Episode 112: So What Was She Wearing (Another Tale of the Blame Game)

This is one of my b*tch blogs. I had to vent y'all. I'm sorry but I don't always want to chat about sex or have sexual conversations. Sometimes sure but not everyday all day. For every dude in my DMs, there's another 5 that didn't get caught in my spam filter. Why? Because I've had the pleasure of teaching twerk class! What someone is wearing or doing is what most folks believe sends a message. A message that whatever a woman, in particular, wears determines that she is "asking for it". If her outfit or actions are meant to "turn heads" that means she deserves whatever actions that come with said attention. Sorry, not sorry but it is still not a reason for assault or harassment. By blaming the victim for wearing certain clothes, the blame is shifted onto them rather than the perpetrator of the crime. Hence this sort of ideology isn't for victims of assault, but pertains to women in general. The Blame Game means ideology also means that a woman must validate a person's approaches and attempts hence no accountability for whatever happens to her or what is said to her. It's the entitlement for me. *Disclaimer: The responses on The Single Chronicles are for informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding depression, anxiety or any other condition. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 to speak with a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area at any time. If you are located outside the United States, call your local emergency line immediately. If you are in crisis or an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. Become a Paid Subscriber: ⁠⁠">Click Here⁠!⁠⁠⁠ Check out my Merch Store: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com/?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out my website for more goodies: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drunkeninsomniacwriter.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@insomniac_writer⁠⁠⁠⁠ X (Twitter): ⁠⁠⁠⁠@Nsomniac_writer⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Drunken Insomniac Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tumblr: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@drunkeninsomniacwriter⁠⁠⁠⁠ Tiktok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@insomniacwriter⁠⁠⁠⁠