How To Become The CEO of your Life? - EP 197

How to become the CEO of your life? - Ep 197

 

On this episode of the Real Estate Fight Club, Jenn, and Monica are addressing the topic of, “How to become the CEO of your life?” Victoria McCooey gives them an in-depth talk about WHY and HOW she started to change her mindset on life and business! 

Tune in and find out how she did it and how you can take control of your own life too!

 

Episode Highlights: 

• Monica introduces this topic as a general talk about owning one’s life and taking control of it.
• Victoria expresses how demanding having a relationship with an agent is.
• Victoria’s ‘reclaim you power system’ opens the door for female agents to decide if they can make Real Estate a hobby or a real business, and no one can judge them!
• Victoria says that when she decided to make this a business, it was a real struggle but it did pay off now.
• Monica asks Victoria where did the thought of women having to handle everything start?
• Jennifer asks how to get over the fear of “Change”
• Victoria explains how she would break up with a bad seller, she says that she would do it with as much love in her heart.
• How do you become a CEO of your life if you have a lot of relationships and partners in your life?
• Victoria says that you should choose and decide on it. it's up to you to have the conviction that you're doing this and it doesn't matter what anyone else says or does or thinks you're doing it and eventually, they will fall in line. 
• Monica asks what is the core of the fear to take back their life and become their own CEO
• Monica says that the best coach asks the best questions that poke people in the eye
• Victoria says that she learned three things from her own coach, “Keep it simple, Do it now and Less is More”
• Victoria says that “Done is better than perfect.” A lot of times you fall into this perfectionist thing like self-doubt.
• The difference between coaching and therapy is that as a coach, Victoria looks forward and tries to get you to the next thing that you want.
• Jennifer asks about the strategies to regain “Self-worth”
• Victoria clears it up saying that the most obvious way is by putting in positive affirmations.
• Jennifer says that if you want your life to be different, you have to change your environment.
• Victoria ends with this takeaway, it's all within you and it's all up to you to make the decision and make it nonnegotiable. And then everybody else will have to abide by your new boundaries.

3 Key Points:

1. To become the CEO of your life, you should choose and decide on it. it's up to you to have the conviction that you're doing this and it doesn't matter what anyone else says or does or thinks you're doing it and eventually, they will fall in line. 
2. “Done is better than perfect.” A lot of times you fall into this perfectionist thing like self-doubt. But in reality, it starts to become less like doubt and more of an excuse.
3. The strategy to regain “Self-worth” is by putting in positive affirmations.

Tweetable Quotes:

• “Nothing is going to change unless you do things differently” Victoria McCooey
• “I have to let go of a toxic client right just like do I do it with as much love in my heart as I can I gather up all the love I can pass “ - Victoria McCooey
• “I love about what I do is that I make my own hours I make my own schedule, I put my availability into a calendar I am the CEO. “ - Victoria McCooey
• “You can have results or reasons you can't have both.” - Monica Weakley
• “Change the environment, change your life.” - Jennifer Murtland

Resources Mentioned: 

• Jenn Murtland LinkedIn | Facebook | [phone] | Website | Instagram
• https://jennifermurtl