9. People Problems vs. Process Problems

In this episode of The Parenting Lab Podcast, we explore a powerful crossover concept from business leadership that can transform how you approach challenges in parenting: the difference between people problems and process problems. Inspired by the Diamond Model from organizational behavior, you'll learn how to distinguish whether a parenting issue stems from your child’s personal traits—or if it’s actually the result of flawed systems, routines, or communication.

I’ll walk you through how this distinction can reframe conflict, reduce blame, and empower you to create better environments for growth—both for your child and yourself.

Through relatable examples, practical steps, and a touch of personal reflection, you’ll gain fresh insight into your child’s behavior, emotional development, and your role in shaping their success.

This episode is for you if:

• You feel stuck in repeating conflicts with your child
• You wonder whether your parenting frustrations are about “them” or something deeper
• You’re open to adopting leadership tools to strengthen your home life

Key Takeaways:

• What the Diamond Model is and how it applies to parenting
• The difference between people and process problems—and why it matters
• How to identify the root cause of behavior challenges
• Practical strategies to support your child’s development through better systems
• Why changing how you parent often matters more than what you say

Listen in to discover how a shift in mindset can lead to more clarity, more connection, and less chaos!

♥ Your Parent Coach, Brittney

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