The Single Chronicles

This week I discussed dealing with complex trauma and identifying what caused them and some of the self-destructive behaviors that result from such. I tried not to ramble so if you make it to the Writer's Reflections, I tried to lay out some ways to heal going forward. *Disclaimer: The responses on The Single Chronicles are for informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice,...

This week's episode is about the cognitive dissonance and traumatic responses those who are victimized have in response to other victims and more so the urge to project their nonsense onto others. *Disclaimer: The responses on The Single Chronicles are for informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health pr...

This week we chat about types of kink in a non-judgmental way. And how to approach the topic with your partner whether you're into it or contemplating it. These are just my opinions based off my experiences as a "newbie" and not the status quo. Speaking of that party...let's just say, "I wasn't ready!" 😭

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We open the latest season with a response to a DM from Instagram. A follower asked "...what is wrong with me that makes me so lonely in life?"

I had to respond to this because it resonated with me because I have been there. Oddly enough, I have felt alone even in my relationship. We will delve into this topic further in the future, but I wanted to touch base on that one part of the message.

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I'm gonna tell everyone that this is the season finale. 😅

Also, I wanted to chat and vent about folks who refuse to find happiness within, blame others for their lack of happiness and the lack of accountability for such...

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Today's episode feels more like psych class but I had to talk about it. Emotionally manipulation happens to us all and often we are equally guilty of it. That being said, some claim to change or be accountable for their actions, and rightfully so but it is very seldom. An emotionally Manipulative person can be a romantic partner, spouse, friend or relative. Regardless of their role in your life, their actions and mannerisms dep...

Sorry I took off and dipped without an explanation or goodbye. But I had to come back and tell you that I needed a break... we all do. But that's ok. As a matter of fact the best thing you can do is focus on you! Be a little selfish and work on you. Find and discover your worth!

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Today I discuss, compare and contrast love-bombing vs infatuation... but more importantly why both things are potentially red flags we ignore when seeking a partner & while dating. Be sure to subscribe to get access to special episodes not available to the public.

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Today's episode begs the question, are you happy? In a world plagued with anxiety, depression, and even danger... we get caught up in a whirlwind of losing our happiness. Because we focus so much of time lamenting the past and worrying about the future, we lose sight of appreciating the now.

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This week I wanted to finally address my thoughts on the whole "passport bros" and Andrew Tate. I forgot to mention that men, in particular rich, white men have sought out wives, mail-order brides, to even concubines for centuries. But no one batted an eye. It may be the surge of social media & other podcasts but the conversations are everywhere. Folks all have something to say. Nonetheless, why do people care? And wh...

This episode is brought to you by the pervs that slide into my DMs only to send 🍆 pics, say inappropriate nonsense, or just think I'm ready to pop my legs open just because they think I'm available. Only to shy away when you ask tough questions. This is why single does not equal available.

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This week I discussed the hypocrisy of men based on supposedly "real" post on Instagram. He bashed the fact that he knocked up 7 women with no regard to take care of any of those kids. My issue actually wasn't that. It was that he casually saw more wrong in the fact that these women slept with him (says a lot about his character), than the fact he got them irresponsibly pregnant. It's funny how the Roe V. Wade con...

As I celebrate 100 streamed episodes, I wanted to chat about the top 10 episodes of this podcast and look back at the shenanigans of the show and how I started this whole thing in the first place. And as we celebrate, I wanted to also give y'all a token of my appreciation by blessing y'all with 25% off my merch store. So go on over to https://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com/? and use promo code FLASH25 to save some ...

So, what is toxic validation? This week I went live on my TikTok to record this week's episode and discuss why we go back and seek validation or feel voids from toxic people. I was inspired by a post referring to why we go back to toxic exes and people. It reminded me of that time why I was consoling a close friend through a break up all the while asking why I too kept going back to problematic and toxic people.   There was no ...