From million-dollar mistakes to leading one of America’s largest law firms, this episode with Tim Lupinacci is a masterclass in practical leadership, influence, and everyday impact. Damon sits down with Tim to explore the core ideas from Tim’s widely praised book, Everybody Leads, and to unpack what real-world leadership looks like for professionals at every level—not just those with fancy titles or corner offices. Tim’s candid stories (including being called an “idiot” by a mentor), hard-won lessons, and actionable tools lay out a blueprint for how anyone can own their career, build their influence, and create resilient, thriving teams.
With honesty and vulnerability, Tim details his journey from “stumbling into law school” to becoming CEO and Chairman of Baker Donaldson. Along the way, the conversation dives into imposter syndrome, self-mastery, consistency, the power of curiosity, and why influence beats formal authority every time. From cascading vision across thousands to practical daily habits, you’ll leave this episode fired up to lead with more intention—wherever you are.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How Tim’s early career mistake became the spark for a lifetime of leadership growth
- Powerful ways to redefine leadership as influence and everyday impact—not just hierarchy
- Why vulnerability and curiosity are Tim’s go-to habits for self-leadership (and how he builds these muscles)
- Simple, repeatable tips for daily self-mastery and growth—even with a packed schedule
- The four traits that decades of research show the best leaders have in common
- How to cascade organizational purpose and vision from the top down (and bottom up)
- What “leadership aroma” means—and why every interaction counts
- Tim’s view on using storytelling, gratitude, and encouragement to build culture and drive team buy-in
- Real strategies for handling imposter syndrome, setbacks, and owning your impact at work
Timestamps:
00:00 – Tim’s definition of leadership: influence and impact
00:51 – Tim’s million-dollar mistake and Bob’s tough mentorship
04:46 – How Tim handles mistakes as CEO (and builds resilience)
06:48 – Tim’s journey to CEO: building teams and pouring into others
09:06 – Imposter syndrome and the “soundtracks” in your head
13:00 – Leadership transparency, feedback, and culture
17:35 – What does it mean to be a leader? (Everyday influence)
21:09 – The role of curiosity in personal leadership
23:43 – Quick tips to build daily curiosity
26:35 – Tim’s daily disciplines for self-mastery
29:24 – Four most-admired leadership traits—what research says works
31:44 – How to find your North Star values as a leader
33:57 – AI, vision, and strategic planning for the future
38:12 – Cascading vision and purpose across a huge organization
41:14 – Leadership aroma: why every interaction matters
43:31 – Modeling behavior—why leaders are “always on stage”
44:59 – A few words can change careers: examples of encouragement
47:44 – Giving life vs. taking it: our responsibility as leaders
49:29 – Churchill’s dinner table diplomacy (and building authentic connections)
51:40 – What Tim learned as a podcast host (curiosity in action)
53:09 – One more tip for team leadership: don’t take yourself too seriously (have fun!)
54:52 – Tim’s legacy: practical encouragement for everyday leaders
56:12 – Where to connect with Tim and Everybody Leads nonprofit
About Tim Lupinacci
Tim Lupinacci is Chairman and CEO of Baker...
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