Transformation Tip: “Turn your wounds into wisdom”. - Oprah Winfrey
Concept(s)
Consequences of unresolved pain form unhealthy mindsets and behaviors (the 10 saboteurs)
- The Judge: generates false assumptions resulting in selective hearing.
- The Avoider: directs attention away from the conflict, leading to a lack of resolution
- The Controller: self-protects and creates a fearful negative perspective of what can go wrong, restricting others and destroying relationships
- The Hyper-Achiever: constant performance. Get self-worth from achievement. Unsustainable. make you too goal-focused (miss relationships and the big picture).
- The Hyper Rational: Feeds the controller and has a fear of taking risks (faith).
- The Hyper-Vigilant: results in danger-awareness level being calibrated to an extreme (worst-case scenario). Can never relax/anxious
- The Pleaser: Can’t say “NO” and has no boundaries – overwhelmed – guilt-driven.
- The Restless causes one to look for escape or comfort (grass is greener), Busyness
- The Stickler: needs perfection to find security and value, is caught in so much detail- can’t let go (too possessive).
- The Victim: causes one to take things (too) personally, focus on emotional state, and spend too much time venting and dwelling on all wrong negativity.
Practical:
POSITIVE INTELLIGENCE (SAGE QUALITIES)
1. EXPLORATION
2. EMPATHY
3. INNOVATION
4. NAVIGATION
5. ACTIVATE
Transformation Application: Go take the test. Get the book.
https://www.positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/
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