Have you ever felt awkward, guilty, or even unworthy when someone compliments you? Do you instinctively deflect praise or feel like agreeing with it makes you arrogant? If so, you're not alone. Many high achievers, perfectionists, and recovering people-pleasers struggle with receiving recognition without discomfort.
In this episode of Unblocked with Jessica Smarro, we break down why praise can feel so uncomfortable and, more importantly, how to shift your mindset so you can own your strengths with confidence.
Using neuroscience-backed strategies and practical tools, we’ll cover:
✅ Why our brains are wired to reject praise (hint: negativity bias is real!)
✅ How cultural conditioning (especially for women) makes us uncomfortable with recognition
✅ The hidden cost of downplaying your achievements and how it keeps you small
✅ The 4-step framework to receive compliments with ease and rewire your brain for confidence
By the end of this episode, you’ll have concrete strategies to accept praise without feeling awkward and maybe even start believing in your own greatness.
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