Let’s get real, love, if you're feeling like you’ve got one foot in the school pickup line and the other in your business dashboard, running on caffeine, guilt, and sheer willpower... this episode is your wake-up call.
In this raw and honest convo, I unpack what’s really behind your exhaustion , being the default everything. The default parent. The default CEO. The default human who’s “got it all handled.”
Spoiler alert: That sh*t’s not sustainable.
Here’s the deal , when you’re the go-to for everyone and everything, you're not just draining your energy. You're drowning your brilliance, diluting your leadership, and delaying your dreams.
But I’ve got you. We’re rewriting that script. Together. 🧡
In this episode, we dive into:
✔ What being the “default” actually costs you (mentally, emotionally, and energetically)
✔ How decision fatigue sabotages your genius , and what to do about it
✔ The sneaky way we mom our team members (yep, I did it too 🙋♀️)
✔ Why your environment is more powerful than your mindset , and how to shift both
✔ Real talk on boundaries: how to set them, hold them, and survive the feelings that follow
✔ Practical tools to start disrupting the “default” role in your home and biz , without burning bridges or setting fire to your to-do list
What you’ll walk away with:
💡 The exact framework I use to identify and eliminate “default zones” in life and business
💡 A fresh perspective on motherhood, leadership, and being the CEO of your whole life
💡 Permission to stop being the martyr , and start being the visionary
💡 The courage to create a family and business culture where everyone steps up
Because love, this isn’t just about burnout , it’s about ownership.
It’s about building a business that doesn’t need you to be the rescuer, fixer, and emotional shock absorber 24/7.
It’s about raising kids who don’t need you to find their damn shoes.
It’s about reclaiming the energy to show up as the leader, mother, and woman you were always meant to be. ✨
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Ready to stop defaulting and start designing your business and life with intention?
You’re one decision away from doing less, earning more, and feeling lighter and it starts with a single conversation.
🌟 Inside the Done By 3 Club, you'll learn how to work a day less every week in just 40 days without dropping the ball or burning out.
Because you don’t need more hustle you need a better strategy and a solid support system.
🧭 Let’s find your off switch. Let’s build your version of success. Let’s stop doing it all alone.
💬 Ready to see if it’s the right fit? Book your free call now and let’s map it out together. No pressure. Just clarity.
Until next time… stay Moxie.
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