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February 13, 2025 120 mins

In this episode of The Light Watkins Show, Light sits down with men's dating coach and evolutionary psychology enthusiast, Michael Sartain. If you've ever been curious about the modern dating landscape, the rise of the "manosphere," and the often controversial conversations around attraction, hypergamy, and relationship dynamics, this episode is packed with insights.

Michael breaks down the realities of dating based on data, not just opinion. He dives into the misconceptions men and women have about attraction, the role of evolutionary psychology, and why so many people are disillusioned with modern dating. He shares his own "red pill" moment working in a strip club, the lessons he learned about female attraction, and how his time in the military shaped his perspective on leadership and relationships.

This conversation is raw, unfiltered, and loaded with eye-opening takeaways—whether you agree or disagree with the red pill ideology. Light keeps an open mind while exploring Michael’s viewpoints, from the dating myths that keep people stuck to the surprising effects of social media on attraction and commitment.

Expect a deep dive into:

  • The harsh truths about modern dating and why men struggle
  • The difference between what people say vs. what they do in relationships
  • Why leadership and personal development are game-changers for men
  • How social media and dating apps have skewed expectations for both men and women
  • The impact of birth control on attraction
  • The misconceptions about the manosphere, red pill, and hypergamy

If you're looking for a data-driven, no-nonsense take on relationships and attraction, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you rethink what you know about dating.

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