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May 31, 2024 83 mins

Explore the often misunderstood world of narcissism with guest therapist Shannon Petrovich on The Light Inside. Discover the signs of narcissistic abuse, the impact of toxic relationship patterns, and strategies for healing. 


Gain insights on navigating the fine line between love and manipulation in narcissistic relationships. 


Key Topics of Discussion:


Toxic Behaviors in Narcissistic Relationships


  • Love bombing, gaslighting, and devaluing are toxic behaviors commonly seen in narcissistic relationships. 
  • Love bombing involves overwhelming a partner with excessive affection and praise to manipulate and control them. 
  • It is crucial to recognize that love bombing is a manipulative tactic, not genuine love. 
  • Gaslighting manipulates a partner's perception of reality by denying their experiences, leading to confusion and self-doubt. 
  • Devaluing undermines a partner's self-worth through criticism and belittlement, aiming to exert power and control.


We explore why healing from narcissistic relationships involves healthy ego development, rebuilding a sense of self, setting boundaries, and prioritizingconscious-care. Understanding the difference between healthy esteem and narcissism is crucial.


Tune in to uncover the truth behind these complex dynamics and find a path to healing.


Timestamps:


[00:00:23] What does narcissism really mean?

[00:06:20] Narcissistic partner dynamics.

[00:09:39] Toxicity in relationships.

[00:15:18] Trauma bonding in relationships.

[00:19:20] Love Bombing and Healthy Boundaries

[00:22:22] Trauma bonds and relationships.

[00:25:40] Gut instinct vs. intuition.

[00:29:27] Narcissistic manipulation tactics.

[00:33:43] Narcissistic behavior warning signs.

[00:39:11] Self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships.

[00:42:06] Rebuilding sense of self.

[00:46:47] Embracing stillness and nature.

[00:50:35] Narcissism and self-esteem discussion.

[00:56:14] Embracing richness of emotions.

[00:58:25] Emotional Intelligence and Narcissism.

[01:03:00] Setting boundaries for safety.

[01:08:05] The fog of abuse.

[01:10:30] Rebuilding sense of self.

[01:15:01] Gaslighting and its origins.

[01:19:15] Narcissistic traits in our culture.

[01:23:06] The thin gray arc of complexity.


Featured Guest: 

Shannon Petrovich

 

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Credits:


Music Score: Epidemic Sound


Executive Producer: Jeffrey Besecker

Mixing, Engineering, Production and Mastering: Aloft Media

Executive Program Director: Anna Getz


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