The Ultimate Dinner Party Guest Checklist: 15 Habits of the Most Gracious Guests

No one wants to be that guest that overstays, oversteps, or isn’t mindful. That’s why knowing how to be a thoughtful, gracious dinner party guest is more than just good manners. It’s a timeless social skill that sets you apart and sets a strong example for your kids and grandkids.

Whether you’re headed to a casual get-together or a formal supper club, these simple but powerful dinner party guest tips will make a lasting impression and leave your host feeling appreciated!

 

TIPS TO BEING THE BEST DINNER PARTY GUEST EVERY HOST WILL LOVE:

• RSVP promptly. Don’t leave your host guessing!

• Always ask what you can bring (and actually bring it!)

• Choose a hostess gift everyone will love. Skip the wine, and gift something everyone will use and enjoy.

• Bring your dish ready to serve.

• Steer clear of ingredients like pork or seafood. Bring something that is universally loved by everyone!

• Make enough food for every guest (and think about dietary preferences).

• Arrive on time (not early!)

• Be mindful of your shoes.

• Know where to sit and when to offer help—with clean hands!

• Offer assistance, but don’t hover in the kitchen.

• Don’t overload your plate. Be sure to leave plenty for others.

• Give sincere compliments and include others in conversation

• Don’t overstay your welcome.

• Never assume children are invited unless it's clearly stated.

• Follow up with a warm thank-you text the next day

 

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