In this powerful episode of The Mindful Womb Podcast, I sit down with certified nurse midwife, childbirth educator, and founder of Lila, Caitlyn Schollmeier. Together, we unpack how birthing people can reclaim their power and create a deeply meaningful, autonomous, and empowering birth experience.
We explore:
- How to shift away from fear-based narratives and embrace birth as a rite of passage
- What it means to create an intentional birth space—even in a hospital
- How clothing choices (like labor gowns) affect psychological safety and confidence
- Breathwork, vocalization, and birth affirmations as tools for releasing fear
- Finding balance between making empowered choices and surrendering to the process
- Why trusting your instincts doesn’t mean ignoring helpful tools
Caitlyn also shares her personal VBAC journey and the birth of Lila—a labor gown company focused on comfort, identity, and reclaiming autonomy in the birth space.
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Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. Consult with a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice.
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