July 20, 2024 • 39 mins
Ever wondered why traditional manifestation techniques sometimes hit a wall? Join me, Debb Cobb, as I unravel my journey from a struggling single mom to a thriving online entrepreneur, with a deep dive into shadow work. By confronting the darker aspects of our psyche, we can bring unconscious fears and insecurities to light and overcome them. This episode promises to guide you through the transformative "dark night of the soul" and help you align with your true self for a more fulfilling life.
We go beyond the typical manifestation advice, exploring how merely controlling thoughts isn't the ultimate key. Instead, by recognizing that we are the observers of our thoughts and emotions, we can embody love, abundance, and peace, naturally attracting these qualities into our lives. Drawing wisdom from the Bible and insights from thought leaders like Deepak Chopra and Michael Singer, we emphasize awakening to your true animating energy rather than getting caught up in superficial techniques.
True abundance isn’t about material wealth but about consciousness and self-worth. Sharing my personal experiences, I highlight the dangers of manifesting from a place of ego and attachment, which often leads to perpetual dissatisfaction. By embodying positive qualities and letting go of societal expectations, you can manifest a life of genuine abundance and freedom. Join me as we reinterpret age-old stories like Adam and Eve to uncover deeper truths about consciousness and self-awareness.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
If 2024 hasn't exactly turned out the way that
you envisioned that it would, orthe ways in which you used to
manifest or sell in yourbusiness have just stopped
working.
You're not alone.
This episode is for you.
Stay tuned.
Welcome to the Mystery Schoolof Manifestation, where we
cannot stop talking about theconnection between all things,
physical and metaphysical, andthe magic of manifestation.
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My name is Deb Cobb and I'mobsessed with teaching you how
to be in the world, but not ofthe world, so you can
consciously co-create a life andbusiness that defies the odds,
regardless of what you'vecreated up to this point.
I'm just a small town girl fromrural Indiana who started my
spiritual journey as a poor,single mom, once high school
dropout, barely able to makeends meet, but through my
connection with the superconscious, I've been able to
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build a successful onlinebusiness from the ground up,
without following the rules orsleazy sales tactics.
I was even able to send mydaughter to the Ivy Leagues.
Now our story is raw andunfiltered, and I'm more than a
little controversial, so bewarned if you're easily offended
or have children in the roomwhile you listen.
That said, if you're ready tostep fully into your version of
heaven on earth.
While you can still enjoy it inthe physical buckle up, grab
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your tissues and your journaland let's get started.
Welcome to this episode of theMystery School of Manifestation.
I am so honored that youdecided to join us today.
Now for the next severalepisodes.
I'm going to be diving deeperinto the dark side of
manifestation, and what I meanby that isn't necessarily what
you might think.
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When I'm speaking about dark,I'm speaking about the shadow.
You may have heard of shadowwork, and, contrary to popular
belief, shadow work isn't aboutglorifying in the underbelly of
things that society does notaccept.
It is not about coming from theego.
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It is about shining light onthe things that you are not
currently aware of, that areholding you back.
These are doubts, fears,insecurities, memories that you
have repressed or your brain hasessentially protected you from,
because you were not ready todeal with those quite yet.
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And I will be telling youseveral stories that are raw,
unfiltered and may trigger somepeople, and so I want to lead
with a disclaimer who the nextseveral podcast episodes are for
?
These episodes are for those ofyou who are feeling like
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something is missing, but youcan't quite put your finger on
it.
There's something that feelslike it's out of alignment,
whether that is showing up inyour life, in the physical
things that have stopped workingthe way that they used to.
Sales have stopped coming in inyour business, the feeling of
not being fulfilled.
The things that used to makeyou feel joy aren't making you
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feel that anymore.
This is for those of you whoare seeking more, who want to go
a bit deeper, into thespiritual side, into the inner
work.
What I'm going to be sharingwith you can be controversial.
These are my opinions, theseare my understandings and this
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is my experience.
That is all I can teach fromright now.
I'm not a licensed anything.
I'm not a licensed mentalhealth professional.
I will be speaking about my ownchallenges and triumphs with
mental health.
So all of that to say, pleaseuse your discernment.
If you're feeling triggered oryou find yourself arguing right
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with what I'm saying, if it'snot resonating, then perhaps
this episode isn't for you.
So, all of that said, I'm goingto be speaking about the dark
night of the soul.
That is a time when you arefeeling uncertain, lost, a
crisis of faith.
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But what Carl Jung would say isthat which we do not bring into
consciousness controls us, andthat is what diving into the
shadow is all about.
It's about freeing yourselffrom things that are holding you
back.
Now I want to speak about whatmanifestation is and what it is
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not, what the spiritual art ofsales is and what it is not,
because they're very intimatelyconnected, and then I'm going to
be telling you the story ofthis year.
For me, and essentially forlack of a better way to say it
2024 has been a shit show, andit is the exact opposite of
where I thought I would be.
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Right now, given that I startedthis journey back in January, I
set out to manifest my versionof heaven on earth reality and
mistakenly thought that I hadalready gone through hell, but,
as is so often the case in mylife, the universe laughed right
.
You think you've gone throughhell?
Well, you just hang on, becausewe're about to show you what
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that actually means.
If you are in it right now, itcan end just as quickly as it
began, and the entire purpose ofthe next few episodes is to
help guide you through thatprocess, to feeling in alignment
with who you really are, withfeeling the sense of peace that
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surpasses all understanding, toshow you who you truly are, so
that you can avoid going throughthe shit show.
And I'm also going to be takingoff my mask.
I'm going to be sharing thingswith you that I have never
spoken about publicly.
Many people in my own familydon't know, so all I have to say
I want to read a quick poem toremind myself and give myself
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the courage to share thesethings with you.
And something that has helpedme through many dark times and
to be authentic is to reallytruly open yourself up and allow
for unconditional love to comethrough.
Right, because if you're notbeing authentic, if you're not
being yourself warts and all, asthe quote goes, then you cannot
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receive unconditional love.
Okay, and so this poem iscalled, not in Vain, by Emily
Dickinson If I can stop oneheart from breaking, I shall not
live in vain.
If I can ease one life, theaching or cool one pain, or help
one fainting robin unto hisnest again, I shall not live in
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vain.
And so it is with that spiritthat I will begin.
So what manifestation is and isnot?
Oftentimes, when people thinkof manifestation, they think of
the law of attraction, theythink of more woo practices,
right, and there's no judgmenthere, for lack of a better way
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to describe it.
I don't love calling somethingwoo because it has a negative
connotation to it, but, again,for lack of a better way to
explain it, oftentimes peoplethink of these practices that
they poo-poo at right.
That is wishful thinking,that's delusional thinking, and
I'm here to tell you everythingis delusional thinking from one
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perspective or another.
Right, it depends on whereyou're standing.
So all of that to say myperspective and how I teach
manifestation is the completeopposite of the way that it is
traditionally understood ortaught.
It's who you are being, whichis exactly how I have taught
sales for the past eight years.
This is exactly why my clientsand students see the results
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that they do, because we're nottrying to fake strategy.
We're not trying to memorizesales tactics.
I teach the strategy right.
However, it's about going withinand doing the inner work,
because when you do the innerwork to heal those things that
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are holding you back, then thethings that are holding you back
dissolve right.
And so when I work withsomebody, when I coach someone
in sales, we are alwaysaddressing what is going on
beneath the surface and, in oneway or another, there is always
a worthiness wound that comes up, some form of I am not good
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enough, right?
Some form of self-judgment orsome form of fear that is
holding them back.
And so if it were about justthe words that we're using, if
it were about just the thingsthat we're doing, then the same
strategy would work for everyone, right?
And it doesn't.
We know that.
And so it is about going withinand doing the spiritual work.
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Now, when I say spiritual, Iwant to explain what I mean
Energy that animates.
For lack of the time and energyand expertise to really go and
describe and explain all of thisfrom a more technical
standpoint.
Technical standpointessentially, our consciousness,
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in my belief, is electricity, ora form of energy that is
conscious of itself.
It is not limited to thephysical structure in which it
resides, and it is also notthoughts and emotions.
Okay, so this is reallyimportant to understand, because
so often people think thatmanifestation is controlling
their thoughts or controllingtheir emotions in order to get
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something that they think thatthey need or want, and there's
nothing wrong with focusing onchanging our thoughts or
emotions.
I think that that's reallyimportant.
However, those are very shallowforms of manifestation and I
don't say that from a place ofjudgment.
It's just like anything else.
Right, when you're learning toswim, you typically don't just
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go dive into the deep end, youdon't just go jump into the lake
or the ocean.
Right, you've got to startsomewhere, and starting
somewhere may mean working onthose things.
But if your traditional ways ofmanifesting or selling have
stopped working, it's becauseit's time to go deeper.
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And that's what this is allabout.
That's what the Mystery Schoolof Manifestation is all about.
It's about understanding thatyou are something beyond your
thoughts and your emotions.
So if you're manifesting fromthe mind, you are going in and
you're trying to change yourthoughts to align with abundance
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, and that can be a verydifficult thing to do.
It can work and it will work inthe beginning.
But again, just like anythingelse, let's say you're working
out.
When you begin working out,you're going to get rapid
results because you haven'tworked out for a long time.
But there's going to come apoint where you're going to
plateau and then the little,tiniest, little pivots are going
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to be the only things that aregoing to make a difference,
because you don't need to do thebasic movements anymore.
You've already mastered those.
So manifesting from your mindand trying to control your
thoughts is working on thesymptoms or the external things,
and it's not going to provideyou with fulfillment or
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consistency.
Okay, now.
Next is manifesting from thebody right, or the heart that is
manifesting from a place of.
I need to control my emotionsin order to attract something
that aligns with those emotionsright, in order to attract
something that aligns with thoseemotions right.
Oftentimes, the pitfall of thismethod is that you can blame
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yourself and take on guilt andshame and judgment, or you can
repress the very things that, ifyou face them and heal them,
will set you free.
That is the fastest way tospiritual bypassing and that is
just avoiding the lesson that iscoming up, so that you can step
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more fully into who you trulyare, which is not your thoughts,
because and I'll disagree withthe famous philosopher Descartes
I think.
Therefore, I am, but if you canthink about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts.
Therefore, I am, but if you canthink about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts, andthere's a fantastic book,
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michael Singer wrote about this.
If you're wanting to divedeeper into that concept, the
Untethered Soul, I highlyrecommend it.
But that said, for now, if youcan think about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts, and ifyou can feel or think about
your emotions.
You are not your emotions,right, you are the observer of
these things.
Now, I'm not going to try andanswer the question of who that
observer is.
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I'll just say it is the I am.
That's why it's so powerfulwhat you say after I am, and
diving into manifesting spirit,which I speak about a lot and
teach about a lot, versusmanifesting stuff.
Manifesting spirit is aboutawakening to be in the world,
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but not of the world.
This is about embodiment.
Manifestation, if you look itup in the dictionary, is
literally the embodiment of anabstract principle or theory.
When you embody the principleof love, abundance, joy, peace,
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you will attract those things.
You will not have to force, youwill not have to work hard on
the external.
The work is within, okay.
The work is going within andawakening to the fact that you
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are the energy that animatesyour body.
Your body is a temple.
Right, and I will be speakingabout things that I have, up to
today, been hesitant to speakabout because, to be quite frank
, I was terrified that thechurch, the Vatican, was going
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to come for me, because thesethings are going to somewhat
contradict what is being taught.
And again, please use yourdiscernment.
I'm not here to tell you whatto believe.
I am not your authority, youare right.
That said, I will be teachingabout the more spiritual
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understanding that I have ofmany teachings that are
understood in a different way inthe masses, right?
So all that to say, your bodyis a temple.
It is basically a house forspirit, the animating energy
that lives inside of you, andthis is very important to really
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truly get, because, just likeanything else, you can move in
and out of a house.
Right, and that is where I'mafraid that some people are
going to come for me.
Am I saying that you can bepossessed?
Yes, yes, I am, but not in thesame way that was understood
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several hundred years ago, andI'm not about bringing
pitchforks and living in fear,okay.
However, I think it's very,very important to recognize that
you are energy, spirit,conscious of itself, and you, if
you are not awake and aware,you can become a slave to your
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thoughts or your emotions if youmistakenly over-identify with
them, and if you do that, thenyou are controlled by these
things that you are not, whichis a concept that Deepak Chopra
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speaks about in the Book ofSecrets, and I love the way that
he explains it, your brain isessentially the prison prisoner
and prison guard at the sametime.
It is the slightest shift inperspective that will set you
free, and it's very simple.
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So, again, I'm going to speakabout several teachings from the
Bible and Christ ministry, theway that I understand them, and
this may trigger some people,but it is what it is.
So when Jesus spoke about whowe are and what we are capable
of doing, he would often saythat we are capable of working
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miracles in the same way that heis are capable of working
miracles in the same way that heis or he was.
He also said that you cannotworship two masters.
The way that I understand thatis you cannot worship or give
your power to the physical.
You can only give your power toone thing at a time.
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Okay, so giving your power tothe physical looks like thinking
that you need to change yourthoughts or your emotions in
order to attract so all of that.
To say this is about knowing whoyou are and aligning with
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embodying the energy that youwish to be.
The only way that we can dothat is to come into contact
with things that are going toshake us right at our core.
That's the dark night of thesoul.
So I alluded to my life being ashit show in 2024.
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And again, I had mistakenlythought, okay, I've been through
hell.
Right, I have been through manylifetimes of traumatic events
in this life and had things fallapart and had to rebuild, and I
thought, okay, I've done it,I've made it.
Now I'm going to teach it and Iam going to co-create my
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version of heaven on earthreality.
But what I didn't allow myselfto remember probably because I
wouldn't have had the courage todo it is that we have to
surrender and let go of thingsthat we think that we need and
or want in order to freeourselves from being controlled
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by those things.
So if you're manifesting fromego right, from attachment, you
are giving your power toexternal things, and those
things we know don't make ushappy.
It will put you on a hamsterwheel of manifestation, of
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continuously thinking if I havethis thing, if I get this thing,
then I'll be happy.
I have this thing, if I getthis thing, then I'll be happy.
But, as I've alluded to andspoken about in previous
episodes, one of the highestrates of suicide is among the
most affluent group of people.
Now why is that?
They seem to have the things.
They should be happy.
But it doesn't matter how muchyou have.
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Abundance isn't about the numberin your bank account.
As a matter of fact, my mostmaterially abundant, my best
month in business ever, I madethe same amount in one month
that I had the entire year whenI was working in advertising and
I was miserable.
I was miserable, I was workingall the time, I was a hot mess
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and I was still in such apoverty consciousness that when
I went to see Alethea, I tookher to New York.
This was right before shestarted at Columbia.
When I took her there we weremoving in I felt like I needed
to rent the most inexpensiveAirbnb that I could.
Even though I had literallymultiple, five figures, many
multiple five figures in my bankaccount, I still rented the
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most inexpensive Airbnb in oneof the roughest neighborhoods
and it was terrifying.
And I thought to myself severalyears later why would I do that
?
Right, because it's about thelevel of consciousness that I
was at.
Okay, so consciousness is veryimportant.
It is actually, I believe, themost important thing with regard
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to creating a life and businessand career and relationship
that we love it is.
Who are we being, not whatwe're doing and not what we're
thinking and not what we'refeeling.
That matters more than anythingelse.
We cannot fake energy, right?
You cannot fake that.
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We have evolved too far as aspecies to be deceived by energy
, that it is, or someone who'staking right that energy.
We know it, we can sense it.
We may choose to ignore ourintuition, right, but unless you
are a sociopath, right, youcannot fake it either.
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I know there's this whole ideaabout faking it till we make it,
and I understand that to acertain degree.
However, why not not fake itand still make it?
Why not take off your mask andbe vulnerable and show up as
yourself, so that you can signalto your subconscious thoughts
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and your emotions that you areenough as you are?
Which brings me to the nextpoint, and that is you cannot
manifest something that youthink will make you good enough.
So I spoke about the worthinesswound earlier and how that
comes up.
So I speak about, again, salesas a spiritual journey,
entrepreneurship as a spiritualjourney, because I have watched
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it bring out.
Every inner demon that you haveis going to come to the surface
, every doubt, fear andinsecurity about whether or not
you are good enough is going tocome to the surface.
Every doubt, fear andinsecurity about whether or not
you are good enough is going tocome up somewhere along the
journey of sales.
That said, if you are trying toconvince yourself that you're
good enough, you are tellingyour subconscious that there's a
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possibility that you are notgood enough.
Worthiness is a human construct,and this is where I have been
somewhat hesitant to share mybeliefs and understandings about
the story of Adam and Eve,because it directly contradicts
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what is commonly taught outthere, but I think it is
incredibly important.
So it's not whether or not youbelieve that that actually
happened in reality.
It's the moral of this story,right?
Jesus spoke in parables.
So there are different levelsof understanding, different
levels of consciousness, and weall evolve in our consciousness,
right?
All that to say, if we're in adifferent place, we're going to
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understand something differently, right?
Think about going to a school,right, that you went to when you
were a kid, and how differentand how much bigger it seemed
when you were a kid because ofwhere you were at as far as your
size.
Similar thing here with regardsto consciousness, okay, so it
is often taught that theoriginal sin happened right when
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Eve was tempted by the serpentto eat of the apple, and then
she brought the apple to Adamand then they fell from grace
because they disobeyed God.
Right, that's one way to readthe story.
Right, that's one way to readthe story.
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I took a class in religiousstudies and I had a problem with
this story because I could notunderstand why it was okay to
punish Adam and Eve for eatingof the tree of good and evil if
they did not have knowledge ofgood and evil.
Right, have knowledge of goodand evil.
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Right.
Now I understand that we ashuman beings may not always
understand things outside of ourlevel of understanding.
That said, it is something thatdoesn't make sense.
If you think about yourchildren, right?
If they don't have anunderstanding of something and
you punish them for it, it's notreally fair.
And here's where it can becomefair.
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So I wrote a whole paper aboutthis.
If you read the story moreclosely, you will see that it
was Adam and Eve's judgment ofthemselves that caused them to
be cast out of the garden.
They were able to stay in thegarden until God returned and
saw that they had eaten of thetree of the knowledge of good
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and evil, because they werehiding that which they thought
made them unworthy.
Nothing else had changed.
They were the same before theyate of the tree and after they
ate of the tree, except fortheir level of consciousness.
And so, if you read the story,the gods decided that they could
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not live forever, and so theyblocked them from the tree of
life so that they wouldn't liveforever.
My understanding of that storyis that if we live forever in
judgment of ourselves, we willcontinue to work hard, toil,
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fight for limited resources, andall of it could be eradicated
if we stopped judging ourselvesand others.
We have the power to do that.
When we stop judging ourselvesand others, then we are able to
be fully present.
I fully believe that if wequote unquote fix the worthiness
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wound, we could eradicate allof our problems as a society in
one generation, and then wecould actually focus our time
and energy on solving biggerproblems.
Right?
But instead we fight over whatwe think are limited resources
and we judge others as thebetter, more worthy or less
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worthy than ourselves.
If I go to someone and I askthem for something that they
don't have, literally let's saythat I go to my neighbor and I
ask them to borrow a cup ofsugar, and they don't have the
cup of sugar, and they apologizeand say I don't have that.
I don't freak out and get angryat my neighbor.
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Don't freak out and get angryat my neighbor, right?
I don't expect him to be ableto magically create a cup of
sugar for me.
And yet we do this to eachother all the time.
We expect someone else to beable to give us what they do not
have, and that is how we areable to really let go of judging
.
That is what forgive them,father, for they know not what
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they do means right, because ifthey are at a certain level of
consciousness where they arejudging themselves, where they
are over-identifying with theirthoughts or their emotions, then
they are not showing up as whothey truly are.
They are essentially a prisonerto their own thoughts and
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emotions as well.
And so when we recognize thatsomeone cannot give us what they
do not have, then we are ableto stop taking it personally and
forgive them.
Now, what does all this have todo with manifestation, right?
What does it have to do withthe sales process?
That is how we are able toembody the principles of love,
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joy, peace, patience, kindness,goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control.
Those are the fruits of thespirit.
That is how you are able, as atemple, as a home to spirit,
that is how you are able todiscern what spirit you are
allowing to reside within yourtemple.
Okay, going back to you cannotworship two masters, right?
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So do you want to allow thespirit of love and abundance to
reside within your temple orwill you choose fear?
This is the work, this is thespiritual work.
This is also the thing thatshall set you free, because it's
so very simple.
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Am I embodying that which Iseek to have more of?
Seek to have more of?
This is going to require thedark night of the soul, a crisis
of faith, right?
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So everything is essentially achoice between fear and faith,
and one of my favorite songs isCar Radio by 21 Pilots.
They speak about this.
If you need some inspiration,go listen to that song.
All of that to say everything isessentially a choice.
And if you are choosing toalign with fear, right, you are
going to allow the physicalthings to control you.
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If you are choosing to alignwith abundance, then you're
going to have to do severalthings.
You are going to have to makechoices that everyone around you
is going to align withabundance.
Then you're going to have to doseveral things.
You are going to have to makechoices that everyone around you
is going to say are risky,irresponsible, right, because
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they go against the societalteachings of you must save all
this money, have the 401k, havethe Roth IRA, like all these
things.
You have to have all of thesethings in order to be happy,
successful, stable.
All the things right.
If you want to live inalignment with abundance, it is
knowing that no person, place orthing is the source of your
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abundance.
That's freedom.
That is the lesson that I facedwhen I decided earlier this
year that I was going tomanifest my version of heaven on
earth reality.
It was an okay, are you sure?
Because you are going to haveto face the fears that are still
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in your shadow, that you arenot aware of.
I had to surrender and let goof the things that I thought
made me who I was.
I had to face hell, literally,and I'll tell you that story in
the next episode.
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It is a longer story and itgoes a bit deeper into the
closets that I have.
That said, it's really aboutfreedom and sovereignty.
When you are free, you are ableto fully be present and enjoy
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the things that you do have.
Seek ye first the kingdom ofGod, and all these things shall
be added unto you.
That's what that means, and Ialready knew this intellectually
right.
I wasn't aware that I wasn'tfully embodying that truth.
I also knew that the kingdom ofheaven is through the eyes of a
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child.
The way I read that is.
It's about imagination andnon-judgment, because that's
what children are.
They're free.
Because that's what childrenare, they're free.
They're free from judgment ofthemselves and they also believe
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in magic, in miracles, in theirhappily ever after.
But something happens when wereach puberty.
We start worrying more aboutwhat other people think of us
and we start judging ourselvesas unworthy.
And we begin to forget what itfelt like to be free, what it
felt like to believe in ourdreams, and we started listening
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to the rules of the world.
And that is the fall from grace.
And the only way back is torelease judgment of ourselves
and others.
So, moral of the story if youwant to shift where you are
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right now, if you want toattract more things that feel
abundant to you, then you mustembody abundance.
And if you're feeling afraid ofletting go, if you're feeling
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sad, depressed, angry, themiracle is a shift in your heart
.
It's a change of heart, it's ashift in perspective.
It can happen as quickly as anoptical illusion can transform
right in front of you.
If you stand in front of anoptical illusion and you stay
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where you're at and you keepthinking I wish it would change,
and you keep trying to changehow you think about it and
change how you feel about it,it's not going to change because
you're in the same perspectiveas you were.
It's the slightest shift, it isthe slightest elevation in
frequency.
That is what transformseverything.
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It's also recognizing how muchyour projections on others, the
meaning of the stories that youcreate about others, how
powerful those are as well.
That's another concept andstory for another episode.
All of that to say.
Well, that's another conceptand story for another episode.
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All of that to say.
If you are feeling fear, it canbe as simple as asking right.
Ask and ye shall receive.
It's a prayer.
And for those of you who havebeen triggered or traumatized by
religious dogma or doctrine, Ifeel you, I feel your pain, and
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I will be explaining more aboutthat when I tell my story in the
next episode.
All of that to say ask.
You can use the word God, youcan use the word Allah, jehovah,
elohim, universe.
Fill in the blanks withwhatever resonates with you most
, in the blanks with whateverresonates with you most.
Ask that thing that you think ofwhen you think of divine.
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And if you don't believe in anyof that, that's also okay,
because you can ask love.
If you are feeling likeresistance around that, then
your heart is hard, and I'vebeen there as well.
Ask for that to be softened.
Ask for a sign, ask for asynchronicity to show you that
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you are not alone.
You're never alone.
You are never alone andeverything and I mean everything
, I mean everything in your lifecan transform in an instant.
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A miracle needs a storm right.
A rainbow needs the rain.
Okay, ask.
And the way I would ask if youare curious is, I would say
Spirit of love and light, pleaseconnect to me and move through
me and show me what it is that Ineed to see to align with my
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highest self.
Please show me that I am notalone.
Please show me my divinity.
Please give me hope.
Please help me to see what itis that I need to see to return
to love.
Amen, All right.
So that is today's episode.
As always, please feel free tosend me any messages, any
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questions, anything that youwould like to share.
You can email us directly athello, goodbye at dubcobcom.
That's H-E-L-L-O-G-O-O-D-B-Y-Eat dubcobcom and, as you will
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I've never offered before atinvestment levels that I have
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That said, if you're interestedin that, please listen to the
end of the show.
I will be telling you a bit more.
Otherwise, I'm sending you allof my love and please remember
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that you are indeed a spiritualbeing having a physical
experience.
You are infinitely loved andsupported by the entire cosmos
to collapsing timelines andco-creating your version of
happily ever after, no matterwhat, because the odds may be
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stacked against you, but you arein luck.
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Said 2024 was a shit show,let's just be completely honest
and I took off three months.
Now it's time to put the pedalto the metal.
So I have created three newways to work together at a
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All right.
Thank you again for listeningand I hope to hear from you soon
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.
Bye-bye.
If 2024 hasn't exactly turned out the way that
you envisioned that it would, orthe ways in which you used to
manifest or sell in yourbusiness have just stopped
working.
You're not alone.
This episode is for you.
Stay tuned.
Welcome to the Mystery Schoolof Manifestation, where we
cannot stop talking about theconnection between all things,
physical and metaphysical, andthe magic of manifestation.
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My name is Deb Cobb and I'mobsessed with teaching you how
to be in the world, but not ofthe world, so you can
consciously co-create a life andbusiness that defies the odds,
regardless of what you'vecreated up to this point.
I'm just a small town girl fromrural Indiana who started my
spiritual journey as a poor,single mom, once high school
dropout, barely able to makeends meet, but through my
connection with the superconscious, I've been able to
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build a successful onlinebusiness from the ground up,
without following the rules orsleazy sales tactics.
I was even able to send mydaughter to the Ivy Leagues.
Now our story is raw andunfiltered, and I'm more than a
little controversial, so bewarned if you're easily offended
or have children in the roomwhile you listen.
That said, if you're ready tostep fully into your version of
heaven on earth.
While you can still enjoy it inthe physical buckle up, grab
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your tissues and your journaland let's get started.
Welcome to this episode of theMystery School of Manifestation.
I am so honored that youdecided to join us today.
Now for the next severalepisodes.
I'm going to be diving deeperinto the dark side of
manifestation, and what I meanby that isn't necessarily what
you might think.
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When I'm speaking about dark,I'm speaking about the shadow.
You may have heard of shadowwork, and, contrary to popular
belief, shadow work isn't aboutglorifying in the underbelly of
things that society does notaccept.
It is not about coming from theego.
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It is about shining light onthe things that you are not
currently aware of, that areholding you back.
These are doubts, fears,insecurities, memories that you
have repressed or your brain hasessentially protected you from,
because you were not ready todeal with those quite yet.
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And I will be telling youseveral stories that are raw,
unfiltered and may trigger somepeople, and so I want to lead
with a disclaimer who the nextseveral podcast episodes are for
?
These episodes are for those ofyou who are feeling like
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something is missing, but youcan't quite put your finger on
it.
There's something that feelslike it's out of alignment,
whether that is showing up inyour life, in the physical
things that have stopped workingthe way that they used to.
Sales have stopped coming in inyour business, the feeling of
not being fulfilled.
The things that used to makeyou feel joy aren't making you
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feel that anymore.
This is for those of you whoare seeking more, who want to go
a bit deeper, into thespiritual side, into the inner
work.
What I'm going to be sharingwith you can be controversial.
These are my opinions, theseare my understandings and this
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is my experience.
That is all I can teach fromright now.
I'm not a licensed anything.
I'm not a licensed mentalhealth professional.
I will be speaking about my ownchallenges and triumphs with
mental health.
So all of that to say, pleaseuse your discernment.
If you're feeling triggered oryou find yourself arguing right
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with what I'm saying, if it'snot resonating, then perhaps
this episode isn't for you.
So, all of that said, I'm goingto be speaking about the dark
night of the soul.
That is a time when you arefeeling uncertain, lost, a
crisis of faith.
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But what Carl Jung would say isthat which we do not bring into
consciousness controls us, andthat is what diving into the
shadow is all about.
It's about freeing yourselffrom things that are holding you
back.
Now I want to speak about whatmanifestation is and what it is
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not, what the spiritual art ofsales is and what it is not,
because they're very intimatelyconnected, and then I'm going to
be telling you the story ofthis year.
For me, and essentially forlack of a better way to say it
2024 has been a shit show, andit is the exact opposite of
where I thought I would be.
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Right now, given that I startedthis journey back in January, I
set out to manifest my versionof heaven on earth reality and
mistakenly thought that I hadalready gone through hell, but,
as is so often the case in mylife, the universe laughed right
.
You think you've gone throughhell?
Well, you just hang on, becausewe're about to show you what
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that actually means.
If you are in it right now, itcan end just as quickly as it
began, and the entire purpose ofthe next few episodes is to
help guide you through thatprocess, to feeling in alignment
with who you really are, withfeeling the sense of peace that
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surpasses all understanding, toshow you who you truly are, so
that you can avoid going throughthe shit show.
And I'm also going to be takingoff my mask.
I'm going to be sharing thingswith you that I have never
spoken about publicly.
Many people in my own familydon't know, so all I have to say
I want to read a quick poem toremind myself and give myself
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the courage to share thesethings with you.
And something that has helpedme through many dark times and
to be authentic is to reallytruly open yourself up and allow
for unconditional love to comethrough.
Right, because if you're notbeing authentic, if you're not
being yourself warts and all, asthe quote goes, then you cannot
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receive unconditional love.
Okay, and so this poem iscalled, not in Vain, by Emily
Dickinson If I can stop oneheart from breaking, I shall not
live in vain.
If I can ease one life, theaching or cool one pain, or help
one fainting robin unto hisnest again, I shall not live in
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vain.
And so it is with that spiritthat I will begin.
So what manifestation is and isnot?
Oftentimes, when people thinkof manifestation, they think of
the law of attraction, theythink of more woo practices,
right, and there's no judgmenthere, for lack of a better way
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to describe it.
I don't love calling somethingwoo because it has a negative
connotation to it, but, again,for lack of a better way to
explain it, oftentimes peoplethink of these practices that
they poo-poo at right.
That is wishful thinking,that's delusional thinking, and
I'm here to tell you everythingis delusional thinking from one
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perspective or another.
Right, it depends on whereyou're standing.
So all of that to say myperspective and how I teach
manifestation is the completeopposite of the way that it is
traditionally understood ortaught.
It's who you are being, whichis exactly how I have taught
sales for the past eight years.
This is exactly why my clientsand students see the results
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that they do, because we're nottrying to fake strategy.
We're not trying to memorizesales tactics.
I teach the strategy right.
However, it's about going withinand doing the inner work,
because when you do the innerwork to heal those things that
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are holding you back, then thethings that are holding you back
dissolve right.
And so when I work withsomebody, when I coach someone
in sales, we are alwaysaddressing what is going on
beneath the surface and, in oneway or another, there is always
a worthiness wound that comes up, some form of I am not good
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enough, right?
Some form of self-judgment orsome form of fear that is
holding them back.
And so if it were about justthe words that we're using, if
it were about just the thingsthat we're doing, then the same
strategy would work for everyone, right?
And it doesn't.
We know that.
And so it is about going withinand doing the spiritual work.
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Now, when I say spiritual, Iwant to explain what I mean
Energy that animates.
For lack of the time and energyand expertise to really go and
describe and explain all of thisfrom a more technical
standpoint.
Technical standpointessentially, our consciousness,
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in my belief, is electricity, ora form of energy that is
conscious of itself.
It is not limited to thephysical structure in which it
resides, and it is also notthoughts and emotions.
Okay, so this is reallyimportant to understand, because
so often people think thatmanifestation is controlling
their thoughts or controllingtheir emotions in order to get
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something that they think thatthey need or want, and there's
nothing wrong with focusing onchanging our thoughts or
emotions.
I think that that's reallyimportant.
However, those are very shallowforms of manifestation and I
don't say that from a place ofjudgment.
It's just like anything else.
Right, when you're learning toswim, you typically don't just
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go dive into the deep end, youdon't just go jump into the lake
or the ocean.
Right, you've got to startsomewhere, and starting
somewhere may mean working onthose things.
But if your traditional ways ofmanifesting or selling have
stopped working, it's becauseit's time to go deeper.
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And that's what this is allabout.
That's what the Mystery Schoolof Manifestation is all about.
It's about understanding thatyou are something beyond your
thoughts and your emotions.
So if you're manifesting fromthe mind, you are going in and
you're trying to change yourthoughts to align with abundance
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, and that can be a verydifficult thing to do.
It can work and it will work inthe beginning.
But again, just like anythingelse, let's say you're working
out.
When you begin working out,you're going to get rapid
results because you haven'tworked out for a long time.
But there's going to come apoint where you're going to
plateau and then the little,tiniest, little pivots are going
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to be the only things that aregoing to make a difference,
because you don't need to do thebasic movements anymore.
You've already mastered those.
So manifesting from your mindand trying to control your
thoughts is working on thesymptoms or the external things,
and it's not going to provideyou with fulfillment or
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consistency.
Okay, now.
Next is manifesting from thebody right, or the heart that is
manifesting from a place of.
I need to control my emotionsin order to attract something
that aligns with those emotionsright, in order to attract
something that aligns with thoseemotions right.
Oftentimes, the pitfall of thismethod is that you can blame
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yourself and take on guilt andshame and judgment, or you can
repress the very things that, ifyou face them and heal them,
will set you free.
That is the fastest way tospiritual bypassing and that is
just avoiding the lesson that iscoming up, so that you can step
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more fully into who you trulyare, which is not your thoughts,
because and I'll disagree withthe famous philosopher Descartes
I think.
Therefore, I am, but if you canthink about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts.
Therefore, I am, but if you canthink about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts, andthere's a fantastic book,
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michael Singer wrote about this.
If you're wanting to divedeeper into that concept, the
Untethered Soul, I highlyrecommend it.
But that said, for now, if youcan think about your thoughts,
you're not your thoughts, and ifyou can feel or think about
your emotions.
You are not your emotions,right, you are the observer of
these things.
Now, I'm not going to try andanswer the question of who that
observer is.
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I'll just say it is the I am.
That's why it's so powerfulwhat you say after I am, and
diving into manifesting spirit,which I speak about a lot and
teach about a lot, versusmanifesting stuff.
Manifesting spirit is aboutawakening to be in the world,
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but not of the world.
This is about embodiment.
Manifestation, if you look itup in the dictionary, is
literally the embodiment of anabstract principle or theory.
When you embody the principleof love, abundance, joy, peace,
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you will attract those things.
You will not have to force, youwill not have to work hard on
the external.
The work is within, okay.
The work is going within andawakening to the fact that you
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are the energy that animatesyour body.
Your body is a temple.
Right, and I will be speakingabout things that I have, up to
today, been hesitant to speakabout because, to be quite frank
, I was terrified that thechurch, the Vatican, was going
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to come for me, because thesethings are going to somewhat
contradict what is being taught.
And again, please use yourdiscernment.
I'm not here to tell you whatto believe.
I am not your authority, youare right.
That said, I will be teachingabout the more spiritual
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understanding that I have ofmany teachings that are
understood in a different way inthe masses, right?
So all that to say, your bodyis a temple.
It is basically a house forspirit, the animating energy
that lives inside of you, andthis is very important to really
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truly get, because, just likeanything else, you can move in
and out of a house.
Right, and that is where I'mafraid that some people are
going to come for me.
Am I saying that you can bepossessed?
Yes, yes, I am, but not in thesame way that was understood
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several hundred years ago, andI'm not about bringing
pitchforks and living in fear,okay.
However, I think it's very,very important to recognize that
you are energy, spirit,conscious of itself, and you, if
you are not awake and aware,you can become a slave to your
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thoughts or your emotions if youmistakenly over-identify with
them, and if you do that, thenyou are controlled by these
things that you are not, whichis a concept that Deepak Chopra
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speaks about in the Book ofSecrets, and I love the way that
he explains it, your brain isessentially the prison prisoner
and prison guard at the sametime.
It is the slightest shift inperspective that will set you
free, and it's very simple.
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So, again, I'm going to speakabout several teachings from the
Bible and Christ ministry, theway that I understand them, and
this may trigger some people,but it is what it is.
So when Jesus spoke about whowe are and what we are capable
of doing, he would often saythat we are capable of working
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miracles in the same way that heis are capable of working
miracles in the same way that heis or he was.
He also said that you cannotworship two masters.
The way that I understand thatis you cannot worship or give
your power to the physical.
You can only give your power toone thing at a time.
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Okay, so giving your power tothe physical looks like thinking
that you need to change yourthoughts or your emotions in
order to attract so all of that.
To say this is about knowing whoyou are and aligning with
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embodying the energy that youwish to be.
The only way that we can dothat is to come into contact
with things that are going toshake us right at our core.
That's the dark night of thesoul.
So I alluded to my life being ashit show in 2024.
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And again, I had mistakenlythought, okay, I've been through
hell.
Right, I have been through manylifetimes of traumatic events
in this life and had things fallapart and had to rebuild, and I
thought, okay, I've done it,I've made it.
Now I'm going to teach it and Iam going to co-create my
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version of heaven on earthreality.
But what I didn't allow myselfto remember probably because I
wouldn't have had the courage todo it is that we have to
surrender and let go of thingsthat we think that we need and
or want in order to freeourselves from being controlled
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by those things.
So if you're manifesting fromego right, from attachment, you
are giving your power toexternal things, and those
things we know don't make ushappy.
It will put you on a hamsterwheel of manifestation, of
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continuously thinking if I havethis thing, if I get this thing,
then I'll be happy.
I have this thing, if I getthis thing, then I'll be happy.
But, as I've alluded to andspoken about in previous
episodes, one of the highestrates of suicide is among the
most affluent group of people.
Now why is that?
They seem to have the things.
They should be happy.
But it doesn't matter how muchyou have.
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Abundance isn't about the numberin your bank account.
As a matter of fact, my mostmaterially abundant, my best
month in business ever, I madethe same amount in one month
that I had the entire year whenI was working in advertising and
I was miserable.
I was miserable, I was workingall the time, I was a hot mess
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and I was still in such apoverty consciousness that when
I went to see Alethea, I tookher to New York.
This was right before shestarted at Columbia.
When I took her there we weremoving in I felt like I needed
to rent the most inexpensiveAirbnb that I could.
Even though I had literallymultiple, five figures, many
multiple five figures in my bankaccount, I still rented the
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most inexpensive Airbnb in oneof the roughest neighborhoods
and it was terrifying.
And I thought to myself severalyears later why would I do that
?
Right, because it's about thelevel of consciousness that I
was at.
Okay, so consciousness is veryimportant.
It is actually, I believe, themost important thing with regard
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to creating a life and businessand career and relationship
that we love it is.
Who are we being, not whatwe're doing and not what we're
thinking and not what we'refeeling.
That matters more than anythingelse.
We cannot fake energy, right?
You cannot fake that.
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We have evolved too far as aspecies to be deceived by energy
, that it is, or someone who'staking right that energy.
We know it, we can sense it.
We may choose to ignore ourintuition, right, but unless you
are a sociopath, right, youcannot fake it either.
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I know there's this whole ideaabout faking it till we make it,
and I understand that to acertain degree.
However, why not not fake itand still make it?
Why not take off your mask andbe vulnerable and show up as
yourself, so that you can signalto your subconscious thoughts
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and your emotions that you areenough as you are?
Which brings me to the nextpoint, and that is you cannot
manifest something that youthink will make you good enough.
So I spoke about the worthinesswound earlier and how that
comes up.
So I speak about, again, salesas a spiritual journey,
entrepreneurship as a spiritualjourney, because I have watched
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it bring out.
Every inner demon that you haveis going to come to the surface
, every doubt, fear andinsecurity about whether or not
you are good enough is going tocome to the surface.
Every doubt, fear andinsecurity about whether or not
you are good enough is going tocome up somewhere along the
journey of sales.
That said, if you are trying toconvince yourself that you're
good enough, you are tellingyour subconscious that there's a
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possibility that you are notgood enough.
Worthiness is a human construct,and this is where I have been
somewhat hesitant to share mybeliefs and understandings about
the story of Adam and Eve,because it directly contradicts
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what is commonly taught outthere, but I think it is
incredibly important.
So it's not whether or not youbelieve that that actually
happened in reality.
It's the moral of this story,right?
Jesus spoke in parables.
So there are different levelsof understanding, different
levels of consciousness, and weall evolve in our consciousness,
right?
All that to say, if we're in adifferent place, we're going to
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understand something differently, right?
Think about going to a school,right, that you went to when you
were a kid, and how differentand how much bigger it seemed
when you were a kid because ofwhere you were at as far as your
size.
Similar thing here with regardsto consciousness, okay, so it
is often taught that theoriginal sin happened right when
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Eve was tempted by the serpentto eat of the apple, and then
she brought the apple to Adamand then they fell from grace
because they disobeyed God.
Right, that's one way to readthe story.
Right, that's one way to readthe story.
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I took a class in religiousstudies and I had a problem with
this story because I could notunderstand why it was okay to
punish Adam and Eve for eatingof the tree of good and evil if
they did not have knowledge ofgood and evil.
Right, have knowledge of goodand evil.
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Right.
Now I understand that we ashuman beings may not always
understand things outside of ourlevel of understanding.
That said, it is something thatdoesn't make sense.
If you think about yourchildren, right?
If they don't have anunderstanding of something and
you punish them for it, it's notreally fair.
And here's where it can becomefair.
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So I wrote a whole paper aboutthis.
If you read the story moreclosely, you will see that it
was Adam and Eve's judgment ofthemselves that caused them to
be cast out of the garden.
They were able to stay in thegarden until God returned and
saw that they had eaten of thetree of the knowledge of good
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and evil, because they werehiding that which they thought
made them unworthy.
Nothing else had changed.
They were the same before theyate of the tree and after they
ate of the tree, except fortheir level of consciousness.
And so, if you read the story,the gods decided that they could
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not live forever, and so theyblocked them from the tree of
life so that they wouldn't liveforever.
My understanding of that storyis that if we live forever in
judgment of ourselves, we willcontinue to work hard, toil,
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fight for limited resources, andall of it could be eradicated
if we stopped judging ourselvesand others.
We have the power to do that.
When we stop judging ourselvesand others, then we are able to
be fully present.
I fully believe that if wequote unquote fix the worthiness
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wound, we could eradicate allof our problems as a society in
one generation, and then wecould actually focus our time
and energy on solving biggerproblems.
Right?
But instead we fight over whatwe think are limited resources
and we judge others as thebetter, more worthy or less
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worthy than ourselves.
If I go to someone and I askthem for something that they
don't have, literally let's saythat I go to my neighbor and I
ask them to borrow a cup ofsugar, and they don't have the
cup of sugar, and they apologizeand say I don't have that.
I don't freak out and get angryat my neighbor.
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Don't freak out and get angryat my neighbor, right?
I don't expect him to be ableto magically create a cup of
sugar for me.
And yet we do this to eachother all the time.
We expect someone else to beable to give us what they do not
have, and that is how we areable to really let go of judging
.
That is what forgive them,father, for they know not what
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they do means right, because ifthey are at a certain level of
consciousness where they arejudging themselves, where they
are over-identifying with theirthoughts or their emotions, then
they are not showing up as whothey truly are.
They are essentially a prisonerto their own thoughts and
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emotions as well.
And so when we recognize thatsomeone cannot give us what they
do not have, then we are ableto stop taking it personally and
forgive them.
Now, what does all this have todo with manifestation, right?
What does it have to do withthe sales process?
That is how we are able toembody the principles of love,
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joy, peace, patience, kindness,goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control.
Those are the fruits of thespirit.
That is how you are able, as atemple, as a home to spirit,
that is how you are able todiscern what spirit you are
allowing to reside within yourtemple.
Okay, going back to you cannotworship two masters, right?
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So do you want to allow thespirit of love and abundance to
reside within your temple orwill you choose fear?
This is the work, this is thespiritual work.
This is also the thing thatshall set you free, because it's
so very simple.
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Am I embodying that which Iseek to have more of?
Seek to have more of?
This is going to require thedark night of the soul, a crisis
of faith, right?
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So everything is essentially achoice between fear and faith,
and one of my favorite songs isCar Radio by 21 Pilots.
They speak about this.
If you need some inspiration,go listen to that song.
All of that to say everything isessentially a choice.
And if you are choosing toalign with fear, right, you are
going to allow the physicalthings to control you.
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If you are choosing to alignwith abundance, then you're
going to have to do severalthings.
You are going to have to makechoices that everyone around you
is going to align withabundance.
Then you're going to have to doseveral things.
You are going to have to makechoices that everyone around you
is going to say are risky,irresponsible, right, because
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they go against the societalteachings of you must save all
this money, have the 401k, havethe Roth IRA, like all these
things.
You have to have all of thesethings in order to be happy,
successful, stable.
All the things right.
If you want to live inalignment with abundance, it is
knowing that no person, place orthing is the source of your
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abundance.
That's freedom.
That is the lesson that I facedwhen I decided earlier this
year that I was going tomanifest my version of heaven on
earth reality.
It was an okay, are you sure?
Because you are going to haveto face the fears that are still
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in your shadow, that you arenot aware of.
I had to surrender and let goof the things that I thought
made me who I was.
I had to face hell, literally,and I'll tell you that story in
the next episode.
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It is a longer story and itgoes a bit deeper into the
closets that I have.
That said, it's really aboutfreedom and sovereignty.
When you are free, you are ableto fully be present and enjoy
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the things that you do have.
Seek ye first the kingdom ofGod, and all these things shall
be added unto you.
That's what that means, and Ialready knew this intellectually
right.
I wasn't aware that I wasn'tfully embodying that truth.
I also knew that the kingdom ofheaven is through the eyes of a
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child.
The way I read that is.
It's about imagination andnon-judgment, because that's
what children are.
They're free.
Because that's what childrenare, they're free.
They're free from judgment ofthemselves and they also believe
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in magic, in miracles, in theirhappily ever after.
But something happens when wereach puberty.
We start worrying more aboutwhat other people think of us
and we start judging ourselvesas unworthy.
And we begin to forget what itfelt like to be free, what it
felt like to believe in ourdreams, and we started listening
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to the rules of the world.
And that is the fall from grace.
And the only way back is torelease judgment of ourselves
and others.
So, moral of the story if youwant to shift where you are
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right now, if you want toattract more things that feel
abundant to you, then you mustembody abundance.
And if you're feeling afraid ofletting go, if you're feeling
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sad, depressed, angry, themiracle is a shift in your heart
.
It's a change of heart, it's ashift in perspective.
It can happen as quickly as anoptical illusion can transform
right in front of you.
If you stand in front of anoptical illusion and you stay
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where you're at and you keepthinking I wish it would change,
and you keep trying to changehow you think about it and
change how you feel about it,it's not going to change because
you're in the same perspectiveas you were.
It's the slightest shift, it isthe slightest elevation in
frequency.
That is what transformseverything.
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It's also recognizing how muchyour projections on others, the
meaning of the stories that youcreate about others, how
powerful those are as well.
That's another concept andstory for another episode.
All of that to say.
Well, that's another conceptand story for another episode.
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All of that to say.
If you are feeling fear, it canbe as simple as asking right.
Ask and ye shall receive.
It's a prayer.
And for those of you who havebeen triggered or traumatized by
religious dogma or doctrine, Ifeel you, I feel your pain, and
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I will be explaining more aboutthat when I tell my story in the
next episode.
All of that to say ask.
You can use the word God, youcan use the word Allah, jehovah,
elohim, universe.
Fill in the blanks withwhatever resonates with you most
, in the blanks with whateverresonates with you most.
Ask that thing that you think ofwhen you think of divine.
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And if you don't believe in anyof that, that's also okay,
because you can ask love.
If you are feeling likeresistance around that, then
your heart is hard, and I'vebeen there as well.
Ask for that to be softened.
Ask for a sign, ask for asynchronicity to show you that
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you are not alone.
You're never alone.
You are never alone andeverything and I mean everything
, I mean everything in your lifecan transform in an instant.
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A miracle needs a storm right.
A rainbow needs the rain.
Okay, ask.
And the way I would ask if youare curious is, I would say
Spirit of love and light, pleaseconnect to me and move through
me and show me what it is that Ineed to see to align with my
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highest self.
Please show me that I am notalone.
Please show me my divinity.
Please give me hope.
Please help me to see what itis that I need to see to return
to love.
Amen, All right.
So that is today's episode.
As always, please feel free tosend me any messages, any
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questions, anything that youwould like to share.
You can email us directly athello, goodbye at dubcobcom.
That's H-E-L-L-O-G-O-O-D-B-Y-Eat dubcobcom and, as you will
soon, if you listen to the nextepisode, discover, I am doing
something completely differentwith regards to my work in sales
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, the spiritual art of sales, Iam offering several things that
I've never offered before atinvestment levels that I have
never offered, and there is adeeper reason.
That said, if you're interestedin that, please listen to the
end of the show.
I will be telling you a bit more.
Otherwise, I'm sending you allof my love and please remember
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that you are indeed a spiritualbeing having a physical
experience.
You are infinitely loved andsupported by the entire cosmos
to collapsing timelines andco-creating your version of
happily ever after, no matterwhat, because the odds may be
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stacked against you, but you arein luck.
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Said 2024 was a shit show,let's just be completely honest
and I took off three months.
Now it's time to put the pedalto the metal.
So I have created three newways to work together at a
fraction of the typicalinvestment.
But I only have a few spotsopen.
So if you are interested at all, go to debcobcom slash call or
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debcobcom Click on contact,scroll down to book a call and
click on the spiritual salesalignment audit.
I promise you I will not pullany manipulative sales tactics
in order to get you to work withme.
All right.
Thank you again for listeningand I hope to hear from you soon
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.
Bye-bye.
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