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August 12, 2025 76 mins

In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Michael Perry and Justin Gates explore the transformative concepts from the book 'The Four Agreements' by Don Miguel Ruiz. They discuss how silent contracts shape our identities and behaviors, the importance of shadow work, and the role of vulnerability in emotional healing. The conversation delves into each of the four agreements, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and the power of community in personal growth. The hosts encourage listeners to break free from limiting beliefs and embrace authenticity in their lives.


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Takeaways

Most suffering comes from silent contracts we didn't know we signed.

Silent agreements shape our identities and behaviors.

Shadow work helps uncover hidden agreements.

Self-perception is influenced by early experiences and agreements.

Parenting plays a crucial role in shaping our beliefs.

Emotional expression is often restricted by societal norms.

Vulnerability is essential for emotional healing.

The Four Agreements provide a framework for personal growth.

Being impeccable with your word is foundational for self-respect.

Taking things personally is a reflection of others' issues, not ours.


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