In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common dating misstep: talking about sex too soon. Dr. Dabach shares his insights on why men should avoid bringing up sex early in the dating process and instead focus on building a genuine connection. Highlighting the pressures and negative repercussions that premature sex talk can bring, he emphasizes the importance of respecting a woman's pace and understanding her values and interests.
Dr. Dabach also provides practical advice on how to navigate conversations about physical attraction and intimacy respectfully. He discusses the nuances of different dating scenarios, from casual hookups to serious relationships, and underscores the importance of tact and empathy. By listening more and talking less, men can foster deeper connections and create a more comfortable and respectful dating environment.
Memorable Quotes:
- "All women know you want sex. So you don't have to bring it up for them to know that you're interested sexually."
- "No one wants to hear about your fantasies over appetizers. It puts a lot of pressure on women and makes them feel objectified."
- "Focus on connection, right? Most women, when they're dating, want to feel like they have a potential partner or that there's an emotional connection."
- "Respect her pace. Most women have different paces from each other. Everything is acceptable because it's their body and their rules."
- "Let the woman talk about herself. Show that you're interested, show that you want to engage with who she is. Listen more than you talk."
- "If you're feeling rejected, loop it into the physicality. Ask what their timeline is like, ask if there's something they're waiting for before they are open to being physically intimate."
- "Make it about us and not about me when talking about physical connection in a relationship that's new."
- "Learn to embrace talking about it in those unique situations with care and consideration and compassion."
Keyword List:
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