I stand
with this nigga. You know what I mean? Like, Yo,
why would he treat me like that? You know what
I'm saying? Because Yo, we don't really have many safe spaces,
and so I just want to let y'all know I
love y'all. You know what I mean. We all go

(39:47):
through our emotions right, and we should be allowed to
have that, even around our niggas.

Speaker 3 (39:53):
I want to ask you a question without getting you
in trouble.

Speaker 2 (39:57):
What's that get in trouble?

Speaker 3 (40:00):
If you of today right could speak to your younger
self and give yourself advice about a particular virgo you
was dealing with, what would you tell yourself?

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Honestly, all jokes aside, like if it.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
Don't work, don't go back.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
If you start dating somebody and y'all don't vibe, take.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
That as the first warning.

Speaker 1 (40:28):
Take that as the first warning, right, don't keep trying
to make fetch happen. Don't try to fit a square
in a circle, right like you have to know when
time is up, because that's the universe warning you. You're
not supposed to be right here. This is not where
you're supposed to be right. But me, with the people

(40:49):
pleasing or just wanting to be accepted, wanting to be liked,
will chase a bad situation just to make sure that
I'm on the right side of it.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's what
it is. Yeah, I'm guilty of Yeah, that's.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
What I'll be doing instead of just giving myself grace
and letting things go.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Hey, all right, it didn't work out. God bless you,
God bless me.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
Boom right, And I think I think I did a
tweet about that. Most people who don't, most people who
seek love from other people, have not done enough work
on loving themselves. Yes, right, they're doing too much. And
I just I should have believed in myself more. I

(41:39):
should have took what is for what it is and
let certain things go.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (41:44):
Now you said that kind of just that was really
my life. Every bad situation that I've never ever that
I prolonged, it was always because I wanted to make
sure that if this didn't work out, it wasn't because
of me. Yeah, that's kind of what it was, real shit, like,
I wanted to make a yo like me and you,
I'm not at fault for this, And all I did
was give myself more ship to be out for what

(42:05):
I'm saying, because you real shit, you don't. You don't
always be wrong on purpose, you know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, Bro,
there's a girl out there for each and every one
of us. She had a button, she want to get
a side fu. She just gotta hit that one. But
is it ain't really your fault per se, But Yo,
that she got that power, that's just her effect on you.
I gotta get up out it. The same for me,
I'm saying, real ship. I just want to say, y'all

(42:28):
smoked that. By the way that y'all just smoked that.
I just want to give y'all come in, come in,
y'all for that really good sport.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
Yeah smoke that.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
I just want to say, shout out to y'all for me,
shout out real ship, Yo, Yo, gonna hold you ain't
gonna lie Bro, what you get a little older? You
be at work all the time. You be tired, Yes,
be tired, get older? You know what else to be tired?

(42:54):
My fucking nuts. I'll be tired. Bro, listen now to
do before when he be underperformed, I don't have enough gives.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
I know that feeling.

Speaker 3 (43:04):
And then you know what we've seen work I be
getting right, you know sometimes I don't have it. Yeah,
I'm just listen. I'm not trying to finel that. I'm
gonna be honest with you. I just got low boots
one day, yea. And what I will say is your
low boots is not letting you. I have never ever
failed a test again. I go home now with confidence.
I know even if I'm yawning, that ship is growling.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
That ship is loading up like literally only way yo.
You feel this ship get heavy while at.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
Work, Bro, you ain't up in the morning.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
Ship. You got a different dick you This is what
I'm trying to tell. It's like a dick exchange and
it's all natural ingredients. It isn't like this ship that
you get from fucking CVS. Yeah, some some ship, you
doctor ship you feel me? And literally the ship is running.

Speaker 2 (43:49):
Through your bodies like motherfucking nan nights.

Speaker 3 (43:51):
Like is that from the Matrix?

Speaker 1 (43:59):
I just finished watching Superman, so listen. It's literally I'm
telling you the ship is running through your fucking circuits
and like loading you up. So all that being tired.
Now your man is waking you up. He's ready, you
know what I mean. And the ladies they're soaking wet.
You're talking about the ladies like initiates, damn soaking wet.

(44:21):
Be having a ship thriving like yo, there's nothing like
doing the low boost to drive boost and the soaking
wet at the same time as a couple and letting
that shit work. Y'all up, bro. As a matter of fact,
I think I owe you a bottle still. I didn't
give your bottle last week, and I'm your bottle. People.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
I'm saying, people like to ask you what is like
using like low boosts, And I'm like, you know how
like cars go from zero to sixty, mag it's just
no zero, just start off. You never turn a car
on you just at sixty.

Speaker 2 (44:52):
I mean it's a healthy yeah, sixty.

Speaker 3 (44:57):
Yes, it's it's it's not a speeding to your It's
not a sixteen to forty. You don't got You're not
gonna get fine for this later, I promise you.

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to get ten percent off of your load boosts, your
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Speaker 2 (45:21):
Both of y'all can use drive boosts at the same time.

Speaker 1 (45:24):
You get a bottle that I believe has thirty days
worth in it, and you're getting ten percent off, Like,
there's really no reason why you can't do it unless
you don't love yourself. Because me, my girl love low
Boosts and soaking wet. Low boots dot Com use cold
hard or soft for ten percent off. Yo, that ship

(45:45):
nuts bro nuts ah.

Speaker 6 (45:51):
Ah.

Speaker 3 (45:52):
Get the fuck out of here.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
I noticed that this conversation we've been talking, we just flowing.
We have no topics. Everybody flowing forty two minutes right right.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
I gotta y'all gonna laugh at this.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
I saw this clip on the show and it kind
of on the GRAM, and it kind of reminds me
of the situation we're in right now.

Speaker 3 (46:11):
You'd like to hear it? Yes, sir, here we go.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
Let me see of divorce are lesbians.

Speaker 6 (46:19):
The higher mile lesbian marriages at the high check it
the highest rate of divorce in the world. The second
level of divorce is heterosexuals. The lowest level of divorce
is gay married. Now, let me man explain to you
what's just happened. The lesbians find it very hard to

(46:47):
stay married because there are two women involved. Heterosexual marriages
aren't without their complications because there is still why women
in gold.

Speaker 1 (47:09):
Did you hire?

Speaker 6 (47:11):
The word game means happy because there are no women.

Speaker 3 (47:21):
Walking is bad. Here's the funny part that was a
very genius bit. Remember when I said that, I literally
said that, bro, I said, YO, being gay probably mad peaceful? Son,
I don't see. It's gotta be the most peaceful in
the world.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
Don't me wrong.

Speaker 3 (47:37):
I ain't peace that I want you know, I ain't
saying that, but I do sometimes think about, Yo, why
can't talk to my girl? I talked to my niggas?
Why you can't understand me?

Speaker 2 (47:47):
How the way we talk?

Speaker 3 (47:49):
They don't hear received the ima take my glasses off?
How why not?

Speaker 2 (47:53):
I don't the way that they hear?

Speaker 1 (47:56):
They listened to intent, They listened to some other ship
like the words or what you actually do. That's not
what they're thinking of. They're thinking of the why and
all this other show.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
You ever talk to a girl, you ever say something
to her like, yo, this can is silver and she
tell you, I feel like you're telling me you don't
give a funk about what I'm drinking right now.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
I never said that. She's like, did.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
You get this?

Speaker 4 (48:22):
It feels like it feels like it's making me believe
that in your tone is telling me and it's like, yo,
I just said that the I just said that the
can is silver.

Speaker 1 (48:31):
Nah, you're telling me my health. And I keep saying this.
Women look through look at situations through like a diamond lens.
What means it has all of these different We're just
saying one thing.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
We're like a rock. We just said one thing, boom drop.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
They seen all of these different versions of reality, so
that when you say something, it's like, but why did
you do that?

Speaker 2 (48:57):
Why didn't you do that?

Speaker 1 (48:58):
How would you you did think about how that made
me feel? Or but if this but when I did it?
It's all of this is coming off. Bro, I just
said the canvas silver.

Speaker 3 (49:12):
So you know what's so funny? So you see what
you just said I'm looking for. I feel like my
whole life, I've been looking for a girl that when
I say the can of silver, she heard that can.
But what I realized is you'll never find a girl
in the world who just heard that the can of silver.
So I've accepted that.

Speaker 1 (49:29):
I'm like, you know what I'm what I'm looking what.

Speaker 3 (49:30):
I'm looking for doesn't exist.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
I'll be honest, I don't.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
I don't believe the kind of I feel like the
relationship I would like to have with a woman will
never exist, and I feel like if it does, I
don't like her like that, which is insane, insane any
woman that I've had that that where she say the
canon Silva, It's like, that's my son, that's you know
what I'm saying. But it's like, why not just be
with the girl with had at the Cannis silver?

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Why not?

Speaker 3 (49:54):
Why?

Speaker 1 (49:55):
Well?

Speaker 3 (49:56):
So, now as an adult, like where I'm at in life, honestly,
some women gonna kill me. I don't care. I gave
up on trying to understand women or trying to make
sense of women. Now I just try to manage how
I deal with them, if that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (50:11):
Men have learned to deal and I've learned this. Even
if you watch the old movies and shit, when you
get older, she's yelling, she's eating do this, and you're
just sitting there smoking your cigar. That nigga has been
beaten into submission. He learned a long time ago. It's
better to just say okay, or leave okay, or go

(50:35):
for a dry She's going through all of this, Okay, Yo,
It's all right. That's the easiest way to get through life, bro,
because you ain't. First of all, even if you win,
you lose. You lose, and you can't outpetty her. So
even if you win, now she comes back around the
block later with some other ship, or now she's got
an attitude, or now you ain't getting no buns like Yo,

(50:57):
there's a woman that I deal with, have dealt with
that every time I was right about something, she would disappear.
She hit me with a double haymaker about some other ship.

Speaker 3 (51:08):
Yes, double, And it wouldn't be today, it would be
from like months ago.

Speaker 2 (51:12):
No, the response wouldn't happen today.

Speaker 1 (51:16):
It would happen maybe two days later or three days
later about something else. And now I'm getting dragged through
them crazy, And I realized this always happens when I
get one up that you double haymakers souplex me into
the dirt. Yo. I need you to do. Drive to Connecticut,
gather some coins off the side of the river, take
them down to my grandmother's house.

Speaker 2 (51:38):
Yo'.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Yes, it's some old mythical ship like why are we?
Why do you all know? I just need that?

Speaker 3 (51:48):
Okay, you know what I'm saying, son, And this is
why I feel like it's important for guys. So me personally,
I don't only talk about like women too too much,
but when I hear shit like this, it makes you
feel better. I'm not alone here.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
We all go to that.

Speaker 3 (52:01):
I'm not alone sometimes, yo, bro. Sometimes I be in
my crib like I think I.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Might have an issue, like my bug you might have issues.

Speaker 3 (52:09):
I mean, yeah, we don't have, am I bugging? I
feel like I feel like any time I've ever been
right with Shorty, I ended up being wrong yo.

Speaker 1 (52:17):
Every time.

Speaker 2 (52:18):
Yes, before you say this.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
Hangs up the phone. I want to call you back.
I want you to say what you got to say.
But I do want to say. Is I think men
learn how to speak women more than women learn how
to speak men. Yes, I think we just learned how
to speak women, and then shit gets calm. I don't
think they do as much trying to learn how to
speak men.

Speaker 4 (52:39):
No, absolutely, yes, No, I was going to say that
the worst thing for me is being in a space
where I feel like I can't be right right, And
I say that all the time, like, Yo, there has
to be a situation where we can both say something
that's valid. I can't be in a situation where I
could just never say anything that's valid. To your point,
It's like, yo, you could, we could be right as
a as a nail. And it's like goal posts over here.

(53:00):
Now it's like, oh no, that's that's where I get
the goal posts in the U hor shit, because it's
literally like, Yo, you told me the go post over here.
I don't went up the mountain. I was on the
revenue ship. I got there, I got the bell on
my back. I got up to the top of the mountain.
Now you just told me it's not it's not at
the top no more. The ship is over.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Here on the valley.

Speaker 3 (53:18):
And it's like, why did it, yo, bro, I've been
watching this shit the whole time.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
How did it get from down there?

Speaker 3 (53:23):
Down there?

Speaker 1 (53:23):
And it's like and.

Speaker 3 (53:24):
Y'all gonna think, y'all gonna think this is funny. But
that's it is stressful altho. No, so it makes you
want to be singles, bro, it's discouraging, it's disheartening. There's
been a lot of things where I wake up, I'm
not meant for a relationship. I meant for I'm not
built for this.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
No, I can't. I can't sign up for this for
the next forty fifty years. I'll die. I'm gonna die regardless.
I'm gonna die quicker.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
If have you ever been in a relationship where you
actually expressed yourself in a good way and she said okay,
or she she understood where he was coming from.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Yes, but not as often as I would like for.
I feel like I do a lot.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
I gotta do the most to get that.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
I gotta do a lot.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Like what you almost gotta break up?

Speaker 3 (54:05):
Yeah, Like it's always like it's always like seven argument,
you know, it's like it's like a drop the fucking toward,
Like why can you go this far? This is a lot.
I don't want to I don't want to do this.

Speaker 4 (54:17):
I knew I was right from ten in the morning.
I won't get a sorry until they're going on twelve.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
You get sorry.

Speaker 4 (54:22):
No, not not a sorry, not not a sorry, but
I'm interpreting as sorry, okay, yeah, okay, or what you do,
what you're doing, what you're doing?

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Yeah, Oh that's the that's the end of the argument.

Speaker 4 (54:33):
Yeah, so we're still gonna see each other. You know,
I just argue with you for my whole day. Up
now you talk about do I want to see you
in two hours?

Speaker 3 (54:41):
They so shuttle your why I work? Right?

Speaker 7 (54:44):
What the funk you mean why I work? I don't
give a funk about casey.

Speaker 1 (54:56):
So we talked about our issues a lot, right, I
do have two things that I'm want to bring up now,
jowing so shameless. This week I spoke on a situation
my homegirl told me about. She's in a relationship and
when she got into the relationship, the guy would buy
her flowers, he would get her little gifts, he would

(55:20):
take her out to eat a lot, He would, you know,
show up for her. And she says she loved that
wooing that he did so much. She you know, hot girl,
she's out there, she does her right that she said,
I want to be with him. I like the way
he treats.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
Me, I like this treatment. Over the course of time,
let's say a year. I don't know how long they've
been together.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
That's waned. He doesn't now one thing about it is
she has money. So when things come up, say let's
just say they're in the crib and she's hungry, she'll
just order them both food and it'll just show up.

(56:00):
She would just order some ship, or if she wants
to go to a concert, she'll just buy the tickets
to the concert seven hundred dollars. Concert tickets is expensive,
and you wind up, you wind up in the third
row when she buy tickets. I don't know what plug
or what website women go to to buy tickets.

Speaker 3 (56:16):
They spend the money.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
Bro, you go to a concert or some ship with
a woman you're in like see you're on the floor
or some shit. I've never bought tickets for a show.

Speaker 2 (56:27):
And walked all the way down, all.

Speaker 3 (56:30):
The way through, like we'll get tickets up there. Want
to find out, yo, yo, Brian, what the fuck? I
don't do that.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
So she'll do ship like that, right, And so she's like, well,
now he doesn't do that anymore, And she wanted to
know why she said, I don't want to come off
with like a gold digger, but I liked when he
would do those things and it would be little surprises
all the time and all that. As a matter of fact,
she was like one day, she was like, yo, I
want to do something, and she put it in a

(57:03):
way as if make it happen. You're gonna make this happen.
And he looked at it and he was like, oh,
you know you're gonna get that done.

Speaker 3 (57:12):
Ah, he's he he hit that switch.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
So I don't know what switch. What switches that?

Speaker 3 (57:18):
So pretty much right? Got this? Yo, this is gonna
sound crazy. There's two versions of men, and I hate
to bring every I hate to break ship.

Speaker 1 (57:29):
Down like it's about to be tough. I just I
just when you said.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
That versions of men, right, some men before the box
and men after the box. And honestly, once you give
a nigga a box, giving a nigga some pussies a gamble,
you gotta hope that the nigga you're given the pussy
too is the same nigga that got the pussy. That
makes sense, And a lot of men we look at

(57:53):
women like a finish line. Cross it. It's over I
won the race. So you're thinking that all you have
to do with life is just sit down with your
gold trophy, not knowing that a woman is a marathon.
It's not really a race per se. It's something that
keeps going. This is a long run, my brother, you
know what I'm saying. So I kind of feel he's
looking at it. I crossed my finish line. I'm good,

(58:15):
I got my trophy. We won gold, and it's cool.
So now you don't feel the need to maybe approach
to engage your treahoad away that he once did. I
already got the I want already. Once you can make
a nigga feel like once a nigga have the minds
of your I one, it's something like you can't really
unteach that. And the hard part about dating is you
have to understand, Yo, this is a game that don't end.

(58:36):
You know what I'm saying, And don't finish.

Speaker 2 (58:38):
Bro, I gotta two different versions of a nigga.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
You got another.

Speaker 2 (58:42):
You gave me that, and I thought you was going somewhere.

Speaker 1 (58:44):
But I understand what you're saying, right, But they were
in a relationship for a year, so I'm not sure
if that's that's what it is.

Speaker 4 (58:49):
But for me when I when I heard it originally,
for me, I was thinking about I guess there's another
version of a nigga that is not comfortable with the
control not being his as far as the financial right,
there's there's a type of nigga where when he's in
control of the finances and the movement, everything is fine.
He's the best nigga, he got older, emotion, everything is set.

(59:09):
But as soon as that level of control is taken away,
and like I said, the woman maybe can do more
or she can exert more power resources. I think for
some niggas, it's like a disconnect, so they feel like, well,
why should I work mad hard to do what you
could do easily? You get what I'm saying. And now
that's like that's you know, that's watching niggas bread, That's
know what I'm saying. That should have nothing to do

(59:29):
with how you're operating with her. But certain niggas feel
that way. You know what I'm saying, Like you said,
I maybe had to work or do whatever whatever to
get those tickets, and me doing that was gonna make
me feel like that nigga you bought the tickets way
two times, but.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
I would tred sections.

Speaker 3 (59:43):
But but I was working for that, and that was
gonna make me feel like I did that would have hurt, but.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
You just did it.

Speaker 4 (59:50):
You did it without even a blink the shit just
oh check my email type shit. So now my ability
to make those types of moves is now gone. Now
I got to get creative and do something else. And
for niggas who were not creative or innovative. You know,
I said, once you take the money play away from niggas,
what do niggas have?

Speaker 3 (01:00:05):
She made a very excellent point. Those kind of acts change.
It goes from flowers and small gifts to new tires
on your car, air conditioning for your house. Do you
feel that love changes after a certain while.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
The behavior has changed, the responsibilities change.

Speaker 3 (01:00:25):
And that's so that's something that I dealt with because
I was the same way. Listen, I was four hours
with my shorty I did. I mean, I still do
a lot of things, but I can see now how
like certain things shades o wild being together for a
little bit longer. You know, sometimes I help her in
different ways than I have before because I now have
a deeper insight into what her life is like.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
More access.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
You know what I'm saying. But what I do want
to ask not for your homegirl, because Coloe's you said
that she does her own things, she holds her end
of the relationship. You ever felt like you did so
much for somebody, and that just kind of set the
temple of the relationship. So they just feel like, Nigga,
I'm just gonna ride this horse now, and it's like, uh,
I'm doing I fuck with you, I'm doing all of this,

(01:01:06):
but damn when I'm gonna get to ride your horse
create pause.

Speaker 2 (01:01:10):
That goes into what I was saying. I see where
you went with that.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
I was crazy. That kind of goes into what I
was saying the two versions. There's men that show up
to take care of their girl and there's men that
show up needing to be taken care of. At some point,
you can be both in a relationship where it should
be reciprocal. Yes, it should be reciprocal. But what you're

(01:01:35):
saying is, Yo, I put out a lot in the
last couple of months. I've put out twenty four hundred
on throughout all of these things. I kind of need
a return on that right now. I'm not gonna I'm
not gonna be showing up all of the time in
that way. My thing is, I know her, right, she's

(01:01:55):
gonna continue showing up, Okay, so she's not gonna turn
that switch off until she sees he's.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
Turned it off. And now the relationship is in perl.

Speaker 1 (01:02:04):
Why is it that he can't communicate that to her
or how does she even communicate that to him?

Speaker 2 (01:02:10):
Y'all want you to spend more money on me? How
does she do that?

Speaker 4 (01:02:13):
I think it's I think you got to remove her
about it from the money thing and it's more of
an effort and energy thing, right, because I think when you,
especially for men's specific type of man, when you when
you as soon as you bring up money, it's weird.
You know what I'm saying. Niggas start getting tested. It
get weird once you bring up the money. So you
got to take it away from the money and make
it the energy and effort conversation because some of that
don't necessarily have to do with money. It's more of

(01:02:34):
the energy effort because it's not like you have to
spend mad bread. I just want you to do something,
show effort, playing something, you know what I'm saying. It
could be some free ship flow.

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
Yeah, it's just about it and seventy pending one hundred
four you get from the Chinese to food store, no
where you get your.

Speaker 3 (01:02:49):
Flowers from the scamming nigga shout outs to my boy
get half off.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
Okay, all right, so yeah nigga, when I buy flowers
the peace, let.

Speaker 3 (01:02:56):
Me know you're ready for tom get your orders from
now saying yeah, I forgot, But that's what I'm saying. Effort.
You were saying effort, the effort energy things with that situation.

Speaker 1 (01:03:11):
So you just think that that's what I would you
do things when you did things for me, it's going
to play well.

Speaker 3 (01:03:16):
But you got to take it off of the money thing.
Take when you did things for me? Yeah, because what
if he's showing up in other ways?

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
Yes, when you when you say effort, I'm showing up
in these ways.

Speaker 4 (01:03:27):
But I mean you have to you have to specifically.
Then that's where you have to be specific but what
you want. And I feel like that's something I feel
like men and women don't do as far as what
they want. They're not people don't be specific about how
you want people to show up for you, Like you said,
he could be showing up in a way, that's cool.
But if she's not.

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
Receiving it because I asked him that you got to
tell it. You have to tell it. But you know
him to know.

Speaker 2 (01:03:45):
But I know you got something to say.

Speaker 1 (01:03:47):
But she said. I was like, so, like you feel
like he's not She was like, no, emotionally, he's there
for me whenever I need something, like as far as
like advice or like, he shows up in so many
other ways where I'm totally for But I missed the gifts.
This is what she said.

Speaker 3 (01:04:03):
I miss I don't blame her though, you know, be
a high form of love language. That was like the
acts of the gift.

Speaker 1 (01:04:11):
Gift. It was one of the things that was like, yo,
he would always show up with this or do that,
or you know, we would go places and now we're
just always in the crib or whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:04:20):
And I was and he doesn't do those little things anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:04:22):
You know what's funny, it's gonna sound foul. That's her
nigga's game though, like that love bombing thing. I know
a nigga who dead I know, I ain't gonna say
his name is a friend of mine. He used to
deal with this girl, right this dealt with this girl.
He used to bring about week one, flowers, gifts, dates,
spend the night by the crib, this, that and the
third and then when I don't want to do this anymore.

(01:04:43):
But she wasn't really too happy like with his answer
and his We was talking about it, and his exact
phrase to me is like, Yo, I don't know how
to fuck this bitch like me so much? Bro, what
the fuck? And I'm like, I can tell you why.
Look at all the fucking plays he rolled out so early.
You know what I'm saying. You You fucking have her
on cloud nine and it ain't necessarily something that you
can sustain. As men, we always we have a habit

(01:05:05):
of introducing women to vibes we can't provide. I can
only do this for like for a time being, but
I can't. I don't know if I could do this throughout.
And this is why I say a lot of guys
look at women like a finish line. I'm rolling out,
I'm preparing for this short sprint. You know, I'm gonna
give it all my effort real early, and I hope
I come in first, not knowing this is a marathon

(01:05:27):
and this is a lot of guys game plan. I'm
not saying this is what he did.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
I've done this, I've done this, I've done this. I'm
going love, but you're going You're gonna fall in love
with me. My players work, but my thing is I
do it, believe, and I want.

Speaker 2 (01:05:40):
To fall in love with you too.

Speaker 3 (01:05:42):
And I'm just hoping that I do that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:43):
And and then I kind of along the way realize
we like you like as much as I did it
the beginning. I don't think I like you as much
I was doing mass ship because I want to show
up for you like that, like I've really got you,
like on this pedestal, like I gotta I'm gonna do this,
I'm gonna do this, I'm gona do this. I'm gonna
do that because that's what I'm feeling at the moment.
I'm not just doing have to get some box right.
But along that path of two three months, I'm starting like,

(01:06:06):
didn't like the way you reacted to this situation, or
don't like you being laid off.

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
That's a real thing, Like yo, I don't kind of like.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
You some of the ship.

Speaker 4 (01:06:18):
But to your point earlier when you were talking about
you have to be in something to know what you
don't like. That's the thing with the same thing, Like
you have to kind of be in something and it
have to kind of be with that mixed to kind
of know, like, Yo, I don't really.

Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
Like I'm like how you handle that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
I don't like the decision making.

Speaker 2 (01:06:32):
I don't like how you talk about other people. It's
a lot of days learning about a person as you
date them that you're kind.

Speaker 1 (01:06:39):
Of like, Yo, yes you're gonna treat me like that.

Speaker 3 (01:06:42):
Yes, I can be on that end of the spectrum.

Speaker 1 (01:06:44):
Yes, you know what I'm saying. And so it's just
not gonna.

Speaker 3 (01:06:48):
Also, I'm gonna ask you, ask you this because you
we've had this conversation before.

Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
I'm scared.

Speaker 3 (01:06:56):
Can we put the section on Patreon? There's the section
on Patreon? What's the time?

Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
Sixty three?

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
Good? Remember we had a conversation in it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:04):
Texted to the group chat sixty three. Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:07:06):
Remember we had a conversation last year about a specific
virgo in your life and she asked you for something
right for the kids. Remember, yes, okay, and you were saying, Yo,
I I have you don't pay you you can try

(01:07:26):
fuck it you be kid's mom had asked you. I
think it was like for two phones for the phone
for one of your sons, right, I had, and at
that time, I don't I don't want to quote you
on this, but it was like you've had already had
your fingers and so many other things involved them. Right now,
it's like, that's just another crazy expense on my burden.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
Right, Remember what it was?

Speaker 3 (01:07:51):
Remember something along the line she wanted them to get too.
I remember, and you was like, Yo, he don't know,
he don't necessarily need one because he don't use the phone.
But in the end you're like, you know, yo, fucking
I'm gonna just do it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
Right.

Speaker 3 (01:08:04):
My whole thing is, do you sometimes feel that women
or because we are I don't know if it's because
we make it look easier, We just do it. Women
don't sometimes realize the burden it takes on us to
perform and show up as much as we do, or
sometimes they overlook in the ways that we are showing
up and maybe just like, yo, all right, granted I
might have declined here, but I'm doing all of this here.

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That's why when she said sometimes like it goes from
gifts and flowers to like maybe paying a bill, or
like getting your oil change. Sometimes like because the energy
is now showing up in a different light, they don't
necessarily recognize it anymore, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:08:41):
That's why I was.

Speaker 3 (01:08:42):
Saying, like when you live with somebody now, it kind
of do be different. Like Okay, I ain't get you
fucking Chanelle perfume, but I got the hot pockets at
the supermarket.

Speaker 4 (01:08:51):
You know what I'm saying To your point that I've
been in relationship before and I've had that I've been
in that same situation where we start doing one thing
and I'm showing up in a way, and then it
comes to a point in time where the person says,
you're not supporting me the way that I want to
be supported. Now, to your point, I'm doing everything to
my mind, I'm doing everything on this side of the spectrum,
and they're like, yeah, this is cool, but you're not

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doing this thing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
Right here that I value at this level.

Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Right, So, and I feel like, like you said, sometimes
I feel like everything gets lost when you're not doing
the exact thing that they view with support. So, like
she said, right, the gifts right if that's the number
one thing for her and he's showing up in two three, four,
five six level, It's like, yeah, two three, four, five
and six is cool, but I still want the one.
The one will outweigh the two, three, four, five and

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six if I care, you know what I'm saying, if
I feel that much.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
Had this on Patreon because we're not really talking about
if you okay with it, that's but I will say,
is this, And I don't want to sound like I'm
caping or capping, right, I think that.

Speaker 2 (01:09:52):
So there's two sides of what I'm about to say.

Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
I think that women putting a lot of effort into relationships,
they're not going to stay in a relationship that they're
not putting Like, you're not going to want to be
with a chick that's not doing certain shit. You're not
just going to be a servant her. So she's doing
a lot. Meanwhile, men are doing a lot of other things, right,
So I think they kind of want more focus on

(01:10:15):
them all the time than you just being like, yeah,
I was busy here, I went to the gym, y'all
was hanging out with the guys, right, so we be
having our own ship going on, which is what they
like us for, right, No, nigga. No woman wants a
nigga that's just always around the crib, right, But they
specifically also want a certain amount of me energy. The

(01:10:35):
other side of that is, I've heard women say they
don't want to date a guy that has kids because
they want to be the main person. They want to
be selfish. They like, yes, I'm selfish when it comes
to mind, just think about what that means.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
She wants you on her about.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Her all right.

Speaker 3 (01:10:55):
I heard women with kids say that.

Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
Yes, that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Put to your point, just like you said, you wanted
to even with you having a kid, So you want
to put your kid before me, But do you want
me to put you before me?

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
Yes? Like how and her child? You understand what I'm saying,
And this is why I said they speak women ease
and they believe it. But in another way.

Speaker 2 (01:11:21):
Women do a lot for niggas.

Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
When you got a good woman, she does a lot
for you. Right. You just can't fall into the path
of just dealing with somebody because they sex is good,
at their head is good or whatever, and that's all
you're getting a lot of niggas settle for that because she,
you know, got a BBL or nice tits or whatever,
and now that's.

Speaker 2 (01:11:40):
All you got.

Speaker 1 (01:11:42):
Anyway, That's all I have for that. Oh, by the way,
what were you what were you saying? Yes, I do
believe that women don't ask us, they don't realize all
of the ship that we do. But I do believe
that the best situation on both ends, like the perfect world,

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is that it's reciprocal, all the time, all the time. Right,
it's I'm doing this for you, you're doing this for me.
You know, I'm not feeling taken. I'm not feeling taken
advantage of You're not feeling taken for granted.

Speaker 2 (01:12:16):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:12:17):
It's just a continuous, really good motion of energy going
back and forth in one way or another, and a
lot of communication, Like don't think my problem with my
homegirl is that she's been in this relationship and she
doesn't know how to communicate that to him.

Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
And I was like, well, how are you? Why are
you in a relationship?

Speaker 1 (01:12:38):
Right and not saying that this is this is absurd,
But I'm like, you need to question this, that you
can't talk to him about this.

Speaker 2 (01:12:46):
That's most relationships you should be able to but and
most relationships should you should be able to you could
talk to your homeboy like it. And this is what
you said.

Speaker 1 (01:12:54):
This is exactly what you said about.

Speaker 2 (01:12:55):
Your home your homegirl.

Speaker 1 (01:12:56):
You wish that you could talk to your girl the
way you could talk to your homegirl.

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
You should be able to talk to your nigga the
way you talk to me.

Speaker 1 (01:13:04):
Yo.

Speaker 2 (01:13:05):
Yeah, I'm not looking at you as a gold digger, right.

Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
I would tell you if I thought you was a
gold digger, I'm like, she not even a materialistic shit.

Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
None of her bags got letters on it.

Speaker 3 (01:13:19):
That was tough.

Speaker 2 (01:13:21):
I love you, I love come on.

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
You know that was tough. You know, but you know,
y'all understand what I'm saying. Get machine bags or whatever,
bags you know that goes with the outfits, whatever, but
they're not like thousand dollars bags and shit like that.
But you should, we should all be trying to cultivate
relationships where we can have these kind of conversations with easily,

(01:13:43):
where it doesn't feel like a weight on you to
get some shit off your chest, or it's not like
you're laying next to them with some ship that's festering
and you just never really feel like saying it because
you're scared of their reaction.

Speaker 2 (01:13:55):
Yeah, you know, that's a horrible place to be in.

Speaker 3 (01:13:58):
You know what, I actually joke, she joke with her
a lot about this. But I want to give a
big shout out to my sister in Christ, Courtney Shavon.
There was a time where we had a conversation and
she said that she told this guy she was talking
to for like two weeks, like listen shit them a
little hr response. You know this is not going to
work because pretty much like you're not trying to hang
out with me. And I said, yo, that you don't
meant that's like a lot really early. But me personally,

(01:14:21):
I do think that's a lot really early. However, I
do appreciate a person even though she don't. That's a
lot really early. I got you, I got you. I
appreciate a person who granted you might not even communicate
the right way, but you put effort in trying to communicate.
You know what I'm saying, Like, I honestly and truthfully

(01:14:44):
can respect that that. Yeah, you feel me because you might.
I tell people all the time, bro, I don't necessarily
care if you don't get an A plus on the test,
but if I see you studying, you taking notes. I
see you fucking talking to people, Yo, what you got
for this answer? If I see you put in that
effort to try to get the A, I'm gonna give
you a fucking A, even if it's a fucking B

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minus back to B.

Speaker 1 (01:15:08):
That's literally all I'll be asking.

Speaker 3 (01:15:09):
For two weeks A little early for that again, really
extremely little early. And she worried it. She was kind
of intimidate. It was intimidated, it was, And that's why
is the niggas afraid of what are you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:19):
Going to say?

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
Are you going to say?

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
And as a nigga, why are you so acuated? Like?

Speaker 4 (01:15:22):
Yo, you ever you ever been on a you ever
been on a on a PIP in week one?

Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
What the is a PIP? A performance enhancement plan? A
performance enhancement plan, a plan?

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
Wait? What is that?

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
Somebody put you on a performance in? What mean?

Speaker 1 (01:15:39):
What do you mean?

Speaker 3 (01:15:40):
Take a honey pack?

Speaker 1 (01:15:41):
Day one?

Speaker 3 (01:15:41):
A performance? As far as how I was communicating with
them week one, week one, Yes, that's what I was
telling you the other day.

Speaker 1 (01:15:49):
So what was it? Wait?

Speaker 2 (01:15:50):
What was your what was your communication?

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
Like? What do you mean?

Speaker 3 (01:15:53):
So I communication?

Speaker 4 (01:15:54):
So we were connected via a third party, right, okay,
So I reached out to her. She didn't know what
was me at first. Whatever whatever cool, I see the
person that connected us. She's like, yo, what's up. I'm
like yo, I sent the kaya and getting nothing back.
So she puts the play together yo for me respond
type shit, respawn. We have a brief conversation. Hey, how

(01:16:15):
you doing, etcetera, etcetera. Da da da Okay, you know
your number?

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
Whatever?

Speaker 4 (01:16:19):
Da da cool Yo. I got a late day Tomorrow,
I'll hit you up. You know I will speak tomorrow.
You said that, No, they said that to me. This
is a Sunday. I hit them up on Monday. Hey,
what's going on?

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
How you doing?

Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
You know I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:16:32):
We talked for maybe a couple of texts. They asked
me how it was my day. They asked me if
I had the podcast, and asked me it sounds like
a dating show. I responded, I answered, never heard from
them again. This is Monday, right, they're following me on Friday.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
We sent the last text on Monday me me, yep,
you're following me on Friday.

Speaker 2 (01:16:53):
Was the last text she said.

Speaker 4 (01:16:54):
He responded, oh, you have a dating show? So and
I know some people are apprehensive by it. So I said, oh, like,
this is what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:17:00):
You know what I'm saying? This all it came about.

Speaker 4 (01:17:03):
She never said anything, right. I hit her up on Friday,
double text right here up on Friday. Hey, what's going on?
She said, Hey, Denzel, you're on a PIP.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
I said, what, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:17:17):
What it meant?

Speaker 1 (01:17:17):
Off it?

Speaker 4 (01:17:19):
I kind of knew, but I didn't. I couldn't believe
that that was happening. So I was like, wait, what's that?
Because it could have not been that. I said, Yo,
was that? She said, Oh, you're in a performance answer plan.
I don't like how you've been communicating with me, Yo, bro,
I said, what you want? My honest answer?

Speaker 1 (01:17:33):
Said wait? I said wait, hold wait, wait all right,
So I said, hold on, hold on, wait.

Speaker 3 (01:17:38):
There's so many things wrong with this.

Speaker 2 (01:17:40):
I'm confused about all of it, but go ahead, yo.

Speaker 3 (01:17:43):
First thing is, first, you keep taking the glasses off. Today.
If I speak to a girl for a week and
all right, me let me, let me put let me.
I'm gonna make a comparison. Right when you first started,
you on probation, right, you get six month work evaluation,

(01:18:08):
right where you're manager supervisor, go over your attendance with
your job, all that bullshit where you sign off on it.
That's six months.

Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
Six months.

Speaker 3 (01:18:19):
You have not given her anything to evaluate, especially since
the last person who shot the text was you. So
hear me out, Bro, hear me out, hear me out,
and I'm gonna keep it hot.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
You wont know why.

Speaker 3 (01:18:31):
I'm happy he didn't text it back to a Friday
because I also don't want to set the president. I
gotta chase you to talk to you. I'm not gonna, bro.
The beginning of the relationship is the most important part,
the temple that you're gonna set for the rest of
this relationship. That shit matters so much. I'm talking to
I gotta double text you now to get a response, and.

Speaker 4 (01:18:48):
I'm on a no nigga, you on the let me
add context, so follow So when I hit her up
so following, I think information. She said that she never
responded to me because I hadn't yet asked her a
question about herself.

Speaker 3 (01:19:00):
Oh she's one of those. Yeah, she's out of here. Bro,
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:19:04):
I also don't like women that only speak about themselves
and don't ask me nothing about me. I don't like that.
I don't like women that call me Tao. If I
tell you my name is Tao and you don't ask
me what my real name is, that means you just
want to fuck. That means you just want to fuck.
What you really think? My mother named me Tao? Right,

(01:19:31):
you're right? That shows me. That tells me everything I
know from the door, or if we're talking and everything
comes out about what you're doing, what you got going?
You're going and I'm not. You're not asking me no
real questions. You just want some dick.

Speaker 4 (01:19:44):
But that's the thing. I never got a conversation, never
extended past she don't know how to a certain time.

Speaker 2 (01:19:50):
It was never.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
We never had a full day account. I also hold
you in in contempt just as much as her, right,
not over her, just as much. Okay, because how y'all left?

Speaker 3 (01:20:00):
Five?

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Would I meet somebody? I want to talk to them everyone.

Speaker 3 (01:20:03):
I want to talk to them everyone.

Speaker 2 (01:20:03):
Were I really got one?

Speaker 3 (01:20:05):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (01:20:05):
Are you? Are you that today?

Speaker 3 (01:20:08):
Are you that?

Speaker 1 (01:20:09):
Are you're okay? Well? Again? For me? You have you
passed your bowels today? Like? Are you just you? All?
Kind of personal? I want to know what's.

Speaker 3 (01:20:17):
Up, but I usually don't double text. If I text you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:19):
Double texts is a day that's today, that's not one day?

Speaker 3 (01:20:23):
Yeah, work tomorrow today to start at least on Wednesday,
at least Wednesday. Me personally, I'm like him. If I
funk with you, I'm gonna call you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:33):
Keep it a buck. I'm calling. Maybe not that.

Speaker 3 (01:20:36):
Same day, but like Tuesday or Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (01:20:38):
Funny picture about something that you was talking about and
it's something I'm doing something to get you people.

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
Yes, yeah, I don't do that.

Speaker 3 (01:20:46):
I'm not gonna text for I'm not texting. I'm calling you.
I'm about to call you, know.

Speaker 4 (01:20:49):
I mean, I mean like somebody that you just talked
to me the first time, Like do y'all speak about
you calling first, or do you just like the conversation
going you just like Yo, you know what, I'm gonna just.

Speaker 2 (01:20:57):
Call I we my wife calls me.

Speaker 1 (01:21:01):
Text what you're doing?

Speaker 3 (01:21:03):
Gods? So me personally, I know listen, I ain't gonna lie.
I'm from the error bro where you'll call me after
nine you feel me I'm a talking ask nigga. I
realized I'm not. I'm one of like the last of
the Mohicans. A lot of people prefer the text versus call. So,
because I don't like to make people feel uncomfortable, I

(01:21:25):
always say, yo, what you before, what's your schedule? Like
what you prefer a text on a call? And like
is it cool if I call you this kind of thing.
I'm not really good texting. I'll do I do do
those things. I'm not gonna lie. But you can call
me whenever. I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:21:37):
But you're talking about energy. You can't be such a
good data and I'm not talking about you specifically, but
you can't be that you you lack the energy of
pursuit of wo of, I'm feeling you, you the one
like this is what I said I do the most
in the beginning, Like I'm on it and you said
that that's the most important time. I'm on your body.

(01:21:58):
So if I'm on your body, I want to know
about you. I want to know what you got going on?
Have you moved your bowels today?

Speaker 2 (01:22:06):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
Have you eaten? Like what you got going on? What
shows you watching?

Speaker 3 (01:22:10):
Love?

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
You know they re unions tonight? Short Like I want
you to I want to get to you.

Speaker 2 (01:22:15):
I want to get in you well. And it's more
than the in you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
Yes, do you.

Speaker 3 (01:22:22):
Before you say that, I don't want to offend you. Yeah,
think about that. I don't want to. Do you see yourself?
I be honest. You don't answer this. Do you see
yourself like the bad bitch of the relationship? Sometimes?

Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
You know what?

Speaker 3 (01:22:38):
You know, what's funny? I was I was just about
to say to you.

Speaker 4 (01:22:41):
I was just about to say I was having a
conversation with a trusted friend and you know, just real ship.

Speaker 3 (01:22:46):
We were talking and they were like, Yo, about gonna lie.
Sometimes you can give Baddy energy, you know, like you
you giving Baddy energy? But why but why is me
understanding and accepting and knowing what I will or will not?

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
Why It's like, yo, my nigga, Nigga, you can do that,
you can run that play, you can do that.

Speaker 4 (01:23:06):
But I don't look at it as being that nigga.
I look at it the same way that I need
to give energy effort. I feel the same way about
me because I know.

Speaker 3 (01:23:13):
But you're the pursuer, not all the time, but.

Speaker 2 (01:23:19):
The pursuer.

Speaker 3 (01:23:20):
Yeah, so you gotta play that role. I get that,
and I can switch it.

Speaker 4 (01:23:24):
I get okay, switch to your point, all right, to
that point. I do get like it gets lost to
me sometimes. So I could be persuing somebody and they
just immediately forsure you that you're not the girl, and
he goes.

Speaker 3 (01:23:37):
From offense to defense.

Speaker 4 (01:23:38):
Sometimes there we go so like I could be persuing
somebody and then I could immediately be like, wait, you
know I might.

Speaker 3 (01:23:44):
Not be you know you also, I feel like you are.
I don't want to say afraid. I don't like that term,
but I feel like you fear coming off as a
nigga that's doing too much. Yes, that's my that's that's
one of my biggest concern of how you might be
consumed by somebody. It's like, you know what I want, Yeah, appreciate,

(01:24:04):
I said, consume.

Speaker 4 (01:24:08):
That's what I's being a nigga that do too much
because you also want you don't want to chase them away,
and two you don't want to make them feel un comfortable.

Speaker 3 (01:24:14):
I get that. What Tahoe is saying is like, yo, bro,
And it's not to say that you lacked this, but
when you're confident in yourself and like, you know, like
I got this, I don't want to you could do
what you want. That's kind of crazy with yo, I
can double textor the fun.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
What I'm viewing it.

Speaker 4 (01:24:27):
I'm viewing the double text as negative as opposed to
a just run. Now understand, if I'm running these plays
and I'm going super hard and you're telling me you're
going on.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
A date, you got to hit me up first. What
you mean after the date? I'm not hitting you the
next day. If you don't hit me, H, we're probably good.

Speaker 3 (01:24:47):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:48):
Yes, I'm cool with you dating, but I want to
be the first thing on your mind the next morning
or that you know, what are we doing?

Speaker 3 (01:24:56):
So she's going to day with somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:24:58):
If you only think with somebody else, Remember I was saying,
I'm cool with you dating somebody else, you still gotta
like hit me, like on the date or like later
on when you get home or the next day.

Speaker 4 (01:25:09):
Power over the situation. You like, you can't give the
nigga power over the situation.

Speaker 1 (01:25:13):
I don't want to be on your body if you not,
if I'm not even I'm not on your mind.

Speaker 3 (01:25:17):
That's what you just gotta be into me com in you.

Speaker 1 (01:25:20):
Yeah, But if you're dating other niggas, okay, do your thing.
That's that's the that's I like the fact.

Speaker 2 (01:25:24):
That you're being communicative.

Speaker 3 (01:25:25):
But if you're out the loop, if it's like that's where.

Speaker 1 (01:25:28):
It's not even.

Speaker 3 (01:25:28):
That's That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:25:30):
I'm not even in your your hemisphere.

Speaker 4 (01:25:32):
Think about I'm stillextually. I'm gonna make you feel like
I'm just like I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
I'm not hitting you up the next thing. Hey, what
if you ghosts? I'm not you gotta hit me next morning? Hey,
you know what I'm saying. I agree.

Speaker 3 (01:25:42):
I was like, oh, it's cool.

Speaker 1 (01:25:44):
You know I thought of you when you when I
seen the muscles come out. I know you love muscles.
Still thinking about me when the muscles come out. What
if she's going to date?

Speaker 3 (01:25:55):
What they can bring you back? Some food?

Speaker 1 (01:25:57):
That's what I'm talking.

Speaker 3 (01:25:57):
That's bad, Like fuck that I got something.

Speaker 5 (01:26:04):
Oh you you're fired for real?

Speaker 1 (01:26:07):
Walk out with that, nigga. I'm gonnay. I'm gonna say
some spots on TikTok. You understand what I'm saying. I
get that all right, Yo, This conversation can go along.
We've been talking for an hour and twenty minutes. You
ready start the show. Damn, it's been a hell of
a mood today.

Speaker 3 (01:26:25):
I haven't had a comment once in a while.

Speaker 2 (01:26:26):
We need to have a dude cast.

Speaker 3 (01:26:27):
I've had a conversation in a long time. You understand.
We get so I be getting so caught up in
life between work, sleep, trying to work out, trying to
talk to a girl with my girl, I don't really
be having like as much outlets as I used to. Like.
I feel like all my time is accounted for. All
the time. I feel like I'm sometimes feel like I'm
in jail. I'm going hold, I feel like i'd be

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in jail. Sometimes that's how go the line, like yeah,
we out, Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So sometimes
you do need some space. Just fucking kick your fucking
feet up.

Speaker 1 (01:26:55):
Bro, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:26:57):
I ain't checked my phone, and god knows how long
fuck all his niggas talking about talk about good money.

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Things men talking about. Dogs like about the dogs, men.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
Like about sex, and things men don't like about sex,
the things that make men hard and the things that
make men soft. Your Courtney's gonna Courtney is going to
tear me a new one.

Speaker 3 (01:27:36):
She's gonna be He's gonna be like, tell me how
you really, tell me, how you know saying this is
how you guys feel, really.

Speaker 1 (01:27:46):
Showing out me really god yo, And one of these
fucking nut navy is gonna send the guys is extra
spicy when you were there, slash legs. Yeah, I am
here with my Monfrered Debonair.

Speaker 3 (01:28:07):
We are here.

Speaker 1 (01:28:08):
We are here, Sir King Loon the First s aka
Joe Sap.

Speaker 2 (01:28:16):
Yeah, yes, sir.

Speaker 1 (01:28:18):
Off chocolate thor chocolate fucking dads. Doctor tongue, I'm gonna
lead a tongue in my mouth this time.

Speaker 3 (01:28:34):
Thank you. Please, it's good work. Please, it's good work.
I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (01:28:38):
I'm good work.

Speaker 3 (01:28:39):
Let's good work. I was. I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (01:28:42):
A K eighty I'm beyond a k a elegance what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:28:48):
We are here?

Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
How you feeling?

Speaker 3 (01:28:50):
I am actually feeling. Had a decent weekend. I felt
like ship this morning. Feeling better now?

Speaker 1 (01:28:57):
Oh yeah, hell yeah, he's out of it, yo, out
of it.

Speaker 3 (01:29:01):
Y'all went out this weekend and sometimes you got to
step out. Just remember you still that nigga. But I
still got smoke, still got it. You know, you can
still have to not really do much, you know, just
walk in your presence felt you know, you see how
people embrace you and like, oh ship, there's still still
that nigga. You know what I'm saying. So I felt
really good. It's been a whiles as I felt like
that and good.

Speaker 1 (01:29:21):
We need that.

Speaker 3 (01:29:22):
You need that sometimes and it's not you know, it's not.
It's not to say, you know, it's funny I killed
that you should Cary when she made that comment about
one attention of other niggas. That do sound kind of
crazy when you married, But sometimes you do want to
just know that you still got it. You still got
it after, you know what I'm saying. When you walk
by a chickle look at you like this, you want
to make sure you turn ahead sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:29:41):
So you know, that's why yesterday puts on that scented
hand sanitizer at my line.

Speaker 3 (01:29:50):
That was a random shot.

Speaker 1 (01:29:52):
You have a cologne that shot You have a yo
you he puts on there.

Speaker 3 (01:29:57):
You're not proud of sanitizer?

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
Yeah, man, what do you do that ship?

Speaker 3 (01:30:01):
Some ship I don't have.

Speaker 2 (01:30:03):
You're having just niggas here.

Speaker 3 (01:30:04):
That's just code he puts it.

Speaker 1 (01:30:08):
I'm like, YO, don't know, I don't even know what
I was a thing. It isn't but it is, Yo.
I need to I think he told me the brand before,
but you gotta find yo. It's fire. Get this smell
is nuts.

Speaker 3 (01:30:21):
Don't make it nothing that you introduce your co host. Yo.
We are here with the man behind and in front
of the camera. Now, don't throw the piece. So bro,
what do you come on? Man?

Speaker 1 (01:30:35):
That's what he does on fucking Instagram. You know he
sits here and did not hear and takes selfies, selfie videos.
That's what doing ship like that in front of the camera.

Speaker 3 (01:30:44):
For people say, but I'm doing it. This is for marketing, guys.
What are you marketing?

Speaker 1 (01:30:48):
Marketing on my basic? What's your base with? What's this basis?

Speaker 3 (01:30:51):
Is? Dick?

Speaker 1 (01:30:54):
You with with the salesman? We are with the salesman
of the month.

Speaker 3 (01:31:00):
A K A Slim Jones, a K proud of on
the sanitizer, a K A two something to do something,
three something to see some four something or more something
a K. D Rose, a K. Grant Hill, a K.
Greg Oden, and now ship a K Jason Tatum. Here's
a bunch of niggas being Boston hats, which is crazy.

(01:31:23):
I never had you had, you had Boston jery in
New York City is crazy. Uh, how do you feeling today.

Speaker 1 (01:31:34):
My brother?

Speaker 4 (01:31:35):
I'm feeling good, man, I'm feeling good. Happy to be
here with you guys. Good good CONVOI quest. Yes, I
had a good had a good weekend. One of my
best friend baby shower. Yes, real, real, real good Tom.
I felt good to walking in there. I've seen one
of my exes looking a mess, and I was like, damn,
I felt good, Like I felt.

Speaker 2 (01:31:54):
Like, make you feel that.

Speaker 3 (01:31:56):
That's a good feeling. Don't look good, because now you're
making me like I don't get joints exactly making me.

Speaker 4 (01:32:05):
I felt good because listen, over the last couple of years,
she's just been on the hate campaign. Not for no
reason at all, not for like I didn't do anything,
no exchange.

Speaker 1 (01:32:14):
But you never did anything, bro, Bro, I.

Speaker 3 (01:32:17):
Have not talked to her in years. Bro, she had
a baby. I don't speak to her. Literally, this is listen,
that's what's happened. But I felt good, felt good to
see my friends. You know what I'm saying. Friends of
MYGH school.

Speaker 2 (01:32:26):
What felt better seeing her look crazy?

Speaker 3 (01:32:29):
Your friends, friends, my friends with sure, my brothers like
so want my exjoints that are still bad, they better
be all of them except her, Like she's sucking up
the fucking up the pack. I ain't on front, like
when I look at my resume, just like my girlfriend, like,
you know what, it might have been crazy, but you
have some good looking motherfuckers.

Speaker 1 (01:32:50):
That's what I'm saying. I like to look.

Speaker 3 (01:32:52):
You know, you get a pack of backwards and it's
with that one that's like not usable. I'm like.

Speaker 1 (01:32:58):
The backfoot pack was holding the top piece in the
last week and the last frank in the pot. Oh
my god, Nigga said. My ex told me, I gave
it the best years of my life. I've seen some
recent pictures and she was right, Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:33:14):
I wonder how I just view us.

Speaker 1 (01:33:18):
I just know I'm the villain in a lot of
people's stories. And that's okay me too, saying you know
what I'm saying, And you know, I could just say
I'm not the same person today that I was then.
I'm not sure if whatever happened in those situations, would
it happened now. But there's two people like we affected
each other that way, so whatever didn't work didn't work

(01:33:39):
for a reason. As what I said earlier, it didn't
work for a reason. You know, God bless and take care.
We look good, you know, I mean we still look good.
We all look good. That's all I care about.

Speaker 3 (01:33:49):
As long as long as we look good, people never
look at me and say, oh, you leveled up.

Speaker 1 (01:33:53):
I had a pretty good weekend as well. I did.
I'm not sure I may do one more in my line.
What Pineapple Express is over for me?

Speaker 3 (01:34:02):
Why it wasn't all I lit this.

Speaker 2 (01:34:04):
It's not that it's that a lot of work. I'm
just getting older.

Speaker 1 (01:34:08):
The time it was great, and it's time had a
good run. It had a great It set me off.
It literally helped me create my base. As yesterday said,
right like I used to do Pineapple Express parties.

Speaker 2 (01:34:21):
I used to go to the beach.

Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
I took that duning events in different lounges, working for
major brands, trying to create that restaurant. Like all of this,
Pineapple expresses fire, you know what I'm saying. And it
had a great time. But now I'm fifty. I'm turning
fifty one next year. I don't see me like I
just I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:34:41):
I don't know what a restruct what if you give
it to somebody, Yeah, anybody your mind trusts where you
you would trust him.

Speaker 2 (01:34:48):
But he don't want to do it either.

Speaker 3 (01:34:48):
You don't want to do it. Though I never said that.

Speaker 2 (01:34:51):
I tried to get this nigga shit on on Saturday.

Speaker 1 (01:34:53):
He was like.

Speaker 3 (01:34:55):
His in his defense, did you prep him for this? No?
For what asked him?

Speaker 2 (01:35:01):
If you want to do Labor Day?

Speaker 3 (01:35:02):
He said no, he said, he said, yo, he said, Yo,
want to do Labor Day? Bro, I ain't gonna lie.
I really want to do that one sentence that happened.

Speaker 1 (01:35:11):
But in any case, fine, it was still a great turnout.
I saw y'all seen the video of the shorty that
I said yesterday, Yes, nice digging yo. She was very cute. Yeah,
laid you know what I'm saying. She had to be
about three forty You know what I'm saying. Fire, I said, yeah,
this is yesterday type right here. I knew it the

(01:35:33):
minute she walked in yesterday Aaron Donald smothering and full
effect on that side. Aaron Donald right there, and then
I did the need to be studied live show. Did
you see the clips from we studied Live show? One
of them?

Speaker 3 (01:35:52):
Which one did you see? Which one was that the
one where you was with the punished. I was like,
what the fuck if.

Speaker 1 (01:35:57):
I gotta go into what made me want this week?
It wouldn't be that it was Casia in particular, but
what you doing? Son?

Speaker 2 (01:36:06):
So I went up on stage.

Speaker 1 (01:36:07):
I had my bag, you know, my travel bag of
toys and ship like that. But I had called Kasha
on stage and basically put on the rocky music, the
rocky things. Oh, and I had I ripped off my pants.
I had the I ordered some rip away pants, ripped

(01:36:30):
them ship. I've seen rip them ships off yet I
had one of the young ladies there shout out to Samantha.
Right she came and put on the robe and all that.
Yesterday comes on like my trainer. He's putting on the
gloves for me and ship. Yo, this nigga is great.
Yesterday is the best ever. This nigga come runs on stage.

(01:36:54):
He like tried to grab my motherfucking wrists, like you
don't have to put this on, take you out into
the ring.

Speaker 2 (01:36:58):
He did all that.

Speaker 1 (01:36:59):
I started when the dance and Ship started about to help.
But to the song, it was a great, great, great time.
Shout out to Billy and they need to be studied
live show. If they ever do another live show, you
need to go. This is one of the most complex.
Like he does a thing.

Speaker 2 (01:37:14):
He did the Beyond.

Speaker 1 (01:37:17):
Dancers come.

Speaker 2 (01:37:18):
It was fucking nuts.

Speaker 3 (01:37:19):
You know what's so funny about Billy? When did we
do his show last year?

Speaker 2 (01:37:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:37:25):
When we did his show, bro, there was nothing like this,
Like he grew so much so quick. Like it was
almost like I just woke up one night and it
was but he always does. I think this is but
his platform is like expanding there like it's one thing
to always do it, but it's nothing when you get
like the recognition you get to see see it like
he it was a lot really quick. I kid, you know,
we just did his show and it was like his

(01:37:46):
his platform wasn't as massive as is now. So you know,
shout out to my man, Billy.

Speaker 1 (01:37:50):
Isn't he a virgo?

Speaker 3 (01:37:50):
Is a virgo? Right?

Speaker 1 (01:37:51):
Yes? Birthday? Sometimes I'm giving props to virgos right now.
Oh wow, that has a gun to your head. I
saw a weazy yep weezy very well. You know, Wheezy
says she Wheezy walks up to me. It's like, yo,
I didn't know I missed you until I see you.

Speaker 2 (01:38:08):
I've seen you.

Speaker 3 (01:38:09):
I don't know how I feel.

Speaker 4 (01:38:12):
Actually when when they was talking about you and they
had Billy had shot you out and he's like, yo,
thanks to the heart of soft Games or whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:38:18):
She was talking man Hard.

Speaker 1 (01:38:19):
Yeah, yeah, just I love her. I've always loved I've
always loved Weazy. Yeah ye, No, Weezy deserves to have
a com be in the space by herself. So yes,
I always love Weazy. He was great seeing her this week.
So yeah, man, that's what maybe my dick card this week. Man,
what about y'all?

Speaker 3 (01:38:41):
Oh Hard this week? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:38:46):
You know, you ever see an old joint and you
see the like you see like the updated pitches, and
you're like, damn, she's still fine. Yes, the opposite of
the X, the.

Speaker 3 (01:38:55):
Opposite of the act opposite. Oh yeah you always you
like like I was cooking with that.

Speaker 4 (01:39:02):
Yeah, I'm like just seeing something old that just continuing
to mature over time, thickness just.

Speaker 3 (01:39:10):
Similar and and now you like, then you've maintained this.

Speaker 4 (01:39:14):
This is what I'm saying because because a lot of
what's happened to me recently, some and I'm just gonna
sound sucked up but the thickness has been getting lost.
Ozempic is fucking the streets up. I'm not I'm gonna
keep it like you like, like you call in the
ozempic laws I should have should they need to drop.

Speaker 1 (01:39:38):
I don't like what's happening, Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:39:39):
They need to drop the zeb and pick back up
them nutrimental insurance, Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:39:43):
I don't like.

Speaker 3 (01:39:43):
I don't like it. The BBL smoothie Wait, I don't like.

Speaker 2 (01:39:46):
You know, people doing this for health reasons and ship
like that.

Speaker 3 (01:39:48):
Most a lot of people aren't a lot of people
A lot of people are doing people are and and
and I'm cool with that. That said, if it's health related,
I have no problem with that. But if you're just
on something like yo, I'm about to go like just
you know what I'm saying. For the look, niggas are
reselling ozembic like Jordan's. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:40:05):
I remember Weezy's partner back in the days was bigger,
and she would say that when she got whatever thing
to lose weight. The guys she was dating were like,
why are you doing that? I liked you like this
and it was a turn off for her.

Speaker 3 (01:40:25):
You're changing your whole target. Your target you're you have
a target audience, right, So if Yesterday comes on this
show and wears nice socks every day, this target audience
is people who like socks. If you just come one day,
now you just got no socks on. It's like, yo,
why you don't got no socks on, the same thing
with your saying it with your body, Like if you

(01:40:46):
are a person of a certain size, your your target
audience's niggas Like Jennifer Hudson before fucking Americans got talent
or whatever, and then there's the new Jennifer Hudson. There's
a lot of people probably used to like it and probably.

Speaker 1 (01:40:59):
Don't like it. So there's always big and then she
started losing weight. A lot of people it's like, Yore's
the fat influence.

Speaker 3 (01:41:05):
He was the ambassador.

Speaker 1 (01:41:06):
Yeah you was big enough, big bodies, and now you're
trying to lose weight searching up.

Speaker 4 (01:41:10):
Yeah, that's like me being skinny. People like me for
being skinny, and then I just show fucking buff. It's like,
don't I didn't sign up for that package.

Speaker 1 (01:41:19):
But don't you think that people should like people for
who they are, know what they look like, you know,
like past like certain health changes and shit like that, yeah,
or like like you know.

Speaker 2 (01:41:29):
All right, this sounds like I know, I hate you.

Speaker 1 (01:41:32):
It's different if you fire, yes, and you get not fire,
not fire for whatever reason.

Speaker 2 (01:41:39):
If you understand what I'm saying, that's different.

Speaker 1 (01:41:43):
Man, know what is it? Because he thinks they fire
at that certain weight? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:41:47):
I think they fire how they are right, And like
I said, health reasons I get.

Speaker 4 (01:41:50):
But I don't like people that feel like they need
to do it because of what somebody else said or
what the look is supposed to be. That's what I
don't I don't really like that because the look is manufacturing.
It's an illusion, you know what I'm saying. So you're
chasing something that's not even really begin with. So that's
why I don't really like that idea or that attitude
towards it.

Speaker 1 (01:42:09):
If you're taking the manufacturers taking medicine, you know, how
is that manufactured?

Speaker 4 (01:42:13):
Know what I'm saying is the look and with these
what women want to see, you know what I'm saying,
with women see themselves as that look is a creative
look right like the magazine shit, right, the magazine is photoshop.
So you're trying to work out and do all these
things to look like the magazine. But that's not you
can't do that, you know what I'm saying. And that's
where I feel like a lot of women and people
in general find themselves on that cycle.

Speaker 3 (01:42:32):
They gonna kick my back, And for this, I don't
give a flying fuck ie y'all. Ever seeing a girl
who did like a weight loss transformation, but looked better
before she lost weight? Yeah, I hate out here. Look
like Dwight Howard.

Speaker 2 (01:42:47):
Yeah, superhead, big head, skinny body.

Speaker 3 (01:42:50):
Ship Like, Yo, it is so sad because it's like,
I know, health as wealth, you dead ass looked better,
Like I don't want beat no more.

Speaker 2 (01:42:58):
I've been there, Yo, I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:43:00):
I can never say it though, but yo, like I've.

Speaker 2 (01:43:02):
Seen it, but I won't say it out loud.

Speaker 3 (01:43:04):
You want a nutriment like what you're doing? Child, got
the pack in show in the fridge, I've seen it, right,
We could get you situated mindsel Yeah, eating and ship
it's like, Yo, I'm trying to play a nice dinner day,
but I ain't really trying to eat, like and you
know that's it, and you know it's so sad.

Speaker 1 (01:43:22):
I got the gas you bypass. They can only take
four bites, and that's it out here looking like pitbull.
And now the whole plate like she wants me seventy.
You know it's got dumplings. You know.

Speaker 3 (01:43:36):
No, I ain't gonna make this a woman hate episode.
None of the pay mad bread on a day. She
don't rely eat no food like wife.

Speaker 1 (01:43:42):
I told you, yo, that ship is a waste.

Speaker 2 (01:43:44):
You could have got an appetizer, eat it tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (01:43:47):
I told you. She ordered some ship that was like
one hundred dollars for tomorrow, and she took a couple
of bites. She ate a little bit of it, but
it was this massive plate because she you know me,
when I order, I ordered two plates. A lot of
times I order to say I ordered the red snapper,
order the steak.

Speaker 3 (01:44:05):
But she got to do She like that though, because
she can't just be at the table the little ass
plate you at the ship like fucking nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:44:10):
She ordered a plate that was two for two people.

Speaker 3 (01:44:14):
No, she did it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:14):
It was later.

Speaker 2 (01:44:15):
It was a it was a tray. It was a
platter for two people.

Speaker 1 (01:44:20):
The city island. It was something like that.

Speaker 3 (01:44:22):
Oh no, she did not.

Speaker 1 (01:44:23):
And she sat there and picked off of it. Oh
my god, she did it. Ever, Riccardos too ordered some
ship that was like sixty seventy, no, eighty dollars, some
ship like that, because I order what I want to eat, Yeah,
and so she'll look and see what I want to
eat and.

Speaker 3 (01:44:38):
Order, engage and engauge for seventy five get the nuggets
what you If you're not that hung.

Speaker 1 (01:44:49):
I'm hungry exactly. But if you're not that hungry, get.

Speaker 3 (01:44:52):
A Churley temple on this chill out, and she'll order
that whole ship, pick off of it and get it
to go plate.

Speaker 2 (01:44:58):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:44:58):
Sometimes even the taking it home ship, sometimes it is
not as fly warmed up like sometimes warm up. It's
like yo, when you got a woman ups over. Sometimes
don't be as fly.

Speaker 1 (01:45:08):
Sometimes it be fly, but sometimes that next day be
like oh.

Speaker 3 (01:45:12):
Anything like fraud.

Speaker 1 (01:45:13):
It's like it's.

Speaker 3 (01:45:16):
Front, shout out, what made you this week? I've come
to the conclusion that I'm attracted to female athletes.

Speaker 1 (01:45:22):
I realized, yeah, yo, you know what I was wondering
if you was going there when you sent me that picture.

Speaker 3 (01:45:28):
Oh no, not her, not her. She was the one
I was telling you about that looked better before.

Speaker 2 (01:45:33):
Okay, not her. No, I wouldn't have a bodybuilding.

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
I would never not wrong with it.

Speaker 3 (01:45:39):
But she looked like treek Hill, like, Okay, yeah, she
they out there. You haven't seen this one, and if
I show you before, you're gonna be upset. Oh my god,
you might. Yes, I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna show it.
But yeah, but not like that. But I mean like
volleyball players, a track stars. I was watching the Olympics

(01:46:02):
at work with the biggest stiffy the world's ever seen.
I'm just sitting here like, oh my god, who is this?
What do you call that? Country is?

Speaker 1 (01:46:10):
Where is that?

Speaker 2 (01:46:12):
White boys?

Speaker 1 (01:46:15):
Crazy? This is nuts?

Speaker 3 (01:46:18):
You know What's so funny though, I ain't gonna lie,
it's funny that you say white boy. Right. So I
was at work. I just came on for twenty four
and yo, I might have had probably the best day
at work ever. Like it's so funny, like this is
what I want to talk about. Oh my god, Yo,
you know what? Your women are really a beautiful thing.

Speaker 1 (01:46:37):
Point they gotta hear me. What I realize is right.

Speaker 3 (01:46:40):
It don't matter if you Italian, you Irish, if you
hate niggas, if you hate spicks or hate guineas, Yo,
bad bitches eliminate all racism. And I did not realize
that until I'm at work. We're just outside watching and
me and my my black son, and we're like, damn,

(01:47:01):
she is fire, And I'm like, Yo, it's so crazy,
like yo attraction like really like like if you if
you are like pretty privileged, it goes beyond this privilege.
That ship kind of like ends like it kind of
eliminates certain things. I'm saying, Like you can see a
bad chick with a nigga that's with a guy, like
a white guy or somebody you probably would never talk to,

(01:47:21):
and y'all see a girl you like, god damn right here,
like yeah bro, and you'll be like yeah, Yo, bad
chicks eliminate racism, Like like it's almost like you don't
even bad chicks sports like you like Patrick Ewan, you
ship all of that ship like it's a yeah yeah,

(01:47:42):
yeah bro, fucking Patrick.

Speaker 1 (01:47:44):
Yeah fu Patrick Ewing.

Speaker 3 (01:47:45):
You know what I'm saying, Like it's a beautiful thing
sometimes where you see people of like different lights, different cultures,
you guys come together, and the only two things that
I do see that with is bad bad chicks and
like sports man sneakers, cars, whatever, it's good. So I
don't want to say it's necessarily like a hard but
that was kind of like what kind of got me excited?
Like yo, like we kind of like different animals, same

(01:48:08):
beasts type thing, you know what I'm saying. Like when
I hear how he talks about his white chicks and
he's like, Yo, I'm a fucking savage bro, And I
was in my head like, yeah, nigga, me too. It's
dead eyes like a beautiful thing sometimes, you know, shout
out to all the pretty women.

Speaker 1 (01:48:26):
Now we are getting into.

Speaker 2 (01:48:31):
The hard things men like into. Yo, somebody put in
our comments.

Speaker 1 (01:48:39):
If you're out there and you listen to us on
Apple podcast, please go rate and reviewers. We haven't had
a review. We haven't done that. Somebody was in there
I think a year ago and was like, Yo, the
show is fucking great, but but all y'all talk about
his relationships. Now, where's the sex?

Speaker 3 (01:48:57):
Goddamn?

Speaker 2 (01:48:58):
Like I can listen, and he showed talk about relationships.

Speaker 1 (01:49:02):
I came here for this.

Speaker 3 (01:49:02):
I came here for the God damn.

Speaker 1 (01:49:06):
Told you what I'm in for. Listen. I totally understand that,
and I agree we could talk about sex more. But
sometimes we got to talk about the love relationships and
accountability to like, I think that's what a lot of
today's episode was about. But we're here now, at this moment,
at this moment, this moment to talk about sex. We're
doing this for you, for you, whoever that was the

(01:49:28):
type that we're doing this for you talking to you, brother,
you can't use the whole Hogan.

Speaker 3 (01:49:36):
Oh yeah, damn r I p hol Hogan, Damn Holk Hogan. Sorry, Yo,
I'm gonna keep it. I'm gonna keep it on here.

Speaker 2 (01:49:44):
I didn't do the intro.

Speaker 3 (01:49:45):
Oh ship, I forgot to do the heart you okay, brother, things.

Speaker 1 (01:49:57):
Man man take court like about sex, things that make
us hard lo yo.

Speaker 3 (01:50:07):
Bro, I'm gonna keep it a bug fifty plus fifty.
I just like to fuck sometimes, you know what I'm saying.
I'm gonna be honest, Like, yeah, you know, listening to
your body is cool and doing this and that it's cool,
but so I just won't really get in there, you
know what I'm saying. Like, you know, it's moves. You
drive a certain way, you listen to certain songs. If
you late for work, you driving to work, you're leaving work.

(01:50:27):
It's two different people, two different drives. You know what
I'm saying. Sometimes I just want to be in there, bro,
I just want to just put her fucking knees on
her shoulder and bring her feet into her fucking thousand
this drill that wholesh like a chicken wing and just
drill that shit, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
I antlyze that has been in like a fucking mood,
you know what I mean, Like like y'all want to
you know, it's just not saying this is my overall thing,

(01:50:48):
but you know, I just want to be a wolf sometimes,
you know, like I want to just sometimes I want
to like dominate like shock against the nets, you know
what I'm saying, Like that's how I be feeling sometimes.
So yeah, that's your wait, I'm bugging. I just want
you to stop. It's like like I want to just
like your folding to a pressle like you know, like
this like this and put that ship there. You take

(01:51:09):
this way you put it, I m spin it.

Speaker 1 (01:51:11):
Wait me back me back.

Speaker 3 (01:51:15):
Yeah, you just hold that like this.

Speaker 1 (01:51:16):
You just remind me of mother fucking threesome or male
female male male never mind, I'm chilling, you know, that's
what I watch. I love dpcs, I watch everything dpcces.
But yeah, I get that, I definitely get that.

Speaker 4 (01:51:34):
Yes, you know, I've realized with myself that I have
something where I feel like when I'm fucking somebody, especially
for the first time, that I have to leave there
as the best, Like that's something that I feel like
I always need that by myself. But I feel like
I'm like I'm accepting it fully now, I'm fully embracing it,

(01:51:56):
and I feel like I'm okay with being that.

Speaker 2 (01:51:59):
What do you what does it take for you to
leave as the best?

Speaker 4 (01:52:03):
Well, for me, like I said, everybody's different and everybody's
experiences is different, right, So for me, one thing I
realized is that when I'm having sex with somebody for
the first time, I'm not really able to come because
in my mind, I'm so locked in on making sure
that I'm giving you the most premium dick and me
stopping is not even a thought like the whole like
I gotta stop, catch myself, or if we have a backspasm,

(01:52:24):
no no, no, no, the back is on pause like pain, bro,
I'm fucking It's like me taking the sensu being Yeah,
that's the title, and I realized that, and I realized
that I was I was in a situation and I
was dealing with this girl. And we stopped mid sex, well,
she stopped in mid sex, and she was just looking
at me, like, yo, you're dead ass. Top two And

(01:52:47):
I was like, Yo, that ship that's made me feel
man good. And I was like, Yo, this is this
ship means something to me.

Speaker 3 (01:52:52):
Top two after the first going around. In reality, we
number one only because the nigga's number one. It's because
you had it for a while. But so me being
like so excluded him, I'm really like number one. So
I'm okay with you off the first time. I'm good
with that's one already. Compared to the best, I rather
be two one. That's the type of ship I like
the one the best. You rather be two than one
because if you won off the first now she's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:53:14):
You rather be two.

Speaker 2 (01:53:16):
If you two, you won, she's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:53:18):
Regardless.

Speaker 2 (01:53:19):
You can't just give a chick that kind of dick, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:53:21):
That's what she said. That's what she said. She was like, yo,
why you why are you doing this to me? And
I'm like, yo, I don't know no other feelings.

Speaker 2 (01:53:28):
Why are you fucking me like this, like the.

Speaker 3 (01:53:30):
Serious ass too so provocative, like in your head you like,
ah non, you're looking at it like just saying like yeah,
and that's what she's and that's what they said. It
was like, Yo, this cool ship that you're doing, like
you're you're tricking me with the cool ship.

Speaker 1 (01:53:44):
Like you know you wiling this. You know who you are?
Showed me.

Speaker 3 (01:53:49):
Ask you a question, right, I don't want to be
I don't want to rain on the parade. Why is
it that you want to be You want to be
the best off the first sexual encounter, but why not
want to be the best dating encounter to Why I
create the best dating experience for as well? Why do
you want to be like the best date for as
well too? You know what I'm saying. You know that's
a very good question. Why that's very good question? And
I do think that I gotta work on that.

Speaker 1 (01:54:10):
That's peace. Gotta work on that.

Speaker 3 (01:54:15):
I know I don't have that capability of being the best.
I know, I understand I'm an acquired taste.

Speaker 1 (01:54:19):
I'm thinking about it. I'm making that face with me
thinking about the comparison, right, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:54:25):
I'm thinking like yo, I like because what you're saying
is like energy effort, right, So I have like a
mindset energy effort to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:54:33):
But being the best dater or having the desert is
with him. But I don't know if we could, if
we could talk about that on this part. But I
know why you do that. We had this conversation. I
was at work one morning and you and I was
on the phone, and I was telling you about yourself,
and I was telling you what I think of you
and how you should think of you, and they were

(01:54:54):
giving me the reasons why that's a work in progress
for you, right right, And I believe that you look
at all your relationships like that, even dating why you're
not good. You're not good with looking bad, right, I'm
not going to be that vulnerable with looking bad or
taking criticism or anything like that, because you feel like,

(01:55:17):
you know.

Speaker 3 (01:55:17):
Yeah, I get that throw that shot at the window, bro,
like you miss every shot you don't take.

Speaker 2 (01:55:22):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:55:22):
For sure, it's easy to say that when you are
proven to yourself, when you're still trying to prove and
you still like say, you're great to everybody else. But
your version of great is like miles further of where
you see yourself, like you could tell me I'm great,
but I'm still building. I know where I want to be.

(01:55:43):
I'm not where I want to be. So thank you
for what you're saying. But that's like Nigga said, Hole,
you're never going to sell a million records. Nigga even
sold a million records a million times. That's what I wanted.
I knew I was going to sell a million records
a million times. That one million wasn't. That's not enough
for me.

Speaker 3 (01:55:59):
This is random. I other make this a whole vench
of conversation. You everywize that Hoop always spoke about himself
and like speaks about himself like music wise.

Speaker 2 (01:56:06):
Yeah, but he was already proven though.

Speaker 3 (01:56:08):
But even I mean, but I mean not like ninety
five coming into.

Speaker 1 (01:56:13):
He didn't come in like spending money from eighty eight.

Speaker 3 (01:56:15):
I mean, I'm pretty sure that is going now if
not a goddamn But what I'm saying is like, yo,
you gotta be immntally before you get there in reality.
You feel me so again, So even like even when
I was telling you, bro, like when I saw what
I said like me and I don't know me and
time we had a conversation one day metile home, bro man,
and it was like, Yo, so if you see Beyonce,
you when you shut up beyond, I was like, I mean,

(01:56:37):
why the funk not?

Speaker 1 (01:56:38):
You don't feel like the levels?

Speaker 3 (01:56:39):
I'm like, youre ain't no level of I can't get on.
You make you think she unapproachable every time fucking else
And that's how you gotta honest you yourself, bro, Like, Yo,
there ain't nothing I'm gonna. I'm gonna take this shot
from half court. It's a bad shot. I'm like I'm taking. Yeah,
I'm dead like that. You feel me?

Speaker 1 (01:56:56):
So?

Speaker 3 (01:56:57):
Yeah you got and your hell you gotta wake up, yo,
I'm like that.

Speaker 1 (01:56:59):
I'm gonna tell y'all what my heart was, and yes
it involved my beautiful lady. First of all, shout out
for her for jumping on stage. I think it's the
first time being on stage since we've been together, well
with me, because she's probably done I don't know what
she's done in the past, but go on stage and
she did a little competition. It was great.

Speaker 2 (01:57:21):
Shout out to her for you know, crossing that. But
on the cruise we was on.

Speaker 1 (01:57:27):
Were wild and again it feels great to be able
to not have sex quiet with the kids in the
other room. Now we got her fucking cats in the bed.
It's a whole thing.

Speaker 3 (01:57:36):
Oh my god, different, new new levels, new devils, cats.

Speaker 1 (01:57:41):
It's all leaned up against us in the bed. It's like, Bro,
she loves the cats. She like cuddles with the cats. No,
you don't for catching the cage. You don't dogs? Why
would you catch? I keep dogs out let you know,
and you put them in a cage out here, you
won't have to pay for it. They will piss on

(01:58:02):
your pillow. Yeah, bro, A certain way. You can't just
do whatever I don't for cats on women, the double haymaker.
I was telling you about you can't just do something
everything that you're gonna get away to woman, you know
what I'm saying. Thought about it so, but Yo, I
don't know if I should say this. I'm gonna do

(01:58:23):
it anyway, then, Yo, what do y'all like more? Nothing
in the box or nothing in the face or in
the in the mouth.

Speaker 3 (01:58:32):
I'm gonna keep it on a ship off y'oll the
aunt all right out? All right, let me say this,
take the glasses over the nutting something about not in
the check mouth while she's sucking your ship and like
if she keeps going like it's like bliss, like for

(01:58:55):
a quick second, you yo, for quick time, you be dead.

Speaker 1 (01:58:58):
You floating, you be dead.

Speaker 3 (01:59:00):
That a real person.

Speaker 2 (01:59:01):
You're not a real person.

Speaker 3 (01:59:02):
I had a girl do that you one time. My
whole fucking waistless one like this.

Speaker 1 (01:59:05):
So you're floating, you're literally you will levitake off the
bed when they do that. Now I'm standing up. Oh
you fell, I know you felt cruise ceilings are blow.
Oh you like this, I'm going were going at it.

(01:59:29):
I go to stand up on the bed, I go
to nut. I hit my head in the stands.

Speaker 3 (01:59:32):
Oh my god, you did not ruin your nut like I.

Speaker 1 (01:59:38):
Ruined soon Because you hit your head, you're like boom
and the nut just go.

Speaker 2 (01:59:42):
I'm just like its fuck fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:59:46):
Yeah, you know. I will say, shout out to the
ones that lap it up. Shout out to the ones
because on the face too. I don't like mouth.

Speaker 3 (01:59:56):
I like on the face and then put it back
in the watch on the leaving it in the boxes
top tier.

Speaker 4 (02:00:03):
That's my I would say, that's my favor because it's
nothing better than the coming me daddy.

Speaker 1 (02:00:08):
I'm melt right on the spot, like, yeah, I'm going.

Speaker 3 (02:00:11):
I said, you can't say that to me. You can't,
you can't do that. I'm going because because the one
time I decided to listen to a problem.

Speaker 1 (02:00:15):
No, no, no, I'm following instructions. You're not. I have
to trust you so much for a coming coming me, daddy.
I'm not just shooting into like another eighteen years of slavery.
I'm not bro.

Speaker 2 (02:00:31):
I'm not bro coming me, daddy?

Speaker 1 (02:00:33):
Is crazy? You like seventy now here in my relationship.
If she wanted another kid, I would do that. I mean, like,
you know, but but if you just not just just
off the tough.

Speaker 3 (02:00:46):
Can you really enjoy Do you really be enjoying sex? Though?
If you were, because you really.

Speaker 1 (02:00:50):
Enjoyed with a chick and I'm not in a relationship,
you know I can't. That's scary. It has to be
condemned up. Oh, I have to know that your you
or something is superior to what I know. What I'm saying,
it's not no way, no way. Pregnancy scares is too
real for me, can't. I mean, you've had but I do.

(02:01:12):
My heart is shooting on the face. Really is scared? Yeah,
I got five kids.

Speaker 3 (02:01:16):
Right now, I'm gonna say, what are you telling me
what's going on?

Speaker 2 (02:01:23):
It's not happening.

Speaker 1 (02:01:26):
Yeah, but I do like on the face more serial
number off your I U D. Is crazy. You got
to make sure it registered on the face, dripping down
onto the titties. So the visuals crazy and when you're
lapping it up. I'm scared to say this, but this

(02:01:48):
is on Patreon right, well the videos on Drew don't
clip this nigga. She's on the bed life my nick.
I'm standing up. She's like, yo, bro, bro, I fell
back in love. I felt even though my head was

(02:02:09):
hurting from hitting the ceiling.

Speaker 3 (02:02:10):
Fuck it without a head.

Speaker 1 (02:02:14):
I spit without a head. I spits you talking about it? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:02:20):
Fuck is you talking about nigga without a head? Bro?

Speaker 1 (02:02:26):
You things man don't like in the bedroom, things that
make us soft.

Speaker 3 (02:02:35):
So I was watching a pown. So it's one of
my safe pawns. Right. It's with Hershey Ray, some old
freaky ass milk black chick. And it's she's like on
the couch like this and she just laying back like this.
It's a nigga standing on the couch, right, and he
just like fucking the mouth and dipping there and then

(02:02:55):
like he bought you feel me let one off and
like he tried to run. She grabbed him like by
his ass and like held his hand, just brought him
in there and he was like ah and he just
like died. I hate when I be dying like that.

Speaker 1 (02:03:12):
I don't like, I don't like like a herd. Know
I'm saying you.

Speaker 3 (02:03:16):
Say, like sometimes it's like somebody wins your like I
hate when I leave him and I like she got
one on me, Like damn, Like I feel like like
I look bad, like you really just you did that.
She got a little confidence, but it's great, it feels wonderful.
It's a hard but around was like damn, like she
kind of like just dunked on.

Speaker 2 (02:03:32):
She got a lot of confidence there.

Speaker 3 (02:03:34):
Like I hate when I hate when I lose miserably.

Speaker 2 (02:03:36):
Like I seen a video out there, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:03:39):
My nigga was like this is supposed to be no
nothing November, and she's like, fuck no, not November.

Speaker 2 (02:03:45):
So he's like, I'm not nothing. I'm told you I'm not.

Speaker 1 (02:03:47):
That's a good scheme. So she's going hard on the
n Yeah, yeah, I'm slapping his ship, slapping his dick.
He's like, stop shopping.

Speaker 2 (02:03:54):
So she stopped. You see his ship dripping whatever? She said,
fuck that and.

Speaker 1 (02:03:57):
Keep going yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, y'am slapping s again.

Speaker 2 (02:04:00):
Wow, this nigga said, no, what.

Speaker 1 (02:04:05):
You know? I just thought about what if?

Speaker 3 (02:04:06):
You know?

Speaker 1 (02:04:07):
I can't say. She said fuck that no November ship,
I said, oh.

Speaker 3 (02:04:12):
Nah, she's disrespectful.

Speaker 1 (02:04:19):
Play back energy was superior. Yes, and I don't think
I did. I don't think I could. I think I
can find it, I tell you, but I'm gonna say
that's a hard for me what you just said. When
a woman has that type of sexual confidence and she's
on it, talking you crazy, wilding you up, snatching your.

Speaker 3 (02:04:41):
Soul, do that, she said, and.

Speaker 1 (02:04:45):
Use her the niggah I got the video right here.
I got the video.

Speaker 3 (02:04:53):
I'm like, oh nah, niggas fight back, fight, Yes, what
you got? Do you have soft? Okay? I don't.

Speaker 1 (02:05:06):
What makes me soft?

Speaker 4 (02:05:06):
I feel like when I'm engaging with somebody, I don't
like when they're trying to hide parts of their body.

Speaker 1 (02:05:12):
Yeah, that ship will.

Speaker 4 (02:05:15):
Turn me off, like because I like touching the stomach
and the thighs and the behind the arm meat and
all of that shit. Don't be hiding the ship, don't
be tucking it away, putting it under safe.

Speaker 3 (02:05:26):
Like no, I came here for that. Like so that
said putting it under the safe. Yeah, Like so that's
that's the soft for me. I'll say that.

Speaker 2 (02:05:36):
Um soft for me. I don't have one this week.

Speaker 1 (02:05:41):
I think we've had a great show. Loon and I
will be at the Sirve Sex down South Live show
down there. I don't know what the kind of set
up they have, but if you're there, please come see us.
Please go see Eli. Please, you know, just try to
sign up to come be part of the live show Atlanta.
I was mad. That was mad that we had to

(02:06:02):
cancel when my mom my grandma passed. We're gonna We're
gonna be down there, okay and me talking our ship.
I don't know if I'm bringing the boxing gloves. I might,
all right. That is September fourth through September sixth us
in Atlanta. Also, if you're in Atlanta, I believe they're
doing a play party. I'm not sure, but I know

(02:06:22):
Lun and I will be in the strip club somewhere
at some point.

Speaker 2 (02:06:26):
And a wiffle house. Oh yeah, for sure, multiple times
for show. Y'all know how I give it up.

Speaker 1 (02:06:31):
Send me some restaurants. Also, Oh, we're leaving Sunday. Damn,
we're gonna miss a brunch. Oh, matter of fact, Sunday evening,
really Sunday evening. Send us a Sunday brunch. We might
be pop out like a little twelvesh one to see
the vibes called diamond. Oh, we definitely gonna you already
know sex, love, relationships, and accountability.

Speaker 3 (02:06:53):
This is a hard show, show Men. That was a
fucking great episode. It's tough talk tell me, tell me
talk to rture talk

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