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April 22, 2025 55 mins

Have you ever felt trapped in a relationship that was slowly draining your spirit? In this episode of the Life Shift podcast, I sit down with Jenn Todling, a former corporate executive turned author and coach, who shares her courageous journey of escaping a toxic marriage and rediscovering herself.

Jenn takes us through her early years as a young bride, navigating the complexities of caring for a chronically ill spouse while trying to maintain a demanding career. She recounts the pivotal moment when a single question in a book sparked a realization that would change the course of her life forever.

From Guilt to Growth: Breaking Free from a Toxic Relationship

  • How Jenn's people-pleasing nature kept her trapped in an unhealthy situation
  • The power of therapy in untangling the web of guilt and shame
  • Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care in the face of adversity

Rediscovering Joy and Purpose

  • Jenn's journey of self-discovery through travel, dance, and new experiences
  • The importance of trusting your intuition and honoring your needs
  • How embracing vulnerability led to a fulfilling new chapter in life and love

Turning Pain into Purpose: Sharing Your Story

  • Jenn's decision to write a memoir and the healing power of storytelling
  • The unexpected insights gained through the writing and editing process
  • How sharing our authentic experiences can inspire and empower others

As you listen to this episode, consider:

  • What limiting beliefs or guilt might be holding you back from living your best life?
  • How can you start honoring your own needs and intuition in your relationships?
  • In what ways might sharing your own story help others feel less alone?

This conversation will remind you that it's never too late to reclaim your life and find happiness on your own terms. Jenn's journey is a testament to the power of self-reflection, courage, and the impact of embracing our authentic selves.

To connect with Jenn Todling and learn more about her work, visit her website at www.jenntodling.com. You can also follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn @jenntodling, and subscribe to her newsletter "Soul Spark with Jenn Todling" for weekly insights and updates - https://jenntodling.substack.com/.

Order Jenn's Book – Dancing On My Own Two Feet – https://www.amazon.com/Dancing-My-Own-Two-Feet/dp/1647428785

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