In this episode of Trauma Undone, Natasha June sits down with therapist and DV advocate Vanessa Reiser, best known for running across three states in a wedding dress to raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. Vanessa dives deep into the hidden tactics of psychological manipulators, how to recognize covert abuse, and what true healing looks like. With years of clinical experience and a passion for advocacy, Vanessa shares practical tools for survivors to reclaim their power and protect themselves—emotionally, legally, and mentally.
🧠 Narcissistic abuse is a pattern, not a moment
Love bombing, gaslighting, and silent treatment are all part of a manipulator’s playbook—awareness is the first step to freedom.
⚖️ The legal system isn’t always just
Family courts often fail survivors of psychological abuse. Vanessa urges listeners not to take verdicts at face value.
💡 Red flags show up early—don’t ignore them
From passive aggression to fast-moving relationships, early behaviors can reveal a toxic pattern. Trust your gut.
🛡️ Prep before you leave
Start quietly securing money, documents, and sentimental items. Safety planning is key.
🧬 Healing is possible
Unlike narcissists, survivors have neuroplasticity—the brain can rewire through therapy, journaling, and processing.
👀 Not all help is helpful
Vet therapists carefully—find someone trauma-informed who truly understands narcissistic abuse from experience.
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