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May 6, 2025 16 mins

  🎙️ Episode 22: Magazine Moments – Judgy Pants
When picture-perfect organizing advice gets real pushy, Julie & Janis push back.  

💡 Episode Summary: 

In this laugh-out-loud episode, Julie & Janis don their sassiest slippers and strut straight into a pile of pushy organizing articles—yes, the kind that give you “5 steps to perfection” but leave you with 5 new piles of guilt. They break down a real article with 9 supposed “secrets” to decluttering and point out the shamey, judgy language that trips up real people with real lives. 

Whether you’ve ever been told you “just need to be disciplined” or felt like your clutter was a moral failure, this episode is the spicy shot of validation you need. With puns, practical advice, and a few well-placed eye rolls, our favorite fairy godmothers of decluttering help you toss out the shame and keep what actually works.  

⏱️ Timestamps & Highlights: 

  • 00:01:00 – Welcome & Wobble: Julie and Janis kick off with a giggle and share the origin of the episode title.
  • 00:05:22 – Judgy Pants Appear: Breakdown begins of a “9 Secrets to Decluttering” article—and the red flags start waving.
  • 00:11:40 – Guilt Traps & Perfection Pressure: Why “you just have to be ruthless” is terrible advice.
  • 00:20:15 – DOOM Box Sidebar: A surprise side tangent on how real people deal with emotional clutter.
  • 00:28:30 – Alternative Advice: Julie & Janis offer realistic reframes for toxic tips like “don’t think, just toss.”
  • 00:35:55 – Playing the Shame Game: The duo takes down the phrase “you only need 20 minutes a day”—and why it’s not one-size-fits-all.
  • 00:44:10 – Real People, Real Lives: Honoring different life stages, neurodiversity, and energy levels.
  • 00:51:05 – Empowered Over Perfect: Tips for listening to your own voice instead of pushy Pinterest posts.
  • 01:00:00 – Wrap-Up & Affirmations: Closing with compassion, a dose of humor, and your weekly permission slip to declutter your way.


🧽 What You’ll Learn:
 

  • Why some organizing advice is secretly shaming you—and how to spot it.
  • How to tell the difference between helpful tips and guilt-inducing nonsense.
  • The importance of honoring your personal pace, energy, and life circumstances.
  • How to reframe “should” statements into kind, realistic choices.

 
 
🔗 Links & Resources:

📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@abcdeclutterwithjj 

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abcdeclutterwithjj/ 

📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/abcdecluttercommunity 

🖥️ Website: https://www.abcdeclutter.com/ 

🎙️ Podcast Website: https://www.thejjsdeclutterpodcast.com/ 

🖥️Email: hello@abcdeclutter.com 

 
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Keep it Simple, Keep it Intentional, and - as always - Keep Decluttering!!

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