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What do dad jokes, dream vacations, body image struggles, and walkie-talkie job resignations have in common?
They all collide in this wildly entertaining and unexpectedly vulnerable episode of The Heavyweight Podcast.

From the jump, the crew’s signature banter sets the tone for an unfiltered ride packed with gut-busting laughs and real-life reflections. Whether it’s cracking dad jokes that deserve groans (and a few gold stars), or revealing their ultimate travel destinations—from the peace of Bali to the flavor of Japan—this episode offers a little bit of everything.

But don’t get it twisted—there’s depth, too.

Things get personal when the conversation turns to insecurities and identity. One host bravely unpacks the psychological toll of body dysmorphia after weight loss, while another reflects on the pain of feeling unloved in one-sided relationships. It’s raw. It’s real. And it might just speak directly to your heart.

The laughs return as the crew dives into their Black card confessions—like hating certain soul foods or vibing to “white music”—challenging cultural stereotypes while celebrating their roots. And just when you think the vibe couldn’t get better, they drop some of the wildest job horror stories you’ve ever heard (Target employees, beware).

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Heavyweight Podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
The message behind saying the title of the
Heavyweight Podcast is to beable to say that we can weigh in
on some heavy shit.
What we're talking about isimportant from every aspect of
it.
It's a heavy weight.
It's not just about physicalweight, but the weight of things
that can weigh our minds.
So I think it's dope that wecan have this conversation.
So I think it's dope that wecan have this conversation.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
I remember some chick used to cry to that song.
That was her song.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
She couldn't listen to you ever cry to that song,
drug bailed, ever cry to drugbailed.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
I've never cried to a song not once you ain't never
done.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
No shrooms then would you like to what's up everybody
.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
It's your girl, there's the diva and this is
episode 198 of the heavyweightpodcast I'm back again just
being a diva with these threeawesome black men.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Introduce yourself, gentlemen oh, I'm tapered up
ellis fade on point.
Nah, it's just all leaving, butI go by, tapered up ellis.
Introduce yourself, gentlemen.
Oh, I'm Tapered Up, ellis Fadeon point.
Nah, it's just all even, but Igo by, tapered Up Ellis.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
It's your boy, molito , and I'm Confused.
Mcfly, why are you confused?

Speaker 1 (01:21):
He's confused I know that is a tough question to ask
a nigga that's confused like you.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
How is y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:29):
week.
Um too long Waiting, Waiting.
What are you waiting for?
Hey, now say now, I'm all aboutmy yen.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Oh, this nigga got concert money.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
I'm way too important , I'm way too important.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
I'm way too important .
Hey, on that day, just pick meup and leave your wife here.
I'll take your ticket.
None of them tickets was $4.99.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
Baby, you think?

Speaker 1 (01:52):
I got money, I don't got no money.
A lot of this Free shit Affirm.
We've discussed this on manyepisodes.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Speaking of money that's free but not free.
I got paid an extra week ofvacation for no reason and thank
you, oh word, yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
So lunch is on you.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Nah, that money quickly went to a gymnastics
camp in Sam's.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
Club.

Speaker 3 (02:26):
So we're going to eat and she gonna, we gonna be out
in.
We gonna be out in in Phoenixin a couple months doing a
little camp alright it's gonnabe hot as fuck.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
I'm gonna be inside, it's yeah it's different.
I know is it.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
I know.
That's why I'm in the car makesure it has auto start.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Yeah, okay, yeah, get that AC on before you get in.
Yeah, that's why I'm in the car, make sure it has auto start.
Yeah, okay, yeah, get that ACon before you get in.
Yeah, I promise, mr Confused,what's up?
Confucius?

Speaker 4 (02:55):
How was your week, darling?

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Couldn't tell you, couldn't tell you.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
You was high.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
No, no, I didn't drink any shroom tea.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
Is it tea or is it?
No, it's camera.
You can talk to me later.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
Fair, fair, fair.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
Other than that, just work and trying to fly under
the radar.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Okay, okay, great.
How's that working out for you?

Speaker 2 (03:31):
A lot of people know me so I guess I failed.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah, you're kind of popular for somebody that's
trying to be under the radar.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Anywho, let's go ahead and move on these
questions were cultivated by who, kevin, motherfucking Ellis.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
Oh wait, before we go there.
I had a good week.
I just got back from Seattle.

Speaker 3 (03:55):
And I bought a new car.

Speaker 4 (04:00):
I'm dead now.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
What'd you get?

Speaker 4 (04:01):
A Chevy Equinox.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Oh, that's right.
I remember I'm dead now.
What'd you get?
A Chevy Equinox Shouldn't havedone that.
Oh, that's right.
That's right Because we thoughtyou yeah, I remember.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Got a mean.
The transmission just fell outof my mouth.

Speaker 4 (04:12):
Because you had an issue with your transmission.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
Damn you just should have told her I gotta know what
that was you doing Sight thesight.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
I, I'm finna import my one of them Chinese cars,
cause those shits, look fireit's about 100% tax 200%.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Actually it's 200% tax.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's terrific yeah right, I don't know what about
this witch, but that was good.
Yeah, hi, how are you good,okay, okay.
So did you pay for the autostart?

Speaker 4 (04:47):
you started the car for your phone I can't start the
car for my phone, did you?
So you pay for it, so they gotyou you know, I, you, you have
like this, like hey guys,something she's happy today.
How the fuck can I rain on thisbitch parade?

Speaker 3 (05:01):
talk to me about it later no well, I asked that
because they got me at first tooRight, because they give you
like a couple months free.
But then when you see the price, when you got to pay for it the
first time, shit, fuck, I ain'tpaying that shit.
It do come in clutch so whenit's hot and you can start your
car from your phone.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
That's tear rough.
Oh my God Tear rough.
Get it, I got it.
These are dad jokes.
They're not funny.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
No, they're funny.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
For dads.
They're hilarious.
One of the damn questions onthe questions that were
cultivated by Kevin.
We'll just go right to thebottom of the list and go that
way.
What's your favorite dad joke?
I don't have a dad joke.
How do you not have a dad?

Speaker 2 (05:44):
joke, I just gave you one.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
I know he gave us one .
I don't.
I only niggas I ever heard dodad jokes.
Is you niggas?
So I don't know, nobody knowdad jokes my dad don't tell them
.
Motherfucking jokes my dad acrip so he don't tell them
motherfucking jokes you've beenin the world, you've dad jokes.
That nigga tell jokes aboutpeople.

Speaker 3 (06:02):
Okay, he don't tell dad jokes, which I consider to
be dad jokes.
I don't think I have a favoritedad joke.
I like them all.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
You don't have one Minus.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
I do like the Minus.
Okay, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
What do you call a fish without an eye?

Speaker 3 (06:18):
What do you call it Fish?

Speaker 4 (06:27):
It's my favorite, mcfly.
Do you have a favorite, danjoke he gave us a couple he did?

Speaker 3 (06:35):
he gave us a couple the one that's at the top of my
list is it goes.
Why are pediatricians so easilyangered?
Because they have very littlepatience.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Oh, my God.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
This might be some shit that like like dad's tale
and dad's fine funny.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
Oh, they're great, like snoop's favorite weather
you don't think?

Speaker 4 (07:08):
chris brown has dad jokes and I'm gonna laugh at all
of them.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
Chuckle, just laugh good jokes, probably whack
though they're probably amazing.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Run it, run it.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, run it, run it why did this outlet do flip?
Oh my God, what's Snoop'sfavorite weather?
I don't know, the drizzle.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
Okay, y'all get on my nerve.
Oh God, what's?

Speaker 3 (07:39):
a what's a pig favorite karate move?
A what what's a pig favoritekarate move?

Speaker 4 (07:45):
I don't know A pork chop.
Ooh, that's a good one.
Then you made the sound.
I like that.
I don't.
There's no.
Is it just dad jokes or they'remom jokes?

Speaker 3 (08:00):
They're mom jokes too .
They're not as funny.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
I've never heard.
No, women do that, becausewomen are not funny.

Speaker 3 (08:05):
My friends are not funny, I'm just lying, my
friends are hilarious.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
You think I don't hang around.
Funny bitches Funny in adifferent way.
They gotta be bitches.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
We gotta stop calling them bitches unless they really
bitches.

Speaker 4 (08:13):
No, you gotta stop calling them bitches.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
I'm going to change my name to Stack why, sinners oh
, I got you, I got you, I gotyou yeah oh my god.

Speaker 4 (08:33):
What's your favorite place you've gone on vacation,
I'm sorry.
What's your favorite placeyou've gone on vacation?
My house.
And what's your next?
What's your next?
Your place is any place in thefucking balcony.
And what's your next dreamvacation?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
my favorite London, london, england oh okay, that's
pretty cool.
I was nah, that was, I didn'thave children then, so I just
had to pay pay for my plane didyou walk around saying isn't it?
I walked around, lost though Ididn't know where.
I didn't say do that, but I doremember the chick dissing homie
at the club that was hilarious.

(09:10):
She called him Ali G and I waslike damn, that was fucked up,
Isn't it, Isn't it?
Get the fuck up off me, Ali G.
I was like damn.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
I have a problem with not being able to use that in
the right context.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
I want to.
That's the right context.
Next one malita, are you?

Speaker 4 (09:36):
stealing the dream one.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, I guess the next one dream will be to take
the family.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Oh, never mind.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
He said he's out.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
We need to bring families.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
I want to take them out.
I'll see out the countrysomewhere, okay.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
I was going to say Orange County.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
Yeah, no, that's not.
No, they probably won't like us.
My.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
Damn nah, they.
They probably won't like us.
My uh, damn, I don't like thisquestion.
My favorite vacation was alsoalso was kind of it has like it
hurts a little bit at the sametime because of what happened,
but my favorite vacation was thestaycation I had with my wife
in San Diego for a weekend.
We had a great time.

(10:25):
We was lit right down gas lamp,drunk as shit on them birds.
We shouldn't have been on thembirds because we was fucked up.
We was fucked up.
It was a good vacation.
Um, uh, god damn, that's nasty.
Now I'm thinking about thatshit.
Um, and then my uh dream man, Iwanna go to Japan, really, just

(10:49):
so I can see my anime, so I cansee my anime I just wanna see
my anime shit.

Speaker 4 (10:53):
Oh, and to eat he didn't want to go to Japan,
really you wanna go eat in Japanlike?

Speaker 3 (11:00):
yeah, fresh.
I like sushi fresh, okay,sashimi like fresh octopus and
shit.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
I'm not eating that shit cause, that's they eat it
live.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
No, I bet that rice is fire too perfect Vegas.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
That was.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
My favorite vacation was Vegas not the time the car
got to them right why you gottabring old man.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
I was thinking it wasn't that time.
Actually it was that time goddamn it.
So you look good in the backbut I went multiple times, so we
just going to say it's aculmination.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
Yeah, what's the?

Speaker 2 (11:44):
dream.
The dream is um, I'd like to douh, I don't know.
I I mean Japan does sound dope,but maybe like some sort of uh
wherever Drake stayed inAustralia, just so I can throw
my sandal, what's some flyingdrone?

Speaker 3 (12:07):
you on your own, I stayed in the same room when I
see the goddamn spiders and shitfrom.

Speaker 4 (12:13):
I'm going to Australia all together.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
I would love to go to Australia if Australia is yours
, australia is yours.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
I just want to be beached somewhere, yeah trying
to be on nipples out andeverything I would want to do a
train, but like whoa, see that'sthe last episode, are you sure?

Speaker 1 (12:38):
never mind this.

Speaker 4 (12:42):
I've not really ever been on vacation.
What, yeah, I've never been onvacation.
I'm going, I'm going to vegas,but that's not going vacation to
me.
That's like I went to vegas youain't been flew out, no damn
flew out never been on vacationbut um.
My dream vacation is to um, tobali um I I yeah, because when I

(13:05):
think of of places that I wantto go, it's always some place
that I can have some type ofspiritual connection.
So I would want to go to bali.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
I would want to meditate there, I would want to
do a class.
I got my, my homegirl went outthere and she lived out there
for a minute I'm that.

Speaker 4 (13:19):
That is a big fear of mine, because I do tend to go
places and then getting apart me.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
That's how, that's, that's how, uh, that's how I'm
tend to go places and then getan apartment.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
That's how I.
I'm scared to go to Seattlenext week because I might not
bring my ass back.
That's how I ended up inVirginia.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
I went on vacation in Virginia, the prices ain't the
same as Virginia when you go toSeattle.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
I seen the Airbnbs and I was like, oh yeah, hell no
.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
If you go to Seattle, you coming back, I'm coming
back.
I have family in Seattle andTacoma.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
I love it, but not Seattle.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
If you want to be depressed eight months out the
year, it's a great place.
It's a great place for emopeople.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
No, I like the rain.
Okay, I'm not an emo.
Put me up and show me up.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Or could she not stand the?

Speaker 4 (14:03):
rain, she couldn't stand it.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
She couldn't stand it but it was her window though.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
I might do Dubai actually, when I think about it
Dubai sounds dope, just so youcan tell a bitch to shut up.

Speaker 3 (14:15):
I can't tell that story.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
I can't go to Dubai cause I'm going to jail.
They gonna get your ass at theairport.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
I'm gonna have a crop top at the airport, at the
fucking airport, I'm going tohave a crop top on.

Speaker 4 (14:26):
They can get me at the fucking airport.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
I can promise you you'll be all right.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
After a certain time I saw a lot of burkas come off
and you like, was you wearingthat under there?

Speaker 2 (14:43):
So what?
Okay, fuck it.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
So you only have to be covered at certain.
Hey, listen, I don't know theculture, but I do remember what
I saw and I went oh, y'all stillout here, the baddies was out
there like with natalie nunn andthey didn't go to jail.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
So they fight every goddamn couple of homies.
They fight every goddamn dayCouple of homies.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
And then she had a burgo earlier in the day.

Speaker 4 (15:15):
Dubai sounds beautiful.
And they got some good ass food.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
Yeah, because it's not theirs.

Speaker 4 (15:24):
Whose is it?
Everyone else oh well, whochocolate?
The little chocolate with thepistachios on the inside?
Whose chocolate is?

Speaker 3 (15:33):
that they be calling that the little Dubai chocolate.
They got one who started it?

Speaker 4 (15:39):
I'm saying it started anyways, what song, lyric or
movie would best describe yourlife?
Right, what?

Speaker 2 (15:48):
you didn't finish the question describe your current
life.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
I ain't doing that.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
You go first no, no, you can't say lyric or movie
song album.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
I'll go Go ahead.
Stutter McFly's been on oneBust nuts before I leave, so I
don't forget where I come from.
Do dirt up all my lonesome.
Admit that I have grown frombeing a long-gumming Rumlins.
I was up to something, mustadmit it.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
The 16s have been custom fitted to cut through the
guts of critics.
I think that's cheating.
You shouldn't be able to useyour own words.
Hey, hey, no, because he has aconnection with all his lyrics.
There's no rules.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
No rules.
I mean I don't have any From mypast that I could prove I'd be
like nigga shut the fuck up,okay you could say Menage, a
Trois Nights.
That was me, me that was his,but I have never experienced
such a thing, so I can't speakon that that shit was wild I

(16:56):
gotta ask you want me to ask.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, um, mine would be one fish
, two fish.
Shut the fuck up Red fish, bluefish.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
Is this the Meek Mill one?

Speaker 3 (17:06):
Because I remember he did this in a song, big neck,
paddy whack, give a bug, a bone,2,000 oops out of time, my
bacon smelling fine.
I'm just always hungry.
I'm just always hungry.

Speaker 2 (17:23):
Kevin looked like nigga.
Did you Kevin's looking likenigga?
Did you nigga?
Did you just take the?

Speaker 3 (17:30):
question Nah, but be real, um, it'd be that uh big X
to pull in line when he says um,uh, I've been doing, um, I
think I think he said I've beendoing.
Uh think you said I've beendoing not great, but good, like
I feel like I'm doing good, butI just I feel like I'm not.

(17:50):
I can always take it to anotherlevel.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
I'm gonna go against my own thing and I'm gonna go
with an album nigga, that's notyou okay that's your own damn
question, yeah change the rules.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
I mean, y'all niggas the lyrics, but I'm gonna do it
all.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Go ahead, or a movie, go ahead, or a movie or you.
I was trying to say somethinggo ahead.
What's the answer?
Nigga.
It sounds so cliche cause I'min that 50 cent mode right now,
oh okay get rich or die trying.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
Get rich or die trying, oh shit why you Get rich
or die trying.

Speaker 1 (18:25):
Why are you doing that?
That's corny as shit.
Well nigga, I'm trying to getrich Because I can't say
clickety clank, I'm not there.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
You're trying to get rich and I'm out here window
shopping, so I guess we all gota little fit, des probably
Jasmine Sullivan's In Love WithAnother man.

Speaker 4 (18:53):
Oh, wow from the south nope, and but probably not
for the reasons you think.
Just the lyrics of the songthey get me right now, and
probably Chris Brown's Dream oh,you do it too, mm-hmm, mm-hmm,

(19:15):
definitely.
That's why that's it.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
I could have gave y'all a lot of lyrics.
I could have gave y'all a lotof lyrics and remind me of my
wife, but I didn't do that.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
I tried to.
You're probably living thesecret life of Walter Mitty,
though.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
Really yeah, you cooking up something.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
I was looking at lyrics that I was trying to say,
Since you said not my lyrics so.
I was going to.
There was a, but that one hasnot.
Is this how I'm feeling at themoment?

Speaker 1 (19:39):
It don't even have to be how you're feeling.

Speaker 2 (19:46):
It could be just what's happening.
So this part of the song I Iknow you didn't like the song,
uh, maurice, but it was the.
So stay safe or get left withchest on your face as death
weighs as your for your lastbreath, I'm gonna pass the test.
Yes, I'm a master chef.
I want to taste and pay for it.
They claim they real, butthey're seldom straightforward.
The pain I feel on the framegets transmuted to dangerous

(20:07):
flame.
That's how I was.
That part stuck out to me andit's how I felt at the moment.
So that's the closest lyric Ican say, besides my own shit.
Then, when I heard him, he waslike people claim they're real,
but seldom straightforward.
Yeah, it hit me.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
There's one I have, but I don't remember who it was,
so I couldn't look it up.
It was like the key lock.
I think it was key lock where,like people ask how I'm doing
and then you'd be like I'm fine,but why are you asking, and
some shit like that.
Where?

Speaker 2 (20:36):
they don't nobody give a fuck, and my favorite
phrase of all time was actuallyhot, hot.
When they ask you how you doing, tell them better than them
I'll let you that one.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
I do like that one, you good.

Speaker 4 (20:52):
I almost struck a chord with her, that's right.
Take you down.
I really want to.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
What's the next question?

Speaker 3 (21:08):
You sweating this shit.

Speaker 4 (21:13):
Shut up.
What was your first passion andhow aligned are you to your
current?
How is that aligned to yourcurrent life?

Speaker 3 (21:27):
My first passion was food.
I are you to your current howis that aligned to your current
life?
My first passion was food andit don't align my life.
I didn't know.
I see your balcony.
I had food before I had pussy,but when I got pussy it went to
the top.
Shit, nasty your first passionwas food and it don't aligned
with my current goals so youjust ate everything shit, fat,

(21:51):
fat fuck.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
I like it.
That's my new passion eatingyeah, I should be working on it,
mine.
Music, it's music, rapping andshit.
How aligned is my life with it?
Now, not at all.

(22:13):
I mean, I listen to it, but Idon't mean rapping and shit spit
some shit right now you knowtiktok, that's all I got oh it
rhymes better than happy.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
Yeah, that's mine musica it had to be music.
I think since I was younger Ican remember music was always
prevalent, so music I still rapon occasion, I think.
Since I was younger, I remembermusic was always prevalent
Music.

Speaker 3 (22:49):
I still rap on occasion Bars, bars, that's it
music and basketball.

Speaker 2 (22:58):
There were two of the things that I were most, but
yeah, music is still here and Istill.
It's still part of me, so soyou still hoop.
I still hoop, but not the sameback then I was hooping with
niggas my age that that waspossibly trying to have a career
out of this.
Now it's just niggas trying tostay alive.
It's a different song.

(23:19):
But music it's still activeenough that people still want to
work with me.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
Music yeah.

Speaker 4 (23:30):
Yes, my first passion that I can remember was fashion
.
To be honest, shit Fuck y'all.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
Did you know I had a standing offer to to go to fidm
when I was in high school um, Ididn't know that shoe design,
you would have been really goodat that.
That's where my wife went yeah,that's why I that was supposed
to go there and I ended up goingthere and buying stuff you can
do both.
They're right down the streetfrom you yeah, I used to design
shoes and, uh, I was gonna makesome you know who make some

(23:59):
stutter steps.

Speaker 4 (24:00):
I would have been tight, I would have been tight.

Speaker 3 (24:04):
You still can do that you know who need help.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
LeBron.
I was going to make femaleshoes and call them stutter
stilettos.

Speaker 4 (24:11):
Nice, I would have worn those.
I like that.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
I made some air hawks , had the design and all Back in
middle school Copyright.
Then I realized I didn't haveno money.

Speaker 2 (24:23):
I don't think I've ever told anyone that before.

Speaker 4 (24:25):
Yeah, I love it.
I love fashion.
Is that exclusive?

Speaker 2 (24:29):
That was exclusive.
I've never told anyone thatbefore.

Speaker 4 (24:33):
I was supposed to go to FIDM.
You wouldn't have been.
The shoes would have been.
I would have worn them fuckthem, let's not.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Let's link up, no put ass sweat and uh no, some
stutter steps together yes,maybe just yes don't you try to
diss ass, sweat nigga likewhat's wrong with you.
Yes, ass sweat watch when asssweat hits, you gonna be on it.
You gonna be like, oh, I got myass sweat.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
I'm gonna go to the next question.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
I don't even talk about my shit, no more.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
We gonna go to the next question we do know you're
aligned with fashion still soshe tries no, I don't need to
try nigga, cause it's in me,it's on me.

Speaker 4 (25:13):
No, no, pause, nothing, nigga.
It's, it's in me and sometimesit be in me, ain't no need to
pause.
Thank you very much to fuckingtell me to pause.
God damn it.
I said what I said anyways,anyways.
Anyways.
Yes, I do still feel alignedwith fashion to some degree.
I not in the degree of which Iwish I would have aligned with
it, but I was being told by umadults whose dreams were limited

(25:37):
, their damn selves that thatwasn't a real career.
So I didn't pursue it the way.
yeah, well, I know that now, butI didn't pursue it the way.
Well, you know, when you'reyoung and you're not being
encouraged to to follow yourdreams, sometimes you fall off.
So I think that's why I'm bigon cultivating the kids dreaming
.
Anything Hayden tells me hewants to do, I tell him he
probably can, let's do it.
So I just it just wasn'tencouraged in the ways that I

(26:04):
wish that it would have been,cause I'll probably be somewhere
doing something fashion relatedright now because that you
never told to start.
I am too fucking old.
Well, I guess, not, I won't saythat because I, to my
understanding, vera Wang, didstart doing her her wedding
dresses until she was in her 40sand but they selling they're

(26:25):
not that cute.
You are correct, but they are,but they are, um, they selling
like they cute.
So I guess you know you areright.
But yeah, fashion wasdefinitely my major dream and it
was just, you know, it wasn'tcultivated the way that I wish
that it would have been.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
So yeah, if I had known mukbang was going to take
off, I would have been recordingmyself a taco bell at 16 did
you say mukbang?
Chewing at two o'clock in themorning it's like I'm about to
record this content, like whatthe fuck is he doing?

Speaker 4 (26:52):
and then that shit is so weird to me that I can't
with the.
Well, no, not necessarily,because if there's a candy in
the outside of it's crunchy andthe inside of it is like soft,
but and when they bite that damncandy I want to order it.
So fucking bad, like.
So it's working.
So bad, like.
I've already been told thecandy doesn't taste good, so I'm

(27:12):
not gonna order, but I want toorder it.
So.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
So I guess, like yeah are you still taking niggas
opinion?

Speaker 4 (27:17):
I don't know no, I'm pretty sure that.
What do you mean?
I'm still taking niggas opinionthat don't know what the fuck
do you mean by that you justsaid your dream wasn't
cultivated nigga, I don't dreamof eating that candy so you want
to bite it, bite it, have yourown experience.
No, I don't want to be.

(27:38):
I don't want my own experiencewith something that's gonna with
sugary ass, rock solid hard asscandy with gooey shit in the
inside.
It's not that deep for me.
Shut the fuck up paul's.
Just read the next one.
So what's an insecurity thatyou have that you believe that
you can get over, and how do youintend on doing so?

Speaker 3 (27:59):
and security that you believe you can get over.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
I'm gonna go last okay, um, do you want to go
first?

Speaker 2 (28:07):
weight loss.

Speaker 3 (28:09):
That's where I'm at you lost all the weight I have,
but I need to lose more andyou're and you like, I keep
telling okay say it it's becauseyou.

Speaker 2 (28:20):
I'm not saying that.
I told you that's your thing.

Speaker 4 (28:21):
I'm not saying that shit yeah, please don't say that
shit to me, because you knowthat that's not the case, but
I'm saying that's his thing I'mtired of him saying that shit
pause that's your answer.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
I don't fucking know kevin, you want to answer?

Speaker 1 (28:39):
I'm it's weird because it's weight loss, but
I'm not like I'll let thesetitties hang out, but like I
don't need no bra bitch.
Let these titties swing, bitchI'd rather not have them out
like others.
You know what I mean.
So, oh, that's my.
I want to take my shirt off.
There he is is Take it off.

(29:00):
I do, I do, I'm not.
I'm not a t-shirt.
No, you guys don't want that.
I got sweat under my nipples,so we don't want that.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
Oh, ok, all right, all right.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Oh God.

Speaker 4 (29:18):
That's my insecurity.
Oh my God, yes, oh god, that'smy insecurity.
Oh my god, yes.
Um, I think an insecurity Ihave is is allowing myself to
find myself in anotherrelationship where I'm not
properly loved and staying theretoo fucking long.
Damn it does.
Now I gotta be serious.
So yeah, I know my workouts,it's the truth it's the truth.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
I wasn't gonna say weight loss because and staying
there too fucking long, god damnit Des no I got to be serious.

Speaker 4 (29:40):
Yeah, and I'm going to work out.
It's the truth, it's the truth.
I wasn't going to say weightloss because either way I'm a
bad bitch, so I ain't worriedabout that.
But I am worried about being ina relationship where I'm not
properly loved and staying theretoo long, because what ends up
happening in my case and I'msure this happens for other

(30:05):
women, but what ends uphappening in my case is if that,
if I discovered that thatperson is having an issue, then
I start to stay even longer,cause then I feel bad for
leaving somebody when they'redown.
So so then I'm here with youwhile you going through your
shit, and no one is goingthrough life with me.
So I'm, I'm afraid of that.
So the way I plan on overcomingthat is just being more
selective with who I choose toengage in in um, like any type

(30:25):
of like commitment with, and umI'm, I'm.
I find myself wanting to askmore questions too than I asked
in my previous commitments.
I want to know more about youbefore we even try to be in that
type of relationship.
And I mean even down to likewhat, even necessarily the
typical what is your lovelanguage?
But what is your apologylanguage, like, how do you need

(30:46):
to apologize to somebody and areyou, how do you overcome the
shit that fucked you up?
Because I need to know that you, even even if you're not
completely overcome it, becauseyou know I feel like healing
isn't linear I still want toknow that you are working on
that, that you're addressingyour shit, because I'm
addressing my shit.
Do you apologize?

(31:06):
Right, and do you apologize is?
Are you comfortable with sayingwhen you're wrong, or do you
take accountability?
Uh, what does that look likefor you?
So it's, it's now become.
I don't want to say it's aninterview, but I do need to know
a little bit more about yourass but it should be it's a lot
deeper than you look good to meoh, we have a good time
sometimes, we're having fun, andthis is fun.
It's a lot deeper to me now.
So I damn near want to pull it.

(31:28):
Yeah, shit, damn near want topull the clipboard out, because
you have to ask people this shit, because people send you the
representative they send you.
Who the fuck they're sending onan interview they're gonna send
to send them for a while?
Yeah, definitely.
So that's, that's my, that's myinsecurity.
I'm very nervous about thatbecause I I take full
responsibility that all of myprevious relationships that have

(31:50):
failed all in some way startedwith me not choosing the right
partner for myself because of myown self-confidence.
Nice, so that's.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
That's my answer.

Speaker 4 (32:03):
Good on you that's my answer, thank you I didn't
answer.

Speaker 1 (32:06):
My how I'm going to fix mine is I'm going to I
actually set a goal instead ofjust trying to blindly do it.
So okay, patino.
Um, my goal is to fit myuniform by october this october,
not that one.
I'll say nigga that one becausethe other one's probably worse.
It's smaller, damn, and it'stighter.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
It doesn't have any breathing and then you don't
wear it on the show in october.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
No, no, absolutely not.
I'm never gonna put that onlike for display, like it's just
going so you're gonna wear itat the house can we take a
picture of you in?

Speaker 3 (32:41):
it.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
No, he's saying that's not happening I mean you
might you might put it on andyou might feel, like you, that
nigga right now and then I getto the point where you you can
put it on and like when yousneeze it doesn't rip this nigga
here, boy, because I picturedit yeah, because I that's.
That's the goal.
I think you want to be able toput on something comfortable.
You don't want to be like I gotit on, but did you got it on,

(33:04):
or is it like?

Speaker 1 (33:04):
Who's going to help you take?

Speaker 4 (33:05):
it off.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
You want to be over like Drewski yeah.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
I love Drewski he's funny.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
Yes, he is Drewski, if you see this.

Speaker 4 (33:18):
I love you.

Speaker 1 (33:19):
Come on the show.
Hey my nigga, if don't drivewith a suspended license on me
like it's that easy he's funnyto me I saw that and they were
like what's your insurance?
He's like oh shit, I'm like youdon't know your own insurance.

Speaker 4 (33:34):
Nigga, you are grown right, yeah, your turn, dang.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
You said you wouldn't go less uh, I wasn't gonna
answer um you thought mcfly.
Yeah, I was uh.
Honestly, it's similar to mcfly, like um, like I've lost the
weight, but I felt like I'velost, like I've gotten smaller
in areas where that, like mylegs and stuff, but I didn't
want them to be that small, sonow I miss the weight so you can

(34:03):
sculpt it.
The fullness of my legs and Ifelt like I'm carrying weight in
areas where I really wanted tolose the weight.
I'm not a B cup, I'm like an Acup now, but I don't want the A
cup at all.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
You want it flat.
Yeah, you want a perk.

Speaker 3 (34:19):
I'm a little perk, yeah, you know what I'm saying,
but it's like, it's that, it'slike, um, so like.

Speaker 4 (34:22):
My insecurity is, the more weight I lose, the more
body dysmorphia I'm starting todevelop wow, okay, that's,
that's really honest and andthank you for even sharing that,
and I don't you look greatthough you look, thank you, you
know what it's like.

Speaker 2 (34:36):
The guy told me the tony, like that shit, like it's
funny when you talk to like theweight, the, the, the muscle
bound dudes or people that areinto it.
They tell you things and you'relike, well, damn, like thank
you should have let me know thiskind of like as I was going,
because they, you, you lose theweight and they, if you lose it
too drastically, you don'trealize what counters that.

(34:57):
Because your body has to, yourskin has to adjust to what
you're losing.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
I mean I've been.
I've been lucky enough that Idon't really have any like loose
skin.
Um, so like cause, like evenwith what I lost, I'm
technically.
I've never really lost morethan like 10 in a month.
So I've been like cause, likethey say, you shouldn't lose
more than 10.
I've been on that shit at somepoint where I was losing 4 a
month.
So I never really like got tothat point.

(35:21):
But it is like, and like thesecond part.
I mean the only thing I can dois just keep losing, keep
getting so that's the only thingI can do, and I have to.
I have to tell myself that it isa process for me to, yeah, and
then like you, but I do hold onreal quick.
I am getting the top ab.
You seen it?
I seen it, okay, and my wifetook a picture.

(35:43):
I said hold on, the cutoff iscoming, okay, and you, I still
got the the bottom still gonnahang, that's alright, that's
alright, wait, wait wait, whatthe fuck you mean?

Speaker 1 (35:53):
the cutoff is coming like the Ezekiel Elliot yeah,
nigga.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
To Ezekiel Elliott.
Yeah, nigga, he's going to beoutside.
I'm going to show this.
I'm going to show this app,nigga.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
Nigga, you better not come outside in no half-cut
halter top.

Speaker 4 (36:04):
Do it, do it.
This nigga's going to be outhere.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
Do it Cropped up in the wintertime showing off my
flat-ass baby.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
They're just going to say the Heavyweight Podcast.

Speaker 2 (36:15):
Go all the way.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Look here my wife is trying to get me to buy five
inch dancing shorts.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
Look here If you're going to do it, do it, I'm not
going to have my dick fall outin the gym.

Speaker 3 (36:26):
That's just not comfortable.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be the first.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
I'm not doing that.
No, I bought some sevens andthat's pushing it.
You ain't got no boxer briefsyeah, but still like it, ain't
comfortable with the cup theycuffed.

Speaker 1 (36:43):
I was like then what the fuck?
I was like what kind of drawersyou wearing to the gym you just
you feel exposed.

Speaker 3 (36:50):
Nigga it just, it ain't comfortable yeah, at your
gym.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
It sound like you got some in my room.

Speaker 3 (36:54):
Yeah, I gotta be careful, yeah, because they out
there.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
I mean, if they're six foot.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
That nigga sound like he doing the bending.

Speaker 1 (37:04):
No, this nigga NFL player Like I got to shoot him.

Speaker 4 (37:10):
I'm tired of you.
Sorry, I am just I'll be.
Oh my God, oh boy.
It's a quick lift when I say itwent to the left.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
So Beyonce.

Speaker 1 (37:27):
Oh my God, everything in a box.

Speaker 4 (37:34):
Just read the question.
I'm going to read the question.
I don't understand it.
So, kevin, you're going to haveto elaborate.
It says tell me a time that yougot confused for another black
person, and how did you handleit?

Speaker 1 (37:43):
Oh you know what I mean when another nigga think
it's somebody else.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
They thought for a long time they thought me and
this nigga were the same person.

Speaker 3 (37:50):
Which is die-bomb To your face.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
Like hey, so I'm not.
Hey, nigga, that's not me.
I've had that happen at mycurrent job and there's five
black people and I tell yousomething.

Speaker 3 (38:04):
So you do realize that he's like a half foot
taller than me and he has hair.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
How are you missing?
I kept the times.
I was called Maurice.
I was like what the fuck?

Speaker 1 (38:13):
I usually just kind of tell them immediately so they
feel like so you know, Ithought it's like nah, dog, I'm
six foot two, that other nigga'sfive, four.
Do you correct them or you justlet them every time?
Yeah, yeah, every time everytime oh no, I've seen it where

(38:34):
some niggas just eat it.
Hey, kevin, you're like that's,that's me no, I'm only ever
confused for dominique.

Speaker 4 (38:45):
Oh, my best friend.
Yeah, that's it.
They didn't stop doing that.
Don't play my girl down likethat.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
Don't play her.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
That's a little easier, you'll be okay, let me
tell you something real quick.

Speaker 4 (38:54):
You'll be thinking you'll be jabbing me and make a
little joke.
My sister will eat your ass upabout.
My sister will eat your ass upabout jabbing on me.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
Okay that's fine, she's supposed to.
She's supposed to.

Speaker 4 (39:04):
She don't even let my mama talk to me like that.

Speaker 3 (39:06):
That's fine, I'm on her side.

Speaker 4 (39:08):
Listen, I'm on her side, listen.
But yeah, it's usually theelderly people in my family, so
I just disrespectful.

Speaker 3 (39:15):
Yeah, don't say it.
No, no, no, correct ass everytime they ain't blind.

Speaker 4 (39:19):
No, my granny know who you are with your eye, with
your eyes closed, she, she canhear your voice and tell who it
is.
But all the other elderlypeople, they, and then don't
help that my word, my name,started with a d.
My mama name started with a d.
My sister name, sir.
So they, they confused as fuckby their names.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
Yeah, I was like this sound like one of them,
situations where it's like Goddamn it.
You know which one I'm talkingabout.

Speaker 4 (39:41):
But there's been times in my stepdad's family
where they'd be like remember.
I met you and they didn't.
Oh Ace, oh Ace, yeah Get overhere.
There's been times in mystepdad's family where they'd be
like, remember I met you andthey didn't meet me.
They met Domin.
Most of the time I just be likeyeah, I remember.
I hate that you were right,because when I already told you
no and then you be like, yes,you did, and then second, yes,

(40:02):
you did, I don't feel likefucking arguing no more.
So yeah, I remember.

Speaker 3 (40:04):
But every time they say, do you remember the day?
Always pointing back to a timewhen you was like six.

Speaker 4 (40:09):
Yeah, exactly Like what the fuck.

Speaker 3 (40:14):
and they both named Sergeant Z, but they call him
the boy and the girl.
They used to call them right,but they had to stop because my
nephew was calling his sisterthe girl, the girl, the girl.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
That's like the Bill Cosby joke.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
I hate that Bill Cosby wrote that joke.
Such a good joke.
The Jesus Christ oh but don'tsay it.
Yeah, you don't want tohighlight that, nigga.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
I'm not going to play with you.
Oh, my God.
Okay, what is something thatyou have done or said in your
life that'll get your black cardrevoked?

Speaker 1 (41:03):
I've said it on this podcast and I think I had it
revoked by a white person forthis.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
Oh, my goodness.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
And they weren't wrong.
No, it's the the, the biggie,small shit.
When I thought um, big papa wassaying david copper, so why
would you?
Uh they, uh, they said what'dyou say?
I was like, yeah, I mean, they,I think they tried to take my

(41:34):
black card and I was like Idon't know if that's allowed,
but you might be right, youmight be right.
That's what I thought.
I don't know why.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
I love it when you call me.

Speaker 3 (41:47):
David Copper, don't ever repeat that nigga.
I don't know about your answer.
I think the only thing you do,all the nigga shit, the only
thing I can say, because I don'tknow about your answer.
I think the only thing we knowyou do, you do all the nigga
shit.
Yeah, you know, like the onlything I can say, because I don't
eat, I don't eat okra, I don'teat okra.

Speaker 1 (42:03):
I got a list.
That's a pass, though.

Speaker 3 (42:05):
A lot of people don't eat okra but I don't eat okra
because I was forced to eat itas a kid a lot.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
I just feel like if you look from the, the revoking,
to the most nigga shit you cansay at the same time, it's
amazing.
I just feel like if you eatokra.

Speaker 3 (42:27):
I feel like if you eat okra, you swallow.

Speaker 4 (42:29):
So well, man, why you gotta take it to that I should
be able to eat okra.
Damn, I'm not like slurping theokra, I'm just eating it.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
Who?

Speaker 4 (42:38):
you ever seen and that didn't get no pause god
damn.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
Oh, you're right, it should have paused does it sound
like that when you put these upon us?

Speaker 1 (42:51):
not sometimes.
When you do it right, that'swhen you do it right.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
I wonder, when the fans watch this and and I'm just
sitting here like do they wantto help me?
Do y'all want to save me?

Speaker 3 (43:04):
no we don't Jesus.
Mcfly you ever time you getblack card taken no you ain't
never done.
No white shit you never had nochurches okra.
No, hey man, my dad did all thetime.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
No, you ain't never done no worship.
You ain't never had no churchesokra no, hey man.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
My dad did all the time.
Why?

Speaker 1 (43:22):
is that Old niggas love okra yeah?

Speaker 2 (43:25):
He used to eat okra all the time for churches.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
My mom would go to churches at two in the morning,
yeah, and I could tell you therewas specific churches.
I found churches out here.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
University yeah.

Speaker 2 (43:42):
In Idaho university.
Yeah, and I don't know how.
Yeah, it's still there.
Kfc didn't even last.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
Right, the motherfucking church is still
there yeah, that's like when Iused to watch my grandma eat
buttermilk and um cornbreadwherever he ain't like you
making mush, like you eat mush.
Yeah, break out the liver,liver, work from hog egg cheese.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
My childhood was too traumatizing for anyone to take
my black eye.
I can say the whitest shit inthe world and I was like nigga,
you still can't take my blackheart you see that childhood
system of a down concert ornothing no, but if I did go to
one nigga, still not touching myblack heart, because I that
shit I mean I'm a nigga throughand through, but but I'm like.
Take a try.

Speaker 1 (44:18):
There's certain things where you're like hey,
nigga, that wasn't too.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
You're going to mistake me for Matt Vega.

Speaker 1 (44:23):
That wasn't too niggardly.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
I was like what, I was like that shit.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Skydiving.

Speaker 4 (44:31):
Yes, I don't do none of the nigga shit.
I don't know how to play spades.
I don't know how to play Spades.
I don't know how to playDomino's.
I don't know how to play nocard games, not even Uno.
I don't like both soul food.

Speaker 3 (44:41):
You can't play Uno when you— how can you not play
Uno?
Match colors.

Speaker 4 (44:44):
I'm not fixing to play Uno.
I don't like— you don't likeUno.
I don't like a good amount ofsoul food.
I eat some of it, but I'm not.
I'm damn sure I put no fuckingbuttermilk in, no goddamn
cornbread.
I'm not fucking doing that.
I'm not.
Finna eat um, I don't.
I don't like a lot of it, andso there's that and is this a

(45:06):
specific saying food can getyour black heart taken.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
I mean, I would guess , I would guess, you know, I
would guess so culturallyspeaking, I like a lot of white
music.

Speaker 4 (45:14):
Whole bunch of it, okay, whole bunch of it.
Um, go to a maroon five concert, probably before I'd go to a
chris brown concert.
Y'all know I want to see chrisbut, I love maroon.
Five like I that's because adamknew nigga shit.
Love maroon.
They songs are just poppinglike I love them in the street
and in the streets.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
Yeah, he does a lot of nigga shit I love him he got,
yeah, he probably he isprobably stronger than mine, so
I don't know my.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
My siblings tell me I'm whitewashed, so you got a
not dominique, though she don'ttalk to me like that, because
that's because she loves me Igot a beige.
Not that the other ones don'tthey do, but they'd be picking
on me, my especially my youngestbrother.
He tells me I'm white all thetime, so that's because that's
what brother's supposed to do.
He do extreme nigga shit, sothat that's probably why he
probably out nigga everybody.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
Yeah, you probably love him.
He out nigga everybody.
Are you still consistentlytrying to watch the Boondocks,
or have you stopped?

Speaker 4 (46:04):
I haven't had an opportunity, but I am still
going to watch the entire, likeeverything that's on HBO Max.

Speaker 2 (46:11):
What'd you think of what you've seen so far?

Speaker 4 (46:12):
I actually liked it and I actually I'm glad you
brought that up because Iactually regret not giving it a
chance first of all, that's thepart.

Speaker 3 (46:19):
First of all.
Have you got to the the niggamoment episode?

Speaker 4 (46:22):
no, and I and I.
There's another one that theywere somebody suggested.
I watched and I had somethingto do with a rapper and I can't
remember what it was delicious,yes, something.
I was gonna say, somethinggangsta licious or something
that I was that it was suggestedthat I watched that one too so
I plan on watching it, but um,that's your episode that's the
best one.
Yeah, that's what.
That's what I was told.

(46:42):
That's like literally what Iwas told.
If you don't watch nothing else, watch the gangsta delicious
one.
So I intend on doing that.
Once I get through it all, Iwill let you know.
But, um, I still.
I still didn't watch the joe,but no, I'm working on it.
Um, I'm working.
My, I don't Joe Biden.
I'm working on it.
I don't like him, so I'mworking myself up to it.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
It's about the content.

Speaker 4 (47:04):
I know, but I just don't like a lot of shit.
No one likes shit.
I don't like roots.
I'm not watching none of thatshit Because as much as I really
, as much as I like, really do,like, want to always talk about,
like black cultural things,I'll get to watching that shit

(47:26):
and be mad at all the whitepeople for the rest of the month
.

Speaker 2 (47:29):
So I don't know, you didn't feel that way about after
centers.

Speaker 4 (47:33):
No, I didn't no, because you know what no.

Speaker 3 (47:36):
I don't know how I felt after I watched Sinners.

Speaker 4 (47:39):
I didn't feel like anything towards anybody, though
Anything towards any whitepeople or anything like that
after watching Sinners Look atour fucking administration, so I
just Nothing's worse than thatright now.

Speaker 3 (47:59):
There's certain stuff I'm going to watch, because if
I watch Mississippi right now,I'm slapping the first white
person I see.

Speaker 4 (48:04):
Period.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
So there's certain things I just I kind of feel
like you do it anyway.

Speaker 4 (48:08):
I just can't, I just can't watch.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
I mean not if it's Amanda.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
I'm not going to hit you no.

Speaker 4 (48:18):
You're jail if you just go start slapping white
people.
Yeah, you're going to under thejail.
They're going to put you underthe jail.
It's a lot of things I don't dothat I guess are culturally
appropriate, okay.

Speaker 3 (48:26):
What's the next question?

Speaker 4 (48:29):
We are almost to the end, y'all.

Speaker 3 (48:31):
Yay.

Speaker 4 (48:33):
What's the worst job you ever had and how long did it
last?

Speaker 3 (48:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
Two weeks, two weeks.

Speaker 2 (48:39):
Two months, and where Bakers that's you better than
me, that's.

Speaker 1 (48:43):
Moe likes to say you better than me.
I think the worst job I had.
I don't even know the company.
It was a temp agency.
Niggas had me in a warehouse,was it bad?
Yeah, summer, and I was acustodian.

Speaker 3 (48:59):
It's a temp agency.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
Niggas had me in like a warehouse Like oh, it was bad
, yeah, oh, summer, and I was acustodian too, hot, hot.
So Baker's was worse thancustodian.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
I left that day at lunch.
Never came back First day.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
I saw a dude do that at UPS.
My uncle got said hey, I'll beright.
Right.
He went on break and never cameback.
They're like where is so-and-soat?

Speaker 1 (49:21):
went on break, never came back.
Kmart, that's nasty I worked ata kmart too I quit a job with
me and my dad me and my dad quittogether like at orientation.
That's bonding like we weresitting there and he's like man,
I ain't doing this shit, I quita job with me and my dad, me
and my dad quit together Atorientation.
That's bonding.
We were sitting there and hewas like man, I ain't doing this

(49:42):
shit.
And I was like well, I mean, wecame together, I'm getting out
of here.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
I always have smoke.
With Kmart, I bought some shoesonline and they gave me a size
12 and a size 9 oh, that'shilarious.

Speaker 4 (50:03):
You couldn't just see that the hell happening out
where else?

Speaker 1 (50:07):
oh, that's crazy how long did you last?

Speaker 3 (50:10):
I think I worked like 3 months.
I hated it and I worked atRobbins and May and I prefer
that over Kmart why is that?

Speaker 1 (50:22):
was Robinson May bad?

Speaker 3 (50:24):
no, it was chill I wasn't doing shit and then when
I left I was supposed to beseasoned.
When I left I was like, oh,we're gonna, we're gonna promote
you.
I said I'm out.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
I got a job at UPS that's the reason why I left the
custodian job.
I wasn't doing shit and I waslike I'm out.
I got a job at UPS.
That's the reason why I leftthe custodian job.
I wasn't doing shit and I waslike they're going to fire me
soon.
I need to go ahead and walkaway.
They're going to catch you.

Speaker 3 (50:48):
I was folding like 10 shirts a shift.
Oh hell Damn.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
I was bad.

Speaker 3 (50:54):
I want people to come ask me questions.
I just start talking to them,walking around, like, yeah,
maybe this, maybe this, Likethat's not even part of my job.
Man, I'm helping you shop I,just so I don't have to go fold
shit Like I'm lying to you.
Yeah, I look good.
Yeah, sure, Like I'm I.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
Yeah, yes, I'm trying to think, because I've had jobs
where, like, bad things happenon the job but it just wasn't
like an overall, a bad job, Iguess, maybe, maybe Target, damn
, you still got your vest.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
Huh, oh, you trying to steal that, herge.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
You said what Still got your vest?
No, we didn't have no vest.
We wore a red shirt and 10pants.
We didn't have no vest.
We wore a red shirt and a tanpants.
And the only reason why I sayTarget is because I cut my
finger in a meat slicer in thereand that was like horrible.
But I then I sued and then I,it wasn't even that bad to me,

(51:51):
number one.
So I got my check.
That's some nigga shit.
Baby, I'll sue you.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
If you ask what the fuck I will do which target was
this the one on Nathan damnain't gonna get no ain't gonna
get no meat, then that was thefirst thought in my mind too.
Ain't this a?

Speaker 4 (52:10):
I'm not even gonna lie to you.
Well, the meat slicer that Icharged, that I cut my finger on
, it's not there, no more.
They took it out with hazmatand I think, from what I was
told, they have like a wholetraining on how not to cut your
fucking fingers off in the meatslicer because of you because of
me, but I definitely could.
I mean, I think the wholeexperience was the problem.
First of all, I cut my fingerto meat slicer because I worked
in bakery.
But I told they asked I didn'tknow how to work that damn meat

(52:31):
slicer and they told me Iwouldn't be the team player if I
didn't clean that damn slicer.
I was cleaning the slicer, thebitch cut on.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Oh wow.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
So it cut me.
I didn't even know I was cutuntil I started fucking bleeding
every damn where.
Then the ambulance came.
It took them forever to bringtheir ass out the damn ambulance
.
My mama sorry mom, my mama wasin her bedtime clothes so she
got a little muumuu on nofucking bra running through
Target, titties swinging everygoddamn where.
So when I came to work, allanybody remember was my mama's

(53:00):
titties was swinging everygoddamn where.
The man comes out from the damnfucking fire department, he
finer than a motherfucker.
I'm trying to have somebodyshow him my goddamn picture of
what I look like when I'm nothysterically fucking crying
because he's fine as shit.
Then they had to put stitcheson my finger.
I had to go work in the back.
It was just ridiculous.
Then they had to put stitcheson my finger.
I had to go work in the back.
It was just ridiculous.
Then they got me working backhere, the nigga.
They got me working back here,he big time stealing.

(53:23):
So they watching me and him I.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
It was the whole experience you should do a whole
tiktok.

Speaker 4 (53:29):
I need to he's stealing.
Now he's stealing, and let metell you something his stealing
was like superb he having hismom you should stop, you should
stop let's get your limitationshe

Speaker 3 (53:40):
already you know what I'm saying like, no, like I'm
in, like, like a big plot.
If this was a TikTok, I'm in.

Speaker 4 (53:45):
I'm in cause.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
I'm like I'm invested , put that shit on TikTok okay.
I'm trying to hear how he stolecause.

Speaker 4 (53:51):
I wanna steal the rest TikTok soon.
But yeah, definitely it wasgreat.
That's my answer.

Speaker 1 (53:58):
That's funny, that's good.
Yeah, that would make me notwant to slice my finger off.
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (54:05):
I'm cool, I don't want to slice my finger.
I hope we never got no lunchmeeting.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
Did I say what?

Speaker 4 (54:12):
Yeah, you said Kmart, did I say why, though?
No, you didn't say why oh them,niggas lied to me.
What.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
They lied to me too.

Speaker 3 (54:21):
Yeah, I'm supposed to get two 12s.
Oh, they said that all I wouldbe doing is stalking, and I did
everything but stalk.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
Oh, so fuck that.

Speaker 3 (54:27):
I didn't want to deal with people.

Speaker 4 (54:28):
Oh no.

Speaker 3 (54:31):
No, Motherfuckers put me in.
I was a cashier and had meabout soil and at this time.
I didn't have the house.
I didn't know.
Yeah, that's good, I used itall the time.
I'm just lying to niggas yeah,hey, fuck it they come back.

Speaker 2 (54:45):
Hey, that one guy that got me to buy this shit.
Where is he at he?

Speaker 3 (54:50):
quit.
And when I quit I I caught offfor two weeks and I said, yeah,
I ain't come back yeah, I quit I.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
I caught off for two weeks and I said yeah, I ain't
come back.

Speaker 4 (54:59):
Yeah yeah, I quit.
I got good quiz stories too,because yeah oh yeah, I just
remember.

Speaker 3 (55:04):
I remember, okay, remember, remember, and I used
to, when you got your grants, uh, for college, how, like he had
any overage, they would give youthe money.
So I remember, like it wasyesterday, I got it.
I remember they had pissed meoff because I was like I didn't
have to go and garden again.
The next day I got a check inthe mail for a grant.
I said, oh nigga, I'm not goingto work, that's it I got.

(55:26):
I got that.
I never went back.

Speaker 4 (55:28):
So shout out to the my check for the lawsuit.
I quit on walkie-talkie andTarget Candace, my check done,
hit.
I'm going to have my mama comeback up here and bring me to get
to come with you after work.
Nigga, I quit.
I wouldn't have quit though.
I quit on walkie-.
Well, I had to quit anyway,because part of the stipulations
was I wasn't going to beworking there, no way.

(55:49):
So I quit.
No, fire me.
I want that unemployment.
You're not going to fire me nomy last job.
I didn't need it and I wasmoving out of state anyway.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
I didn't give him no two weeks.

Speaker 4 (56:00):
Yeah, I didn't need it I didn't need it.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
What's the next one?
I just left.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Just left.
I just I called that day and Isaid yeah, I'm not coming back.

Speaker 4 (56:12):
She was like today forever I quit, I quit.
No, they fired me out ofWalmart.
When they fired me out ofWalmart, I was sitting in the
back on the chirp with my mamatalking shit.
So you hear, and the bitch donefired me.
And it's the same bitch whonigga be stealing the TV off the
back of my mama.

(56:32):
And what you say to the bitchnext it's ridiculous, it was on
chirp.
Wow.
And what you say to the bitchnext, it's ridiculous, it was on
chirp so we got time for onemore one more.
We got one more where you, atgetting fired, bitch um.
The next one is uh, what's yourguilty pleasure or habit?
And um, oh, that you have.
And then do you have anyintention on breaking it?

Speaker 3 (56:54):
no, I can't I can't answer this question um never.
Why not mcfly?

Speaker 2 (57:06):
at a time I was ambidextrous, but I'm not, no
more so I don't know, you justgot it, just got it.

Speaker 3 (57:17):
I don't know if y'all listening right now.
Turn your YouTube on.
Look at Dez's face.
I just I can't answer thequestion.
Kev go ahead.
I don't wanna go home.

Speaker 1 (57:30):
I'm trying to think of something I'm willing to
divulge, cause niggas look at melike I'm out of my mind already
um these niggas?

Speaker 4 (57:37):
it's my no, just kidding.
Um what are you?

Speaker 3 (57:40):
I can't answer mine because I'm not gonna stop all
right, a guilty pleasure that Iintend on.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
Ah, I don't want to admit this speak your, living
your truth.
It's my truth, though it's oneof those where you're like nigga
.

Speaker 3 (57:59):
That's weird nigga living your truth that's weird.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
What's a weird thing?

Speaker 4 (58:04):
I'm willing to it's show questions.

Speaker 1 (58:06):
I know, but it's like I thought about this for a
while.
I don't, yeah, and I'm likethat shit is one thing I could
think of, but I'm like, nah, Idon't want y'all to come talking
to me living your truth.
Don't come talk to me.
It's like a weird obsession.

Speaker 4 (58:23):
We're not for the judge you, you are.
I am 100%.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
With little people.
Nah, that's 100%.

Speaker 2 (58:32):
But is it little?
Anyway, it has to do with toes.

Speaker 4 (58:35):
Oh, my God Okay.

Speaker 1 (58:39):
Are they?

Speaker 2 (58:39):
manicured.
Do you smell them?

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Something like that you suck them this nigga sucking
toes.
That's fine.

Speaker 3 (58:49):
You put hot sauce on them.

Speaker 2 (58:50):
Do you put your fingers through them and smell
it?

Speaker 1 (58:53):
I like to do my little toe jam thing.

Speaker 2 (58:56):
Nigga you eating your toe jam.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
I don't eat it, I go at the end of the day and then I
get in the shower, go ahead.
Ooh, that's funky, and then Ishower.

Speaker 3 (59:05):
Go ahead, wrap this shit up, all right, you said you
wasn't going to judge me.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
I'm not and I want to break it.

Speaker 4 (59:11):
I don't know how.
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Speaker 2 (59:22):
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Ain't nobody else answering the questions?
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Speaker 3 (59:35):
Until next time, y'all Peace.

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