If you’ve ever said, “I just want to find a decent woman,” or blamed your exes for being narcissists, this episode is for you.
Today we’re unpacking one of the biggest blind spots men face in dating and relationships…
👉 Why your results with women have less to do with them - and everything to do with you.
Because here’s the truth:
You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are.
Whether you're trying to fix a broken relationship or find a new one, the issue is the same.
Reading books, hitting the gym, doing therapy... none of it matters if your energy is still stuck in blame, control, and frustration.
In this episode:
✅ Why “non-negotiables” might be hiding your insecurity
✅ The trap of entitlement and control
✅ Why attraction is about energy, not effort
✅ The 3XC Formula for becoming the kind of man great women gravitate to
✅ How to lead your life so the right woman becomes the bonus—not the foundation
This is real talk for men who are done complaining and ready to take responsibility, take action, and take the lead.
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