Waiting for someone to save you will only leave you stuck. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce shows you how to stop waiting and start leading your own life.
If you feel lonely, unappreciated, or powerless in your marriage, this episode will help you take your power back — without blaming, begging, or giving up.
You’ll learn why your needs are your job, how to stop emotional outsourcing, and what it looks like to lead yourself with strength and peace.
In This Episode:
✅ Why your wife can’t fix your feelings
✅ Signs you’ve been waiting for someone else to rescue you
✅ How to meet your emotional needs without guilt or fear
✅ What real leadership looks like in a hard marriage
✅ The 6 steps to stop self-abandoning and lead from peace
This Is For You If:
🔹 You feel stuck waiting for your wife to change
🔹 You keep giving but feel empty inside
🔹 You need clear steps to rebuild your confidence and calm
🔹 You’re ready to stop blaming and start building
You don’t need to be rescued.
You need to lead.
This is how you begin.
📍 Want help with this work?
Visit SecureHusband.com to book a free 30-minute call.
You’ll get support, tools, and clarity to help you become the secure, grounded man you were meant to be.
If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.
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