In this heart-opening episode, Chloe and Steph share a very personal life update - from big transitions and soul-aligned choices to sacred plans for The Woman Within retreat in Bali.
Steph reveals the emotional and spiritual journey behind leaving her high-powered corporate role after 18 years to follow a deeper calling. The conversation moves through themes of intuition, grief, spaciousness, identity, motherhood, and how we define success on our own terms. This one’s an ode to the courage it takes to begin again—and the power of trusting yourself even when there’s no clear map.
🌀 Episode Highlights
00:00 – Welcome + Retreat Vibes
The podcast turns 2+ years old! Chloe and Steph reflect on growth, change, and their upcoming Bali retreat, The Woman Within—a deeply supportive, spacious container for transformation under the New Moon.
04:00 – Steph Quits Her Job: A Soul-Led Decision
Steph opens up about resigning from her Asia Pacific marketing leadership role, why now was the time, and the inner calling she couldn’t ignore.
09:00 – Grief, Identity & Following the Nudge
How losing Arthur shaped her perspective, why she no longer needs a 5-year plan, and what it really means to listen to your gut as a sacral authority in Human Design.
16:00 – Letting Go of “The Plan”
Steph talks about navigating the “What’s next?” pressure, learning to trust the unknown, and staying grounded without external validation.
23:00 – Abundance Starts in the Kitchen 🍳
A powerful little Feng Shui practice you can do today to invite wealth and flow—plus Steph’s new journey into energetic home alignment.
26:00 – Self-Led Success, Not Selfishness
A heartfelt conversation on redefining success, prioritizing presence over productivity, and why your work doesn’t define your worth.
🌿 Resources & Retreat Info
→ The Woman Within Retreat (Aug 23–28, Ubud): Only a few spaces left—click here to explore
→ Follow Steph’s Feng Shui tips: @ninelemonsfengshui
→ Follow Chloe’s self empowerment & leadership page: @conscious.consulting.cc
→ DM us or reach out on IG @the.selfishpodcast if you feel a spar
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The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.
This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.
Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.
All details here.
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