Breaking Free From Archaic Marriage Dynamics Regarding Money

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In this week’s episode of The Music of Life, I reflect on a powerful conversation I had with a fellow divorced friend about archaic marriages and the evolving dynamics of relationships. From financial control in my own marriage to navigating solitude post-divorce, I share some deeply personal experiences that shaped my views on marriage, independence, and the importance of protecting oneself financially.

If you've ever felt like marriage was an outdated concept or questioned why people still tie the knot without thinking it through, this episode will speak to you. I open up about how I took charge of our finances, my surprising investment journey, and why a solid prenup is non-negotiable for me moving forward.

 

Episode Highlights:

[0:24] - Chatting with a friend about archaic marriages and reflecting on generational dynamics.

[1:30] - Taking over household finances and managing bill payments.

[2:36] - Enjoying independence and the benefits of solitude post-divorce.

[3:43] - The shift from control to personal responsibility in handling money.

[5:14] - Growing a $3,000 investment to $76,000 and what it taught me.

[6:32] - Suspecting financial manipulation involving child support during the divorce.

[8:04] - Insights from a NYC divorce attorney on the rising divorce rate.

[9:19] - Societal pressures to marry and how they shape relationship decisions.

[11:26] - The absolute necessity of a prenup and setting financial boundaries.

[12:56] - Reflecting on the control dynamics and why I'd never repeat those mistakes.

 

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