No One Asked But...Why Women Are Saying No to Marriage and Motherhood

In this candid solo episode in the series,No One Asked But, Nicole Johnson opens up about the growing trend of women opting out of marriage and motherhood—and why she believes it’s more than just a phase. With 21 years of marriage and three kids under her belt, Nicole reflects on the emotional and mental load so many women still carry, despite contributing equally (or more) financially in relationships.

She dives into the societal shift where modern women are saying: “If I have to do it all, I’d rather do it alone.” Nicole shares her honest take on why traditional gender roles are being rejected, how the younger generation views parenting and partnership, and whether we’re raising kids with enough grit in today’s convenience-driven world.

From relationship dynamics to generational entitlement, this episode is full of raw reflections, tough questions, and real talk about what it means to live—and parent—on your own terms in today’s world.

Topics include:

• The declining marriage and birth rates in the U.S.

• Why women are tired of being everything to everyone

• The evolving role of men in relationships

• Is the next generation losing grit, hustle, and independence?

• Are parents too involved in their kids’ lives today?

Nicole keeps it honest, empathetic, and wide open—because even if no one asked, these conversations matter.

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