The Purple Koolaid Podcast

The Purple Koolaid Podcast

The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast with Lois Lane Miami Buckle up for an unfiltered, thought-provoking ride through the human experience. The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast is a raw and candid exploration of life’s routines, ambitions, and the deep longing for something beyond the mundane. Host Lois Lane Miami dives into self-made success stories, personal growth, and the unconventional paths that challenge the norm. With a stream-of-consciousness style that’s both philosophical and grounded, each episode peels back the layers of modern life, questioning the status quo and seeking adventure, meaning, and self-discovery. Whether it’s setting boundaries, embracing gratitude, or refusing to settle for the ordinary, this is the podcast for those who think differently, dream bigger, and crave more from life. Take a sip and let me take you on a trip—because here, we don’t just sip the Kool-Aid, we make our own.

Episodes

May 4, 2025 19 mins

In this episode of The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I’m breaking down something I learned the hard way—why you should never share your hopes and dreams with the people at your 9-to-5 job. I know it might seem harmless to talk about your goals, your side projects, or the bigger vision you have for your life—but in most work environments, that kind of transparency can do more harm than good.

The reality is, when you speak openly about you...

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In this episode of The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I dive into a powerful topic: Why Society Punishes Non-Traditional People. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fit into the traditional mold—whether it’s rejecting religious expectations, questioning societal norms, or living life on your own terms—then this episode is for you.

I talk about what it means to be a free thinker, the pressure of conformity, and how certain traditions shape ...

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February 23, 2025 36 mins

Today on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I’m calling out something that’s been bothering me—people celebrating when others lose their jobs. I’ve seen it all over social media, in the comments, on the news, and it’s honestly sickening. How did we get to a place where we treat someone’s livelihood like it’s just another headline to laugh about?

I talk about what this kind of mindset says about us as a society and why none of us are immun...

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February 16, 2025 53 mins

Hello everyone! This is The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, and today we’re diving into Part Two of Cheating: Who Is Really to Blame?

Many women believe that when a man cheats, it’s just about sex—that the other woman is meaningless. But that’s a lie. Affairs are rarely just physical; they involve time, emotions, and connections.

People love joking that side chicks only get February 15th or never get holidays, but I know firsthand that many...

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February 5, 2025 35 mins

What’s up, everybody? This is Lois Lane Miami, and you’re tuned into The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast. It’s been a while, right?

Today, I want to talk about something that comes up way too often: blaming another woman for your disrespectful, disloyal husband—and why that’s absolutely ridiculous.

The Debate That Sparked This Episode

Yesterday, I got into a bit of a back-and-forth on a Facebook post. It’s not the first time I’ve had this deb...

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August 27, 2024 28 mins

Welcome to *The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast*. I’m Lois Lane Miami, the Equalizer, here to bridge the gaps in understanding between people from different walks of life. In this episode, I explore the “Poverty Mindset Disconnect,” a topic that resonates with me personally, as I’ve experienced both poverty and relative financial stability.

Growing up in an African-American neighborhood, I faced many of the challenges associated w...

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August 14, 2024 22 mins

Good morning, everyone! This is Lois Lane Miami on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, and today’s episode is one that many will find eye-opening: “1000 Ways Money Buys Happiness.” It’s a bold topic, and it’s time to dismantle the age-old notion that “money can’t buy happiness.”

Ever notice that the people who say money doesn’t buy happiness are often those who’ve never truly been without it? They’ve never experienced homelessnes...

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Welcome to “The Purple Koolaid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami. Today, I discuss a topic that affects us all: “Unforgiving Perfect People.” These individuals believe they know everything and dismiss anyone who disagrees with them as ignorant or unworthy. Their unwavering belief in their infallibility and refusal to forgive others for past mistakes is a troubling phenomenon.

I address this issue head-on, sharing my expe...

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Using the phrase "We're Grown" to Manipulate You

Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami! After a busy few weeks, I’m back to share some insights and thoughts I’ve been eager to discuss. Today’s episode focuses on the concept of “falling for the okey-doke,” exploring the tactics men use to manipulate women, and more.

For those unfamiliar, my upcoming book “Falling for the...

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    July 15, 2024 4 mins
    This is a song I wrote and performed featuring Pit Bull the rapper back in 2003 when I was working on my then “Rap Career”.

    I never quite made it in the music business. But I had a lot of fun, made a little money and had the pleasure of working with many great, successful and established artists.

    I was even signed and paid as a writer for the late, great Isaac Hayes and went on tour with the latter version of...

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    July 12, 2024 16 mins
    Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami, also known as the Equalizer. In this episode, I discuss the controversial notion of whether women can use men solely for sex. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, I argue that it’s not possible for women to genuinely use men in this way due to inherent differences in emotions, biology, and societal conditioning. 

    While some women may c...

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    Today, we’re discussing “falling for the okey-doke” in a professional setting. We’ve previously covered avoiding traps with money and relationships, but now we’re tackling workplace pitfalls. From unknowingly training your replacement to being underpaid and covering company expenses, we’ll explore how to recognize and avoid these traps.

    Learn how avoid training your replacement, how to maintain professional boundaries, pro...

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    Welcome to "The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast" with your host, Lois Lane Miami, "The Equalizer" as I discuss real-life experiences, provide insightful advice, and give you engaging stories as I explore the complexities of relationships, personal growth, and the many "okey-dokes" we encounter in life.

    In this episode, I focus on women, by delving into the all-too-common scenario of men claiming to be single wh...

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    Today, I’m discussing a topic I see many women struggling with after a breakup: the overwhelming concern about what their ex is doing with their new woman.

    Drawing from experience and the countless conversations I’ve had with men in various settings—from working in male-dominated industries to touring with music professionals, I’ll share insights on why worrying about your ex’s new relationship is a waste of your time...

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    Today, I'm diving into the complex world of cheating. We'll explore the titles women compete for—side chick, wifey, main chick—and the dynamics between these roles. 

    Women often engage in rivalries when dealing with a cheating man, labeling each other as the mistress or homewrecker. These titles create a hierarchy where the "main" woman feels validated, masking her pain and shame. I've experienced ...

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    In this episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I explore the deeply emotional and often misunderstood world of cheating. I shed light on common misconceptions, such as the belief that once a cheater, always a cheater.

    Drawing from personal experience, I share the devastating impact of discovering infidelity and the emotional responses it triggers. I discuss why people cheat, the different personalities involved, and the c...

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    In this insightful episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I share valuable tips on how to avoid getting involved with men who are secretly married or have live-in girlfriends. Drawing from my  personal experience, I provide insight and practical advice to help you identify the subtle signs that a man might be hiding a significant other.

    Many people think it's easy to spot a married man, but I explain why it's more complic...

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    As most men already know, there are all types of women in the world. Some will give you their money, some need your money, and others will try to take your money whether they need it or not. Of course, there are women that fit into none of these categories, but since this podcast is about the “okey doke,” we focus on these scenarios.

    In this episode of "Falling for the Okey Doke," we discuss:

    1. Women Who Give You Their Mo...
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