March 30, 2025 • 12 mins
How great would it be if you could let yourself own and love ALL of you? The past, the present AND the future?
What if you could let yourself boldly continue to evolve and confidently step into that next version of yourself?!
I share a few areas where I'm learning to embrace a new expression of myself I haven't yet been, and invite you into that too!
Because ALL of you deserves to be expressed, right?
When will it be YOUR time? Book that call here !
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~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne
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(00:00):
We're going to explore how people have been created, their
identity has been created unconsciously for themselves.
That this is something that's learned by observing through
your mother, your father, your environment, your culture, your
religion, and who you are might not even be who you are, but
what you've been programmed to be.
And imagine owning and loving all of that and deciding who you
(00:21):
want to be now, recognizing the coping strategies, the survival
instincts, the ways you've melded yourself like Plato to
fit your environment and rewire your thoughts, feelings, and
beliefs to be all of you. Hi, I'm Veronica Jane,
(00:42):
Embodiment Empowerment and Relationship Coach.
And this is this. Isn't me podcast.
I wonder if you've ever found yourself in a moment where you
look at your life. And realize.
This isn't me, and you're ready for the next version of
yourself. That's what This Isn't Me
podcast is all about. Letting go of the past and
stepping into the future. You.
Desire and deserve. This isn't me anymore.
(01:08):
Hey, welcome to another episode of This Isn't Me podcast.
I'm so excited for this episode.I just got off the final call
with Reclaim Love, my group container, and it's sitting in
my heart. So magically, this episode is
going to be all about why that group meant so much to me over
(01:30):
the last three months, why that group meant so much to those
women, why I do what I do, and what's available to you through
women. OK, this episode is called All
of You because that's my next group containers name.
And it's called that because that's what I want you to see
you get to do, is that you get to own and love all of you.
(01:54):
So for the last three months, I've been running a group
container called Reclaim Love with the most beautiful women
who have been in there to reclaim love for themselves, to
reclaim love in their life and their relationships by starting
with themself. And over the last four months,
I've been reminded again of how love out there with him or her
or whoever is so foundationally based on your love for you.
(02:18):
All this work relationally is about your relationship with
yourself, because everything is a perception.
You put out what you believe. You see what you believe.
You hear what you believe. Your subjective reality is
created based on your beliefs and your embodied reality.
(02:38):
What your nervous system, your mind, your body have from the
past are what they detect out there in the world today.
And so until you create safety in your own nervous system,
until you create beliefs that work for you, you might not have
the reality you desire. And so over the last four
months, I don't know if you knowwhat happened four months ago.
(02:59):
You don't go back. And Muslim, I have recognized
again, and my relationship with myself is ready for a level up.
Yeah, I have completely owned mypast.
I'm standing in you take all of me.
I've recognized the level of worthiness that I have
internally and how that shows upin my business.
(03:19):
I'm recognizing the magic that Ihave to offer, the power in the
way that I think how I am, and the resonance that women feel in
that that has them want to work with me.
And not just women, men too, because there are a lot of men
out there who are dancing in what I would call the
(03:39):
unintegrated light, masculine energy, people pleasing.
And they want these empowered, beautiful, strong women, but
they're being weak little boys. And so those men are welcome to
reach out to me too, those men who want the strong, powerful
woman, but they haven't allowed themselves to be a strong,
loving man that they truly are. But over the last three months,
(04:03):
this group has reminded me of how powerful it is when you
reclaim love for yourself, when you learn to trust yourself, and
when you do that through others.So I have a lot of women in this
group who are new to my community, a lot that have
worked one-on-one with me and some that have worked in various
capacities. And what's so amazing is even
the ones who have worked one-on-one with me are like,
(04:24):
this was something different. The biggest common thread for
these women is realizing that they have never fully trusted
women, that they've always felt the sense of judgement.
And that in this group that I got to create and model, there
was this element of genuine celebration, of genuine safety,
of genuine holding. They started getting in there
(04:47):
and loving each other so hard, reminding each other of the
learnings we were exploring together, reminding each other
of the strategies they had, reminding each other of how
loved they were. To see the love and community in
this group just lit my heart on fire, I think.
I don't know if there were any dry eyes left in that last call.
(05:08):
Definitely got me teary in saying to them this was a time
in my business where I had moments of thinking it was time
to walk away. And this group reminded me of
why I do what I do. Because I used to have such a
distorted picture of what it meant to love other women.
And through this type of work, when I started hosting women's
circles and women's groups and building this community, I
(05:30):
realized what love truly was. What it meant to hold a high
standard and value yourself and hold no judgement.
To stand in compassion, knowing every woman is exactly where she
is because of her past and that everyone is doing the best that
they can, and really making space for women to own
everything, the reality of that they've been through, the
(05:52):
reality they're in now, and choose who they want to be.
Yeah. Imagine what it would feel like
to be in a group of women who you could say your deepest,
darkest fears to. You could tell them the shit
that you'd done and created for yourself, and you could own
where you're at so they could help you energize yourself
(06:12):
enough to create a new future for yourself.
In this group, the last thing wedid was create a beautiful,
embodied visualization of who weget to be, who we've always
been, who we might not yet have let ourselves be being.
Does that make sense? And seeing her and what she does
and recognizing it has nothing to do with what you do.
It's who you are. And that people can feel that.
(06:36):
And that is so exciting to me because that's what I'm living.
And this next group is called All of You because it's about
full self-expression and identity.
We're going to explore how people have been created.
Their identity has been created unconsciously for themselves.
That this is something that's learned by observing through
your mother, your father, your environment, your culture, your
(06:57):
religion, and who you are might not even be who you are, but
what you've been programmed to be.
And imagine owning and loving all of that and deciding who you
want to be now. Recognizing the coping
strategies, the survival instincts, the ways you've
melded yourself like Plato to fit your environment and
rewiring your thoughts, feelingsand beliefs to be all of you, to
(07:19):
be fully self expressed in whatever that looks like for
you. Allowing yourself to explore an
experiment with identity and play with who you get to be
next. Because you get to change and
change your mind. You get to pivot.
And so this is a beautiful exploration of owning and loving
your full self-expression past, present and future.
(07:39):
You know, there's a past versionof me who didn't let herself be
too loud because I thought I wastoo much.
Past version of me who was quietly funny and then realized
I got to be boldly funny. And then a version of me who
realized maybe funny comedy is sometimes my coping mechanism to
avoid vulnerability. And so every iteration of, of
(08:00):
embracing my sense of humor has brought me a learning to the
point where I'm at something else now.
And I want to share that with you too.
And there's so many changes for me coming as I own even more of
me, all of me, and recognizing that there's elements of the way
I've been being that I've outgrown.
And it's time for major shifts. And that's exciting.
(08:22):
And more will unfold over the coming weeks for you to see what
that looks like for me. Because there is an element of
me staying in this little girl energy that I'm excited to have
now left behind, to have integrated and be stepping
forward. And there's this teenage version
of me that I've got to let run wild lately.
And she's ready to be integratedtoo.
(08:43):
And I love all of me. Yeah, every version.
That little girl, that teenager,that 20 something year old,
every part of my past is me who I'm today.
And that's part of what we're going to cover in all of you.
To hear these women speak about this, the best words, probably
sisterhood that's been created in this group.
To hear them share what they learned.
(09:06):
To hear them speak to recognizing that they've been
playing victim unconsciously andthey're ready to own it.
That they get to take personal responsibility for their life in
a radical way. To hear them say that they
recognized they've been playing all the patterns that they're
complete with, to see that they're ready to own the whole
(09:27):
journey, even when it feels likethey're stepping back or stuck.
That that's part of it and they're ready.
Knowing that they have more tools and strategies now to
embody and move themselves forward.
That's what makes me do what I do, and that's why I'm obsessed
with this. And I'm so committed to offering
you more and more. So for those of you who have
(09:48):
been watching, listening, observing, what would happen if
you stepped into the arena? What would happen if you took a
messy, imperfect step and you responded to this call to own
and love all of you? This is a ridiculously
affordable investment to step into the work for three months,
12 weeks, 6 calls, and a boss group of women who have so much
(10:12):
strength and tenderness to learnto own and love all of them
while you do, alongside you, themagic in the mirror of these
other women I've seen. Oh, I'm not in this alone.
There's so much common humanity here.
That's what this group provides.And I'm so excited for you to
see that. I'm so excited for you to trust
(10:33):
yourself enough to step in and learn to trust other women
because this is the work that lights me up.
And as I've been recognizing over the last couple of weeks
that it's time for me to reclaimlove for myself again in a
different way, to de prioritize dating and re prioritize me, my
(11:00):
health, my business, my impact, this new version of me is so
unknown. And that can feel weird.
And some might call that fear. And that's a survival instinct.
That's my animal brain and body telling me, careful, don't step
out of the known box. And yet I step.
(11:21):
I always step. And I want you to step too.
And what if you took a messy andperfect step out-of-the-box
you're in into a more expensive space.
Imagine how freeing that could be.
What if you could own all of you, the version of you who's
emotional? So many of the women in this
program spoke about learning to feel and really owning their
(11:42):
emotional expression. The value in that, How good
would it feel to make decisions from feeling to own the version
of you who wants to take over the world, Who wants to have an
impact, Who wants to scream fromthe rooftops how amazing she is?
How great could that be? Ladies, women, Queens, I want
(12:06):
you to own and love all of you the way I'm learning to at
deeper and deeper levels every day creating a new version of me
that I get to love all of me as she endlessly expands over and
over again. When will it be your time?
Thanks for joining me for another episode.
(12:28):
If you got value from what you heard today, I would love for
you to like it to give it a fivestar review, share it with a
friend or share it on your socials.
And I would love to connect withyou on my socials.
You can find me at Veronica Janeunder score on Instagram where
you can access links to all my upcoming offers and events.
Remember, now is always a great time.
(12:49):
To decide. This isn't me.
We're going to explore how people have been created, their
identity has been created unconsciously for themselves.
That this is something that's learned by observing through
your mother, your father, your environment, your culture, your
religion, and who you are might not even be who you are, but
what you've been programmed to be.
And imagine owning and loving all of that and deciding who you
(00:21):
want to be now, recognizing the coping strategies, the survival
instincts, the ways you've melded yourself like Plato to
fit your environment and rewire your thoughts, feelings, and
beliefs to be all of you. Hi, I'm Veronica Jane,
(00:42):
Embodiment Empowerment and Relationship Coach.
And this is this. Isn't me podcast.
I wonder if you've ever found yourself in a moment where you
look at your life. And realize.
This isn't me, and you're ready for the next version of
yourself. That's what This Isn't Me
podcast is all about. Letting go of the past and
stepping into the future. You.
Desire and deserve. This isn't me anymore.
(01:08):
Hey, welcome to another episode of This Isn't Me podcast.
I'm so excited for this episode.I just got off the final call
with Reclaim Love, my group container, and it's sitting in
my heart. So magically, this episode is
going to be all about why that group meant so much to me over
(01:30):
the last three months, why that group meant so much to those
women, why I do what I do, and what's available to you through
women. OK, this episode is called All
of You because that's my next group containers name.
And it's called that because that's what I want you to see
you get to do, is that you get to own and love all of you.
(01:54):
So for the last three months, I've been running a group
container called Reclaim Love with the most beautiful women
who have been in there to reclaim love for themselves, to
reclaim love in their life and their relationships by starting
with themself. And over the last four months,
I've been reminded again of how love out there with him or her
or whoever is so foundationally based on your love for you.
(02:18):
All this work relationally is about your relationship with
yourself, because everything is a perception.
You put out what you believe. You see what you believe.
You hear what you believe. Your subjective reality is
created based on your beliefs and your embodied reality.
(02:38):
What your nervous system, your mind, your body have from the
past are what they detect out there in the world today.
And so until you create safety in your own nervous system,
until you create beliefs that work for you, you might not have
the reality you desire. And so over the last four
months, I don't know if you knowwhat happened four months ago.
(02:59):
You don't go back. And Muslim, I have recognized
again, and my relationship with myself is ready for a level up.
Yeah, I have completely owned mypast.
I'm standing in you take all of me.
I've recognized the level of worthiness that I have
internally and how that shows upin my business.
(03:19):
I'm recognizing the magic that Ihave to offer, the power in the
way that I think how I am, and the resonance that women feel in
that that has them want to work with me.
And not just women, men too, because there are a lot of men
out there who are dancing in what I would call the
(03:39):
unintegrated light, masculine energy, people pleasing.
And they want these empowered, beautiful, strong women, but
they're being weak little boys. And so those men are welcome to
reach out to me too, those men who want the strong, powerful
woman, but they haven't allowed themselves to be a strong,
loving man that they truly are. But over the last three months,
(04:03):
this group has reminded me of how powerful it is when you
reclaim love for yourself, when you learn to trust yourself, and
when you do that through others.So I have a lot of women in this
group who are new to my community, a lot that have
worked one-on-one with me and some that have worked in various
capacities. And what's so amazing is even
the ones who have worked one-on-one with me are like,
(04:24):
this was something different. The biggest common thread for
these women is realizing that they have never fully trusted
women, that they've always felt the sense of judgement.
And that in this group that I got to create and model, there
was this element of genuine celebration, of genuine safety,
of genuine holding. They started getting in there
(04:47):
and loving each other so hard, reminding each other of the
learnings we were exploring together, reminding each other
of the strategies they had, reminding each other of how
loved they were. To see the love and community in
this group just lit my heart on fire, I think.
I don't know if there were any dry eyes left in that last call.
(05:08):
Definitely got me teary in saying to them this was a time
in my business where I had moments of thinking it was time
to walk away. And this group reminded me of
why I do what I do. Because I used to have such a
distorted picture of what it meant to love other women.
And through this type of work, when I started hosting women's
circles and women's groups and building this community, I
(05:30):
realized what love truly was. What it meant to hold a high
standard and value yourself and hold no judgement.
To stand in compassion, knowing every woman is exactly where she
is because of her past and that everyone is doing the best that
they can, and really making space for women to own
everything, the reality of that they've been through, the
(05:52):
reality they're in now, and choose who they want to be.
Yeah. Imagine what it would feel like
to be in a group of women who you could say your deepest,
darkest fears to. You could tell them the shit
that you'd done and created for yourself, and you could own
where you're at so they could help you energize yourself
(06:12):
enough to create a new future for yourself.
In this group, the last thing wedid was create a beautiful,
embodied visualization of who weget to be, who we've always
been, who we might not yet have let ourselves be being.
Does that make sense? And seeing her and what she does
and recognizing it has nothing to do with what you do.
It's who you are. And that people can feel that.
(06:36):
And that is so exciting to me because that's what I'm living.
And this next group is called All of You because it's about
full self-expression and identity.
We're going to explore how people have been created.
Their identity has been created unconsciously for themselves.
That this is something that's learned by observing through
your mother, your father, your environment, your culture, your
(06:57):
religion, and who you are might not even be who you are, but
what you've been programmed to be.
And imagine owning and loving all of that and deciding who you
want to be now. Recognizing the coping
strategies, the survival instincts, the ways you've
melded yourself like Plato to fit your environment and
rewiring your thoughts, feelingsand beliefs to be all of you, to
(07:19):
be fully self expressed in whatever that looks like for
you. Allowing yourself to explore an
experiment with identity and play with who you get to be
next. Because you get to change and
change your mind. You get to pivot.
And so this is a beautiful exploration of owning and loving
your full self-expression past, present and future.
(07:39):
You know, there's a past versionof me who didn't let herself be
too loud because I thought I wastoo much.
Past version of me who was quietly funny and then realized
I got to be boldly funny. And then a version of me who
realized maybe funny comedy is sometimes my coping mechanism to
avoid vulnerability. And so every iteration of, of
(08:00):
embracing my sense of humor has brought me a learning to the
point where I'm at something else now.
And I want to share that with you too.
And there's so many changes for me coming as I own even more of
me, all of me, and recognizing that there's elements of the way
I've been being that I've outgrown.
And it's time for major shifts. And that's exciting.
(08:22):
And more will unfold over the coming weeks for you to see what
that looks like for me. Because there is an element of
me staying in this little girl energy that I'm excited to have
now left behind, to have integrated and be stepping
forward. And there's this teenage version
of me that I've got to let run wild lately.
And she's ready to be integratedtoo.
(08:43):
And I love all of me. Yeah, every version.
That little girl, that teenager,that 20 something year old,
every part of my past is me who I'm today.
And that's part of what we're going to cover in all of you.
To hear these women speak about this, the best words, probably
sisterhood that's been created in this group.
To hear them share what they learned.
(09:06):
To hear them speak to recognizing that they've been
playing victim unconsciously andthey're ready to own it.
That they get to take personal responsibility for their life in
a radical way. To hear them say that they
recognized they've been playing all the patterns that they're
complete with, to see that they're ready to own the whole
(09:27):
journey, even when it feels likethey're stepping back or stuck.
That that's part of it and they're ready.
Knowing that they have more tools and strategies now to
embody and move themselves forward.
That's what makes me do what I do, and that's why I'm obsessed
with this. And I'm so committed to offering
you more and more. So for those of you who have
(09:48):
been watching, listening, observing, what would happen if
you stepped into the arena? What would happen if you took a
messy, imperfect step and you responded to this call to own
and love all of you? This is a ridiculously
affordable investment to step into the work for three months,
12 weeks, 6 calls, and a boss group of women who have so much
(10:12):
strength and tenderness to learnto own and love all of them
while you do, alongside you, themagic in the mirror of these
other women I've seen. Oh, I'm not in this alone.
There's so much common humanity here.
That's what this group provides.And I'm so excited for you to
see that. I'm so excited for you to trust
(10:33):
yourself enough to step in and learn to trust other women
because this is the work that lights me up.
And as I've been recognizing over the last couple of weeks
that it's time for me to reclaimlove for myself again in a
different way, to de prioritize dating and re prioritize me, my
(11:00):
health, my business, my impact, this new version of me is so
unknown. And that can feel weird.
And some might call that fear. And that's a survival instinct.
That's my animal brain and body telling me, careful, don't step
out of the known box. And yet I step.
(11:21):
I always step. And I want you to step too.
And what if you took a messy andperfect step out-of-the-box
you're in into a more expensive space.
Imagine how freeing that could be.
What if you could own all of you, the version of you who's
emotional? So many of the women in this
program spoke about learning to feel and really owning their
(11:42):
emotional expression. The value in that, How good
would it feel to make decisions from feeling to own the version
of you who wants to take over the world, Who wants to have an
impact, Who wants to scream fromthe rooftops how amazing she is?
How great could that be? Ladies, women, Queens, I want
(12:06):
you to own and love all of you the way I'm learning to at
deeper and deeper levels every day creating a new version of me
that I get to love all of me as she endlessly expands over and
over again. When will it be your time?
Thanks for joining me for another episode.
(12:28):
If you got value from what you heard today, I would love for
you to like it to give it a fivestar review, share it with a
friend or share it on your socials.
And I would love to connect withyou on my socials.
You can find me at Veronica Janeunder score on Instagram where
you can access links to all my upcoming offers and events.
Remember, now is always a great time.
(12:49):
To decide. This isn't me.
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