Most men were never taught how to give a woman real pleasure. This episode changes that.
Jonnie is joined by Dr. Steve Bodansky - author of Extended Massive Orgasm. An incredible game changing book that Jonnie picked up 20 years ago. It contains secrets that every women wishes her man knew.
Steve has an amazing story of how the book came around and how he became one of the few people in the world with a doctorate in female sensuality.
Together they explore how to actually touch and lead a woman into deeper pleasure, why sex often breaks down in long-term relationships, and how to restore trust, intimacy, and connection.
You’ll learn why clitoral stimulation matters more than you think, how to touch for your own pleasure, and why skill - not chemistry - is what keeps the fire alive.
Whether sex has become a struggle, a silence, or something you’ve just accepted isn’t working - this episode gives you the tools to lead again.
🧠 Key Takeaways:
- Orgasms are a skill - not a mystery. You can train for this.
- The clitoris isn’t complicated. Most men just haven’t been taught.
- Intimacy starts before the bedroom. Emotional safety unlocks surrender.
- Touch for your own pleasure. It changes everything.
- Extended orgasms are real. And more possible than you think.
- Rebuilding connection is possible - even after years of disconnection.
🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 – Would You Like Her Begging You for More Sex?
09:40 – Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Long-Term Relationships
15:12 – Female Orgasm Is a Trainable State, Not a Goal
24:01 – The Real Role of Clitoral Stimulation
33:46 – How Playfulness Rebuilds Sexual Connection
🔗 Links & Resources:
- 💥 Steve’s Website: https://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com
- 📖 Book: Extended Massive Orgasm by Steve & Vera Bodansky https://amzn.to/3UYT20g
- 📩 Contact: stevebodansky@gmail.com
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